#this is about a post i saw that said. quote. ->

[ghostdnfie]

long recap cause im confused too:

so

dream has a gf, people are Not Normal about it cause 'poor dnfs' and 'george must be depressed' (<- ?? its confirmed that dream has been dating her since 2023 so like. what? why would george be depressed??). dream said that the dteam doesnt hang around a lot irl cause, and i quote,

like if we're going anywhere cool we usually go with each other. if we're doing anything, we go with each other. if we're doing like, i dunno, we go out to eat sometimes. we go do random stuff. we hang out and drink or watch a show or whatever.

basically they're homebodies yk

and then sapnap jumps in with a classic “nah, he’s lying” and dream’s like “no, you’re the liar.” honestly, it’s just them being their usual goofy selves, but people online want to make a whole drama out of literally nothing </3

i saw people absolutely losing it because dream said he personally wouldn’t really do irl content, that he’d just join sapnap and george in their irl videos instead. and the hot take people had? “if dream just did irl content showing they’re still besties, nothing would’ve happened.” like... what? dream’s made it clear he’s just not into that kind of content for himself. who even said friends have to constantly put their friendship on display for validation? friendships don’t have to be content fodder to exist or be real.

BUT I DIGRESS

so now people are saying dream’s “trying too hard” to make everyone like his girlfriend? like, all he did was mention a few songs were about her—which honestly is pretty normal—and that he’s known her forever and really likes her. and suddenly that’s a problem like, what exactly is he supposed to do? pretend she doesn’t exist? act like his feelings aren’t real?

and of course, the grifriend gets dragged too — people calling her a hypocrite because she “doesn’t want to be a public figure” but then dream says she might show up in his content sometimes. like, yeah? they’re dating. it’s normal she’d be around, might post photos, might appear here and there.

oh man 😭 what a mess

from what dream said i didn’t get the impression he was trying to force us to like her at all. it was more him being like ‘hey so i’ve been dating this person for a while now’ and revealing things that he’s ready to now that he wasn’t before (like the songs being about her, of course he wasn’t going to say that before he revealed they were dating). and with the her being in content thing, she can absolutely just randomly show up in stuff whenever she feels like it without being considered a cc, even drista for instance (as i think dream mentioned) does that sometimes and she’s not considered a cc as it’s very casual and not done with the intent of her being the focus/her creating the content for/about herself mainly.

as for the dteam friendship thing, they’ve stated so many times that they’re very close and it’s clear any of their bickering is just how they banter lol. he def doesn’t owe skeptical ppl proof of that over and over. as a wise georgenotfound said in october 2022, “dream team forever”. they won’t all want to make the same content all the time or hang out all the time and it doesn’t make them any less friends.

[aropride]

if u can't hear trans men talk abt how we are affected by transphobia without deciding that means we automatically hate trans women i think you're actually operating under levels of brainrot incomprehensible to anyone who talks to other queer people in real life

[umblrspectrum]

how do lighting and shading work

[happyk44]

[ID: 1. Quote from Let July be July from Morgan Harper Nichols: You don’t have to fix everything. You don’t have to solve everything. And you can still find peace and grow in the wild of changing things.

2. Tweet from trash jones @/jzux dated August 16th 2024: sometimes when I’m scared about a decision or feeling regret or wondering what might have been, I pull up this note I wrote once on my phone and it actually really helps.

Attached to the tweet is a screenshot from their notes app, reading, “The versions of my life I didn’t choose are none of my business”

3. Quote from Ask Polly: Why Should I Keep Going: You are not lost. You are here. Stop abandoning yourself. Stop repeating this myth about love and success that will land in your lap or evade you forever. Build a humble, flawed life from the rubble, and cherish that. There is nothing more glorious on the face of the earth than someone who refuses to give up, who refuses to give in to their most self-hating, discouraged, disillusioned self, and instead learns, slowly and painfully, how to relish the feeling of building a hut in the middle of the suffocating dust.

4. Digital illustration from @/lizormianillustration. Two panels. A person sits in a doorway looking out to the water. The illustration pans out to show the grassy hills, a parallel dirt path and the house. The sky is a soft yellow. Text across both panels reads, “and if you missed a day, there was always the next.”

5. Text reading: You are not damaged. You are not socially handicapped. You are young and you are learning how to live. Write that down. [all caps] I AM VERY YOUNG AND I AM LEARNING HOW TO LIVE. [end all caps] Tape it to your wall by your bed and read it every morning.

You are very, very young. You are learning how to live.

6. Quote from Mitch C. Clark: You’re overthinking because you really care what happens next – you don’t want to fail, and you don’t want to let people down. But no amount of planning, worrying, or overanalyzing can give you control over what happens next. Breathe. Loosen your grip. Experience life as it comes.

7. Tumblr post from @/misscrazyfangirl321: Hey, look at me: You can’t change it. I know how much you want to. I know you’d do anything to change it if you could, but it’s in the past; you can’t walk that way. The only direction you can walk is forward.

I’m not saying it’s easy. I’m not saying to be flippant, and pretend it didn’t happen. But don’t stay there. Walk forward, even if can only manage half a step at a time.

8. Quote from Mirages: The Unexpurgated Diary of Anais Nin, 1939-1947 by Anais Nin: Life heals you if you allow it to flow.

9. Tumblr post from @/moderndaymystic dated July 17th 2023: I saw a quote that said “I feel like I’m constantly worrying about the next part of my life without realizing that I’m right in the middle of what I used to look forward to.” And I felt that.

/end ID]

going through my reminders tag feeling like I’m gonna vomit

[stelletaru]

Some people's opinions on certain ships are so funny, because they're like "no they're parent/child!!!" when all they did was have an age gap at one point (and tbh, they don't even have that sometimes). If you don't like it, you can just call them friends. It's okay <3 not everything has to be familial like that

[incorrect-upon-a-witchlight]

Kremy: I’m attracted to men, but at what cost

[imunbreakabledude]

damn I really need to reread the Wicked novels, specifically the later ones... I've read the first book a few times, and reread Son of a Witch just a couple years ago, but I haven't read A Lion Among Men and Out of Oz since the latter came out...

just browsing a synopsis to refresh my memory and oh wow so many things I forgot ... the way Glinda is always there for Elphaba's child and grandchild when they need her (!!!)....

i say this all the time but gelphie being a formative ship for me explains so much about me lmao. literally one half of the ship dies in the first book of a four-book series, and even in that book they spend a little less than half the book together, and then even in the other three books the living half of the ship is a rather minor character, but in the very end, after you've spent somewhere between 60-80 years in this fictional universe, you get one singular paragraph of how Glinda is dying alone in a prison cell... and imagining a shadow slipping thru the cell door... and says to herself, "you took your time, you wicked thing, you." and that, to me, is one of the greatest "ship endings" I've ever read, and hard-coded my addiction to Tragic Sapphics™ for the rest of my time on this earth

[clousi]

Yes! I thought about that too the first itme I saw this. It's so strange. (He was so strange) Maybe the relationship/reconciliaton was still too young so he was playing it safe? I think during those months they really didn't met that many times (i think Bercy and maybe Imola were the only ones??)

But it's so odd. Specially because, by what Alain says, Ayrton did tell him very personal things.

And I've been always curious about where Berger stood in all this tbh, as in, they were pretty close, weren't they? Or maybe not *that* close. Or maybe Ayrton was a very private person and didn't tell him anything?

As I said it could maybe be because he was still testing the waters with Alain, or maybe he was a bit embarassed to go to Berger like "oh u remember the man I've dedicated my life to destroy? the one we probably talked shit about all the time? well we're cool now, and I feel like my career in F1 is meaningless without him, and oh, yeah, I've been begging him to come back over the phone for the last six months" Like, I'd understand if he was a bit self counscious about it LMAO. (although lets remember these were men in the 80s/early 90s so maybe they didn't talk about those things. BUT THERE'S ANOTHER BERGER QUOTE WHERE HE SAYS HE TOLD AYRTON VERY DEEP PERSONAL THINGS AND VICEVERSA, THAT THEY WERE CLOSE LIKE THAT. So now it's giving group of 15 year old girls having very deep conections) (this last one is a joke)

But why tell personal things to Alain then? (I guess they did had a very particular relationship and both were VERY important in eachotehrs life and maybe Ayrton realized that once the sport and the rivarly was out of hte way.)Or is just a thing Alain says? Because I've read they mostly talked about bringing safety to F1 but then!!!! there is the damn Alain quote saying Ayrton told him something Ayrton had never told anyone and that he will take to the grave, like WHAT IT IS LITTLE MAN (jk I respect him so much for respecting Ayrton like that but man one can't help but wonder and wonder and wonder)

Also! Did he told Adriane he was speaking with Alain? (Arguably his most close person up until his death, as (Allegedly) he was having some problems w his family???)

So many questions and so few answers sigh

ALSO poor Berger tho I'd feel so many things if I learnt my bestie who died horribly and suddendly had hiden something like that from me IDK

Or maybe is not that deep, I'm so sorry for going off on your post, but this is the going off website I guess

Thinking about how Ayrton’s pallbearers had to be changed last minute because of Gerhard..

[amemoryofwot]

As a lesbian married to a bi woman can everybody be like, normal

[garden-bug]

Is being critical of Sabine’s force sensitivity ‘gatekeeping’ the force or it is about how it undermines the established magic system and was not well written?

I’ll give you a clue it’s the second one.

[front-facing-pokemon]

[opmshitposts]

[jichanxo]

how it started:

how it's going:

[hyohaehyuk]

Rolin: "(...) what they (Jacob and Sam) didn’t understand was that the entirety of the series served as the backbone to the context of the scene"

Source: sdccblog - What We Learned About Anne Rice’s Immortal Universe at the ATX TV Festival Panel

[coffeeandcalligraphy]

Adorned by stars | Changing States

When he hits the I-70, Jeremiah slots George Michael’s Faith into his ’98 Accord and drives with the windows down. His mother would chide him for two reasons: a) he’s wasting fuel and b) it’s begun to storm. But he likes the way the wind shears through his hair like a nail breaking drywall and he likes the way spats of rain settle on his skin like constellations because on the road, he isn’t just a hand for someone else to hold, a body to handle, a man who looks at another man and fears how much of himself he’s lost in his reflection. No. On the road he is the sky, adorned by stars of his own making, relentless in his abundance, blinking in the absence of any other light.

A little Changing States aesthetic & excerpt!

i'm so normal about him i'm so normal i'm so normal i'm so-

[seancodydotcom]

Having a tumblr accent is funny but bc my native language isn't english, it is often difficult to impossible to make a translation. However when it does work, usually there'll be someone laughing uncontrolably