To all of the healers, protectors, nurturers, and empaths:
It's NOT your duty to help, save, or heal everyone. Some people just simply can't be helped or saved. Also, remember some people are getting the things that they dished out to others, back to them, meaning they're receiving and facing their consequences. That's something that they have to deal with on their own. 🤍
"Cis woman" isn't a real term, the government shouldn't have more power over the education of our children than the family, communism has never worked and will never work, "birthing person, uterus owner, menstruating person" or any other laughable term is actually harmful to women, men presenting as women in women sports is just a big no because they are not women, the traditional family is constantly under attack, the left is cringy, abortion is not healthcare, feminism is no longer what it was when it started, patriotism is good and white people hating white people is like shooting your own foot.
And I am not afraid to say it. Call me whatever you want
to ppl who say it’s unrealistic for everyone to be gay in stranger things. you’re wrong because you’d be lying if you said you haven’t observed the phenomenon of a group of friends who are all “straight” individually finding themselves and coming out in sequence.
Any Shawol, or other K-Pop fan that has been through something similar, YOU DO NOT NEED TO PROVE THAT YOU ARE A BIG FAN OF A GROUP/IDOL FOR RANDOM STRANGERS ON THE INTERNET! If they don’t believe you or they’re accusing you of something you’re not, do not destroy your self worth just to stay with them.
Better people will come through when you least expect it, and I’m living proof that this exists. I left social media for months due to cyber bullying for being a Blinger (a SHINee fan that is Jonghyun biased) and decided to go to cupsleeve events to find K-Pop fans. By chance, I met two K-Pop fans on the streets of Piccadilly Circus/Oxford Circus that are super into K-Pop and love me for who I am without changing or removing any aspect of my identity. Pretty much, I feel comfortable talking about SHINee and Jonghyun with them without feeling awkward or judged. Everything is two-sided, authentic and this is the first time I ever felt like I wasn’t second priority in a friendship. I met other great Shawols too, but I just had to show my latest win.
If finding friends online isn’t working for you, then you can take a break and find friends elsewhere. Just because we’re living in the 21st century, doesn’t mean EVERYONE is looking for friends online. You got to try and find a place that makes you feel welcome and comfortable. There’s plenty of places that you could find, or you could just be lucky and bumped into the right person at the right time. Just get yourself out there and you could find someone without realising it.