i always wonder what would NH boys react to their lovers having a very close boy best friend. would they be jealous or what.
Interesting ask ! I kept the friends' pronouns gender neutral !
NIGHTMARE HAREM
THEIR S/O HAVING A VERY CLOSE FRIEND
𝕃𝕦𝕔𝕚𝕒
A bit annoyed at how close you are to your friend, not exactly at you, but he never had that type of bond with someone and it confuses him
Lowkey believes your friend has feelings for you, but he won't say a thing at first
But if he sees you two talking, he might put his arm around you just to make things clear
He's just a bit jealous
Your friend is unfazed
I'm going to be honest, this might cause an arguement between you two.
Well not exactly cause the arguement, but he will definitely bring it up during it.
You have to remind him that you're dating him and not your friend.
And that you're friend is like a sibling to you since you two pratically grew up together. Nothing else.
That will snap him out of his jealousy and he will probably be embarassed of not being more mature about his own insecurities
It'll take him a few weeks, but he will slowly warm up to your friend
Frow then on, he treats your best friend as HIS best friend.
Yes you're clearly third-wheeling their bromance at one point
𝕃𝕖𝕧𝕪
Doesn't like it.
He won't tell you anything because he's too closed off to try to talk about his feelings
And he's lowkey nervous that you will realise you found someone better.
He feels the same jealousy that he feels about Lucia when they get compared
Absolutely hates it. He feels like he's replaceable and it stings.
He wants to be your best friend too
If you talk about your friend, he will get snappy and eventually he will try to avoid the topic altogether
And then avoids you
He doesn't know how to process his own feelings and does what he does best : pushing people away.
You will have to corner him and ask what's wrong and he will probably break down right there
At first, he sounds angry, but as he starts to tear up you can clearly see that it's not that.
He's not upset about your friend being close to you or anything
He's just feeling like he's living again all the moments where he was compared to his older brother and seen as a place holder for him
You will need to calm him down and reassure him that it's not the case
After that, he will become somewhat friendly with your friend, but he won't seek their contact either. He's just not a very social person
And he learns to open up more about his feelings to you
𝕄𝕖𝕗𝕪
Doesn't really care nor mind it at first.
So what if you have a friend? As long as they aren't as annoying as his brothers it's fine.
The start of the problem comes from your friend.
Let's be honest, your friend probably don't trust him AT ALL and he can feel it when they talk to him
He knows it's a deserved feeling, but he's still annoyed by them anyway.
He probably makes condescending remarks to them when they bring up any of their doubts or suspicions about him.
Mefy will probably try to manipulate you into ditching your friend or into taking his side about the oncurring arguement.
Of course, knowing very well his tactics by now, you see right through him and it quickly escalates into an arguement.
He tries to play innocent and you will have to bring some sense into his head
He probably started to revert back to his old personality and once he realises he goes quiet in a blink.
It will take him time to form his words correctly and then he will give you an apology
He won't start to be nice to your friend after that, but you can see that the jabs he says to them are no longer mean-spirited and instead simply teasing or playful
𝕂𝕒𝕚𝕞
Probably the most mature out of all the characters.
He's happy that you have someone to rely on and doesn't mind one bit that you two have such a close relationship
Kaim isn't a fan of strangers, but for you he would love to meet your friend
If he enjoys their presence he will simply tell you that you have a nice friend
If he finds them rude or doesn't enjoy spending time with them, he will tell you that he would rather spend alone time with you next time.
He's really upfront about his opinion of your friend, but will never try to persuade you to stop hanging out with them or even insult them
If they make you happy, then it's not his business
Of course, if he ever wishes to spend more alone time with you or has doubts about your friend's potential feelings for you, he will be direct but tactful about it
He won't make any assumptions, but if he has questions he won't hesitate to ask them
Overall, he's pretty chill about it and if there's any issues he won't hide them.
𝕆𝕤𝕨𝕒𝕝𝕕
Biggest sweetheart ever.
He's happy that you have such a close friend to rely on!
He's a bit envious as he doesn't have any close friends due to his reaper disease
But even so, he won't ever try to destroy your friendship with your best friend
Unlike some people
If you get into a fight with your friend, he tries to meditate things and have you two make up
He doesn't want to see you upset
I feel like he might feel akward around your friend since he has very low self-confidence
But he's still very glad that you love him enough to make him meet other people in your life!!!
If your friend looks like they don't like him, he might beat himself up for it
Please reassure him
𝕄𝕚𝕜𝕒𝕖𝕝
He doesn't like your friend
He doesn't like anybody
At first, he's annoyed to have to "share" your attention and he might huff or even make snappy remarks about your friend in their back
He would also make sarcastic comments at them in their face once they meet
He just doesn't like people, can you really blame him
If you argue about his comportement, he will simply dismiss you and call you dramatic
He might even grow some suspicions about you cheating on him with your friend
He tries to dismiss the idea, but it's still there
What if you realise that there's better than him on the market?
And in the heat of the arguement he might even throw those accusations at your face
Even if he knows you would never want to hurt him
It doesn't end well and you leave the room to avoid pursuing the arguement
He will come later to apologise to you and explain himself
You two will have a serious talk about his accusations and boundaries
while he will not apologise to your friend, he will make efforts to sound less rude when talking to them
Doesn't seek them out though and would rather spend alone them with you than being around them
But if you're happy, he will make an effort.
ℝ𝕚𝕔𝕒𝕣𝕕𝕠
Do I really need to elaborate?
If you played his route, you KNOW it doesn't go well at all the moment he will learn about your friend's existence
He's jealous and possessive
To such a large extent that it's almost toxic
He's already jealous enough when Noel and you hang out together, but now...
He doesn't even know your friend.
Absolutely loathes them and has to restrain himself from insulting them each time you talk about them
He's convinced your friend is trying to take you away
He ends up blowing up and screaming, accusing your friend of trying to get in your pants when you ask him why he's so snappy
It really doesn't go well.
Noel and Mikael have to come see what is happening because of how loud the both of you are.
You end up going to sleep in your old room while he stays there, staring blankly at the wall with Noel staring at him
Inception
At first he's convinced he's right and that you're just being naive
why else would your friend and you be so close?
It takes him days to think over the situation and analyse where it went wrong. He will even ask Noel for his opinion
Noel just looks so done with his life
When he realises how over the top his reaction was and how you seemed to avoid him at all costs...He goes to your room and apologises
It's up to you if you decide to accept his apology
If you do, you two will have to work a lot on mutual trust and healthy communication
He will be on edge, scared to lose you again
If you make him meet your friend, he will wrap his arm around your waist and hover quietly around you.
But he will play nice since they seem to make you happy
ℕ𝕠𝕖𝕝
Jealous.
Not because he thinks you're cheating on him or that your friend is secretly in love with you.
No, because he feels like he doesn't sees you as much as usually when you go see your friend.
He doesn't know how to explain how he's feeling, so he will stay quiet. But you can see that something is bothering him.
If he meets your friend before you have the chance to prod him, he will glare at them and stay around you.
It becomes painfully obvious what was the issue when you see his comportement around your friend.
You will have to ask him to explain how he's feeling and why
It'll be hard and he will search his words, but once he does, he firmly states his problem.
Please reassure him, Noel has big abandonment issues and he would break if you were to leave him.
He will understand that his actions were not ok when you explain to him that you did not like his comportement and he will apologise for making you upset
He will probably take some herbs to give your friend next time he sees them as an apology gift
𝕃𝕦𝕔𝕒𝕤
He's not jealous, not angry...
He's sad but happy for you
His heart can't decide if he's happy that you are happy as well
Or if he's sad that he feels like you finally found someone better suited for you
He doesn't think he deserves you and if he feels like you might be better off with your friend, he might try to subtly get the two of you together.
So romantic
When you notice this, it hits you in the face like a truck and it stings
You will have to knock some sense into him and tell him how stupid he is
You are dating HIM. You love HIM. Not your friend.
It will take some time for him to really believe that you love HIM instead of anyone else.
He will apologise and try his hardest to change his self-loathing mindset.
Once you make him meet your friend, he feels a bit out of place, but...
He sees you smile and having fun with both him and your friend
and his heart melts
He truly does love you and for once, he will allow himself to be selfish and keep you arouung him.
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