#malevictims

[lovelyheart502]

❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

#MENTOO

#malevictims #survivors #abusehasnogender #violencehasnogender

#menmattertoo

[zilent-silent]

Problems Faced by men that not only need to be talked about more, but also worked on to be solved.

Men have high expectations from society. 

Society expects them to be rich, successful and be physically and mentally strong at all times.

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boys are told from a young age “boys dont cry” and “why are u crying like a girl?”.

Mental health in men are detoriating as generations go by and parents keep adopting the age old “men aren’t supposed to have any negative emotions except for anger” mostly cause, that was what their parents once taught them...

Higher rates of suicide in men are prevailing for such reason...

more men suffer in silence in fear of being percieved as weak...

Stop the stigma around mental health, and teach men that it is completely okay to have feelings and that their emotions are valid and that their mental health is important.

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Male victims of abuse and sexual violence are often mocked and seen as weaker and this mentality and treatment of victims leads to more of them hesitating to open up about feelings...

People don’t talk about male victims enough...

Governments in places like india, dont even recognize men as victims and male victims or rape are told that what happened to them isn’t even considered a crime.

why is it that we need to make rape laws gender specific?

why can’t we have gender neutral laws?

by refusing to recognize a crime by constructing a definition of the crime that excludes a group is a terrible act in itself. 

If victims can’t go to court or the government for justice, where else will they go?

If the system that promises to protect them itself, refuses to acknowledge them as victims, what else can they do?

MEN CAN BE VICTIMS TOO.

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It goes without saying that such issues contribute to crimes commited by men and in most cases, when they aren’t taught to handel their emotions in a healthy safe way, it exposes itself in the form of aggression and anger mostly targeted at those around them.

We can help them and change the toxic cycle created by those before us. 

BUT 

even though their issues contribute to their actions, it does not justify or excuse those actions, and thus if u are a man reading this, and u feel u have issues that cause u to hurt those around u, whether it be intentional or unintentional, as hard as this might be for u to do, please reach out for help and find peace, do not use your issues to justify ur actions.

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- Zilent

[adeansblog]

When you walk off into the sunshine with your head held high, because you are aware that life is a journey and the experiences only make you stronger.

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[superman-2050]

#StrictlyStalking #JamesBloodworth #ADangerousFling #StalkingJamesBloodworth #FemaleStalkers #MaleVictims #MaleStalkingVictims #Stalkers #Stalking #StalkerStories #FatalAttraction #Horror #HorrorStories #TrueHorrorStories #TrueCrime #TrueCrimePodcasts #HorrorPodcasts #Podcasts #Podbean Source: I'm listening to Strictly Stalking | S2 / E94 A Dangerous Fling: Stalking James Bloodworth on Podbean, check it out! https://www.podbean.com/ea/dir-kzzxv-10e0ab7c https://www.instagram.com/p/CWS1g54lAVtWaY82W1yLyd2teFSYt6IyBZVPeM0/?utm_medium=tumblr

[smokemirrorsmasks]

Thank you for posting @mensaidireland this is important for people to recognize in themselves and others. . . #helpformen #mentalhealth #abuseofmen #emotionalhealth #emotionalabuse #narcissisticabuse #survivalmode #behindcloseddoors #toxicrelationship #suicideprevention #menshealth #awareness #crisis #struggle #stress #malevictims #abusivewomen #psychology #nickcarter #princeharry #johnnydepp #smilingdepression #celebrity #publicimage #supportformen #toxicfamily https://www.instagram.com/p/CLE8NYWDSf5/?igshid=16rdpvtluxixc

[sleepingsilvergrinninggold]

I am curious about the experience of other male sexual abuse victims.

I have made this account primarily because I am very ashamed of what happened to me and feel very alone so I want a place to express myself while in a very dark place. My experience in finding support for what happened to me has been overwhelmingly negative. I initially thought that I would find acceptance, visibility and support in left and feminist spaces but this has been unfortunately not the case. I find that I am often invalidated or even asked to apologize for my (female) abuser. I only see male victimization talked about in invalidating token ways in these spaces and don’t know where else to turn. I have tried the MRA red pilled communities but it’s apparent to me that most of them only claim to care about male victimization in the context of complaining about feminism and dismissing female victims. To make things even more frustrating the only times I see male victimization mentioned in said feminist spaces is to talk about said MRAs. It sucks and has gotten to the point that I can’t talk about what happened to me without being expected to acknowledge and denounce the MRA’s. while there is certainly a time and place for this it shouldn't be expected for victims of trauma and abuse to do this while sharing their stories. It’s especially frustrating because I am far from the first guy who has expressed how many feminist spaces dismiss and even deride them but nobody is listening. Its clear to me that feminist spaces are not for male victims even though they often pretend to be. My intention with this post isn't to say that feminism is bad or anything like that but simply share my experience with being a male victim of sexual abuse in these spaces. Im curious about other men on here who have experienced anything similar and where they have been able to find places to feel less worthless and invisible because I feel at the end of my rope

[djuncletone]

🚨🚨🚨⬅⬅⬅🚨🚨🚨 Tune in to @smiles69network This Sunday 9-10pm on @dtfradio We will be switching gears and extending the Mental Health conversation from @thegrownmanshowig_ with @vanessa_smilez × @s0l0_charm × @precenda_inc Exploring different types of Personality Disorders from Disassociative Personality Disorder to Narcissists and Sociopaths. We MUST raise global awareness to mental health issues and do our best to stop Physical and Mental abuse.....#StopBullying #StopAbuse #MentalHealth #TheGrownManShow #Smilez69NetworkShow Reposted from @thinair1234 - This type of study has been done all over the world. It shows exactly what’s wrong with our collective views and understanding of what domestic abuse is. It’s not a gender issue. It’s a violence issue. If you’re going to stand up against abuse then stand against ALL abuse. Otherwise you’re just another part of the problem. #maleabusevictims #Radio #fashion #maleabuse #fun #love #menshealth #music #malevictims #musically #likeforlikes #f4follow #malevictimsmatter #followers #canada #likeforfollow #miami #femalenarcissist #femalenarc #mengetabusedtoo - #regrann (at Brooklyn, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/BuuAWVqHYhWvH3ffg__t-Qtd-2VEqaBkEhDjY80/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1eoeu3ywgyk7t

[lovelyheart502]

#allvictimsmatter

#abuseisabuse

#abusehasnogender

#violencehasnogender

#menmattertoo

#mentoo

#malevictims

[freedom4ewa]

Help for Male Victims provided by womenslaw.org Certain gender stereotypes and social factors can make it difficult for male victims of abuse to come forward. From a young age, men are socialized to avoid appearing “weak,” “afraid,” and “hurt.” The result is that men may find it difficult to express emotions or ask for help. This often acts as a barrier to male victims reporting abuse. If you are a male victim of domestic violence or sexual assault, you should know that you are not alone. According to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence, 1 in 4 men will experience some form of physical violence by an intimate partner within their lifetime. It is okay to ask for help. No one should have to be afraid or feel unsafe in his or her relationship. #youarenotalone #knowledgeispower #malevictim #genderstereotypes #sexualassault #stopvictimblaming #freedom #love #hope #fearless #myequal #freedom4ewa #helpisontheway #domesticviolence #survivor https://www.instagram.com/p/B9hLsR1g5tH/?igshid=1vwvw2qfilt3y

[adeansblog]

Be proud of yourself for leaving a toxic relationship and take all the time in the world to heal.

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Men-Do-Cry-Dean/dp/B08R9CLRXX/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr

#DomesticAbuse #domesticviolence #childabuse #Survivor #bullying #TrueStory #domesticviolenceawareness #father #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #FatherAndSon #author #newlease #newlife #mentalhealth #malesurvivors #malevictims #manipulations #man #abusiverelationship #narcissisticabusesurvivor #bullying #books #kindlebooks

[proudtobeadepphead]

#justiceforjohnnydepp #malevictim #johnnydepp

hell yes! 🙏

[youthagainstrape]

Let's talk about the thing, that your society always hides

Let's talk about the crime, when baised gender never cries

Let's talk about your mind that victimized a criminal

Let's talk about damaged lives and broken families

Let's talk about allegations of fake rape and dowry

Let's talk about your hypocrisy that never look a man as a human

Let's talk about your stereotype that created mess in our lives

Let's talk about pain which you never allow us to feel

Let's talk about our tears, that clearly have no right to come out in fear

Let's talk about stories that describes different definition of masculinity

And if your whole "explanation of men being dogs", find it's way to some end

Then let's talk about justice, which haven't served yet.

#mentoo#malevictim#biasedeuality#needstrictlaws#speakout#dontbesilent#equalrights#justiceforright#rightstep#comeforward#poem#tumblrpoem

[52sandsmoke]

Cardi be drugging: the male victims tale

[smokemirrorsmasks]

A day late but important read. @ . #internationalmensday #menshealth #abusedmen #malevictims #endstigma #suicideprevention #himtoo #ptsd #toxicfemales #emotionalabuse #narcissisticabuse #depression #smilingdepression #supportformen #nickcarter #johnnydepp #socialmediaisnotreallife https://www.instagram.com/p/CH4VK51jxyD/?igshid=1azv3rnmqhx4g

[amarccage-blog]

Male Victims of Human Trafficking

[sanna1396-blog]

#Hypocrisy #Society #Patriarchy #Dominance #womengrievances #malevictims #Sanna