#like I said consenting adults

[dazzlerazz]

Ciel and Rhea have a duo alt named Zanado's Flowers which itself is a reference to a wip I have of them by the same name where Ciel and Rhea retire to Zanado to spend the rest of their lives together

[butchmartyr]

it will never stop being funny/sad seeing a different transmisogynistic transfem make this same tired ass post every other year and inevitably attract insane transmisogynists calling random trans women pedophiles and predatory in the notes for talking about consensual kink she enjoys with her lovers or whatever else, never makes it clearer that the point is transmisogyny and apologizing/making space for it because those people are always tolerated whereas trans women asking if someone reblogging from someone they don’t know is always a tacit show of universal support are blocked. it’s an intellectually dishonest misportrayal of what some transfems say (who is saying these things you’re claiming to are being ‘inherently linked to transfeminity’? is that what’s actually being said? what does this statement do if not just accuse a voiceless group of trans women of being pedophilic incestous Evils?) that directly likens many to apologizing for and normalizing pedophilia, playing off the readers bias to see trans women as predators despite the reality that this “normalization” is only really happening for cnc and incest rp kinks and barely at that. you’re not making it out of the pit

[shouty-mcnubbs]

I feel like this could be a pretty nice lesson in parasocial relationships tbh

[themagicalfancat]

Chase's 'it's Tuesday I still like you' bit was fucking unhinged can we talk about this?

[coquelicoq]

after spending the last week very stressed out and losing sleep over how much i regretted giving my number to a stranger, and after talking to several friends who all gave me the same very wise advice ("decide first what YOU want out of this and make decisions based on that" sounds obvious now but honestly blew my mind), i saw food truck man again today and he asked me if i have a boyfriend, told me he's all alone, hugged me twice, and tried to kiss me. i texted him after to be like just to be clear, i don't want a boyfriend, but i hope you find somebody! and he texted me back: i don't need a girlfriend. i'm married.

[some-pers0n]

I actually think it's kinda funny how you'll see people say stuff like: "EW WHIRLPOOL IS SO GROSS!!! I HATE HIM!! HE'S A STINKY OLD MAN WHO SHOULDN'T BE IN THE SERIES" and then immediately turn around to say: "Uhh...why are you uncomfortable with Glorybringer? The age gap doesn't matter. Who cares about it?" with no self-awareness.

[sisyphus-prime]

Aren't most people proship though. It doesnt mean you have to ship anything particular, it just means ship and let ship. Most people are proship even if they arent in fandom or know the word

a lot of people that i have met that really carry that as a core of their personality are super into incest, and pedophilia. They like creating discourse and things about it.

Likewise, a lot of "antis" that carry it close to their core are super toxic about anything that isn't 100% their perfect in their media. They also like creating discourse and things about it!

i block both

you.can.do.what.you.want i just don't want to see that stuff personally. yk it really balances out.

[selfshippingtrinity]

Imagine your f/o making the cutest flower crown for you.

[athamad]

I'm not a mean person, l swear I'm not, but when l see any type of post or content calling a male character from Greek mythology 'bad'... l can't help myself but rant in my head (...and maybe in the hashtags...) and one of these days I'm going to go insane

[hyah-through-hyrule]

Seeing people on discord and even tumblr complaining about certain ships, but them turning around and liking/reblogging/commenting my art and fics that are explicitly said ship is the funniest and kinda saddest thing in the world.

[ratmans-notebooks]

theres nothing more embarrassing than a queer kink blog so clearly invested in respectability politics. its one thing to not be into certain kinks (thats normal obviously) its another thing to write a whole paragraph in your pinned post about how much u hate cnc and misgendering kinks and everything else youve deemed TOO icky and saying anyone who practices them needs to stop and get therapy .and then the next paragraph is about how u like knives and bruising and impact play. ok. hows the boot taste then

[nururu]

I wish I could use twitter bc all the freaks are there and more people would be freaks with me but also all of the people with no friends who've never been invited to a party are also there and they hate seeing freaks have fun and they'll silently stew for so long getting more mad the more fun you have until they decide it's time to relentlessly harass you and your friends, and like...... that's so fucking lame.

[transwolvie]

Makes me think of the hierarchy of sex discussion, because in order to uphold the hierarchy they must push the myth that letting anything over the boundary set between "normal" sex and "weird" sex would mean letting EVERYTHING over that boundary and a full societal collapse into degeneracy. That argument probably sounds pretty familiar. People who say that gay marriage will lead to sex with ducks, people who are insistent that the gays want to include pedophilia, etc.

You see an interesting turn of this too, where people are insistent that ANY censorship or limits would lead to everything that deserves to be normalized being pushed back into the realm of "weird" sex, too, which is fascinating, because I think most of us can fairly say that we can, in fact, ban things such as porn of minors (especially irl minors, looking at youuuu AO3!) without somehow going back to the days when all queer art was subjugated. A kind of knee-jerk reaction (mmm reactionary movements) to the fact that our overall society has always pushed this slippery slope myth, and thus the fact that the larger, controlling groups of society will in fact try to ban any and all queer expression as degenerate.

But here's the thing. It's a myth. We can let things over the line without descending into chaos, because the line is made the fuck up. Accepting furries does NOT mean accepting zoophilia. Accepting LGBT+ people does NOT mean accepting pedophilia. On its face that should be OBVIOUS, since these things are hardly related at all. The only thing that groups them together is that they are currently societally taboo. and the cool thing about society is that you can still keep certain taboos even as you move into a more progressive society. in fact you uh. SHOULD keep certain taboos (@ libertarians. stop being nasty.)

When people present it as some weird zero-sum game they are lyingggg to you. It is not a slippery slope, it is a clear decision we can make and a line we can set as a society that LGBT+ people are normal, that kink is normal, that something as simple as furries are NORMAL, without somehow letting the big bad boogieman of "evil" and "wrong" sex in

[r0semultiverse]

I don’t know, me personally, I just think two adults playing pretend & pretending being gross together with full open communication & consent between them is harmless, but maybe that’s just me.

[kindacreepy-kindaugly]

haven't been sad like this in a long time