#signs of

[florasolarsystem]

Signs you may be going through a period with worse communication, higher Dissociation or amnesia:

Based on our experiences we remember

For us it's really hard to pick up on this, and do anything to help with it due to being unaware of how out of it we are. It helps to know a few things that tend to indicate (for us at least) if we're going through a period like this.

Losing things. The easiest one to catch is losing things, even more than normal. With did we often misplace things but when it start happening more and we begin losing things we might have even just been holding repeatedly it often means frequent switches or more Dissociation/amnesia.

Losing track of a conversation. For us his happens regularly but when it begins happening to the point that before replying to any message we have to scroll up and work out what was being discussed or if our irl friends have to answer the same question repeatedly because we forgot it (and I mean like- maybe five times in one conversation) that's not a good sign

Not looking in mirrors, even to do our hair, put in earrings or skincare etc. For us this is a frequent sign if we for an "unknown" reason start randomly stopping parts of our routine that involve mirrors. It normally means were very out of it and seeing the body confuses us more or makes us distressed. Which only happens for long periods and more intensely if we're very dissociated or switchy.

Getting lost, an obvious sign but thought I shoudk add it. For example a week ago someone fronted and tried walk to the library, it's a twenty minute simple walk from or house and one we've done a hundred times before. They got so lost they had to use a combination of google maps and help from a friend.

Ignoring messages, especially accidentally. Partly due to forgetting and partly due to who-the-heck-is-texting-me??

For us if we can't find a song or playlist to listen to or that were enjoying at the time for a few days or longer there's a pretty good chance were either really dissociated or switching to often to find something we enjoy for more than a few minutes

Keep in mind that this is just what we noticed for us personally, and losing things a few times may not mean you're more out of it than normal but all of these together (and there were more signs I just forgot them (ha ironic almost-)) were a pretty good indicator for us, when we looked back on them.

This is just based off personal experience, feel free to add more!

[alwayswiselight]

Just as a reminder.

[butchfalin]

the funniest meltdown ive ever had was in college when i got so overstimulated that i could Not speak, including over text. one of my friends was trying to talk me through it but i was solely using emojis because they were easier than trying to come up with words so he started using primarily emojis as well just to make things feel balanced. this was not the Most effective strategy... until. he tried to ask me "you okay?" but the way he chose to do that was by sending "👉🏼👌🏼❓" and i was so shocked by suddenly being asked if i was dtf that i was like WHAT???? WHAT DID YOU JUST SAY TO ME?????????? and thus was verbal again

[hometoursandotherstuff]

Experience the Moth.

[am-i-the-asshole-official]

Once again, we do not accept "aita for feeling" submissions here, please stop sending them.

[thecollectibles]

Zodiac series by Rozenn Grosjean

[thunderon]

so my roommate is completely straight edge like no drugs no alcohol etc and so im sure y’all can imagine my surprise when i saw she brought home this sign

so i immediately inquired

and now you may ask. what the fuck did my roommate think that sign meant? well

anyways i moved the sign so it’s now front and center in our living room and ive been laughing every time i pass it

[lucdoodle]

He doesn't care at all

[hymnism]

my one wish for studio trigger is that they don't draw laios like a dehydrated twink when he takes his shirt off if he doesn't look exactly like this in the anime i will cry and scream

EDITING THIS TO INCLUDE THE COMMENTS I DON'T WANT PEOPLE REBLOGGING THIS WITHOUT THEM

[magpiedminx]

From Misa on Wheels

[draw-the-squad-like-this]

Draw your characters like this

[53v3nfrn5]

K.E.N-Digit: ‘Hand Signs of Love’ (2019)

[fullcolorfright]

Relax! This Book is Just a Phase You're Going Through: Gay Comics from Christopher Street, by Charles Ortleb and Richard Fiala, 1978.

[ryuzumisama]

Chilchuck Timbs 👞

[anthropophageartist]

danger

[lavendervirgos]

"I'm not done with you yet" while they pull you back for another kiss. Or fuck you silly.