There are four main types of Batfam fans in regard to how people interpret Bruce Wayne as a dad (/Joking. This is mostly satire and should not be taken seriously):
Fans that think Bruce is emotionally constipated and isn't the best at being a parent but still tries (Differs per person). Don't necessarily think he's absuive but thinks he can be toxic or have unhealthy expectations for the Robins. Can smell the Oldest Daughter Syndrome coming from Dick and have Family Line (By Conan Gray) as their top song on their Dick inspired playlist and Daddy Issues (By The Neighbourhood) for Jason.
Fans that choose to believe Bruce goes to therapy in their own canon. Love B:WFA. Thinks the comic can be cheesy at times and so find a balance between B:WFA Bruce and Please Go To Therapy BruceTM as their middle ground. He struggles. They advocate that Bruce is not a bad parent, he just has bad writers that seem to forget Bruce wouldn't hurt kids, especially not his own. Love the humane moments and scenes he has in BTAS and the early JL cartoons. He may not be perfect but he's not literally abusive. Whores for Bruce being able to admit when he is wrong and for Jason and Bruce reconciling. I recommend Grow As We Go by Ben Platt for this one.
A mix between the first two. Was fine-ish when Dick was younger. Didn't help him in the healthiest way but eh. Still emotionally constipated but that happened more so after Dick left and Jason died. Started getting better when Tim came back but was still closed off. Should probably go to therapy with the kids so they can drag his ass about all the things he's done that have actually affected them negatively. Understands his mistakes and is also able to admit when he's wrong, eventually. It's not easy but he starts to do better and learns to be more emotionally available. Still has to get chewed out by Alfred sometimes but definitely better than he used to be and it shows. Reconciliation is slow and gradual but progress is made for everyone involved.
The one's I personally avoid for my own sanity and wellbeing:
Think Bruce is a complete bastard and abuser. Want him to choke. Hate any and all interpretations of him. Some of which will refuse to understand how anyone could have a different interpretation. Will point out comics where, in all fairness, he is a dick but forget that characterisation can significantly differ from one series to the next, as comic characters are constantly passed around to different writers and have been for decades. Not to mention movies, shows, etc.
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getting a blood test so my psychologist can rule out any “biological issues” before talking about prescribing me antidepressants but i hate getting blood drawn so wish me luck y’all 😭😭😭😭😭😭
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i’m so lucky to have made myself a proper little safe space on here when it comes to anything naruto related cos gawdamn, i sometimes forget how absolutely heated the fandom gets over specific characters/ships
it’s like i’m living in a bubble on here tbh
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so I'm finishing up The First Battle and like. yeah gray wings "tell the stars you won" line fucks hard but where did this come from. u spent like 3 books doing nothing but whining over everyone hating ur brother for being a power hungry dictator. where did this change of mind come from. ESPECIALLY SINCE MINUTES AFTER U GO BACK TO CODDLING HIM.
this chapter should've been from his pov. like I wouldn't hate this nearly as much if we saw his thought process; the brutal realization thar he can't keep denying that clear sky is a shitty person and everyone was right about him. idk. either that or give the line to thunder.
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Guys why is house trending on TikTok?😥
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hi hi!! i'm curious: what's your sun sign? what's an album that has no skips? and what's your favorite dessert? ♡
hi!!
i'm a gemini lmao.
vertigo by eden has like never been skipped at all for me. icarus and wings are my two favorite songs on there. (preachers daughter by ethel cain is a close second, but ngl i always skip the outro to thoroughfare so idk if i can count that.....)
as a kid we always had ice cream for dessert, and though it's probably not like a "proper" dessert or anything, i think i'll have to go with that. plain chocolate is my favorite! otherwise, cookie dough (:
if anyone else would like to participate here's the post!
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PJSK ships i like!! (wonder how many of these would get me tracked down and murdered on Twitter but it's like half 3 as i'm typing this so anxiety has clocked out for the night since i'm too tired to care and i have no fear right now)
Anhane!!! the only ship i 100% definitely ship romantically the rest here i see in a QPR type of way
Mizuenaaaaa i ADORE their dynamic with the banter, yet also clear trust they have in each other it's just. such a good pairing and their voices are amazing together too
most Rui relationships cause he deserves all the besties ever but mainly i love Emurui, Mizurui, Ruinene and lately been. extremely normal about Shizurui. yes. a very very rare pair. i am so very normal about themmmmmm. Pandemonium Chapter 6 i love
Shizuairi is cute i've been liking both characters much much more lately so have payed more attention to themmm
i feel like pretty much all ships within L/n like?? work??? they're all just SO cute, underrated unit fr. polyneed shippers i get you
i started liking Emunene after Close Game Offline event
Kohane and Toya are very sweet to me, wish they had more interactions beyond the main story but Sega just seems to hate the M/F friendships in VBS
Shizukasa is really cute with the childhood friends thing, especially that one chapter in Pandemonium
White Day Trio are the FUNNIEST dynamic ever. especially Mizuki and Akito. besties-frenemies fr
Mizuruian. another Kamikou trio i love. also another one with comedic potential- a hall monitor having to deal with her bestie who's skipping 90% of the time and her bestie's bestie who causes chaos for her on the daily
i don't like. ship them cause i haven't ever seen them interact but i CLEARLY want them to since i've mentioned them in like three posts before. Sega i am begging pretty pretty please let Ena and Rui meeeeeet please this is purely because they're my two faves i am unashamedly biased. i need to see what Shinonome #1 thinks of Rui- has she heard gossip from Mizuki and her brother?? does she have a preconceived idea of Mr Kamishiro in her head?? will that be completely confirmed or thrown out the window upon actually meeting him??? i (Leo/)NEED to know
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MAJOR SPOILERS FOR CHAPTER 5 (POMEFIORE CHAPTER) + RANT ABT HOW THE FANDOM TREATS VIL
a rant cuz im tired of this fandom's bs with vil cuz some of yall act like vil broke into ur house kicked ur mother in the face threw a bottle at ur dad pushed ur grandma down the stairs jumped ur grandpa and kidnapped ur dog
"vil is petty and childish and tried to kill neige for fame"
No, vil is tired of having all his work being compared to neige and feeling like he'll never be enough because no matter how much effort he puts into his work and how little neige puts in his neige will always get the first place and vil tried to kill neige because his mental health was in his last strand after finally getting a taste of what it's like to be in first place only for that to get ripped away from him once again.
im sick and tired of ppl acting like vil had no reason to overblot or be mad in the first place jesus fucking christ yall act like there was never a character that snapped at the person they were constantly compared to when there is MULTIPLE and i rarely see anyone hating on them it's the opposite actually ppl go out of their way to defend them because god knows being compared to someone at every breath u take and getting all ur hard work invalidated and belittled because "their work is better" fucking HURTS it hurts like hell SPECIALLY when that happens ur entire fucking life ever since u were a child to the age u are now "the game never showed anyone belittling vil" yeah but it takes u 5 seconds to realize that's what happened and they also did it with his appearance which is why vil has such extreme routines to try and make himself look better than neige and why he's always angry since he knows that won't happen
vil was a child that had cameras pointed to his face everywhere he went and got bullied and beat up by kids that couldn't understand that vil was simply acting and yall rlly want to sit here and tell me he had a normal childhood and no trauma??? please just say u dont know shit abt how mental health works and leave vil alone
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