#source: f.r.i.e.n.d.s

[slashingdisneypasta]

Incorrect Quote

Baby and Foxy, getting their hands on a motor scooter: OOOH! Otis!! Can we ride this outside! ??

Otis: Whatever, okay? I'm not your fucking dad.

Baby and Foxy: *rush outside*

Otis: ... WAIT NOT IN THE FUCKEN STREET, THOUGH--

[agir1ukn0w]

you guys don’t understand. chandler was my best friend. he was my pal. he was my homeboy. my rotten soldier. he was my sweet cheese. my good-time boy🥺

[farfarahleeya]

“there is happiness after you, but there was happiness because of you” – Taylor Swift

This week, I’d like to explore how fandoms allow us to escape from our troubles, thus becoming a coping mechanism. But before I begin, I’d like to bring you back to the first half of that lyric that hints at a deeper truth – that even after we return to the sometimes harsh embrace of reality, there is an enduring happiness. A great reminder that a current source of happiness is not your only source of happiness. Also, for this post, I shall be drawing on my own experiences. Let’s start!

Trigger Warning --- eating disorder, depression

Introduction

Much like hobbies, fandoms are something we hold close to our hearts. They keep us entertained, they spark our interests, they light up our days. Now here is the question I’ll explore in this post: Can fandom be a form of escapism or a way to cope with real-life challenges? Let’s explore this relationship between fandom and real-life.

Escapism through fandom

Fandoms have become gateways for people to escape to fictional worlds, even if the fictional world isn’t inherently better, they find comfort in the fact that it’s of a different reality. Like the Marvel universe that’s constantly faced with extraterrestrial threats, I enjoy watching their movies and television series because I like to imagine myself as one of those superheroes skilfully battling 7 villains at once. When I first started watching the movies, it was my form of escape from the reality of my eating disorder that rendered me underweight and weak.

Coping with real-life challenges

Fandoms are also ways to cope with real-life struggles. For instance, 3 years ago in the depths of my despair, I became dependent on watching the television series, F.R.I.E.N.D.S. It was a comfort to watch the characters navigate through their life with their close friends. Then, I would watch the series over and over again to feel the same comfort. I escaped the loneliness of my reality through the lenses of their friendships and repeated episodes to cope with my anxiety of the unknown. Though the show did not solve my problems, it was a significant part of my life because it gave me hope that someday, I would have my group of friends to go through life with me.

Sense of belonging

After I watch a show or a movie or read a book, I would go to TikTok to see what everyone else’s take on it is. Thus entering me into the fan community of the media. I don’t only watch these videos to see who has a similar opinion as I do, but I also like to see if someone notices a detail I missed, or if they have interesting theories or alternate endings. These things validate my experiences which in turn instils a sense of belonging for me in the fandom. And when I decide to interact with these videos by commenting, I would often end up sparking friendships with those in the fandom as well.

Creative outlets

I’m sure you’ve seen art and merchandise made by fans. It’s a thing because sometimes the official merchandise just isn’t cool enough or just isn’t our style. And so becomes the overlap of hobbies and fandoms. Taylor Swift’s current world tour, The Eras Tour, has taken this for a colourful twirl. Fans attending the concert have started a tradition of designing friendship bracelets to trade with each other as a fan experience. They also share their various creative designs with each other, turning it into a fun activity before the concert itself. Some of these friendship bracelets have even reached the donning of Taylor’s mother, Andrea Swift. Fan projects like these hold a fulfilling allure as they not only provide a chance for fans to connect deeply with each other but also offer the tangible joy of creating memory keepsakes transforming shared fandom into enduring, physical symbols of camaraderie.

Escapism vs avoidance

My last point in this discussion is the fine line between escapism and avoidance. While finding solace in fandoms can be a comforting escape, it is important that we recognise the risks of excessive immersion. Too much reliance on fictional worlds or temporary sources of happiness may lead to neglecting real-life challenges. It is imperative that we recognise and acknowledge when escapism has turned into avoidance. And when this happens, we should always seek necessary and professional help to ensure a healthy relationship with the things that make us happy. Thus fostering resilience in facing life’s realities.

Conclusion

In conclusion, fandoms undeniably serve as both escapism and coping mechanisms, offering solace and connection. However, we must find a balance that enhances well-being. We should embrace the positive and supportive facets of fandom, avoid judgement and have an open mind when approaching fandom communities where diverse sources of happiness are celebrated. In short, be kind, everyone’s fighting battles you don’t know about.

[oregonphotobus]

5 Ways Photo Booths Offer Luxury Experience To Wedding Guests

When it comes to fun events or participating in a wedding, the list can be unending. Usually, photo booths are left with a big wedding event list, but what if they create the best memories? 

Wedding vows and cake-cutting ceremonies are memorable, no doubt, but what you are offering to your guests is equally necessary. Here’s when a photo booth can immortalize your precious moments. 

If you are currently looking for wedding rentals in Bend, a photo booth can be your best choice. 

Read on to discover how to make your weddings the event of the century with the best photo booth ever. 

Tips To Make Your Photo Booths Memorable 

Choose the Right Props 

Photo booths become perfect once you customize them to your event theme. They allow you to customize props, wallpapers, and frames in any theme. 

Good lighting is the secret ingredient for your stunning images. Make sure to add good lighting to your photo booth to eliminate red eyes and improve your skin tones. 

Invest in backdrops that complement your wedding theme. It is advisable to add LED-lit backdrops to avoid unnecessary shadows or reflection in your pictures. 

Check for Spacious Setups 

A spacious placement can ensure a successful photo booth setup. Even if you are looking for a pre-wedding photoshoot in Bend, an arrangement with enough space is needed.

Make sure that guests can stand freely and interact without feeling claustrophobic and click pictures without congestion. 

However, transportable photo booths arranged in caravans and buses can save your space in outdoor settings and help you with creative solutions. 

Theme-based Customization 

Your perfect photo booth is the one that can be customized to your liking. For instance, if the bride's favorite TV show is F.R.I.E.N.D.S., and you wish to turn the wedding pictures into her favorite theme, your photo booth can help. 

You can customize props, frames, and wallpapers with cute cutouts and iconic lines from the TV show. Those who know or relate to it might be super excited. Maybe someone just like Monica in your family may find her Chandler in a photo booth. 

On-site Management 

Only some people know the right angle for the best photographs. Having an on-site attendee in a photo booth can give you professional help. As you book your wedding rentals in Bend, make sure all are well managed. 

It is wise to hire someone with a good knowledge of photography. They might assist you with the quirky poses and the right angles to make your photographs like a celebrity’s wedding album. 

Provide Instant Printables 

Even though digital galleries have captured our everyday lives, who doesn’t love a good old-fashioned physical photo album? However, it is a hassle to segregate and sort out each batch of photographs for your wedding guests. 

You can arrange for instant printables at your photo booth. With Polaroid cameras, your guests can get hold of instant colored photographs of their special moments. This will ease your struggle to sort out separate photos. 

Moreover, polaroid images are unique in their retro-themed colors, adding a touch of warmth to your memories.

Conclusion 

The photo booth is a stage where your event’s story unfolds. Wedding Photo Booths are an excellent source of entertainment and a great way to create memories. They are not just about attractive photographs but also help you enhance your social circle. 

Is there a wedding coming up? Try out the tips mentioned above to make your wedding memorable.

[springmagpies]

Collection of ATLA and TLOK as Sitcoms Memes:

1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | 10 | 11 | 12 | 13 | 14

[incorrect-nivanfield-quotes]

Chris: You’re so great. I love you.

Piers: What did you say?

Chris: Nothing. I said ‘you’re so great,’ and then I just stopped talking.

[incorrect-sheith-quotes]

Keith: You’re so great. I love you.

Shiro: What did you say?

Keith: Nothing. I said ‘you’re so great,’ and then I just stopped talking.

[slashingdisneypasta]

Incorrect Quote

Jennifer and Y/N arguing over which Slasher gets to be their 'Back up' (Back up husband in case they dont find anyone by 40).

Y/N: Alright!, you know what!? I know how we're gonna settle this. Alright, here- this is what we're gonna do.

Y/N: I am gonna write Freddy on one napkin and I'm gonna write Jason on the other napkin, and we are going to pick one.

Y/N: And that person is gonna be our back up!

Y/N: Okay here we go- *Shuffles the napkins around so no one knows which is which anymore, then holds them behind their back* Uhuh- Okay, pick one.

Jennifer: Uhh, hmm... left!

*Jennifer and Y/N read their napkins*

Y/N: uh- Jason!

Jennifer: ... Freddy.

Y/N: ... hm

Jennifer: Hm.

Y/N: ... we should just switch-

Jennifer: *Handing over her napkin immediately* Yep-

[bloodypriestess]

Hans, sees Elsa from across the room: Ooooh, she's pretty. (stammers) Pretty, uh, pretty girl. The pretty... she's pretty.

Anna, encouraging: Well, just go up and ask her out.

Hans, scoffs: Yeah.

Anna: What's the worst thing that could happen?

Elsa: (demonstrates her ice powers)

Hans: I could die.

Source: F.R.I.E.N.D.S. S4E5 + my edits

❄💙🤍❄

#helsa #helsa au #frozenverse au (?) #i just want a warm and fluffy au #🥺 where #reigning Queen Elsa has full control of her powers #Hans is a young diplomat from the Southern Isles in the Arendellian Court #courtship au #anna ships helsa #anna matchmaker #BrOTP Hanna #OTP Kristanna

[stars-a-n-d-scars]

Lily: Do you know ANYTHING about chicks?

James: Poultry? No.

James: Women 😏?

James: ... no.

[incorrect-fenhawke-quotes]

Hawke: I got a question for you.

Fenris: Okay.

Hawke: Did you ever think about the future?

Fenris: Sure I do.

Hawke: Yeah, am I in it?

Fenris: Hawke, you are it.

[springmagpies]

Alternatively

Collection of ATLA and TLOK as Sitcoms Memes:

1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | 10 | 11 | 12 | 13 | 14

[totallyaccurate-hamilquotes]

Washington: Do you have a plan?

Lee, already running away: I don't even have a 'pla'

[incorrectrotbtdquotes]

Rapunzel: How do you spell your name?

Merida: It’s M as in Merida, E as in Erida, R as is Rerida, I as in Irida, D as in Derida, and A as in ‘Allo there, mate!

[dancearoundallalone]

Reggie : It will be okay 👉👈

Alex : *fretting and traipsing about the room* Will it ? *shouts* WILL IT ?

[hayffiebird]

Haymitch: Not that it’s any of your business but we did go out.

Chaff: Really? You two?

Haymitch: Yeah! Eff?

Effie: Come on, I don’t really want to be doing this right now. I am carrying a very heavy mentor.

Haymitch: Then tell him quickly.

Effie: Fine! We went out.

Haymitch: Not only did we go out, we did it... 298 times!

Effie: Haymitch! Oh, my... argh! You kept count? You are such a loser!

Haymitch: A loser you did it with 298 times!