#posted this on the wrong blog first whoops :|

[sleepis4theweak]

Inspired by my mom pulling the emergency call cord in the hospital because I got the hiccups when I was like a day old.

[tinymintywolf]

some doodles of my most recent marvel ocs

[zombii-ships]

SDJ BOYS

LOVE LANGUAGE HEADCANNONS

Jack -

Giving: Words of Affirmation

Jack loves giving compliments and praise and positive words for the day, he’s not Sunny Day Jack for nothing! He loves showing how much he loves you by telling you, and brightening your day wherever he can. Whether it be pet names, lots of “good jobs” or just generally giving you advice and encouragement, he just wants to make you smile.

Recieving: Quality Time

Jack LOVES spending time with you. He loves that you decided to take time out of your day just for him. If it’s planning out some time to do something together or just giving him a few extra minutes of your time, he thinks really highly of it. Knowing that he can be a priority in your life fills him with butterflies and makes him feel really important, he loves being thought of.

Joseph -

Giving: Acts of Service

This man LOVES making your day easier where he can. Whether it’s helping with a chore or grabbing you something special, or driving somewhere, being capable and dependable is something he knows means a lot. The man thinks highly of stability and wants to make sure you’re got it! Maybe it’s helping you with a project, making calls, or doing a little grocery run. He likes feeling helpful.

Recieving: Words of affirmation

Mans has some anxiety, probably some stress from his past, so it makes him feel safe when you give him encouragement and some positive reinforcement. “Thank you”, “you’re okay.”, “you’re important” and “I love you” goes really far with him. Hearing it coming from you really makes it feel real for him.

Shaun -

Giving: Quality Time

Shaun’s got a busy work life, we all know this! So when he really loves you, he takes time out of his schedule for you. He likes to be present, and he knows how much it means when someone is willing to be there and show up for you. Dude’s all about being a friend and being there for things that matter to you, plus he just likes to hang out and vibe!

Receiving - Acts of Service

Once again with that busy life…. Shaun’s beat by the time he’s done with a shoot or an edit or a table read, so having like some chores lessened, or a nice warm drink made after a long day means the WOLRD to him. Even if it’s something small like just carrying equipment to his car, it really means a lot to him. Making his life easier is a one way ticket into his heart.

Ian -

Giving - Physical Touch

Ian will give little touches to people he’s more comfortable with. The closer y’all are, the more often he’s holding your hand or giving hugs or hair touches, or just generally touching clothes or dusting you off. He seems like the type of dude to lovingly fix your hair or straighten out wrinkles or just hold your face or give hugs to his friends when he sees them.

Recieving- Gift Giving

A nice thoughtful gift? Something that made you think of him? A novelty thing based on a joke you share? Something for his acting? A cute good luck charm? He loves that you thought about it enough to get it for him. He also loves watching you get excited for him to look at whatever it is, and hes happy to accept once you two are close enough.

Nick -

Giving - Acts of Service

Nick likes to show he cares by keeping you safe. He loves having scary guard privileges and just taking you places. Words can escape him, so he likes to speak with his actions for his loved ones. He’s probably got like, notes in his phone of things to do that help you out when you’re not doing the best. Anything to help you relax.

Receiving: Physical Touch

Nick’s not a stranger to touch, but when it’s genuinely some from somebody he loves, he’s all about it. Chest touches, face touches, and just like, linking arms when you two go out makes him feel really proud. Give! This! Man! Hugs! Gentle touches! Hold pinkies! He will melt I know it!

[benevolenterrancy]

i have a killer headache today and for some reason "headache" made me think of "yunmeng siblings" so enjoy some doodled-at-work-while-waiting-for-the-ibuprofen-to-kick-in jiang chengs

[vantaray]

Silly Esen, you're not gonna beat the walking dictionary on nicknames

[trans-mephisto]

So that new chapter huh

Proshippers DNI

[saltiestbunny]

Queen of Wands (2020)

[meowzet]

hello, asexual community

the poll in question

[stemroses]

[snowfallenapocalypse]

A belated happy holidays from these three fools <3

[nanoa1foryou]

If your band doesn't have a silly weird drummer then is it even worth making the band?

[rokry]

4. Angel x Demon

[lit-in-thy-heart]

i should not have given myself the power of a sideblog

[anderjak]

i was thinking about making a big dumb long twitter thread, but since that site is dying, i'm posting it here:

all it really takes to be radicalized is learning how much is fakey-fake.

we cite gender as a social construct, which it is; it's entirely made up and shifts with the sands in the hourglass. but it's still pretty important for a lot of reasons.

laws are also a social construct; many of us collectively decided that there should be consequences for thing that hurt others, and we all shook hands and agreed that we'd punish people for doing those things. the fact that laws keep changing, being updated, being redacted, etc, is proof that we are quite literally making it up. most of them are just arbitrary ways of protecting us from ourselves.

money is also a social construct; bartering in and of itself is done under the belief of equivalent exchange, that to give also means to receive. we all did kinda collectively agree that, if we're gonna have a bartering system, it's better to use coins and scraps of paper instead of livestock and daughters to purchase goods and services and clout. (though we still kinda do this, it's just more frowned upon.)

we believe in these social constructs enough that defiance against these things is a pretty radical concept; part of the social contract (which in and of itself is a social construct!) is that we all agree to a certain subset of rules and expectations in order to not rub each other the wrong way or hurt each other, and violation of this upsets a so-called natural order.

what i'm saying is, social constructs are still treated as real and tangible, because many of the social constructs we have are important! they help inform us of our role in society.

however, a lot of social constructs are treated as facts of human nature, which isn't the case. one thing that kept fascinating me was the frequency in which i'd see autistic people play with gender, because, hey, if you're someone who misses social cues and often questions social constructs due to the way your brain works, it's a lot easier to perceive gender as a strictly optional selection of traits you can opt into and out of!

it also leads me to understanding why i know so many trans activists, communists, socialists, and anarchists; once you live a life wherein, as part of your modus of survival, you question a major social construct an entire culture builds itself around, markets toward, and enforces by way of marketing and storytelling and so forth. when you realize something's fakey-fake, it's a lot easier to be enraged by the idea that a lot of people simply agree that the social constructs we are expected to adhere to are inalienable and must be maintained at all costs, regardless of how many of these social constructs, like systemic bigotry, actively harm others in numerous overt and covert ways.

when you get to that point, it's a lot easier to finally start asking the question, "why DON'T we just abandon some of these things so we can actually improve our lives, especially if all they do is get in the way of genuine progress"

i think a good starting point of activism really does boil down to sitting with this idea that very few things we deal with and are affected by are in no way set in stone, and can absolutely be changed, and much of the resistance is folks who refuse to treat social constructs as anything but static and permanent.

[schoolhouseart]

any doodle requests? send them in my inbox and i MIGHT do them

[youvebeenlivingfictional]

I just slapped my monitor to kill a spider

(the monitor is fine)

(my nerves are not)

(I thought it was an emoji and then it started moving)