#this is rushed but idc

[kits-ships]

i filled out my own ask game bc i love fun and i need to talk about atlas or ill explode.........

this is atlas if he was born to eleven, btw!! (he wasnt conceived in the tardis so hes just. a guy)

👒: which physical traits does your child get from you? which do they get from your f/o?

atlas has olive's red hair and a few of her freckles, while he gets the doctor's green/hazel eyes as well as his nose! he'll also eventually have the doctor's height

🧠: which emotional traits does your child get from you? which do they get from your f/o?

like olive, atlas enjoys a bit of domesticity. he still likes to travel, but he wouldnt be opposed to settling down one day. he's also more emotionally-driven than his father is, which he gets from olive.

like the doctor, atlas is off-the-wall hyper and loves being silly! he will dance however he wants and will NOT care what other people think of him. he also has his father's intelligence!

from both of them, he's extremely nurturing and has a strong sense of what's right and what's wrong. he also loves getting to see new places/planets, is always up to try something new, and always has a hundred questions bc he loves an opportunity to learn

💬: what was your child’s first word? was it a nickname for you or your f/o or something entirely different?

tardis. it came out more like 'dardis,' but they both knew what he'd said. the doctor wanted it to be dad or smth but olive thought it was really funny. the tardis was also very excited (she definitely didnt have any influence over the situation, nooo, she wouldnt do that...)

💕: which parent does your child tend to cling to? does it make the other parent jealous?

atlas probably clings to olive simply because he spends the most time with her! when he was younger, he sometimes didnt even recognize the doctor and was like ?! mama there is a GUY OUTSIDE!!! (the doctor is a little jealous. it makes total sense to him but he still wants baby cuddles </3)

🪁: does your child enjoy learning about their parents’ hobbies, or do they prefer to find their own?

atlas loves getting to learn everything abt whatever his parents are doing!! he wants to figure out everything he can about the tardis, time-travel, and other 'timey-wimey' stuff. with his mother, though, he likes baking with her! he would also sit with her when he was much younger and tried to embroider alongside her.

🐾: do you and your f/o have any pets alongside your child? how do they get along?

ive never thought about olive having another cat after celeste (excluding in her polyship or a master x olive situation) but!! she probably does. olive loves cats and im sure atlas would too!

🍼: what’s your child’s comfort item and where did it come from? is it a hand-me-down?

i think his main comfort item would be a crochet blanket that olive made for him when he was a baby! that, and he likes to steal random clothes from the tardis' wardrobe that remind him of his dad (think four's scarf, six's coat, seven's vest, etc)

🤲: how did your child react when they met you and your f/o’s friends? are they shy?

atlas is far from shy. he's the type of child to wander off in the grocery store and try to strike up a conversation with the butch or smth. so, when he meets clara, bill, etc, he's excited!! he wants to know all about them and, in return, wants to tell them EVERYTHING about his own life. he will impress everyone with his collection of lego sets.

🌈: if applicable, who (from your f/o’s source) would you make your child’s godparents? who (out of your friends) would you make their godparents?

this is a hard question to answer because most of their friends are 1.) dead. 2.) extremely busy or 3.) the doctor abandoned them. my first thought was river or jack, but their life isnt very. child friendly. (jack would absolutely babysit though and try to pull the 'yeah im a single dad ;)" card on random people at the park)

later in the doc's life, olive would absolutely trust graham with the baby. when atlas is born, though?? i guess they'd have to get into contact with tegan or ace or soMEONE. normally i would just say "eh they dont need one" but these idiots put their lives in danger every day so. godparents are v necessary

☀️: what’s your child’s favorite game to play with you and your f/o? tag? hide and seek, maybe?

HIDE AND SEEK IN THE TARDIS!! its a nightmare for poor olive and her eds, but she'll get there eventually. there's just so many places to look....... the doctor loves playing with him tho though and the tardis refuses to help the doc cheat

🧁: what’s your child’s favorite thing in the world? what’s their least favorite thing?

atlas loves getting to hear stories about his dad/from his dad!! theres just so much to talk about and atlas wants to hear everything!!

his least favorite thing is whoever this 'master' guy is! atlas hasn't met him, but he would definitely bite him if he got the chance!! (he gets that from olive)

[shroomerr]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO THE BOY EVER, KENNY MCCORMICK!!!!!! my favorite little guy,,, i hope he gets all of the kfc he desires for his special day

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Understanding and Supporting Friends with Mental Health Challenges

When you see a storm brewing, you usually want to take cover and avoid being caught in it. Watching someone struggle with depression and anxiety, or other mental health issues, is like watching the storm brewing.  When someone you care about is struggling with their mental health, it’s natural to want to help. But many people feel unsure about what to say or how to act. The truth is, you don’t need to have all the answers—you need to show up with compassion, patience, and an open mind. Here are some ways you can support a friend, partner, family member, or colleague who’s going through a tough time mentally.

1. Listen Without Trying to “Fix” It

It’s easy to fall into a pattern of trying to fix the issues of others, but one of the most powerful things you can do is simply listen. I am a perfect example of a fixer.  It’s sad because I learned years ago as a therapist that I couldn’t fix anyone who sat in front of me, but it’s harder when it’s family or friends. 

The first helpful action is to let them talk without jumping in with solutions or advice. Mental health challenges often aren’t problems that can be fixed overnight, and trying to offer a quick fix can unintentionally make someone feel misunderstood or dismissed. They need time to identify the problems and issues, decide on options to manage them, and develop a plan moving forward.

It’s easy to tell them what you think they should do. Instead, try saying:

“I’m here for you.”

“That sounds really hard—do you want to talk about it?”

“I don’t have all the answers, but I care and I’m listening.”

These simple phrases can go a long way in helping someone feel heard and supported. They may need to process information to understand how to help themselves.  Giving them the space to just say things out loud can help them find a better path. With help and support, people can find what works for them.

2. Be Patient

Mental health journeys aren’t the same for everyone. Depending on the issue, journeys can take months or years to find the best options for treatment.  There are good days and bad days, and sometimes it stretches to months and years.  There will be ups and downs, and definitely times when you will want to give up. Your loved one might cancel plans, be less responsive, or seem distant. Try not to take it personally. They are struggling, and no matter what they say, they need your support, even from a distance. Being patient means accepting where they are, without pressure or judgment. Celebrate small victories, and gently remind them that you’re there, even when they’re quiet.

3. Educate Yourself

If you’re not familiar with what they’re experiencing—whether it’s anxiety, depression, PTSD, bipolar disorder, or something else—take the time to learn. There are countless reputable resources online that can help you understand symptoms, treatment options, and what daily life might feel like for them. This not only helps you understand more deeply but also shows that you care enough to learn.

If you need support, there are local and online groups that will put you in touch with others going through similar events. Don’t underestimate the stress that you will be under when you are trying to help, so make sure you get help and support if you need it. 

4. Encourage Professional Help—Gently

Even if you are trying and doing your best to help, you can’t replace the role of a mental health professional.  Sometimes your loved one may need more support than you can give, and that is not a reflection on you. It’s just reality. If they’re open to it, gently encourage them to talk to a therapist, counselor, or doctor. Make the argument that if they had the flu or high blood pressure, they would go to the doctor.

Avoid making it sound like they’re broken or need to be “fixed.” Instead, you might say:

“Have you ever thought about talking to someone? I’d be happy to help you find someone if you want.”

If they’re not ready, don’t push. Just keep the door open for future conversations.

5. Support Them in Practical Ways

Mental health struggles can make everyday tasks feel overwhelming. Offering practical support can be incredibly meaningful. You might:

Offer to go with them to a doctor’s appointment.

Bring over a meal or help with groceries.

Check in regularly with a text or call.

Invite them out for a walk or coffee—even if they decline, the offer matters.

Small gestures can remind them that they’re not alone. Just be careful.  The idea is to be supportive, not to make them dependent on you.  It can be a fine line.

6. Take Care of Yourself, Too

Supporting someone with mental health struggles can be emotionally draining. It’s okay to set boundaries and protect your own well-being. You can’t pour from an empty cup. Make sure you’re also getting support if you need it—whether from friends, a therapist, or support groups for loved ones of people with mental illness. Make good financial and emotional decisions, and set good boundaries.  They need support, but don’t sacrifice your happiness to try to help them. It won’t help them, or you.

Final Thoughts

You don’t need to be perfect or have all the right words to make a difference. Just showing up consistently, listening with kindness, and offering support in thoughtful ways can mean the world to someone who’s struggling. Mental health challenges can feel incredibly lonely, but knowing someone cares, and isn’t going anywhere, can be a lifeline. You can help someone find happiness, but don’t lose your happiness in the process.  It can be part of being happy, for life.

Source: Understanding and Supporting Friends with Mental Health Challenges

[felsicveins]

Not technically his ex cause the divorce papers were never signed...

[justaz]

merlin who uses his magic everyday in ways that he doesn’t realize isn’t normal. magic helping him see in the dark so he can find his way in the woods or dark rooms with no problem. connecting with the woods around him so he always knows where he is and whats in the general vicinity which allows him to sense bandits just before they attack. using magic to keep warm in the cold or to cool down in the heat. confident and willing to go toe to toe with anyone bc he knows that regardless of what they throw at him, he could always win bc he could just use magic.

then somehow someway (post magic reveal) a sorcerer takes away merlin’s magic. or well just locks it away ig. but anyways merlin doesn’t have this part of him anymore and is left feeling empty, exposed, and vulnerable. arthur, the knights, and merlin going on a quest for answers to their problem and a way to get merlins magic back. but. but. but merlin is all jumpy and he’s rambling more than ever and is often reaching out to grab onto someone (usually arthur) and everyone’s confused and then they get ambushed and merlin freezes in the middle of the path like a deer. he’s watching everything go down around him with wide eyes until he’s targeted and one of the knights have to rush in to save him. afterward merlin is constantly holding someone and his grip is rather tight. he keeps looking around, his eyes scanning the trees around them over and over. when they try and settle down for the night, merlin wont leave the camp without an escort or two and when they’re trying to go to sleep, merlin is flinching at every noise in the woods around them and ends up shuffling over toward the person closest to him and laying pressed up against them.

arthur opening his mouth to tease and call him a coward when the word registers in his mind and he realizes that that’s what he’s actually seeing, merlin scared and defenseless. he ofc doesn’t realize the true depth of it all, i mean he knows merlin is missing his magic but he doesn't know that magic has always been a part of merlin, it makes him him. he’s had magic since he was born, he’s never known life without it. as he is now, he feels bare and exposed and blind and deaf and terrified. the knights are his defense rn and for the past few years, merlins been their protector so its a complete reversal of everything he’s ever known. he’s scared. arthur bites his tongue and lets merlin hold onto his arm and snuggle up close at night for some form of comfort and security. he doesn’t tease or mock and responds to his ramblings of fear with a level of gentleness the knights weren’t aware he even possessed. merlin slowly relaxing as arthur subtly comforts him without addressing it

[rhonissancee]

The moon has always loved the sun, is that true? (You tell me.)

[nyaar0n]

renee & neil but they're trans

[zellyrolls]

you're a bit too handsome without your helmet pleaseputitbackon

[rayix]

This was rotting in my procreate folder for like a month and a half but I finally told myself to color it 🥲

( Au is from @askcupsandcasinos )

[nightshade-shot]

I had a dream that I met Jatsune Jiku and I RAN to turn it into a reality so here you are

[snowthedemonfox]

funnybnnuy

[chinese--satellite]

sebastian vettel: yeah, i'm sure you would have waved me past as well.

[havrani-otec]

near death experience

[m-kyunie]

April 1st: Happy birthday Tsubasa!

[creaturrcraze]

practice anim. [feat. hl sfx !!]

[k0k0grounya]

Weekly memelaine dump + Gin

[vinegar-rights]

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