#stop projecting

[devildmeggs]

“omg nanami is SUCH a workaholic”

isn’t his binding vow essentially “if i have to be here for even ONE SECOND more than im supposed to be, then give me the strength to end this bitch immediately” ?? weren’t some of his first words in his intro “work is shit!!” ? we are not watching the same show i fear, im locked in when he’s on screen

[lukeynewtssimp]

When Nic is out and about with her bf all I see from Lukolas is pure hate and disdain for them both. It’s only now that the man brought out his gf that suddenly everyone is okay with it. Does that seem like equal treatment to you? Where was your defense before this?

You’re happy and proud of him for finally claiming her but where is the happiness for Nic? I’m still talking about Lukolas in general.

Do you not see the people saying he’s finally with someone well matched with him? And when people said the same hateful things after premiere night because of that stunt where was the support for Nic? You think his choices didn’t affect her, whether it was intentional or not?

This side of the fandom is extremely male-centered and you just don’t want to admit it. I am still very much hoping to be proved wrong in the future.

Wow okay there is a lot to unpack here.

Let me start by saying that my blog is very new. I only started posting like a month or so ago so excuse me for my lack of defence back when Nic apparently “needed” it.

Neither of them “need” anybody to defend them lol. We don’t get brownie points for proving we are their number one fan. They literally have no fucking clue who I am and don’t care to find out either. I just use my platform to express my love for the people I am a fan of and the things I am passionate about and to express my frustration at things and behaviours that annoy me. That’s the point of having a personal blog.

idk how to make it any clearer. Like it’s literally in my username, yea I am a fan of Nicola too but I’m a bigger fan of Luke. We all have our faves so I don’t get why you’re so angry that Luke is mine.

Yes I see the very small number of people making comments like that about Antonia looking good next to Luke or whatever. I choose to ignore it because I have seen a very small number of these comments and me talking about it would only amplify these pathetic people’s voices. I obviously do not agree with this take. It is rooted in fatphobia and those people can say whatever they want but they do not speak for Luke or Nic.

Nic is not some self conscious young girl waiting for a man to notice how beautiful she is. The fact that you think Luke’s decisions about who he’s dating affected her, then you’re the problem. You’re the one painting Nicola as this desperate girl crying for attention. Nic is a confident and very sexy woman and she fucking owns it and knows it. She literally ruled 2024 and has gained so much popularity last year as she deserves. And you know what? Luke knows it too and that man, unlike what you and other people think, is not and was never ashamed to show that he’s attracted to her and finds her beautiful and sexy and smart and talented. He’s not the most talkative when it comes to that stuff, that man literally blushes at everything. But his actions speak louder than his words. Just because he is dating a woman who doesn’t look like Nic does not mean he does not find Nic attractive and it also does not mean he rejected Nic by doing so.

As @jenhack beautifully put in the comments: Nic is not bothered! She is busy talking to other SAG nominees and being lauded by her peers. She does not need to, or have to be defined by any man she is connected with.

Crazy Lukolas do not only hate on Jake and Nic but they also hate on Luke and Antonia. Have you seen all the nasty stuff they have called this poor girl?

Sorry this has been very long but I just need everybody to stop projecting their hurt feelings and traumas on Nicola and Luke PLEASE!

PS: the “you” is not just aimed at you specifically anon, but everybody who agrees with that discourse of Luke hurting Nic by dating another woman and taking her to the premieres that I am tired of hearing about. And let’s not forget Nic took Jake to that premiere too…

[sun-kissed-eyes]

Lukolas keep moving the goal post.

and I'm asking them to please have some sense and logic, because this is what they're doing :

Lukolas: "listen ONLY to what Nicola and Luke say, ignore everything else"

Nicola: "he's just my friend, he's a very dear friend"

Lukolas: "NO, absolutely not, I don't believe it, she's lying just like Tom and Zendaya did!!!"

The jokes write themselves. I thought you asked her to say he's just her friend and then you would leave them alone. There you have it. Now what ?

Free Nicola from lukolas.

[megismyname]

Let’s have fun today instead of focusing on background characters that don’t matter and analyzing social media behaviors. I know even the most bitter of you have it in you somewhere! 😘

HAPPY HALLOWEEN! 🎃

[lazykurocat]

how many times are y'all gonna make me tap the damn sign? stap it~ awww sillies, stop projecting it's not a good look y'know

[janesurlife]

He literally posted a photo of Carlos 😭 y'all need to leave the poor guy alone

[tommykinard6]

I think 9-1-1 fandom chronically forgets that Buck is not only extremely well practiced at sex, but also quite good at it.

For the love of god, why are you portraying him as a BLUSHING VIRGIN?!

[thefangdomcryptid]

I have a lot of things that annoy me in fandoms, and the biggest one is probably how people always throw around "just admit you want to fuck him" or "you only like him because he's pretty," or some other cringy cishet take.

Like, some of us are not sexually attracted to people/characters because you know... We're Ace or Lesbians? Like, yes I can see that someone is handsome af, I'm not blind, but like fuck him or his character? No thank you.

[alazarrr]

….go for Yours!

[whosnikisha]

Me sending my ex kisses sarcastically when he’s trying to make fun of me because I don’t give 2 fucks!!!

(He’s just projecting it’s okie ☺️)

[lukeynewtssimp]

that bianca person followers speaking ill of luke and saying he played them is insane like when did he even play them? the man only called nic a friend nothing more nothing less how is he an evil man now for going to an event with his gf & it isnt even first time he take her to an event he took her to that GQ event thing too

I can’t confirm if this is true because thankfully all these blogs have blocked me and saved me from witnessing all the craziness.

I was, however, sent some hateful comments that were made on many of these blogs and it’s just all so funny to me. If you wanna hate anybody for deceiving you, why don’t you hate these bloggers who planted these crazy ideas in your head instead of hating on Luke and Nic who literally have repeatedly told you that they were friends. Luke never said he was in love with Nic or that they are together in any capacity beyond friendship!

I have also seen some comments justifying the hate towards Luke, saying that it’s understandable because the majority of this fandom is made up of women who identify with Pen…. Do you realise how fucking insane you sound?!?! First of all Nic is not Pen and Luke is not Colin, get that through your thick head. They don’t live in that fantasy world you’ve completely made up in your mind….

They’re only proving what we have been saying all along: they use Nic as a self-insert, project all their hopes and dreams and hurt on her and live vicariously through her. So in their minds Luke not being with her means he somehow rejected them?? Make it make sense. Also, i just find it ridiculous they’d ever even compare themselves to Nic when they wish they had an ounce of that woman’s beauty. Be for fucking real and grow the fuck up! That’s real life people, it’s not some crazy fanfic.

I could really go on and on about this but I’ll just leave it here for now because no amount of talking will change these people’s mindsets.

[melaninpov]

News Flash:

Not all melanated brothers who date outside of their community have self hatred. Not all dislike or disrespect melanated sisters. Not all have a preference that doesn’t include you. My husband has dated white women in the past. So what? He loves women period. Please stop projecting your insecurities.

The same women who clowned Majors for his afrocentric features are upset that his ex is white. Accusing him of being anti black when it is them exemplifing that anti behavior. Make it make sense!!

[newathens]

i don’t understand why ppl react to tsats criticism by saying fans would prefer nico to remain depressed, don’t want his character to progress, etc etc. writing is an art and a skill and, the same as other mediums, it has a list of requirements to be considered quality work. if it cannot even meet those specific requirements, you can criticize it from that alone. you don’t even need to touch the characters

[queen-morgana91]

The idea that Jon will hate the Targaryens and his father is so clearly self projection that it's a fucking parody at this point

[fellhellion]

Dooming select people is whatever, Miguel’s REAL worst decisions were being an ass to Miles when he was trying to connect via speaking Spanish and throwing the food Miles brought (BECAUSE MILES LISTENED WHEN IT WAS MENTIONED HE LIKES THEM) back at him, like I can excuse reinforcing the canon out of despair and self loathing, BUT I DRAW THE LINE AT BEING MEAN TO MILES HE WAS JUST TRYING TO BE NICE

[anxiousgirl]

the most insecure people I know are always (uncoincidentally) the one’s who talk the most shit