So both Hiccups manage to be born in February 29th five years apart in your au?! Damn they must love that's another thing they have to share lol
ASFHKGFGJK OH I MISCALCULATED THE 4 YEAR GAP 😂😂 THAT WENT RIGHT OVER MY HEAD 😂
BUT I CAN STILL WORK WITH THIS!! In reality, Elder's birthday is actually on the 28th, and he and Younger share it on normal years! But on Leap Years Stoick and Valhallarama simply wait a day and celebrate both boys' birthdays on the 29th instead LMAO
What's the point of two whole birthdays when you can just share? (said no sibling ever AJDHDJAK)
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latest shenanigans from my parents include
father:
ignored specific instructions that i would pick something up from their house to rock up to mine with it, then freak out bc i was weightlifting in my garage in a sports bra and therefore showing like 1.5" of midriff, and leave it on my driveway and run away. not super surprising from a man who stopped hugging me when my weird hormone sitch meant i started puberty at 6ish but what
mother:
ignored specific instructions that i would pick something else up from their house to rock up to mine with it, then get very surprised/cowed by my wife answering the door bc she's still pretending i'm not married
a variety of 60-year-old-fundie-woman-on-fb shenanigans, including:
sending me and her other adhd child clickbait about how cashews are better than prozac and b vitamins reverse adhd
sharing yet more posts from conversion therapy organisations for "suffering parents of wayward children" saying that this easter we need to remember that it is sooooo hard to love betrayers like judas but jesus did it anyway
making a huge post about how this one plant in her garden looked promising but bore no fruit and the fig tree in the bible and maybe her life is like that, secretly rotten under the surface. really makes you think
anyway my therapist was like "you always talk about 'my mother' or 'my parents' but not really about your father on his own and i'd like you to think about that" and. i Guess remembering that he's a fucking fundie dickhead about girls and women existing has opened a few old cans of worms to bring to her next week
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the way I've been raised has shown itself in a recent awful experience I had and the realization won't leave me because I'm not sure what to do about it.
I don't like feeling anger/upset and it's rare for me to feel it anyway but it's led to me being unable to tell what's worth getting upset over anymore. If my wants upset somebody, then, well, maybe I shouldn't have them? What is so serious that I need it to go completely my way...? What desires am I allowed to have. It's not that serious, it's okay if not, you can't always get what you want....
every time I feel Upset I am later wracked with guilt because it wasn't a big deal and I was just being selfish... What IS a big deal then? How can I tell? Its admittedly never a big deal... But I keep being upset. And stepped on....
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