My friends have said that they choose to be around me. My gf has said that she chooses to be with me. I'm going to do the terrifying thing and believe them, and not make decisions as if I have to convince them to stay.
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I love it when women hate men. I love it when women are allowed to vent to each other about how horrible and creepy men are. I love it when women form friendships with and prioritize each other over relationships with men(whether they're attracted to them or not). I love it when women put men dni in their bios and on their nude photos and on posts on their blogs. I love it when women refuse to mollycoddle and accommodate entitled male feelings with "but this doesn't mean I hate all men, I know a few men who are great, I love my father/sons/brothers/uncles/male cousins/guy friends" I love it when women complain about men WITHOUT "not all men" being a disclaimer. I love it when women avoid socializing with/refuse to be around/befriend/get close to men because they know men can't be trusted. I love it when women make "kill all men" jokes. I love it when women offer absolutely no concern or care for men's feelings and if their misandry offends men whatsoever because why should we, men are the oppressor class who have raped and killed and abused us and kept us as subjugated as second-class citizens for millennia, they regularly mistreat us and the women in their own marginalized communities still every single day and make this world so much harder and more awful for us to be in, and if we choose to hate them and not spare them any sympathy then so be it, and I don't just mean "men as a class" either, you can be a woman who doesn't want to have anything to do with any man on an individual basis and completely cuts off men from her personal life too and ykw I will love and fucking support you in that because men deserve absolutely NOTHING from us. If they're so tough and strong then they can handle it just like they can handle being lonely. If you are a woman who hates men, ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE A LESBIAN AND/OR A TRANS WOMAN, then just know that I love you. I love you, I support you, and you are safe here.
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I got so unhinged about supernatural i've been actually working on Virtual Ground because I have a perfectly good messed up pair of freaks from the early 2000s who don't get along and holy shit I want to tell that story
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Every time I PMS I sit here and get angry about God in one way or another and now I'm like I really cannot fathom being expected to have complete faith and trust in a deity who can a) take my protection that I ask for away at will, regardless of if I've "done" anything to "deserve" and therefore b) leave me victim to some of the most heinous violence at the hands of other human beings and c) STILL have that choice justified in the eyes of other worshippers.
They always say Gods plan this gods plan that..........why is slavery part of God's plan. Human trafficking. Violence. Dehumanization. Domestic violence. How many people are praying for freedom and peace that God is actively saying no to? Repeatedly? Some for years on end? I'm supposed to trust in that?????
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sending someone a song with the caption 'i think this is us' is literally the same thing as carefully cutting your heart out of your chest and handing it to them on a silver platter. by the way.
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me: everyone always says that recovery will be better
me: but here I am and I still have two friends, no career, am still obsessing about food and body image, you know.
me: they've always told me that this was because I was in my eating disorder but what if...
me: what if... it's just me??
me: my ed started as a way to fix myself and at least when I am using behaviors I feel like I am getting something done instead of just sitting and doing nothing.
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im starting my journey with intuitive eating and healing my relationship with food and yesterday and today i confronted 4 food fears!!!! i havent overeaten those foods or made myself go hungry as punishment!! i just ate when i was hungry and stopped when satisfied and it feels so nice!!!!!!! :')
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like . i just got a tag on my art that was like “omg i’ve been waiting for transfem miles stuff” like yes i’m glad u enjoy it but you should join me :3 make some posts…. maybe even post some art if you want… don’t be shy… hell send asks maybe… !!
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