#the victim blaming on Twitter

[thefawnfallacy]

You don’t have to like sebaciel or the many undertones it presents in the series but it’s actually getting to the point where insistent ignorance of the sexual nature Ciel is presented in can be dangerous. Fiction does not exist on a 1:1 scale with reality but just using this fictitious scenario of Ciel being sexualised (by Yana herself) while having a panic/asthma attack and it being called “not actually sexual” or sebaciel fans being called “delusional” when pointing out the erotic nature of, not just this, but the many instances in which the viewer is meant to see Ciel in a sensual manner, is concerning.

You should be able to identify a sexual situation, even if it’s a situation in which the things happening are not inherently sexual. One of the main components of grooming is that is does not start out sexual, there’s a buildup to that in which the groundwork has already been laid. I’ll say it again, you should be able to identify when something sexual is happening without it being inherently sexual.

Yes, Ciel is repeatedly sexualised canonically, it is not being used to mock shippers, he simply exists in a very erotic manner in many situations using a variety of different ways to depict it, most commonly being flower language. No, you are not “morally correct” for not enjoying it, you just find it uncomfortable or triggering and that’s fine. Yes, you should be able to see that he’s being sexualised because he’s fake and if you cannot see it then there’s a chance of not being able to see this in real life, whether it be a friend, a child in your care, or even yourself.

Not being able to identify the sexual nature a character can be presented in is not a good thing. It doesn’t mean you “aren’t a porn addict”, it doesn’t mean you “aren’t a bad person” and it certainly doesn’t mean you are “not a pedophile, like those shippers are”. It means you cannot spot the difference between a bad fake relationship and a bad real relationship.

Stop giving a damn about fictional characters and start giving a damn about yourself.

[deranged-fandom-quotes-archive]

This absolute psycho thinks writing fanfiction about non-con makes you worse than an actual rapist. These are the kinds of people Antis are, they're predators, rapists, pedophiles, rapists; it never seems to end with these people. Absolutely disgusting and dystopian. Like, how dare you claim people who use fiction to cope and take control of their trauma as being worse than the people who hurt them. Link to post.

[cupcraft]

Sorry if this posts twice (i had issues uploading)

Dream's statement about amanda tw grooming & victim blaming. Source was a clip on twitter i screen recorded because i didnt want to link to a drm stan/plus give the video to ppl who dont have twitter. Sorry if the video repeats i ended the recording late and i cant edit for shit lol.

I am sending it as a drive link because tumblr is literally exploding for me. You can view it!

[fiercehildr]

'bullying stuff'

yeah ok. coming from the person pretending they were gonna off themselves for pity💀💀💀

For pity? If I wanted pity, why instantly go on hiatus and deleting some of my socials? Even going as far as not telling some people why I was leaving?

Also I’m missing the link between me being bullied to that extend and your ´´ ´´ here.

[proudfreakmetarusonikku]

Oh okay. people saying women deserve sexual abuse for shade posting on Twitter. normal behaviour and definitely not the shit Andrew Tate says

[gachafem]

seeing tras (mainly on twitter) say the allegations against neil gaiman are fake because "the people who broke the story + victims are terfy" is so dystopian holy shit.

[ohsalome]

[spitinsideme]

Worst/best movie you've ever watched?

the worst movie that ive ever watxhed was this italian .... movie ? i feel like i cant even classify it as a movue vecause this was like .. weird .. it was called la bonne and i watched it when i was finding as many lesbian movies as possible and this wasnt even .. maybe ir was a bit gay i guess from one of the girls pov ?? i mesn the gayest thing they did is show each other their pussies and then play sexual bdsm style hide and seek ?? i hobestly dont know rhat was crazy it wasnt even gay tjis was like honoerotic undertones that could be read as manipulative and for other reasons that arent rveb gay .. very entertaining in a way

the besr movie ive ever watxhed is like a top three and those top three are carol, carmilla (2019) and my first summer .. mt first summer was jst very adorable and carol has older lesbian women and thats well fucking hot i fucking love that mocie and carmilla 2019 ???? IT WAS A VAMPIRE !!! AND THEY EVEN SHARED A BLOODY KISS LIKE ACTUAL BLOOD !!! wnd that was so hot mygodd .... jesus fucking christ ... thats the best mocie in my opinion i hate the ending si nuch but god it was so hot .. carmilla ..

[blusical]

Another thing I *will* say though, is a reminder that being a fan of the team does not equate to supporting their actions. Please do not harass Hawks fans. If you're looking for someone to get mad at, get mad at the people who actually participated in the mishandling and coverup. Not the fans.

[coachbeards]

also like beard obviously has self harming tendencies and now I’m sad abt it

[prisonpodcast]

Twitter just sucks

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[cupcraft]

also so sick of the "its not grooming" discourse because of the fact its been used to just invalidate victims' stories. whatever you want to think, dream admitted to flirtatious dms to minors. regardless of what you want to label that and the outcome of all of this, this is really behavior you think is okay? its okay to you that a youtuber who is an adult with massive power differential because of his subscriber count being that he is a large youtuber and an adult reached out to minors and other fans and gave him his private snapchat and also sent flirtatious messages to them? Really? That's behavior you would be okay to happen to other people too? And that's if you just take dream by his words and not how it was also stated to be much more than just "cringe flirty" texts as dream says, especially in Amanda's story.

[waterparksdrama]

is anyone going to tell him the otto serial killer joke was only funny for the first 5 seconds from coming up with it years ago

how it feels to see a joke popularized on parx twitter

-iz

[r6shippingdelivery]

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[nikkiruncks]

Unfriendly reminder that Frankie blamed Zoe for her OWN RAPE

[cowardlycowboys]

but if I say to kill yourself you fucking moron I'll get suspended