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#relaxing restrictions
cator99 · 2 months
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out of curiosity, would you consider yourself butch?
used to be a blonde underweight twink and now I'm a based jock still got the chanel bag and the sick albeit matured mind of a suckpig to prove it so I'm gonna let you decide whether you wanna call me that word just cuz I got a pussy and short hair. I promise you that there have been enough advancements made in the art of lesbian sexual dynamics in the past 50 years to broaden the vocabulary used to describe the plethora of types of masculine females.
#being called butch just reminds me of how much males have the freedom to navigate between male archetypes and how people pay attention to#the distinguishing features of these varying masculinities#but when a female is seen as masculine it all gets lumped under the “butch” category#her masculinity is seen as unnatural and therefore incapable of being considered genuine or taken at face value as it is with males.#its always brought into question instead of taken in consideration with the rest of the woman's life and experiences and her particularities#Hence... Butch is still being treated as though its a huge lesbian cultural phenomena instead of a specific niche thing#also i dont mean to invite the “you dont pass!!” anons again bc that idiot is missing my point entirely (which is that im truly not trying)#but the fact is that for the past 3 years i have found myself increasingly navigating the male social world#and discovering what it means to me as a female to have access to the ability to take my “masculinity” for granted... relax#forget about it#etc#i think thats entirely antithetical to the Butch thing which seems to rest on the tension of other peoples expectations of her#people broadly are more surprised to find out that im interested in women just as much as they're surprised that im a gym queen iykwim...#ive worked hard for this and now that ive gotten the Woman Social Role thing pretty much entirely out of the way i am living the dream#i think a large part of that is learning as a dyke to appropriate the language of gay men theres a reason their terminology had#staying power even when their scene was *literally* dying meanwhile all that seemed to survive from dyke spaces was butch n femme ??#its because theirs didnt necessitate the building and maintenance of a scene in order for the subculture to hold its head above water#their labels *largely* weren't predicated on their relationships to gender roles and its telling that for dykes it was#their labels rested on the need to simply show up anonymous n be able to easily flag whether they were looking to fuck or be fucked#alongside the set of circumstances under which they would be fucking or getting fucked or what have you#it all comes back to the restrictions of female social blah blah blah and i think the sooner we collectively set down what we see as our#responsibility as lesbians and as feminists to Be A Woman the sooner we can step outside of that#n start thinking clearly about our individual circumstances and the necessity of putting on your own oxygen mask first before helping others
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yayolover0 · 15 days
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I love the no hunger feeling after 3 days.
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artemispt · 5 months
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I might sound a bit dramatic but I worry about Lando. Yesterday he posted a MGK song about being lonely, depressed, sad etc. I think Martin saw that and suggested to join him in Amsterdam to cheer him up. It reminds me his new song "Carry You" which I think is about Lando. That's thoughtful and Lando deserves to enjoy himself but I fear he might try to forget his sadness with alcohol and maybe drugs...
I don't really think that's the case. Lando already said that he likes listening to sad songs and that doesn't necessary mean that he's really sad. Regarding him partying, it's just a 24 years old having fun. I honestly love watching him with his friends, living his life and having a good time. I don't believe he had the opportunity to do it when he was a teen (with all the work and tension)*, so good for him that he's enjoying himself now.
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3d-tr1p5 · 2 months
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i can fast for days then all i do is eat. how can i make my self control more consistent.
plzzz. im tired of feeling this way
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msyssir · 3 months
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yoshistory · 2 hours
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Kind of don't understand how I did so much today and how I'm not even wanting to collapse rn. I think I still have like adrenaline/babygirl needs watching instinctual feeling so I can't rest
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miodiodavinci · 1 year
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okay genuinely i think this might be my favorite pv i've made in a long time purely because the aesthetic and art direction is Solid As Fuck
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sonic-adventure-3 · 1 year
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damn i love tarot as a storytelling and framing device. i’m not much one for divination nor fate, so that aspect is kinda lost on me, however using tarot cards to frame and understand the past and stories and the general imagery of it is soooooo epic and dope to me.
anyway associating characters and stories with tarot cards is so fun i highly recommend it. i think it’s a very fun exercise.
anyway anyway sonic games as tarot:
sonic 1: the fool
satbk: death
06: justice
shadow: judgement
forces: the tower
battle: the hanged man
adventure: the star
unleashed: temperance
cd: wheel of fortune
frontiers: the sun
sonic riders: the magician
sa2: the moon
okay thats everything i could think of and i’m not certain about some of my choices but this is really hard so many stories fit multiple cards. i mean, you could genuinely apply every card to almost every game if you angle things right. i tried to assign them based on the theme/plot/end of each game, like a general sense of what the game is about, and apply just one major arcana per game with no duplicates, but idk how well i succeeded. the ones i feel strongest about are definitely satbk as death, 06 as justice, and shth as judgement; i think those fit really well.
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andersdotters · 1 year
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Apparently Alhaitham has canonically read The Boar Princess, which uh... I suppose shows that he is at the very least not a snob when it comes to choosing books to read.
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yayolover0 · 1 month
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School started finally so i can starve and just go to sleep😽
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6okuto · 6 months
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Omg I love your headcanons so much. Like. They’re written the way I discuss my visions of the characters with my friends yknow?? But they’re also so well thought out??? It’s beautiful
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!! GAH!!! THANK U FRIEND!!! i imagine i'm talking to somebody so it's fun to know it's read that way! and vry relieving to hear it seems thought out LOL. like i Do think a Lot, but sometimes it feels like i'm just typing to type & i can't tell if i seem silly 😭😭🫶
didn't think beautiful was a word someone might use 4 my stuff btw. especially not my hcs LOL. kicks a pebble and pushes hair behind my ear and looks around bashfully... i will keep trying to write even better! 🙆🏻‍♀️🫂
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3d-tr1p5 · 7 months
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🚬🩰 Tris🩰 🚬
Height: 5"8
CW: 143.6lbs
GW: 125lbs
BMI: 22.2
Short for Trissa.
2003 baby (20 y/o)
she/her
Replacing a raging drinking problem with an old ED. Diet coke & ciggys have my heart. Training as a pre-professional dancer. 🤍🤍
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paskariu · 8 months
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ANTIVAXXERS FUCK OFF FROM INFRONT OF MY HOME CHALLENGE
WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY
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weirdfishy · 2 years
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the bucket job when alexadra and sophie are walking side by side, it sort of struck me as telling of their positions. idk if it was intentional but the way that theyʻre composing themselves is so different--
alexandra is throwing her body around a bit more- hips jut out a tad further to be entirely due to walking in heels, the way the dress bares her shoulders draws attention to the fact that sheʻs moving them with purpose, her legs come a little quicker and farther out --- and yeah reading body language as a tell-all is shit and ableist irl but these are actors and theyʻre playing a part so bear w me -- itʻs like sheʻs strutting like someone who is desperate to get somewhere but has to act cool about it and is failing. itʻs as if she has to inject herself with pride and confidence (sophie deveraux has quite the reputation). like alexandra is postulating, almost a marionette holding up its own strings in the face of a closed pair of scissors.
also, her clutch is also-ha-clutched in her hand the whole time, tight and stiff. + her still business-black symmetrical dress of an unforgiving yet flattering material & short, practical stilettos with the slightly widened base? itʻs almost exactly what we usually see on her - all black & not a single thing out of place- no jewelry sans earrings too, even for a social event. always business and never pleasure.
against sophie, who walks with a comfortable grace, her strides coming at a slightly more languid pace- sheʻs at ease here (arguably, she always is, at a party) and if sheʻs apprehensive at meeting with this woman-- well, you wouldnʻt catch sophie devereaux doing something like giving her true feelings away During A Con, now would you? (and then we donʻt really get her thoughts on alexandra this ep & i donʻt think we really do for the rest of the season...)
sophieʻs clutch, on the other hand, she waves hers around like an extension of herself, speaking with it and keeping it loose in her grip. (sophie is an actor, she uses the props she has on hand, always making it all seem intentional). + the soft material, muted green, asymmetrical dress sheʻs got on, with a fun and complimenting pale gold heels and clutch. we all know sophie is fashionable and loves dressing up (grifter/actress). sophieʻs business mixes with her pleasure.
thereʻs prob even more in the dialogue -- "you think iʻm scared of you" - "or youʻre jealous" sophie is almost flippant with it, as if she couldnʻt care less &
"i donʻt negotiate with amateurs" like theyʻre both used to the world theyʻre in, but sophie is quite a bit more comfortable where she is
ANYWAY though, obviously, since alexandra is a new character, iʻm making a lot more shot-in-the-twilight assumptions, and this dichotomy iʻm taking in could be the show leaning into the fact that sophieʻs been a character we know and love and alexandra is the complete opposite. idk their opposing walks just struck me an hour ago and spurred me to peer a lil closer
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sunnishine · 2 years
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piixielix > sunnishine
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omarfor-orchestra · 1 year
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Io non ce la faccio più
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