#sorry i’m just being bitchy

[thinkingabout-girls]

‼️ my comment section has moved on to blatant misogyny ‼️

i don’t even have anything against chilshi as a ship it’s just REALLY interesting to me how when i mention farcille it’s “ohhhh it’s just headcanons and shippers it’s not even supported by canon” “falin would never” but when someone brings up the canon relationship between chilchuck and his wife they’re ALLL ABOUT shipping. it’s just very interesting is all.

[gilmores-glorious-blog]

gotta say… i do feel bad for tv show writers trying to wrap up a show because i have never. in my life. seen people happy with a show finale. and like yeah obviously there’s valid complaints a lot of the time and sometimes a finale really is just that awful *cough cough* voltron *cough cough* but like,,, jesus christ people cut these folks some slack. it’s so hypocritical to be obsessed with a show and then the second it ends and something didn’t end up the way you wanted it to, to immediately decide you hate it now.

[whydotheycallmechimney]

being one of the only people who understands the nuances of hayley and elijah is a hard job, but nevertheless…I shall persevere

[hand-of-devotion]

I've come around on Callowmoore and in doing so realized my main problem with them originally was part of the fandoms insistence on chalking them up to being "a sexy provocative woman being sexy next to a sexy gruff man". Where as I can only enjoy them through the lens of their autistic arospec t4t weirdness.

[samglyph]

I watch one booktube video and then suddenly that’s all my recommended is which is a shame. Because I really dislike booktube.

[starlooove]

Ok but the Duke in my mind having the feeling that those who choose vigilantism have a responsibility to uphold the SECOND they curate a space where others are reliant on them + Cass solely wanting to fight at first and putting the mission above all else due to not caring about herself being Bruces (who also puts the mission above all else and feels a responsibility to Gotham that he knows will kill him one day) favorite kids

[touchlikethesun]

”why do you want to still be friends with that guy aren’t you constantly complaining about them?” yes i am bc they’re a pretentious dick, but who else am i going to be a pretentious dick with if not them???

[byakuyasdarling]

I hate liking my F/O’s canon source but hating that unavoidable part of the fandom

like I’m happily scrolling through my dash and checking a mutual’s blog for updated posts and liking some stuff and in the “blogs like this one” one of the posts is an artwork of the one ship I cannot stand (I’m mostly fine with other pairings with him and even like some (probs because I kin those girls lol)) BUT I COULDN’T EVEN RECOGNISE IT AT FIRST I WAS LIKE “that kind of looks like … oh. Shit taste I see.” LIKE IM SORRY BUT THE LIMITED SHIP ART IVE SEEN OF THAT SHITHOLE OF A SHIP ISNT GREAT??? Maybe it’s because they’re fucking 14?? Don’t know why else you would ship it unless you’re young and haven’t developed critical thinking and basic common sense of what’s healthy LMAO 🚶‍♂️🚶‍♂️

[judasisgayriot]

unless we’re doing this literally and physically then burning the remains I’m not interested

[oooooooooooo3]

the thing is that like…… there ARE fics w this characterization. if u think tsats is ooc because you’re so used to the fanon characters. ur reading the wrong fics.

[duck-era-lexi]

that dating announcement makes me wonder like why tf are these people famous 🤧

[deityofhearts]

Im glad I can be a bitch in xenas server

[jackienautism]

maybe i’m just being a Bitch about it but like … is anyone sad at how lesbian is mainly used as an umbrella term? like. we don’t even really have our own term

[mathewmurdocks]

this is your public service announcement, reminding you that posting NEGATIVE opinions on content creators posts is shitty. if a content creator posts about something, they obviously like it and put time and effort into making it. if you don’t like the post, you can keep scrolling or make your own post. keeping your mouth shut and letting people enjoy things isn’t that hard.

[mothmansboyfriend]

Someone having a bad attitude/rude articulation is not the same as someone being personally mean/harmful/offensive to you.

If you can walk away from a discussion confident that neither of you said anything worth wishing you could take back then congratulations: you’ve had the real life equivalent of a negative friendliness action in the Sims and there are NO permanent negative bodily consequences! Get back on the horse, your next social interaction with someone else could easily be far better.

My hands get tense and painful when I feel socially rejected, I can fully understand it sucks bad to receive attitude you feel undeserving of especially when you perceive yourself as working hard for unconscious social praise. But just like two autistics with different stimulation needs can’t both be happy in the exact same environment “made for autistics”, not everyone can have a pleasant reaction in a social convention “meant to be pleasant” because people can’t control their physical symptoms of frustration any more than I can control that my mind goes blank and I stutter or go silent when I’m genuinely (and irrationally) scared about answering simple questions.

As humans we are all owed common decency. Common decency is not semi-conditional kindness. It’s just respect for the unknown of a person. Offering basic comforts/requirements as you feel is natural, non-threatening environment for your personal life, acknowledging you exist when you arrive and wishing you well when you depart. That is common decency. Smiling, speaking in a specific tone, and forcing your body language to work for the comfort of a group rather than flow naturally as you react to stimuli, that is kindness. It’s nice to receive kind actions from strangers, but no one is owed these things. Even if you paid for a burger or got lost in the supermarket for two hours.

[samglyph]

I’m starting to think some of you don’t realize what the little ‘alt’ in the corner of those pictures is