#intj problems

[introvert-moments]

Introvert Moment #117

When your friends understand that you have limited social capacity and that you still love them even if it’s been a few months since you’ve last hung out together

[mapsofinnerspace]

INTJs and affection

INTJs aren’t the mushy, lovey-dovey type. We value our independence, and even entering into a relationship can be a challenge for us. So, it’s important for our partners to understand that we aren’t naturally affectionate. What we appreciate more is their support in the relationship, opening up to us, and seeking our advice. These things help us build deeper connections and better understand each other, and of course, be more open to physical contact.

Speaking from my own experience as an INTJ woman, my love language revolves around quality time and acts of service. Physical touch is something I’m quite reserved about, and I have strict boundaries when it comes to who can touch me. Usually, friends and family aren’t allowed, it is very much reserved to my romantic partner. So if someone oversteps those boundaries, I tend to pull away and have a conversation about it.

[intj-aesthetics]

Me, chosing a new book to read: I don't just want to be hurt. I want to be devastated. I want emotional damage of incomprehensible measures. Can you do this for me, book?

Book: Gotcha.

[alyensmemoir]

*me watches a ted-ed video for fun and gets into existential crisis on daily basis

[shadowviixen]

Relax guys... INTJs are not mad... They're simply absorbed in their current material and concept of interest that it ends up weighing between their eyebrows making them look scrunched up and grumpy

[a-very-disreputable-intj]

My biggest pet peeve in the world, right after stepping on a wet spot with socks on, is finding out later that something was far, far simpler and easier that I could have guessed. It's working with people who think I'm making things far harder than they have to be, but I'm thinking "surely, you jest! It can't possibly be that easy, that simple!" Is the bar too low or do I expect too much? I function too high intellectually to comprehend such small, simple, miniscule, tiny, little things. It drives me nuts!

That and over packing for trips to anywhere for any length of time.

[simphonia-cruel]

Мемы про Стратегов как суть всей моей ебучей жизни

(ПОЧЕМУ ИМЕННО Я УСАТ — )

[igotanidea]

Thought of the day

I don't understand people who call instead of sending e-mail or text.

Like, come on, do you even know me?

[laconicearthling]

🤎INTJ Aesthetic🤎

Want to see which home screen matches you based on your MBTI?🤓😏

[quaintrelledragicorn]

Notice how Dream has sexual tension with everyone but is at the same time so asexual?  That’s the INTJ superpower.

[introvert-moments]

Introvert Moment #115

Staying up late because you enjoy knowing there likely are not many awake people in close proximity, which means your chances of socialization decrease by the minute

[mapsofinnerspace]

7 Nov 2019

As a child I knew that the adults in my life didn’t understand me. What was even more shocking was the the fact that no one ever seemed to try to understand. I was also picked on a lot by my teachers. It’s funny now that I think back, but I’m sure they didn’t appreciate a little kid making suggestions on how to do their job more efficiently.

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[roaming-spector]

Daily life with my ENFP sister #12?

(I'm INTJ btw)

So i showed her my lab

I am "like a real scientist" so she had to reference the realest of them all

[alyensmemoir]

is it only me or every intj experiences the same? like there's this huge craving for human connection and at the same time a huge decline for it. I know this has been talked all over the internet but yet it is so difficult to handle both things at the same time. it excites to meet ppl but it also exhausts at the same time. I feel more lonely when I'm around other ppl no matter how close they are. I mean I enjoy their presence for a while but it is tiring for longer periods. I find the ultimate pleasure with my own company. I enjoy my solitude. I can be alone for eons without meeting another human being. but then again it hits "bruh, you're lonely" I start talking with ppl to be less lonely and feel even more lonely with their presence. this cycle repeats all over again and again. there's no end to it. and here comes a new player in the game obsession. you'll get obsessed over a person and they won't give a fuck as u do. I mean, they'll give a fuck but it will never reach ur expectations. bloody high standard morons we are, intjs. and then we blame them and realise we are being selfish and greedy and like... whatever. fuck it! and moves on. uh, this will never end. this constant striving.

[still-worship-this-love]

[a-very-disreputable-intj]

I promised my nephew pancakes and chess and he was very eager to play. I was black, he was white. He opened with the popular pawn to e4, but was surprised when I chose to open with my queen side knight ( I tend to be an aggressive player ). Initially, I had center control and castled early, queen side. By mid game, he had half of my pieces, including my queen and had me pinned down pretty good. I had one escape and asked if he wanted to play it out. He said yes.

His first mistake.

An hour later, I was down to my king, a rook, and one lonely pawn. He still had his queen, a rook, Bishop, a knight, two pawns, and king. Of course, he thought the game was basically over, my king was running out of options and I only had one good piece on the board. It wasn't the rook. I let him chase me around, putting each other in check, stole his Bishop, Knight, and two pawns, and got pinned by his remaining rook and queen. Again, he thinks it's over. I'm down to a pawn and king. He lazily chases me again. He thinks he won.

He doesn't see it coming.

I was waiting.

I only needed that one lonely pawn.

Bent on chasing down the King,

he forgot that every Pawn, can be a Queen.

Checkmate in 2!