looking at the 'midseason trailer' and seeing roman fighting his siblings, roman shitting on gerri, roman working for fascists, roman walking proudly through ATN like logan did just two days prior... it's not surprising, but it is fucking sad.
logan's death will not free roman. instead, it will reforge the chains he's worn all his life, casting them in iron -- that's what roman deserves for thinking, for the first time in his life, that maybe he wants the chains off. that's what roman deserves for killing his father by not loving him enough, by not loving him correctly or at the right times. logan's death will not free roman at all. if anything, it will imprison him.
(as always, this got very long, so keep reading under the cut!)
this was the worst case scenario for roman. not just logan dying, but the exact way everything played out. he betrayed his siblings, he fired gerri -- for nothing. he could have been on the plane with his father in his last moments -- he refused. his last interaction with his father was leaving logan a voice message that called him a cunt -- the first time roman has ever, ever, questioned or stood up to his father, and also the last. we don't know what killed logan. we probably never will. but god if it won't feel awfully coincidental to roman: the one time he fought back against his father or even showed the slightest hint of doing so, his father died. is it likely that logan heard roman's voice memo and keeled over because he called him a cunt? no. but is it just as possible as anything else? entirely. roman might have killed his dad. roman murdered logan when he could've been on the plane with him holding his hand, if he were a good son. he didn't even tell logan he loved him. not that he needed to, it fucking oozed from his every pore and the desperate nature of that love was one of the reasons logan could never quite stand him -- but that's not the point. roman's one attempt at agency, at setting boundaries, at standing up for himself killed his fucking father.
logan dying would never have been good for roman, at least in his current state, no matter how the actual death came to pass. people often talk about abusive relationships as if the end-all-be-all fixer to abuse is independence, and it's not. independence isn't always enough to heal, especially not when it's forced upon you rather than something you choose. this is especially true for roman, i think. what roman needed was not just to gain his own independence, but to realize that independence and love are not mutually exclusive, that gaining one does not mean losing the other. logan's always hammered in roman's weakness, his wrongness; roman was never someone who deserved to be loved on his own terms. roman's never considered himself to be someone with agency and authority in his relationships -- he's been told over and over again that he isn't a real person, that there's something deeply wrong and unfixable in him, and he believes it. he's never set boundaries with his father or even his siblings because i don't think he really realizes he has the power to do that. he's simply there until people decide they no longer have use for him or want him around, and he'll always come crawling back after a kick because he doesn't realize he's not on a leash -- that he doesn't need to be on a leash. independence has been unreachable all his life, he isn't normal or real enough to be a real normal independent capable person, but if he grovels and shows his use enough, then maybe he can be loved. but his dependence and loyalty is all he's good for. independence means no love, no family, no relationships. and roman desperately wants, needs, those relationships in a way that none of the other characters do (or at least can admit to) -- he wants his father in his life, no matter what; he wants his siblings in his life, no matter what. but independence, being his own person, separating himself from logan's side means he'd lose everything else, everyone else. he's not good for anything anyways. it's not like he has other options.
...until the start of season four. that's why this is all so tragic -- more than anyone else, it seemed like roman was on the road to healing. it seemed like he was finally realizing that independence and love might not be as mutually exclusive as he's been made to think: maybe he could be independent while still having a relationship with his siblings and even his father. maybe he could have his cake and eat it too. he's realized that he's capable, that he has his own worth, and that he can be successful without living under logan's thumb -- and, more importantly, could still text him on his birthday and try to rebuild a relationship, this time outside of business. outside of "that room" in waystar royco. an actual fucking family relationship. that's what escaping the cycle would look like for roman — not complete separation, not a metaphorical killing of his father, but the ability to live alongside him, to have a life outside of him, to love his father without living for him. so simply removing logan from the equation wouldn’t help roman, not when what he needs most is to realize that self-respect is not mutually exclusive with love, that being your own person isn’t a betrayal, that family and love aren’t dependent on how low you can kneel and won’t be whisked away the moment you stand up. and for the first time in his life, it seemed like he was on track to discovering this. maybe he and the siblings could have the hundred, logan could keep going with atn, and in a few years down the line they'd all get together to talk shop and joke around and coexist -- for the first time, he had started to think of himself as enough of a real, okay person to be allowed to coexist with his family, rather than naturally subordinating himself in every interaction.
roman could’ve been his own person, could’ve escaped the cycle, could’ve started a business with his siblings and tried to heal, but now he won’t. he can’t. roman can’t become his own person now, not when his first attempt to do so is exactly what killed logan. it’s his fault. he fucked up and now there’s no dad. he gained his independence, but at what cost? love. that’s the cost. it always has been and always will be. nothing could be more detrimental to roman roy than the exact series of events that occurred in this episode, because just as he started to see a world beyond his father, logan dies -- proving once and for all that the only world beyond logan is one without him in it at all. that’s been roman’s fear all along and why he’s stuck so close to his side: roman loves and loves and loves and is terrified, terrified, of death. of loss. but in a moment of 'weakness,' roman wobbled (he tried to stand up to logan rather than just taking the kicks as he's supposed to, as he always has), and his father paid the ultimate price. there’s no more dad. there’s no reviving him.
…unless, of course, there is. unless roman can undo his error by choosing his father again, and again, and again. becoming logan is the closest roman can get to resurrecting him, after all. and besides, doesn’t he owe it to dad after killing him? after calling him a cunt, choosing not to be with him on that plane he ended up dying on? after forgetting to even say “i love you dad” before the end? roman needs to fix things. needs to make it like dad's still here. needs to make it like he didn't kill his own father by refusing him for the first time in his life. so roman will be the firebreather logan wanted -- he'll do ATN, he'll push for mencken, he'll do whatever it fucking takes to try and make things right. if it's his fault logan's no longer here, then he needs to do everything he possibly can to fulfill his dying wishes, to do what logan would've done, were he alive.
"dad can't die, he's dad." he can't ever die. he's immortal, and his immortality was solidified by the circumstances of his death -- logan will not die. he’ll live on in roman, as roman.
roman will make sure of it.
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10 CHARACTERS/10 FANDOMS/10 TAGS
tagged by @natscatorrcio thank you sm <3
oh i'm so going to cheat and add more than one per fandom
yellowjackets: laura lee + lottie
stranger things: robin
the haunting of bly manor: dani
warrior nun: camila + ava (+ beatrice)
the old guard: quynh
the wilds: shelby + leah
the locked tomb: harrow + ianthe
fear street: sam
the haunting of hill house: theo
a league of their own: esti
god that was difficult. i'll be ranting about it in the tags. anyway
tagging: @dufrau @hellmo @reesesfastbreak @femmeetart @yee-hawlw @lilolilyr @annieofhearts @lottieurl @sapphicscience (if u want/haven't been tagged!)
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I think a roman suicide could work. As the ultimate outcome of being emotionally crippled due to Logan’s abuse. The use of punishment/reward his entire life made him deeply depend on and worship his father, what Logan didn’t realise was in doing so he made roman unable to function or even live without him. I think it would make sense for Kendall’s story too - he destroys everything he loves in his attempt to be sole CEO and is complicit in Roman’s death by abusing him in his own way reminiscent of his father. That’s not to say Roman will become an immortalised angel who did no wrong - his own cruel actions towards the people he cares for in his quest to please his father even in death leaves him fundamentally alone. Not saying this will necessarily happen just spitballing here, trying to think of any suicide endings that would work cause I agree I’m not big on the Kendall one
hmmmm i get the appeal but i just don’t think rome would ever do something so Final. like, choosing to kill yourself is just about the biggest, most permanent, most personal decision someone could ever make, and i just can’t see roman — roman, who doesn’t even view his body as his own, who fundamentally can’t comprehend the certainty finality permanence of death, who can’t raise his hand without an authority figure telling him it’s okay to, who needs everything to be undoable to be able to be taken back, who doesn’t view himself as actually having agency and is too much of a nihilist to think he could ever make any decision that matters at all, who is a kicked dog that returns and returns and returns until his owner finally decides to put him down — i can’t see him doing something like that. he’ll never leave of his own accord. that’s someone else’s decision to make, not his. deciding to take his life would be the biggest acknowledgment of his own agency and selfhood he’s ever made. he can’t kill himself, he’s not allowed to, that’s another person’s job. maybe at times he wishes he could (maybe), but he’s too much of a coward. he’s too much of a coward for the coward’s way out. he’d hate himself for that but i really do think it’s true. and he is nothing if not a walking internalization (note: not externalization) of logan roy’s opinions and mindset and logan would fucking hate suicide. it’s disgusting. it’s a failing. it’s pathetic. so was roman’s display of grief at the funeral, of course, but that’s just another reason he wouldn’t even want to kill himself now — it would just make things worse, make him look even weaker. everyone would laugh at his corpse. but again, i don’t even think he’d be capable of enacting it, even if he wanted to. the kicked dog never leaves, it waits for a bone and it waits for more kicks. there’s no chain, but there might as well be — the kicked dog has never thought of leaving as an option. that’s just the way things are. there are no alternatives. so overall, like… i think suicide could make a lot of sense for roman’s ARC, given everything, but not a lot of sense for ROMAN himself. like on paper it works given his backstory/history/present moment/etc but considering (at least my own interpretation of) roman as a character, it just feels hard to imagine him, like, following thru with it. that’s just my read though !!!
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