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Hey.
Hey, let me talk at you for a minute.
Just a minute.
✨Stop sending creators hate.✨ fuck, stop sending people hate at all, honestly.
Stop it.
I don't give a single fucking rat's ass why you think you have a right to send it, you don't.
Stop it.
Use that energy you got rolling around in all that bullshit and work on some self-improvement. A little introspection. Some bullet-journaling, scrapbooking, learn how to cook a new meal, study a language.
Practice cock-sucking on a dildo.
Do something useful with that time and energy.
Look, some people are gonna write shit you don't like. They're gonna draw shit you don't like. They're gonna have takes, and head canons, and entire personal havens built up around shit YOU DO NOT LIKE.
Block them, and move on.
You're not doing anything by being a bitch ass punk, going into their space just to yell at them about how much of a bitch ass punk you are. Especially if you're doing it anonymously.
ESPECIALLY IF YOU'RE MAKING MULTIPLE ACCOUNTS TO KEEP HARASSING THEM AFTER THEY BLOCK YOU.
It's dolls, baby, we're playing with dolls. They're not real.
I know it can get intense as fuck, and I know you can get really attached, and I know your own little haven can become SUPER IMPORTANT to you. I know - I get it.
Learn to block people and move on.
I don't care what they're doing, what they're saying, what they're enjoying, or why it bothers you. I don't care.
It
Does
Not
Matter.
Block them and move on.
#quin muses#yeah I'm just a little bit angry#if you couldn't tell#it's not that hard#as a matter of fact#blocking people is almost always a really easy to use feature#on just about every application#you can block people from emailing you ffs#or even from calling and sending texts#you can block whole fucking tags#YOU DO NOT HAVE TO SEE ANYTHING YOU DON'T WANT TO#a lot of you haven't been duped by a movie trailer and it shows
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Going to college as a nontraditional student with an office job is kinda funny bc now when a professor messes things up in a way that fucks me over instead of being like "omg this authority figure is so unfair 😭" I'm approaching it more with the vibe of like "if Karen from Accounting doesn't fix this mistake that's hindering my work after my third passive aggressive email I'm going to CC her boss"
#my professor has multiple things messed up on her online course that are actively preventing me from preparing for the midterm exam#1. the notes she uploaded for last weeks lesson are in an unviewable format (its a .bin file? she converted an image to binary code??)#2. she hasnt uploaded the content for this weeks lesson yet. and that content is going to be tested on the midterm#3. both her syllabus and the review guide she uploaded mention a pre-midterm test thats worth 2% of our grade#and i think is supposed to help us prepare. but she hasnt uploaded that or even mentioned it at all?#4. the exam itself isnt in blackboard yet. which wouldnt really be a cause for alarm if it was any other professor#i would just assume they were probably waiting to upload it until the day of the exam#but given everything else shes messed up so far im worried she messed something up with that too and it wont get uploaded at all#so. she said in the syllabus that we should message her directly in blackboard with any questions and she'll respond within 48 hours#but my first message was sent on friday. it is now tuesday#she said to send a follow up if she doesnt respond within 48 hours. i sent a follow up yesterday morning and she still hasnt responded#and im not going to wait another 48 hours when the exam is in 3 days and she still hasnt even uploaded the final lesson that will be on it#so. shes getting a text from me at the phone number she listed now like#if she doesnt respond to that within a few hours then i might call#and if she doesnt respond to THAT then im going to put it in an email and CC the head of her department or smth#bc we NEED to be able to prepare for the midterm. its THIS WEEK. some people are actually scheduled only TWO days from now#its already bullshit that shes including this lesson on the midterm when the due date for it is AFTER the exam#but then shes also THREE DAYS LATE (so far) uploading it??#AND she hasnt uploaded the pre-test or even mentioned it at all???#rambling#this professor is gonna get a BAD review from me man#its already bad enough that her online course is structured so poorly that its hard to even tell what we should be doing each week#and now this shit
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I occasionally wish to reach out to old friends/acquaintances I haven't spoken to since high school/some other even earlier time in my life, but I have SOOO little social energy even for required tasks (like making dr phone calls or etc), I never have any leftover for extra ones, and it would be very odd to message someone I haven't spoken to in like 5 years out of the blue but then take 4 entire months to respond back lol.. My natural curiosity with nostalgia/collecting details of the past/etc. (literally if I were born a little earlier I would definitely do scrapbooking or something lol) is very strong, but, alas, not strong enough to beat out the Social Issues Demons apparently
#facebook always does that 'here's a post from this day 8 years ago' thing. and I see old comments interacting#with people and it's so like.. OOOOO~~ where are they now?? what's going on? how much have they changed as people?#how much are they the same? this is fascinating. i should contact them!!' but then it's like... take that to it's logical conclusion though#you would contact them and then IF they even responded it would take you 80 years to respond and then they would#think there was something wrong or that you were trying to be insulting or something. To contact anyone I need to include an 85 page#disclaimer of all of my social issues & mental illness things. 'If i take 3 weeks to reply I promise it has nothing to do with u' etc lol#THIS is why more people need to be into phone calls/voice calls/some form of audio real time communication/etc.#I think one of the main things that's hard about messaging through text for me is it's so unscheduled and open ended#(plus it takes forever if you're talking about anything in detail and gets very long very quickly)#because like you can send a message and then just get a reply whenever. and then you're expected to reply back whenever#so it's like you never know when the response will come or when a new obligation to reply can come up? so it's like this sudden thing with#no outline?? if that makes sense. whereas a phone call is very like 'hello let's schedule a call from 10am - 2pm on thursday'. And you know#EXACTLY when the interaction will start and EXACTLY when it will end and you can plan around it in your schedule easily.#I have the reverse thing of a lot of people (how people don't pick up phone calls/hate calls/only text)#I would literally talk on the phone with a stranger. I would have a discord voice chat with someone I barely know.#if someone I hardly even remember from elementary school asked to have a voice call with me out of nowhere I would do it.#but if a stranger MESSAGED me?? or someone I barely know sent me a TEXT or something?? I will never reply probably#It's just too vague and weird. and you can't read voice tone over text. and the interaction could last forever with no clear end#point and etc. etc. But a call is like. set. established. clear boundaries. you can read the flow of conversation better. rapport. etc. etc#I get that I guess people feel more anonymous or distanced over text?? but you can have fake phone numbers on the computer. or do like disc#rd calls. or zoom without a camera or etc. etc. Also the distance that's present in text is BAD distance because it just means that tone is#not conveyed properly and you will never truly get a sense of the person's conversational vibe or mannerisms or how well you really click.#ANYWAY ghgjh...... I'm so so so interested in concepts of like.. How did that one kid I used to talk to in elementary school#but then they moved away in 5th grade - how did they end up? what are they doing now?? etc. etc. Like despite the severe social anhedonia#and general lack of connection with others I'm just really fascinated in like.. idk. the human development of it all and like#the concept of how we're actually a million different people through the course of our lives ever evolving in different iterations and etc.#PLUS again. i love nostalgia. sometimes old peple you know might remember a shared memory or can tell you about something you forgot#or etc. like it's SUCH A COOL THING in CONCEPT but I am too socially inept generally speaking lol. which people I still talk to today are#familiar with my 'phone call once every few months' communication style. but strangers would just be like... wtf. And I don't blame them#Sure I literally cannot change the physical health + brain issues i have - but also I know enough to not put others through that lol
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will you ever do a name reveal?
No
#although a number of mutuals on here know my real name bc I send them shit from my Google docs#but even Rhea calls me peach still and we text each other frequently#and I slip up and refer to Leigh as Leigh to Sam all the time even though she’s saved in my phone under her government name
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ily bakugou katsuki u are the only thing that hasn't pissed me off today
#today i was basically told that i have to take all of my breaks at work back to back to back within one hour two hours after i clock in#which means that i don't get a break at all later during the night so i don't fucking Want that but i have no other choice because#i'm basically being cornered into doing it by one of the managers who texted my department lead and said i tried to get someone to#cover me for my break at “almost 7 when everyone is going home” which is a fucking lie i asked at 6#who the fuck wants to take all of their breaks in one hour two hours after they start their eight hour shift#i asked for someone to cover me at 6 because i had to use the bathroom really fucking badly and she was like#“why didn't you take them while the midshift was here” the midshift has a three hour overlap with my shift and i have to be clocked in#for at least two hours before i take any breaks at all and i don't want to take all of my breaks at once that soon#ONE HOUR BEFORE MY COWORKER LEAVES#and like we both have stuff to do????#all three breaks two hours into my shift then nothing for the next six fucking hours funniest joke i've ever heard in my entire life#except it's not a joke because it's from a manager so if i don't do this stupid ass shit i could get disciplined or fired#because they don't want to send anyone to cover for me#you know what's even funnier? i am the ONLY PERSON scheduled for these fucking 2-10 shifts except for our full time guy#my other coworkers? 4-10. i don't want this fucking 2-10 shift get me the fuck OFF OF IT#EATS MY ENTIRE FUCKING DAY#i woke up at 8:30am this morning and it still felt like my entire goddamn day was stolen from me because i wake up have time to myself for#about 5 hours out of my whole day then i have to get ready and get my ass to work until the end of the fucking day#tag rant#tag vent#bakugou katsuki#i feel like this is something i should call my union rep about but idk
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I don't like coming off as rude when replying (sometimes it's bound to happen but I actively avoid it). But you know what? I think I'm a bit tired of people being a little rude to ME. Like Jesus, stop being so clingy. Please understand that 1: people are busy with other things throughout the day and not there to reply to you 24/7 and 2: people live in different timezones. I understand a bunch of you are Americans (that's to be expected here) but if you send me a message at 10pm (EST) that's like 5am (EEST) for me.
#also yes maybe you had a bad day. I'm sorry for that but how is it my 'problem'. why do you have to snap to me#you had a bad day but that is no excuse to ruin mine#also stop asking me on dms if I accept art requests#it's manipulative to ask for free art especially if we don't even know each other#not art#text#me complaining#Anyway this is a wake up call for SOME people. it has happened multiple times so yeah. it's an issue#also not to be that person but if you come to my dms asking for FREE art you better be nice#some people think they deserve free things for the exchange of being rude#if I ask someone to do something for me you better believe I'm thanking them 1000 times.#not being clingy cause they didn't respond for 5 hours#what are you#like. why do some people think they are privileged enough to get stuff for free just because they complimented me or my art#Anyway#sorry for the negativity#I didn't make this post to turn anyone away from just sending me a dm. do that I don't care#but remember that I am human too. you're having a bad day? I might be too. so yeah. be mindful please
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generational differences in etiquette are crazy. this guy that I emailed just called my phone unannounced. sir in my culture that is considered an act of war.
#likeeee. the end goal was a phone call yes. i emailed him to set up a meeting over the phone.#i need to prepare for that meeting. i need to set up a specific time#and i told him this in an email. “reply to this email or send me a text message to set up a time to call.” who do you think I am?#im just gonna answer a call from a random number??#also the guy is like my parents age. not even that old. why are you scaring me like this
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screaming into the void <3
#my best friends boyfriend (who i’ve also been friends with for years) is just. not himself rn#we think it’s a manic episode but we don’t really know but it’s. terrifying lowkey#he thinks he’s genuinely jesus and that he’s conquered time and that he and my bsf are adam and eve#he’s been sending my bsf liek hundreds of texts per day since tuesday but it got really really bad and incoherent yesterday#and i woke up this morning to see multiple texts from gcs he created w me in them#and he keeps being like ‘because it’s 6:20 this is true’ and like ‘i know that at 9 pm everyone is gonna understand’#and he’ll text like 5 times then send a sc of what he just texted like that proves something but it’s all nonsense#i’m just really really concerned cause he really needs help but i don’t know how to ensure that happens cause he’s 19. not a minor#he’s just. not him rn. he’s called my bsf multiple times yesterday when he HATES calling normally#he had his band and his mom over in his apartment yesterday cause my bsf called his mom and h went to his bands show but was visibly not ok#and he saw nothing weird about it even tho he hates having ppl over normally and never without warning#and you can’t get him to see logic because everything you say he just twists around to work for him#to be clear it was not this bad when it started. when it started it seemed like normally maybe slightly out there conclusions he was drawing#but it just got worse and worse like exponential decay and really bad yesterday#he also didn’t sleep at all yesterday night and idk if he slept tonight#i know his mom took his phone at one point but he texted me and gcs w me in it starting at like 6:20 this morning#and my bsf and i and friends are on a trip out of state rn but we’re leaving today and i don’t wanna wake her up until i have to because#this is literally hell for her. but it’s just. scary. i don’t know what to do. i don’t think there’s any good options really for me rn#i want to warn ppl and try to explain he’s Not Him rn so they don’t get concerned but who knows if they’ll understand what i’m trying to say#i know it’s not the end of the world but it really feels like the end of my world as i know it if that makes sense#and my bsf lives with him in an apartment near their college and they just signed the lease for the next year#but she can’t stay there with him alone. not until he gets help. we’re all too scared it’s going in the directon where he thinks it’s better#for ppl to go to the afterlife. which like he never would normally. but he’s Not Him and so like. who knows#he keeps talking about all these different dimensions and how you need to travel to the 7th dimension to understand#my bsf was crying yesterday and she called her mom to explain and she keeps saying that she just wants her jake back it’s really scary#cause he will probably never be the same again. he’ll be similar but different but she wants his comfort but he’s Not Him. and can’t give it#i just. really want this to get better but it’s so hard to see that happening rn
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good news: it is real 👍
bad news..... it is so so small 😂😂
tell me in WHAT universe this is an XXL..... I might still be able to style it somehow but I am a little disappointed it isn't the slouchy sweatshirt I was dreaming of. Trials of online shopping I suppose
#rom speaks#as far as i can ascertain the label is 'universe funnel' but if you search that..... there's nothing. it doesn't exist#i tried to buy this exact sweatshirt from a site that turned out to be a drop shipper years back#i ordered it with a pair of shoes. shoes arrived and i still have them. They’re great#sweatshirt just never even shipped and they had no good explanation for me.#when i tried to scrounge it up again from some other vendor it kept getting associated to a brand called club giv#but everything i could find emphatically implied club giv was a scam and they just take your money and send you nothing#found it listed on one other very sketchy site where the images were poorly edited with slightly different text#genuinely if i didn’t have this one sitting on my bed right now i wouldn't be convinced this sweatshirt ever existed anywhere in the world#so..... i just have to live with it being LITTLE#tbh i think the real solution here is i have to make one myself with the fit i want. I'm not in love with how the text is distributed either
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#my brother makes music and he made a song that has my grandfathers voice in it#and it’s from a conversation he and my brother had like maybe a year before my grandad died#and they’re talkng about my nonnie passing and grief and stuff#and my grandad was… he was so country and crazy (affectionate) but he was so fucking wide#wise*#and he said to my brother basically that sadness is an emotion and it’s valid but we can’t let it control us#it’s only there temporarily. and sometimes that temporary is a couple of days and sometimes it’s years#but it’s not a state of being it’s something that will pass#and you need to feel it and accept it and then let it eventually pass#anyways I forgot about that song but today was a bad day and i got to hear one of my favorite people in the world like#validate my feelings and also tell me that it’s not going to be forever#and it’s just funny how he takes care of me even after he’s gone#i miss him#today would be a day where he’d randomly send me a text with of one his poems in it 😂#he like knew when me or my siblings were having a day and he’d just call us like well I was thinkin about you and just wanted to say hi#hi grandaddy hope you’re having fun in heaven tell whomever is in charge i said we are going to fight cuz they took you from me too soon
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Me panicking because i have 9 missed calls and 5 emails talking about my absence and how "a colleague could take over for me" vs. Me knowing it's really not that important no matter how pushy a client is and that on top of it I'm underpaid and have way to much overtime so i shouldn't even care
#i have 14 hours overtime#collected within 2 weeks lol#you know how it's apparently mandatory for companies in germany to have a way track employees working time? yeah we're#the only company in the whole fucking country who doesn't do that (obviously that's not true there's probably plenty more but it's#still not right.) so we don't get paid overtime nor does it get acknowledged in any way#so technically we're not allowed to even it out (which most people try to do anyway because tf do they think they are asking us to work for#free) but I'm dedicated to not collect any more unpaid working hours so i take the liberty to leave work early this week#so today i left at 12pm (and then got home 4 hours later because another person decided to kill themselves by train. they should call me#first. or anyone else taking the train. I'm sure there'd be plenty of volunteers to do the killing if it means not another miserable day#stuck in a disgusting train). and i logged in again at 6pm today to see if i have anything important messages (stupid i know)#and i saw the missed calls and that there had been an email exchange with me in the cc talking about the 'changes' made in one of the#articles and that someone else could do that for me since i couldn't be reached and at first i felt ashamed and scared#but now it's honestly just pissing me off. that asshole can't write emails and communicate requests like normal people can he#he already called me last week about something completely stupid and acts like his matters are the most important shit in the world#fuck you if you can't wait one day you should have sent this a month earlier because i won't stay online everyday#just to see if there might be an 'important' change you want me to make Immediately. bitch.#also missed two calls from my colleague but she didn't send any messages about what she wanted so i asked her because i felt bad for not#being online and turns out she wanted Nothing. just hear how i was. JUST TEXT ME THEN???? I HATE IT HERE FUCK YOU#seriously i don't get paid enough for this to bother me so much. she probably gets 12-15€ more than me per hour#of course she doesn't care about her overtime as much as i do. i get minimum wage which is less than what I'd get if i still worked at uni#as a student assistant so fuck this shit it's really not important or worth it. from now on i'll only put in minimum effort too#sorry got carried away. rant over now i guess#void screams#work stuff
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who just videocalls someone out of the blue?? what happened to texting?
#and he called me twice too#the first time i was on the bus so obviously i couldn't answer#now I'm recovering from being on the bus and i haven't been home 10 minutes and i dont even have clothes on so again i didn't answer#I'm gonna send a sorry i was on the bus text in a bit 🙃 and hope he doesn't videocall again#jo says stuff#personal ramblings
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Recently developed such a bad platonic/friendship crush (idk the word for it... I think there's a word??) on this one person I've barely spoken to 😭 Idk what is is... I just want to be their buddy... I want to do silly activities............ Send me memes and read my fanfics............................
#I cannot express how much I know literally nothing about them#and yet. I must be pals#>:3 !!!#I have SO many mutuals from the dndads fandom that I want to be friends with tbh#like I can count like at least 5 who I've semi-Tumblr stalked for a little while over the past year or so#just bc I think they are cool....#like even before I started being active on Tumblr#or even FOLLOWING THEM on Tumblr#I would check their blogs#I'm sure this sounds insane I just really like making buddies. okay#but it's usually bc I think they're cool and I'm slightly intimidated by them#for this person.. idk they're just kinda easy to talk to! which is fun!!!#it's always hard for me to talk to people online 😭 I'm so much better at holding convos irl or at least over calls/voice memos#even out of my irls I only have a couple who are easy to text..... bc I overthink my messages before I send them lol#so it's always nice to find someone who is easy to talk to ^_^#not that I have really talked to them much at all#anyway sorry for the vaguepost lol#at least it's positive! and hopefully not too weird. I promise I just think you are interesting and cool 😭😭#okay I'm still procrastinating on schoolwork so I should probably go. byee#ellyposting#I will also say NOBODY HERE (about the main subject of this post)#/NBH !!#but I love you all dearly mwah
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The beast.
#life update#I haven’t heard back from the job I got an interview for even though they said they’d call me so :(#I’ve been working out and eating better recently and my mom says I look nice so there’s that#but I’ve been growing apart from my friends which makes me sad#the style of friendship doesn’t work for me though#only texting and not seeing them in person much makes me feel lonely#that’s why I never really did make friends online I think?#I’m kinda flat broke but all things considered I feel decently ok#I think I’ll get a nice job soon#my dad keeps trying to get me to join the army tho#not my tranny ass no thank u. I’m not American but still#he also tried to send me out to the Alberta oil sands? also no. for SEVERAL reasons#I need a new cheap hobby to fill the void Pokémon cards are expensive to collect
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Pillows and blankets fucking me all the way up
#masterpiece of an episode and emotionally devastating on all counts#i had to have a frozen strawberry daiquiri on hand just to cope#they like each other so much they would hit each other with pillows forvever......FOREVER....... inconsolable......#I don't think i will ever be over troy calling abed a magical elf like man and then TWO EPISODES LATER sending the no one will ever have my#patience with you text#LIKE . i can absolutely sympathise with Troy's perspective as equally as abeds so i i get where that text came from but FUCK.#we're all magical elflike man until we're never going to have another friend again. even to a troy. but THEY LIKE EACH OTHER SO MUCH THEY'D#HIT EACH OTHER WITH PILLOWS FORVER AND THAT'S ENOUGH . EVEN IF THEY'LL NEVER QUITE SEE EACH OTHER THE SAME AGAIN#something's shifted and they still love each other so much just on a different level now#there's something about the childlike naivety of pre pillows and blankets. they just had each other and they didn't see anything beyonf that#HE WAS STILL A MAGICAL ELF LIKE MAN TO TROY#and now they're flawed to each other and it's all more real and more grown#THEY'RE CLOSER BUT THEY'RE NOT CLOSE IN THE SAME WAY. DO YOU UNDERSTAND ME#LEVAE ME ALONE DON'T TOUCH ME#i drank that daiquiri really fast okay😭 this is supposed to be a sitcom#alexprobablytalksshit#this episode is also very funny btw. on the comedy front#I'm just more focused on the psychological torment#community
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as someone who reads books about renaissance medicine and the impact that syphilis had on italy for fun, this is a faulty conclusion to arrive to for at least three different reasons and also fuck sanuto! you don't actually have to cite sanuto! we HAVE testimony from like, five different physicians and doctors and I PROMISE you if it was syphilis the doctor from naples would've said so in his own notes, SANUTO WASN'T EVEN THEREEEEE and also. the thing about when sanuto listed people who were afflicted with the french disease. it included syphilis but was NOT limited to syphilis because it had a lot more to do with diseases of war, and the diagnostic rubric of the time mean that (I am forcibly removed from the podium)
#STOP CITING SANUTO ALL OF YOU ARE SMARTER THAN THIS I SWEAR TO GOD#HE'S NOT A PRIMARY SOURCE HERE. he's not even a good secondary source! also i hate him as a person.#more importantly you HAVE primary sources and you HAVE references to medical texts from the time!!#milan had two really impressive centers for medical study!!!!! they wrote down their methodology!!!!!!! we know how they thought!#anyway i'll get back to the first collapse but the second illness sounds a lot like a really REALLY gnarly case of pneumonia#esp bc the vatican apartments were not. great. high key they sucked. live in the vatican at your own peril (literally)#i'll also bet money on malaria before i bet money on syphilis and also poisoning#altho they called malaria 'the roman fever' for awhile. like. stop going to rome. stop sending your sons there! just dont do it!!
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