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[shadowviixen]

The patience of Capricorn Venus has a line

I'm a patient woman... A PATIENT WOMAN. But the moment you respond with just "ok." After a proper discussion, where I'm being polite and respectful?!

Boy, you're clocked. Ok? O? K? not even a properly spelled one? Like, get out of my DMs. I unfollowed him and removed as follower

[shadowviixen]

Dear Capricorn Venus Babies and EVERY woman out there

(And when I say babies... I mean the women... and girlies. but men can stay, do whatever you want with this information. But mainly I'm here for my girlies as a big sister) Dear darlings, Who gives a flying damn if you have high standards? You owe no explanation, no justification, not even a sentence... to anyone. You don't owe anyone an explanation about your standards. You don't owe them any discussion as to why you have those standards, as to where those standards stem, and as to why those standards mean to you. The only one who should ever comment about your standards is yourself. Sometimes standards can change. You can outgrow certain circumstances, and those standards can change in whatever form. And only you can ever understand that. Additionally, Who cares if you're gonna be 30+ and single? Especially my Cap Venus babies? Like... you don't give a flying f--- if you'll be 30+ and single... AS YOU SHOULD MISS MA'AM. And that goes for every woman too. Who cares? At least you'll be 30 and thriving. At least you've explored your options and concluded how valuable your worth is. At least you have the luxury of time to busy yourself with important people and things you love; may it be a career, may it be with friends or mentors, may it be personal growth. Your worth is not defined by who you choose to commit to. Your worth is not limited to the theatrical romance we get to see in movies and/or common traditions expected from us. The privilege of a career... the privilege of friendship... the privilege of living... the privilege of experience... the privilege of figuring things out, the privilege of being there for yourself... the privilege for CHOOSING YOURSELF... and many other things... They're all beautiful things that are a part of life, that are parts of you. And just being yourself is high value. Having a partner and creating a family is also beautiful. But know that it is also a choice you make for yourself... for your partner... and for your future. But especially for yourself.

As women, we keep on putting others first, So don't forget to prioritize yourself too. Sincerely, Your big sis SVXN Capricorn Venus + MC

[shadowviixen]

Venus is in Gemini today until July 31

And let me tell you what... as a Capricorn Venus! This venus in gemini is defo making me crash tf out! Have ya'll watched the recent Love Island ep, yeah that got on my nerves. Secondly, this guy I'm talking to is pmo! Like be straight and less confusing bro, I'm not gonna play f'ckn games with you. I haven't seen the complete transits for today and the forecast but ffffff--- ugh it's so frustrating. Like I can feel my actual Venus sign in Capricorn acting up and my aries rising fuming at the same time. And as ya'll know Capricorn Venuses are quite demure and mix that with Aries rising with an Aries moon... My emotions are FUMING while typing this right now! UGHHHHH now I wanna know just how it's been with everyone in the romance department because me... Yeah there may be flirting at first but there's also parts where I'm frustrated in the deepest depths of me. [edit: ... and at least I'm looking pretty and cute, and finally ended things respectfully. That's what matters at the end of the day] Anyway, that's all my cutie babies... Remember, it's okay to feel things and crash out. You can share it here with your Cap Venus big sis~ Sincerely, Your big sis SVXN

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It's all fun and games until they start acting like you, behaving like a fan, copying you, and finding little moments to disrespect your boundaries for 'harmless' fun/jokesies.

So if you're looking for a sign. Do some cord cutting, Queen!

Sincerely,

SVXN, Your Capricorn-Venus big sis 💋

[shadowviixen]

I'm at that phase;

Sometimes I don't want to be just a "Big Sister Capricorn-Venus"... y'know... I also wanna be... Babygirl Capricorn-Venus

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INTJ Zoomies

Alright, can we come to the agreement that the INTJ equivalent of "zoomies" is the "intense focus" when doing work? Normally, INTJ can work on an activity, then get distracted, then go back to work for about not-so-efficient time, then get distracted again... then procrastinate, and suddenly time crunch hits. And be honest, INTJs... the reason why sometimes you feel like you're doing better when you're under a time crunch is because you've built your lifestyle into efficiency. So INTJs do little when they think they have all the time. But when you do TOO LITTLE work, you feel you're not doing enough. Therefore, we will then... do lots of things at once because that overwhelming feeling of getting something/multiple things done in a day... gives us a sense of accomplishment. That's why we're good at procrastinating. We build an efficient environment for ourselves because we want the chill life... WE'RE LAZY.

We have STRATEGIC LAZINESS.

And that's also why INTJ ZOOMIES feel so good. Because you have that intense spur of wanting to get things done... Our mind and body feel so aligned (for once in our lives) that things just get done in one sitting. And that kind of zoomies happen to INTJ when they're simply SITTING DOWN in front of their work.

They're so grateful for those zoomies, they wish it were always like that.

P.s. if you're an INTJ or know someone who's an INTJ, don't forget to remind the INTJ person to eat or drink water. Zoomies can blur out an INTJs surroundings and make time feel warped.

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INTJ: Logical Fairness and Equal Exchange

**I can’t pinpoint the functions one by one, else this will be too lengthy, but I’ve covered mostly the primary to tertiary functions, not much on Se.** We have… Introverted Intuition (Ni-Primary), Extraverted Thinking (Te-2ndary), Introverted Feeling (Fi-Tertiary), and Extraverted Sensing (Se-Inferior)

INTJs Perception on Fairness:

We rely on logic and intuition (or a certain inner knowing). There is this thing of fairness… and fairness to us is more logical than emotional. We can see things fairly, without it affecting our feelings, we can make choices without being attached, and we won’t see it in any way as hurtful or rude. We act fairly because we believe it to be “right”, not because a certain choice uplifts us, not because we want to appear helpful, not because of pity, and not because we want others to feel indebted to us. That’s why we find accountability and integrity--- a natural and innate concept. (if we are objectively wrong, then we're simply wrong).

And, as each person is unique(regardless of MBTI), INTJs will side on either Fairness or Manipulation (in negative). INTJs who believe in equal exchange or fairness are healthy INTJs. INTJs who explicitly manipulate have a part of them that’s underdeveloped or unhealthy, especially their feeling function.

The term of fairness and equal exchange, when applied to skills for an INTJ:

The fact is that an INTJ is JUST simply an efficient and straightforward human being; we are just good at our job and knowing things… living and getting things we want, the way we want it. We know we are capable of pushing limits, but we are not overly delusional. We have our limitations, and from time to time, we challenge those limitations, because we don’t want anything holding us back, especially our own LACK and DEFICIENCIES. We don’t want OURSELVES holding us back. 

Therefore, we need SKILLS to move past these limitations. Which means valuable input and training. What better way to learn than through human interaction, human insight, and being surrounded by the right people with those skills that we want.

Reverting back to “valuable”, we believe that it is healthy for humans to be INTERdependent. Because an interdependent community is where humans thrive in support and aid, which benefits all sides. EQUAL AND FAIR GIVING AND RECEIVING. If we can get information etc., from someone, then we also believe that we can offer something valuable to that someone.

Usually, skills and training are something you pay for, and when you have access to those skills via close-knit relationships, it’s much more likely for them to reject payment. INTJs can’t have that — “like, how dare we… leach off from you?! Blatant shame on us INTJs!”–we can’t face the fact that you’ll have nothing to benefit from us.

Additionally, we believe knowledge is currency; knowledge is so valuable that it is monetized. IN THIS ECONOMY?! *deep breaths* You have to at least… want to learn a thing or two from us as well.

Humans are ever evolving, skills and knowledge open you up to opportunities, in our minds… “why not take this chance of exchange, to improve each other’s skills, so that we both gain something from it, and I won’t feel like I’ve free-loaded your personal time.” 

And before anyone says, “Well, ummm actually… I’ve met snobbish and selfish INTJs”... An unhealthy INTJ, on the other hand… Yes, they will think they’re far superior and untouchable… Because they haven’t developed their Fi function. They have weak philosophies in life and personal values.

INTJs are one of the most willing people to help with anything analytical, theoretical, and intellectual etc.  Of course, those don’t come for free, and you should also put something on the table that you believe can prove useful to INTJ someday. (Just don’t ask them about anything feelings-related, unless you prefer brutal truths and logical discourse regarding it. Because they are fond of internalizing and rationalizing their strong inner feelings to make sense of them.)

[shadowviixen]

INTJ's Concept of Failure

INTJ here, in the academic-professional world. A Science Researcher, a title that aligns with my personal characteristics, skills, and values. INTJs are very skilled in any career form, especially something they are passionate about or strongly attuned to. May it be analytic, creative, or even passive. It may seem that INTJs have their shiz together. (Most of the time they do). However, we cannot overlook that there is an inevitable small percentage that INTJs will encounter failure at certain points in their life, especially when we're freshly navigating new grounds. The concept of FAILURE is dreadful. Confronting failure, being in a situation face-to-face with failure is quite gut-wrenching and we feel like our hearts are dropping to the pits of our stomachs. If given the chance, INTJ will try to avoid it but over time will need to accept that they need to overcome their fear head-on. As an INTJ, I am currently facing a failure that is crucial progress to our project. A failure not only in a sense of duty but personally in terms of competence and quality. Ultimately, we INTJs need to overcome and recover... though not necessary to bounce back quickly. I think this failure only boosts the fact that we still have room for improvement and growth.

[shadowviixen]

Dear Capricorn Venus Babies,

Sweeties...

My loves...

Don't... and I say it with my whole chest... Don't... Feel ashamed for wanting and desiring more, especially in terms of material wealth, material abundance, and stability in relationships.

That's literally an INGRAINED code in our chart... It's just who we are...

Per se, don't be ashamed of seeking a partner who can equally provide or provide more than you could to yourself. Don't feel bad for desiring a man who will prioritize you. As a big sister Capricorn Venus in the 10th house... Working hard, surrounding yourself in luxury, and being a natural provider for yourself and others while desiring material abundance... are just WHO and WHAT I am. It's just WHO and WHAT we are. And if you're like me, it'll either mean you seek a very traditionally loving and providing man or a man of equal (and/or greater) caliber.

SO NO! You... thinking you "deserve" princess and queen treatment... is NOT delusion. It's your birthright.

Don't settle. Love is great... but love can't feed you.

Sincerely,

Your Big Sis SVXN 💋

[shadowviixen]

INTJ Superpower

Do you know another INTJ Superpower?

The Power of "NO"

And let it be known that almost all INTJs notoriously use this... to such excess. INTJs do not shy away from letting anyone no what displeases them. If necessary, they will not be afraid to confront others in what they believe is wrong. That is not to say we, the INTJs, are shaming you... absolutely not... But it is more of a fundamental suggestion that YOU COULD DEFINITELY DO BETTER. And if ever an INTJ does say no to you... consider three (3) things...

The INTJ probably already knows that...

You're wrong.

INTJ is/are flirting with you (this, however, is a risky assumptious consideration)

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You know you're a witch when...

[1] You receive spells, incantations, and divination intuitive and randomly.

[2] You are sensitive, sometimes almost to a fault. You take in your surroundings may it be physical or empathetically

[3] Visions and ideas come up to your mind at random... Or imagery through your third eye.

[4] You are full of wisdom and advice, and people come to you to seek your opinion—even when you have not experienced it personally.

[5] You are capable of foreseeing or even feeling your future.

[6] You intentionally create vision boards, because it's one of the easiest ways for you to manifest.

[7] You are confident and trust in the universe, and especially in yourself.

~edit~

Once again, take this with a grain of salt because witchcraft is an experience that comes differently to each. This is a UPG on my part, but I do believe there's something magickal to each of the points. There's SO MUCH MORE of course that I haven't included so I hope this doesn't come off as something limiting or restricting or the 'only considerations' (of course not, because witchcraft is so much more than that, so much more than just these enumerated points)

But let's not lie that there are times when your witchcraft experience is more potent than others... Some are learned... By experience... Some are gifted and natural... Regardless, it's your practice and you should always be open minded.

p.s.

I hope this post, still, urged a feeling to you... inspiration, hope, and affirmation of your practice and personal experience.

Please be wise~ and stay magickal~

[shadowviixen]

I've been very occupied with work but I'll try to post on astrology and mbti topics, and replies soon. I apologize for not replying directly but I'll find time to respond to everyone's request. Thank you!

[shadowviixen]

I feel like my clairvoyance and clairsentience is getting sensitive and strong this week...

And I feel like my lamp deliberately was turned off tonight and will be switched on by morning...

But that's just intuition

[shadowviixen]

I hope that as you continue your witchcraft practice, you will be reminded of your personal power.

That you, alone, are power.

And I hope that each day you'll find even the most minute and mundane of things... magical and mystic.

[shadowviixen]

Venus in 10th/Capricorn people, only accept someone they can see a successful future with and can provide them with resources.

Venus in Capricorn people are socialites but enjoy solitude as well.

They are devoted to their spirituality and can seem aloof at times.

They won't do well with someone clingy or airheaded. A strong and independent person is their type.

Their soft side only comes out when they feel safe and secure (preferably materially).

But the more time the relationship remain standing the deeper and richer it gets.

Most times they marry up.

They date with a plan. They have little patience for fooling around in relationships.

A successful image is what they strive for and they can be the *standard couple* to others.

Can also be counselors to other couples.

Shows love in practical ways and won't allow their feelings to get control over them.

Have wonderful sense of humor.

If overly committed to the wrong person it can take them a while to leave the relationship once they've put in a lot of effort.

They can switch roles in the bedroom depending on their mood.

They enjoy dominating the scene and can appear bossy.

They know what they like and do not like.

[shadowviixen]

INTJ x INFJ shopping edition

We all know... that between INTJs and INFJs...

INFJs will never voice out their opinion and WILL try to buy things even when they don't want to. Because they're pressured and feel guilty.

While INTJ is there... looking over and saying "NO" to all the sales personnel every time they force INFJ to buy something.

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INTJ's friendly banter after being (assumed upset) aloof/running out of social battery

Entp: Are you okay?

Intj (me): Did you bring something... like tokens... or food... to accommodate me to "FEEL" better?

Entp: ....

Entp: .... are you sick?

Intj: You're sickening. **Literally my conversation this morning