nothing makes me happier than complimenting people or doing acts of service
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i do not know how im supposed to talk to people when im upset people keep telling me they want me to talk to them and then i do and then they get fucking upset and i don't understand what im supposed to do. im so tired of not understanding im so tired of fucking stuff up im so tired of being different i want to learn how to be okay on my own so i can stop interacting with people because it never fucking. works out or is good
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//Is it really bitchy for me to go through my following and unfollow people who aren't mutuals with me? The reason I am even considering it is that I can't remember when I am on mobile (which is where pretty much all of the meme's etc I send come from) and it doesn't let you check as far as I know who is and isn't on mobile, just on desktop. I see people I've been following for months and they haven't returned which is absolutely totally okay, I'm not disputing that, but I don't want to get confused, send something in thinking that we are mutuals and then have people think I'm some horrible, pushy, inconsiderate person which if you know me is not who I am at all.
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Been reading svsss fanfic and fan content for nearly two years now and I gotta say I am appalled by the lack of diety bros!sqq and sqh.
Like, we don't have nearly enough creator deity sqh anyway (the feral ones are e x q u i s i t e) but I haven't seen any where sqq is on the same level!
Consider: at one point in the past sy, in full hater inglory, starting (accidentally or otherwise) a full scale fan war over pidw. Trolls rampaging through comment sections, toxic ship wars spilling into social media sites and trending for days, streams of hate mail, attempts at doxxing poor sqh even. It culminates in the crashing of the entire site he posts on, obliterating the chapter he was working on and the site admins banning his work.
For the days it takes for him to get it put back up with his account unsuspended sqh suffers, and he almost successfully gets peerless cucumbers account terminated for starting it until he realises that pc jumped right back to paying for chapters and extra content like he was doing even in the final days of the war. Like he never did anything. Yeah, like he'll be forgetting that username any time soon.
Skip to the final chapter, and the fan war has calmed down, and actually benefitted sqh in the long run by giving pidw such a huge cultural platform. He posts, sy responds with the most scathing vitriol he's ever commented (having successfully pressed send before his body gave out) with allusions to another fan war surely brewing, and sqh jumps from his chair in fury and terror - he's on complete burnout, he hasn't got anything left to give, he can't afford to go through that again -
Trips, spills, the ramen gets everywhere. Killed by his own sparking computer, he dies before he sees the files corrupt, the entirety of pidw corroding away into terabytes of faulty static.
They both die within minutes of each other, sqh, the creator of pidw -
And sqq, who destroyed it.
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I love my little dog so much but man in retrospect there's so much I wish my family had known about dog care 14 years ago. I know some of his health problems are just parts of getting old and would've happened regardless, but there are things we could've easily incorporated into our routine from puppyhood to prevent certain problems (or at least reduce their severity). And I know we were doing our best with the resources at our disposal, especially since as my dog he was kind of my project (a bit of a big task for a 10 year old whose research capabilities were basically just the school library but 🤷♂️), but watching him deteriorate before my eyes and knowing it's partially because of something I didn't do makes it all the more painful.
And I feel like a lot of the information we didn't have, some of it essential to long-term health (like brushing their teeth daily), is stuff that your average dog owner doesn't seem to know either. It's almost like there's this popular Image of how to care for a dog that's reinforced by our society at large, and then there's the things that only the Heavily Invested™️ (aka the people who get mocked for being "dog parents") do. And a lot of times there are things everyone really should be doing for their dogs, but they never know because they work off that popular image and add anything their vet specifically tells them to do as they go along. Except, at least in Milo's case, the vet really only gives advice once there's an Obvious Problem.
Anyway the point I was trying to make somewhere in all that waffle is that if you have a young dog start toothbrush training RIGHT NOW. You do not want them to get gingivitis someday, and nobody told us how to prevent it until it was already too late.
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i am definitely procrastinating on my studies right now (hello, finals) and no one asked for this, but. okay, as someone who’s now just a gasp away from finishing her first year of law school, the way i can confidently say that yes, make friends at law school/professional school in general. but also the way i want to slam over everyone’s heads that like. also. it is quite literally necessary to stay in touch with and invest even more deeply in your friendships outside of professional school because hello did you know that those people are going to be the ones that remind you that you have an actual personality
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So I've been watching book reviews again, particularly supernatural romance ones since pretty much all my wips either are that or have elements of it and it's weird realizing that just by giving my main characters goals other than 'be in love with each other' I'm already doing better than some people.
Also like...having characters besides the main pair/group.
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In case anyone needed to hear this today:
It's okay to be attracted only to men.
It's okay to be attracted only to women.
It's okay to be attracted to both men and women.
It's okay to be attracted to everyone.
It's okay to not be attracted to anyone.
You're only human and you're doing the best you can, as long as you're not hurting yourself or anyone else, just do what makes you happy, be with who makes you happy.
It's okay.
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