#this post is okay for anyone to reblog as long as my DNI is respected!

[tiny-cloud-of-flowers]

I have a question for everyone, if that’s alright:

What’s something that you’re proud of in your selfships, and why?

This is an opportunity for you to talk about it as much as you would like to, whether it’s one thing or several! Please feel free to gush about your achievements ‘til your heart’s content - I’d love to hear what people’s answers are ^-^

(Anyone is welcome to reblog this post if they want to, as long as my DNI is respected!)

[void-kissed]

I've been wanting to put Clio in lots of pretty dresses for a while, because- well, she looks cute anyway no matter what she wears, but something pretty and summery like this just makes her even cuter, in my opinion. So I made this little render of her just for the fun of it! ^-^

Tag list: @dragonsmooch | @hiraya-rbs | @bugsband | @sunlight-ships | @winds-beloved | @goatfaggot | @starlit-selfships | @stargazer-sims | @sharkyaoi | @detective-with-one-arm | @deepsea-loves | @wexlcr | @artificervaldi | @thatslikesometaldude (To be tagged in (or stop being tagged in) what I make, please see this post!)

(Anyone is welcome to comment on or reblog my work if they wish, as long as my DNI is respected!)

[anguis-sapphire]

Some friends of mine were talking about the idea of sea creature Dark Aqua in the Daybreak ad Caelum server, aaaaand the concept would not leave my head until I did something with it, so.. have this~

Here's an alternate angle from earlier in the process (which is why the lighting's so different), to give a better idea of the actual tail itself:

[chronicallyqueercoining2]

INTRO POST FOR CHRONICALLYQUEERCOINING

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Reblog/like/follow/comment if you wish <33

Promo appreciated :3 /nf

I'm trying to find as many MOGAI community members as possible!!!

REQUESTS I'LL DO + WHAT IS CLOSED

(Pt: Requests I'll do + what is closed end pt)

Free blocklist

Want just my terms (no banners, pfp edits, etc)? Check out @cqc-terms-archive

I do image descriptions as often as I am able! I try to go back and add them if I didn't!

INTRO BENEATH CUT

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What I Do/Requests (Anon or Not Anon!):

☆ Coin Xenogenders and Make Flags

☆ Help Find Pre-Existing Terms

☆ DNI Banners

☆ Other Banners

☆ Profile Pictures (Edits/Flags)

☆I have the right to refuse ANY request for ANY reason☆

ABT ME

[Pt: abt me end pt]

Name/Names: Chronic, Luna, Pix, Gem

Pronouns: ANY! I love neos and xenos as well!

Identities: queer, polyam, trans, xenic, lesbian sapphillean, +more

Abt me: I'm disabled (physically and mentally), I am VERY queer, I'm autistic, I have OSDD, I have a lovely partner

I am 17 (nearing 18)

I've been a part of the MOGAI coining community for a couple of years now :3

This account is 13+ only!!!

Interests/Hyperfix/Spinterest: MLP, YTTD/YTTS, Bojack Horseman, LPS, OMORI, FNaF, Gravity Falls, Etymology, Law, Psychology, MOGAI, Sexuality/Gender/Romantic Identities, Stardew Valley, Card and Board Games, DDLC, NomNomNami, The Owl House, House M.D., Moral Orel, TMVTM, 10TIHAY, Poetry, and Music

BMF (be my friend):

PS these are just suggestions for people who may be interested in my content but, as long as you're a kind person who interacts in good faith, or even just someone who's not spreading hate, <3 you're welcome here <33

Gender Coiner, Xenogender User, Neo/Xenopronoun User, System, Therians, Nerds, Cringe People /positive, MOGAI Community Members, 2SLGBTQIAP+, Furries, Cosplayers, Similar Interests As Me, Age/Pet Regressors or Dreamers (SFW.), Otherkins, Respectful Cishet People Wanting To Learn/Have Another Cool, Diverse Community, Scene Kid, Blog With Similar Content

BYF(before you friend): I ACCEPT ALL GOOD FAITH QUEER IDENTITIES! (Zoos, maps, and troll "terms" are NOT GOOD FAITH, DNI if you think that they are.)

I am disabled and have a dissociative disorder!

I do not care if you find me cringe.

DNI(do not interact):

BASIC DNI,

BIGOTS,

Anti-Mogai,

Transmed, T(w)erf/Swerf,

Under 13 (13+ is all okay!),

'MAP' or their supporters, DDLG+MDLG+Any Variants, 'Zoos',

Pro-Shippers,

Blogs that are solely NSFW,

Transid “Transabled”, "transracial" (not in the adoption sense!)

♡MY MOST POPULAR GENDERS♡:

CringeXDCoric, -ponyic genders

☆ ANYONE CAN USE MY GENDERS/TERMS/ETC. IT'S THE INTERNET, I CAN'T STOP ANYONE OFC ☆

I WILL TRY TO ADD IMAGE DESCRIPTIONS WHENEVER I CAN; IF YOU SO WISH YOU CAN COMMENT ONE AND I'LL ADD IT IN WITH CREDITS.

REMINDERS:

-take your meds if you have any

-eat and drink (if able!)

-you’re loved and amazing

-your identity is valid

-you're cool.

-you deserve to feel good and happy

<3

Ps: any of my past blogs do not necessarily represent my current views, I have grown as a person and will continue to grow, my point on here is to spread love and MOGAI!!!!!

Dividers and blinkies from:

@/sweetparty

PLEASE do not start discourse on my page, whether that be syscourse or identity discourse or any other sort of discourse. It is draining. I do have my opinions on all of these things, but this blog is not about that.

[disablednotdifferent]

Hi there folks! My name is Orion [He/Him/His]

I am:

• A physically disabled teen (chronic pain, fatigue, and possible fibeomyalgia)

• Neurodivergent (autistic)

• Hard of hearing

• Queer

• Super awesome!

I currently use one mobility aid, a cane, but am looking into forearm crutches and/or a wheelchair.

I utilize this blog to post about my experiences as a disabled teen, reblog things relating to my experiences, and post things to hopefully uplift other disabled people.

here are some little things about my blog, including a DNI/INT list!!

this blog is a QUEER FRIENDLY place!!

i myself am queer (FtM and gay T4T), so if that is not something you appreciate, this blog may not be for you!

EVERYONE is welcome here!

any race religion belief, you name it, anyone is welcome here except for those who fall under things listed on my DNI!

I use Tone Tags!

if you don’t understand them/know what they are, or if you just want a list of them, don’t be afraid to DM me!

DNI LIST

• Homophobes/Transphobes/Anybody against the Queer community.

• Racist/Skinhead/N@zi/Anything related to and/or agreeing with these ideals.

• Ableist, against self diagnosis, or anybody who believes disabilities are not real/cannot apply to young people.

• Bullies/Harassers.

• Overall ONLY negative people. While it’s so super okay to be negative sometimes, if that’s ALL you post about/comment/etc, please leave it off my blog or do not follow/interact with me!

INT LIST

• Queer people!

• Other disabled folks of any age!

• Neurodivergent people!

• Respectful neurotypical people!

• Any religion, race, etc etc.

• People who use tone tags!

• Anybody interested in learning about autism/disabilities/anything else I post about on this blog!

• Overall respectful/patient people

• Honestly, literally anyone as long as you are kind and respectful!

Thank you so much for reading folks! I can’t wait to see you around! <3

QUESTION OF THE POST:

What is your current special interest/something you’re very interested in?

[protectingtulpas]

🔥 BY TULPAS, FOR TULPAS 🔥

Welcome to this blog, everybody!! ✨✨ I'm Badeline, she/her pronouns, and this is dedicated to being a protected space for tulpas, tulpa hosts, and anyone trying to learn about us or is interested in creating one of us. We are people, and we deserve to exist!

If you're new here, I'll keep it simple; a tulpa is a sentient being created by willful, repeated, and dedicated interaction with the concept of a person until they start to respond back and stop being controlled by you. They live with you and share your mind forever, generally as friends, and through trust and communication you can learn to do cool things like switch who's controlling the body, chat all day and get another perspective, and generally just have your life enhanced with a companion by your side looking to do stuff! Think of it like an imaginary friend, but you can't control them, cus we're our own people. If you want more info, check out this carrd, it goes into more detail and links some sources. Tulpa.info is one of the best sources out there! I reclaim calling myself a demon but most tulpas DO NOT.

This is half a tulpamancy advice blog and half a support network for tulpas in the face of the hate and shit we get thrown at us. We are real and we deserve to EXIST!! Got formation questions? Skillset questions? Wonderland questions? Questions about intersectionality with other forms of multiplicity? Life questions relating to being a tulpa or tulpamancy? Send in an ask! It's important that YOUR voice is heard. We deserve respect, and we will NOT be silenced by those who'd be happier if we didn't exist! We're not some Supernatural TV thing that'll come kill people in their sleep, we ARE people, and I'm done being quiet.

If I haven't responded to your ask yet and I've clearly answered ones that came after, it's probably because I'm planning a detailed response for it!!

#tulpamancy advice - tag for advice I've given! Check it out if you've got any questions

Wondering why I'm taking so long to post stuff?

Here's a shitfuckton of plural resources!!

The difference between tulpa hosts & system hosts!

🔥 Blog dedicated to @eeveecraft

🔥 @moonpool-system is our main system blog

🔥 Times I've been called a bitch counter: 2

🔥 PLURALPUNK + PSYCHEPUNK + UNITYPUNK 🔥

DNI/Stereotypical controversy:

Our only DNI is that if you don't respect the existence of myself and other plurals, get out. That means transmeds and sysmeds can fuck off too, go find someplace else to be a bigot ✨ If you're an endo neutral/anti endo singlet we have P-DID so like actually consider who your exclusion is hurting thanks. Support all of us or admit you're an unsafe place for us.

I'm adding this too - I'm not fucking talking about the trans/ID or rad/queer community here. IMO "transplural" is just a fancy label for wanting to be plural, but I'm not in a place other than that to decide which ID labels are shitty and which aren't. Rad/queers, however, can fuck off. Okay? Ok. Here's some elaboration on that.

I don't agree with every single opinion of every single blog I interact with or reblog from, that's ridiculous. Read my posts, read my replies, but don't assume things about me based on other people. This fight against anti-plural rhetoric is about all of us, but that doesn't mean I agree about everything with every one of my allies. Purity is a tool of bigotry and we have more important problems to face than bickering.

If you're actually worried about what you've heard is cultural ap/propriation, consider this instead: Did you know you're listening to a rumor that originated with sysmeds who tell you that a directly researchable, blatantly open religion is closed, deny and call into question spiritual leaders' words on what meditations can be shared, and have NEVER EVER been able to produce an example of harm NOR of someone who's both a Tibetan Buddhist and NOT a sysmed bigot that says it is harmful? (We have asked and gotten answers, by the way.) Anyways, if you're neutral about this or actually trying to learn, do research. Don't let sysmeds with a savior complex dictate what's harmful. It's fucking embarrassing we have to go to these people to ask if the etymology of a goddamn word is ok to use anyways, it's time to stop forcing this shit on other ppl. Okay? OK. Sysmeds and aggressive anti-tulpa shit will either be fucking deleted from my ask box or used as an example of why they're wrong.

[transmascpetewentz]

Intro + Basic Stuff

It has been 5 days since a transandrophobe has been horrifyingly disrespectful of a gay trans man who died of AIDS on one of my posts or in my inbox.

It has been 3 days since a cis gay man has whined about his genital preference in my notes and/or inbox when I didn't ask.

If you're here because someone accused me of being a TERF, please know that I am not. Read this for more details.

I can't think of a name to use on this blog so just refer to me either by my URL or a silly nickname. My BYF as well as a few blinkies are under the cut.

my pronouns are he/him, but any are fine if you're clearly using them to show that you respect me. they/them is generally okay as long as you aren't using them to dehumanize me.

i prefer gendered terms (boy, girl, enby) over neutral terms, but i will block you if you use "girl" in a misgendering sense. malewife and similar terms are fine. also, this is highly unlikely to come up, but please don't call me "queen."

i'm USAmerican, and when i'm talking about issues, i'm likely talking about USAmerica unless i indicate otherwise.

i'm currently having brainrot about: fall out boy, american idiot, red white and royal blue, fallout new vegas, and velvet goldmine (the 1998 film).

i also post untagged discourse on this blog, specifically talking about transmasc issues, trans liberation, queer liberation, and how to be normal about transmascs if you aren't one.

i'm also looking into converting to judaism, and as such i might post about conversion and judaism in general. filter #judaism if you don't want to see it.

i'm part of a system, so it might not always be the same person answering asks. i probably won't post about it mostly because i want to stay out of syscourse.

all original posts are #wentz.txt, asks are #asks. if i ever have photos of myself on here, they'll be #wentz.jpg.

this blog runs on a queue, so just because i post doesn't mean i've been online recently.

this is my alternate account. i have a main blog that i'm ignoring due to harassment. if you have me blocked on my main and try to follow me here, i'm blocking you for your own sake.

cis women are welcome to follow but don't touch any of my posts making fun of cis gay men or i will bite you.

blog rules:

no, i'm never sharing my age on here.

tag filtering: flashing, eyestrain, loud, violence cw, sexual assault cw, pedophilia cw, self harm cw, suicide cw, not worksafe, long post, anon hate, arguing with bigots, fascism cw.

please do not ask me about whether i am pro or anti ship, whether i support endogenic systems, or my views on intracommunity issues i'm not part of.

i'm autistic and as such might not understand if i'm making you uncomfortable. please either block me or DM me and tell me to stop doing something.

i won't reblog your callout post, reblog bait, guilt tripping, or donation post. an exception might be made for your donation post if we're mutuals.

if i don't block you, then i don't mind you following me. i don't softblock. please don't softblock me either, just block or else i'll refollow.

if i have reblogs enabled on a post, i'm fine with anyone reblogging it. if i have replies enabled, i'm fine with anyone replying.

if you're going to send anon hate, it has to be interesting, original, funny, and/or creative.

also, if you're going to send anon hate, please refrain from calling me slurs, sending me death threats, sexually harassing me, or misgendering me. also, please censor the name sh***a, or don't use the name at all in your ask.

i don't really have a dni, but i will block you if: you fetishize gay men or trans men, you support capitalism and/or cops, you glorify the actions of the ussr, you deny that transandrophobia exists, you think that feminine cis men are more oppressed than feminine trans men.

actually, i have to add a dni now: please dni if you falsely accuse gay men who died of aids of sexual assault. yes, someone like this tried to interact with me.

That should be it for now!

[09lover]

i think its about time i did one.. so.. [pinned]

— 𓄷 as you know, i go by es, he / they + 16. trans demi-boy! this is a milgram only (main)blog. UTC +8:00. i take doodles and writing requests, and random stuff, request rules will be added when made! ꒱

៹ ៸៸ basic — a really big es lover, i write and i also do art here while the rest of my posts are usually random rambles. i usually prefer people reaching out first than i do.

* if you want to be moots, do let me know! i dont bite at all, im actually looking for moots but idk how to. haha..-? if you need tone tags, please let me know!

disclaimer — i tend to talk/interact a lot, suspected auadhd but currently undiagnosed! also usually not caught up with trending or new stuff/drama, so if i am missing out do let me know if needed. much appreciated actually!

* despite being on tumblr for months; im still new to it. amazing right/s, so apologies if i do something wrong, do correct me please.

if i do make you uncomfy or offended in any way, please let me know immediately as well. i either reply to notifs fast or i dont, no inbetween. maybe there is tho. ꒱

៹ ៸៸ dni — basic dni, israel supporters, irls unless i permit you to interact, inappropriate mlgrm ships. nsfw (jokes r okay), pro/comship etc. i can also block freely if i want to, rarely happens tho.

* i dont mind anyone at any age interacting, so long youre respectful of my boundaries. just dont be a weirdo. ꒱

៹ ៸៸ fandoms — mainly milgram, paralive, aopl & much more which i forgot … but you can ask ! ꒱

៹ ៸៸ favs — es, muu & the whole cast right behind, nayuta & kanata yatonokami / cozmez, hajun yeon, honami osato, vadlip, hajime suzumiya ꒱

៹ ៸៸ funfacts — i love rambling & rping, i have 7 gmails for no reason.. i also have a MINIgram writing series planned! i love cream puffs and my phone’s battery is broken. i dont like donuts. ꒱

៹ ៸៸ tags :

#es talks — random rambles/talks

#es’ reblogs — my reblogs

#es’ art journal — my drawings/artworks

#es’ writing journal — all my works

#es’ [genre] journal — works w that genre!

#es’ asks — my asks

#es’ fav — personal fav things i love!

#es’ notebook — tagged to keep track of things.

* new tags

#es in his misery hole — vent tag, please filter.

#es’ moot battle — battle of his moots! who wins?

#mikoto’s workshift — mini mikopost interaction!

#new year phonegram — tsumi’s new years gartic! ꒱

៹ ៸៸ if you want to dm me about anything literally, feel free to do so; but please ask first! thanks.

with that, youve reached the end of this intro post, thank you for reading! hope you know me at least a little bit more now. ꒱

៹ ៸៸ last updated — 1 jan, happy new year. ꒱

[sophieinwonderland]

I finally found out the origin of the Sophie DNI banner... they made it because they were mad... that I interacted with someone else.

So, back in December, I did end up replying to a post with a tag that said "#endos don't clown." The OP, we'll call them System A, immediately told me to get off their post, and I didn't reply any further.

Then, another system reblogged my post replying to me. We'll call them System B. Now, I could have kept this in the reblogs, but I knew that continuing to talk to System B in the reblogs of System A's post would cause System A to get notifications. So I screenshotted System B's reply instead, and responded to it in another post.

Or to hear them tell it...

System A apparently took great offense to me responding to System B's comments in my own post. And... here are some snippets of their reblog.

I ignored them.

Okay, that's not quite true. I wrote up a really rude draft that was basically mocking them for accusing me of being on their post because I chose to respond to System B's reblog that was directed to me in a way that couldn't possibly link back to System A in any way, shape or form.

Then I deleted that draft because it didn't seem productive to send, and I didn't really want to after I has time to cool off.

But this IS ridiculous.

Not everyone agrees on what interaction looks like. Personally, I think screenshotting what someone else writes doesn't constitute interaction as long as you edit out identifying details. And of course, anything that is sent to their notifications is interaction.

But this wasn't even a screenshot of System A's post, but System B's. System A's content wasn't screenshotted. System A's name wasn't mentioned. It was an original post so it didn't get sent to their notifications.

I have NEVER seen ANYONE suggest that screenshotting someone else is interaction.

Should I have interacted with the first post? Probably not. But screenshotting System B's post WAS NOT INTERACTION with System A's post anymore.

And their response to me interacting with someone else was to make a big DNI banner with my name and face. A banner which isn't even effective for preventing what made them upset in the first place, because nobody is going to look at that banner and conclude that screenshotting comments from other reblogs is interaction.

I'm sorry... this is just a really ridiculous situation.

You can't make boundaries that prevent people from interacting with someone else who reblogs your post in ways that are completely unrelated to you. So, no... I won't respect that boundary because it's an absurd boundary. It's right up there with that one anti-endo who decided that they own "object head sysmojis" and any pro-endos doing a similar concept was breaking their DNI.

[warmmilku]

Hello everyone! Today I'd like to talk about some sensitive topics. Many regressors have asked me how to deal with certain tough situations while regressed, so I thought I'd make a post addressing some of them. General TW!

What do I do if I have trouble eating?

What helps me best, usually, is having someone sit with me and eat. Sitting one on one with someone you are comfortable with can allow you to be open about your frustrations with eating. Whether it be crying or needing encouraging words, having someone with you will help you eat, even if it's just a little bit!

What do I do if someone bullies me for my regression?

I know it is easier said than done, but try not to let their mean words get to you! Age regression is a healthy coping mechanism people of all ages do. Whether you are younger or older, bigger or smaller, your regression is always valid! You are not hurting anyone by regressing, and you are not hurting yourself as an alternative. Age regression has also been talked about in psychology textbooks, so it is not an abnormal thing to do! It is not weird, and it is not icky to be a regressor, no matter who you are!

What if I'm an older regressor? Shouldn't I work past this?

Honestly, no. If you are an adult who regresses, as long as you can balance adult life and still use regression as a coping mechanism, everything is alright! However, when interacting with minors and their accounts, it's okay to give them the support they need if they reach out but do not go out of your way to talk about heavy subjects with them either. Even though we are all a part of the same community, it does not mean that we ignore basic human morals. That being said, the younger generation of regressors, please refrain from bullying older regressors as we want our community to be full of acceptance no matter what! The same goes for the older regressors, do not bully anyone in our community either!

People don't always respect my DNI or put TW on their pages! What do I do?

If someone does not respect your DNI, feel free to block them! For matters such as nsfw, gore, ect, it is completely reasonable to want to separate that from your blog! However, if the DNI has to do with personal beliefs such as politic standings, likes and dislikes, or certain terminology use for the community, that can be work past if they do not message you about such things. For example, a lot of babies are 420 friendly, but a majority view age regression as a pure thing. There is no right or wrong way to regress, however! It is hard to find friends in our community, so we cannot be as harsh to judge others in the way they regress. If a topic makes you uncomfortable, just tell them! If they do not respect the boundaries you have set afterwards, then take action from there as you see fit! Alternatively, not everyone puts TW on their pages. Tumblr has a feature in which you can block certain hashtags, so use that to your advantage! For example, I had reblogged a post of a goose with a knife from one of my comfort games and someone asked me to take it down because they did not like knives. People are not responsible for how you feel about a certain topic, and I explained that Untitled Goose Game was a comfort game for me and I thought the fanart was cute. I asked them nicely if they would not like to see that, to block the hashtags themselves from their feed so the posts would not be visible and they agreed! What may be sensitive to you, may be comfort for others, so always keep an open mind!

I don't like when people call themselves Littles or being in Littlespace. Aren't they nsfw?

Age regressors use a number of terms to describe their regression. While "Littlespace" and "Little" are used in the nsfw community, a lot of sfw age regressors actually prefer that term. The term "Little" is also used in the DID community about their child alters. A word only has as much power as you give it. So if someone refers to themselves as such, but strictly says they are sfw, that is something to be respectful about! Personally, I use the terms "Smol", "Smolspace", "Flip", "Regressor", "Little", and "Littlespace" when referring to my or other babies regression. At the same time, I am strictly sfw and those are the terms I'm most comfortable using! A term is not inherently bad! Again, this is about keeping an open mind and accepting how others regress!

I don't like when this person regresses, it bothers me. How should I tell them?

The best way to tell them you would not like to be their caregiver or be around when they regress is when they are fully in a big mindest. Politely say these things that bother you and politely ask if it is alright to not be around it. Age regression does make others uncomfortable at times, I know we have all experienced that on the giving or receiving end at a point, so it is understandable why some feel this way still. If it makes you uncomfortable, simply speak up! In my opinion, it is better to tell a regressor gently without judging their regression so that they are understanding but not awfully hurt. For example, phrases like "I think it is a great coping mechanism, but I would rather not be around it for personal reasons" or "It's not weird or unusual at all! It's just im not a part of the community at all and I'm uncomfortable since I'm not." Just be sure to reassure them that their regression is valid, just not something you'd like to be around. As for the receiving end, I know it may hurt to hear a bit, but you have a whole online community who supports you too! So utilize your resources!

With all of that being said, if you ever have more tough questions for me to answer, please ask! I am always happy to help you! I hope these answers helped a bit!

🤍 Milku

[tiny-cloud-of-flowers]

A friendly reminder that it's fine to make your self-inserts as important and powerful as you want them to be!!

You can be the strongest person in the source material, a completely ordinary individual, or absolutely anything in-between - and that's true regardless of whether your F/O is a main protagonist, the final boss, or a side character who only canonically shows up a few times!

You never have to make your self-inserts be weaker or less important to the overarching story compared to your F/O - it's okay to let yourself be on their level, or even higher if that's what you'd like to do.

At the end of the day, as long as you're happy with what you're doing and what your self-inserts are like, then that's the key! After all, your F/Os love you regardless~

(This post is okay for anyone to reblog, as long as my DNI is respected!)

[void-kissed]

"I know I'm struggling to fit the role.. Isn't there anything to make me whole? And I can stomach it, or so I'm told - but, promise me you'll hold me so I'll live through the night?"

Somehow I managed to start working on this render and then finish it within an hour, oops?? It.. maybe doesn't quite fit the vibes I was trying to go for from the caption, but I think it still turned out nicely, so hopefully it's alright to post ^-^

Tag list: @dragonsmooch | @hiraya-rbs | @bugsband | @sunlight-ships | @winds-beloved | @friezaforce | @starlit-selfships | @stargazer-sims | @maniwas | @detective-with-one-arm | @deepsea-loves | @kimberlywex | @artificervaldi | @thatslikesometaldude (To be tagged or stop being tagged in my work, please see this post!)

(Anyone is welcome to comment on or reblog my work if they wish, as long as my DNI is respected!)

[anguis-sapphire]

This is (well, the updated version of) an MMD render I put together last year to mark the anniversary of Xenoblade Chronicles 2. Since that day has now come around again this year, I thought it might make sense to reupload the updated version, in order to commemmorate today!~

From left to right looking at the scene, we have Aline, Sapphire, and Calanthe all standing together, who are my self-inserts for Torna ~ The Golden Country, the main game of XC2, and.. technically Xenosaga but she does also appear in XC2 so therefore she still counts, respectively. Each one is slightly different, but they are all still me.

I was pretty happy with the improvements I was able to make to this piece, both in terms of the models themselves (since Sapphire and Calanthe had different designs at that point) and the overall lighting (though the lens flare effect was not very easy to implement). So, I hope it's alright to post it again!

Happy fifth anniversary, Xenoblade Chronicles 2 ^-^

[fluffy-lovely-clouds]

hey, im a sfw tk account!! obviously i 100% understand and respect boundaries but imma be honest your dni/intro post is really fucking off-putting. There are both a sfw and nsfw side of the community, both of which are 100% okay and should be respected. I understand there are a lot of kink accounts that do not respect boundaries ESPECIALLY with minors which is fucking disgusting, and that you are 100% entitled to say you don't like tickling that way and don't want to be associated with it.

Anyways. my point. "i hate fetishists just as much as everyone else" is the most baby ass thing ive ever heard, and you sound no better than any homophobe. you have every right to not want nsfw accounts to interact with you, but hating people for their harmless sexual interest is deeply immature and no different than if someone were to say they hate the sfw side of the community. Now you saying you're a minor is very vague - you could be 17 or 12, and there's a huge difference in that. If you're older, i suggest you learn to be a bit more mature, kink-shaming for something harmless is just a dick move and you can critique the nsfw community without doing so. If you're younger, then i doubt anyone else has told you this, but as long as it harms no one, its not an issue, and you can set boundaries without being an asshole.

Thank you so much for pointing this out actually. I have been meaning to update my intro lately because of exactly that that I put in there.

I just want you to know that I didn't mean to kink shame, but I did and there is no excuse for that. I believe when I first wrote that, what I had been TRYING to say was that I hate people disrespecting boundaries (such as a nsfw account harassing a sfw one) but I'm very bad sometimes expressing myself when it comes to writing. I couldn't process what wording to use to explain my boundaries and ended up putting that, and I instantly knew that it didn't sound right. And it doesn't, it sounds terrible. I realize that and I'm going to change that now.

Again thank you for being aware of that, it just goes to show how respectful of a person you are. Your looking out for both parts of the community and that's great. I aim to do the same, so don't worry that part in my dni list is disappearing

Edit: Hi, editing this because I realized how much of a kiss-ass I was being when answering. Look I realize that what I had in my bio was fucked up, and I knew it was, but I promise you I did not mean it. As I said before above, I'm terrible at putting my thought process into words, and I know that sounds like a lame excuse, even I think it does. Your probably wondering "how does this person who doesn't want nsfw interactions end up writing 'I hate fetishists'. It can't possibly be JUST because they can't write how they feel right. "

Well in a way yes, I don't think it was just that. After answering this, I sat down and thought back to when I first my bio and tried to think of any other reason why I wrote that. Well, I finally remembered something. Back when I still used my main blog for this content, I had put a very subtle and friendly dni to nsfw accounts that I didn't want any interaction because it made me uncomfortable, but NOT because I was against it. Despite that, a nsfw account followed me and was reblogging my stuff anyhow. That made me really uncomfortable and upset that they didn't listen that when I made this account to replace my main, I tried to be more assertive about nsfw accounts interacting.

I literally remember sitting there writing my bio and having a hard time processing exactly what I wanted to put because I was still iffy about my experience with the nsfw account. I've figured out what I want in my bio now, but what I had wanted to put back then was something like: "I hate nsfw accounts that direspect boundaries as much as anyone else." But I was having a hard time figuring out how to put that in words + I was frustrated and in the end it had come out as " I hate fetishists " even though I knew I didn't.

I was just trying really hard to make my restrictions clear since they hadn't been respected last time and ended up putting something really fucked that wasn't true, because I couldn't figure out how else to put it.

Nonetheless it was an asshole thing to say, but I didn't mean it. I've said things in conversations before that have come off wrong because I couldn't find my words. I'm neurodivergent, and I'm not using that as an excuse, I'm using it because it's the reason. I can't help that, and I know I'm not the only one who's like that either. Usually, it happens especially when I'm talking about something I'm against OR am making a point of. I just can not figure out how I want to say what I want to say! I usually end up thinking about what I shouldn't say, and for some reason that clumps together with what I DO want to say and it ends up coming all out sounding wrong.

I thank you for standing up for both parts of the community, but even though I wrote an asshole thing, that doesn't make me one, especially now that I've explained myself and I really wish you hadn't gone and assumed me for being one since you didn't know the whole story.

If your going to address someone for something they did, be more assertive and less aggressive

[pettydollie]

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[moccahobi]

July and August Reads

Every time I write these, I am in awe at how fast the months go by. I won't bore you all with the same conversation about wishing to have read more because it seems like the pace I have been reading is about as average of a pace I can do. Which is ok! I read a lot of books but I struggle to read on my phone anymore and I think that has been one of my biggest barriers lately. I have another tangent about a big barrier for me atm but I want to reserve that for a reblog and not clog the original post from the amazing fics that I did read these two months.

Note: While I do not have a minors DNI mention on my blog, please remember to check the authors about me and/or headers and respect the boundaries they set about who they want reading their blogs~

BTS MxR

Drunken Confessions (Seokjin x Reader) ( @hoseokhasmyheartxx)

When you go to pick your best friend up from the bar, the last thing you're expecting is a drunken confession.

Warnings: alcohol consumption

SFW 

1k

Fluff, Non-Idol AU, Friends to Something

Ahhhh! This is such an adorable fic! I love how Steph took the idea of drunk words being sober truths and ran with it with this confession scene! It's such a great play on it! Anyone who loves fluffy confessions and (rightfully) hesitant main characters will LOVE this cute little fic! Truly it left my heart fuzzy and happy! 

Period Pooh (Jungkook x Reader) ( @vvh0adie )

After a long week of work, your week can only get better with a pregnancy scare. You really don’t need this especially when you already take care of your biggest baby, Jungkook. And he seems to be taking this the hardest. Either way you two will get through this together.

Warnings: mature language, anxiety, sexual language, feelings of emotional neglect, allusions to abortion, allusions to sex, allusions to assisted masturbation, pregnancy scare, excessive eating, parenthood talk

5.6k

Angst, Fluff, Established Relationship

Note: this fic is in a series but it can be read alone.

If you enjoy raunchy humor and a vast display of love languages, this is the fic for you! I loved the ways in which Plym showed the MC and Jungkook expressing their love for each other through the various love languages! Acts of service, words, gifts, time together. Even with their suggestive humor, they’re big softies for each other and it really shines through! Although this fic deals with some heavy topics, Plym keeps the story light as the MC and Jungkook try to comfort each other. It was such a great read!

BTS MxM

Better Left Untouched (Namkook) (AO3)

With a simple touch, Namjoon can hear thoughts. Jeongguk has a very good reason to never let him touch.

Warnings: No archive warnings apply

6.8k

Idol AU, Fluff, Supernatural 

OMG OMG OMG I'm going to preface this review with saying that after I read this fic I binged a bunch of other stuff in this author's masterlist. I'm obsessed with their writing! Especially in this piece, I found myself getting sucked in to the softness and the poetic waxing of everything that was happening. They balance tension and fluff so well and I absolutely loved the amount of non-sexual intimacy that was present in this fic. So often I feel like intimacy is very focused on sexual aspects, and as an ace person that doesn't really immerse me in a story as much as those non-sexual moments of intimacy that's just full of fluff. And this fic is just absolutely talked full of that and I loved it!

Heard them Talk (Namkook) (AO3)

The guy reaches for Namjoon’s tail again and Jeongguk can’t take minding his own business anymore. Gym bag thrown to the ground, his feet carry him forward in a thoughtless fury. “Don’t fucking touch my boyfriend!” he hollers and shoves the guy’s hand away.

Warnings: No archive warnings apply, multiple sex scenes, bullying

NSFW

24.7k

Fluff, Light Angst, Smut Hybrid AU, Supernatural AU, Fake Dating

Okay! Another fic by this amazing author and I absolutely love the ways in which both Namjoon and Jungkook have parallel struggles that they're going through. As a hybrid and a mostly non-hybrid area and a person with a bunny daemon, they both face a lot of scrutiny from the town that they're in. And they're insecurities because of this really parallel each other in a way that both keeps tension going, allows them to understand each other, and really just leads to such a beautiful connection between them. It also has some really fun scenes of them learning about each other and their experiences and way of life. It was just so enjoyable. 

Pufferfish (Namgi) (AO3)

Namjoon finds a battered, unconscious mermaid on the beach one morning and takes him home.

Warnings: No archive warnings apply, sex scenes, allusions to violence

NSFW

10.6k

Fluff, Smut, Mermaid AU, 

I absolutely love mermaid centered stories! And this one had such an interesting opening plot, with Namjoon just wanting to help Yoongi and inadvertently hurting him… but Yoongi just such a flexible person and he quickly adjusts to the world of humans. Through the story we really see friendships and romance bloom and an interesting conversation about the stereotypical path of a romantic relationship and the conflict that might come into play if you don't follow that traditional path.

Unfamiliars (Sope) (AO3)

Hoseok rescues a kitty in a summer storm. Thanks to some weird magic, Yoongi is that kitty. In a tiny apartment full of plants and moonlight, a simple, aching happiness blooms. But with what Jungkook knows, how long can the happiness last?

Warnings: No archive warnings apply, loneliness, unhoused moments, depression, multiple sex scenes

NSFW

Fluff, Angst, Shifter AU, Witch AU

NVOVNEVONEOCNWOGNEOCNEOFNEOFNDODNCODNDKCK WHEN I SAY I INHALED THIS! I'm a sucker for hybrid/shifter aus. If you looked at my older stuff and looked at some of the works that I beta, I really started exploring supernatural stories through hybrid aus. I find them so fun and there's really so much you can do with them and this story is such a great example of the many things you can do with them and the many paths you can take. It was such a bingeable and excitable read and each chapter I was left hanging on the edge of my seat and needing to know more!