okay last thoughts about this for now.
bi people can be in straight relationships and still be bi
yeah i know the internet hates the cishetsTM. but have you considered not alienating every ally or closeted person by telling them they are not queer enough to be in queer spaces
gender nonconforming people exist and their sexuality and gender is none of your business
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it's so hard to explain to people who aren't jewish the profound sense of loneliness we feel when our posts about any other cause get ten times the engagement, but whenever we share something about antisemitism, the only people who engage are other jews. it's not about likes, but it feels like screaming into the void. we post about the latest synagogue attack, or about our community getting bomb threats, or how another jew got assaulted on the streets, or killed at a protest. and the world sees it, and doesn't blink. doesn't care. because they can care about anyone on the entire planet, defend them, speak up for them, but a jew? well, we aren't people, are we. we'll never count.
how fucking bad does it have to get for my friends to share a single fucking post.
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Sitting here, thinking about how happy I was when I first came out, and how over time the world has worn me down so far.
I used to be so proud to be trans masculine. It was such a core aspect of myself I loved so, so, so, much.
Somewhere along the way, I was convinced that , somehow, I was “lesser” for my masculinity. I don’t know how. I just know at some point, I was taught “man bad” and I was also taught that being connected to men, maleness, or masculinity, was also wrong.
Idk. I just miss my euphoria and my pride.
I wish people had been gentler and kinder to me.
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Not having an official diagnosis but knowing damn well what you are but also being in a family that doesn't believe in mental illness is one hell of a combo
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I love unrequited love like mad and all the apology tour fanart but alastor ship ver. are great, i eat them up like spaghetti but if i ever see genuine critique on alastor (ace, implied aro) for not liking the other character back and putting blame on him -> it's block on sight 😊
I eat hanahaki fics for breakfast, the guilt-trippy nature in apology tour isn't my problem. if the guilt-tripping is just for a tasty narrative, i'm good,
my problem is if it actually reflects your belief that the aro/ace character is at fault while the other half of the ship is a precious baby for catching feelings and did nothing wrong.
I don't want genuine blame being put on the aro/ace character for just, not being able to give what the other wants. It sends me into a spiral of feelings i cannot explain as an aroace.
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