#tiktok will always be worse

[qu0rky]

As someone completely new to posting on tumblr, i really appreciate all the love i’ve gotten in this community!! Escaping from the clutches of shitty tiktok opinions was no easy task, and i’m just glad i’m able to breathe now. Jokes aside, all the radiostatic enjoyers i’ve met have been by far the nicest people in the entire fandom ^^ I just want all of them to become my friend. I did not think anyone here would care about my silly posts and opinions, but i’ve received a surprising amount of followers and reblogs from all sorts of cool people in fandoms i’m not even in! I just love seeing nerds (affectionately) going off about what they’re into, it’s just really fun to see!

[nukacourier]

Hate that you can't even mention how Honest Hearts and especially Joshua Graham being idolized and posted about uncritically by the fandom basically opened a door for racist Christian nutjobs to start feeling more accepted in the fandom when they used to be less of an issue due to NV being seen as the "queer fallout game" till Joshua became a fan favorite without hearing "let people enjoy things!!"

[forbiddentaako]

fuck it radioapple week day 1:late night/early morning

[half-an-hour-hence]

If I see one more person in the comment section of a Fellow Travelers TikTok calling Hawk a villain I might actually end it all

[oceanwithouthermoon]

my favorite thing ever is when people judge a whole ship for something like a few of the fans do 😭 like dude i guarantee that ur ship has fans that r just as bad ☠️ mikosai fans coming at terusai fans because a few hundred people said terusai are canonically dating in the end, as if there arent also a few hundred mikosai fans using that one aiura fantasy, cropped so you cant see the fantasy bubble, to prove mikosai are canon

[twistedappletree]

For the ace intimacy moment prompt: zhuiling ? 💛🩵💛🩵

Jin Ling is having a breakdown (possibly his third for the day because emotional peony is emotional) and Lan Sizhui knows that asking him what’s wrong will just make him cry even more, so instead, he holds him until he stops hyperventilating then cups his face in his hands, wipes his tears away and says, “It’s okay. Talk to me.”

[lizardmonet]

[because-its-eurovision]

I fully get the anxiety of feeling like you don’t deserve to go to a show. It comes with the whole competetive fandom stuff.

Honestly, as someone who has performed on a lot of stages with varying kinds of crowds, the most important thing isn’t if you’re the biggest fan or if you know the lyrics or some choreography or bring gifts. The thing that is the most valuable is that you go to the show to have a good time. That’s all the artists are generally looking for. That people enjoy their music, enjoy the show, are excited to be there.

Some people may be disappointed that they don’t get a ticket, sure. But it’s not you taking that ticket away from them. Not everyone can have everything. Sometime people don’t get concert tickets. That is not your fault for buying. It is a thing that happens when everyone has the right to buy concert tickets instead of them being raffeled off or gifted. If the show was just for the biggest fans, tickets would be give out as competition prices, not to the person who buys them.

And there is no right way to enjoy the show. Some superfans never learn lyrics because they don’t particularly care. Some people buy tickets to go see random artists just for the experience. Some people just love to give gifts and find that to be the best way of interacting. Your way of doing it is just as valid as all that. You don’t have to earn any right to be there, that is what the tickets are for.

And honestly, you’d be surprised by the number of people who have never even heard of an artist or band who just show up for the show because they had a day off and it could be fun. It’s not about deserving to be there. It’s about wanting to go and getting the chance to actually do that.

I don’t know if this little pep talk eases your mind at all, but I hope it does. Learning to let go of the competetive mindset and attitude when it comes to regular life stuff is a chore and a half. I just want you to know that I would love for you to go to the show.

Thank you for reaching out. I really appreciate it ❤

[coulsonlives]

I just had to share this video because holy shit, it hits the nail right on the head! So well spoken. This stuff needs to be circulated more, esp with the growing number of people thinking they have this because of misinformation, or just outright faking it.

[paperlovesadness]

Ugh, sometimes I look into Miles' comment sections and feel so bad for him.

I don't think I need the disclaimer if you know my blog - but just in case. Yes, I love TLSP. As a band - they're in my very top of favorites (next to a bunch of dead people bands). As people - I'm fascinated by them both apart and together.

But I can't bear seeing the amount of people who ignore Miles himself and his solo stuff to just shout "GIVE US TLSP3" / "DO THIS SONG WITH ALEX" at him. Lord, get a grip people. If you love the band so much - be nice and considerate to one of its actual frontmen.

He's talented in his own right. Very. We need more respect and appreciation for that.

[willowparkfanclub]

it's such a testament to how phenomenal an actor nico parker is that i've been. almost genuinely grieving sarah all week??? when i KNEW she would die?? that never EVER happens with media but the way she was portrayed just made her so real and relatable. her remarks with her family and the neighbors, making breakfast, knowing where jakarta is, doing her homework, getting her dad birthday gifts, riding the bus into town, touching the sprinklers and looking up at the sunset, not liking raisin cookies, going to check on the adlers knowing she shouldn't, the way she looks at the horror around her, the way her and joel look at each other like the other is everything because to them they ARE, even down to the details of her room and the doodles on her jeans. we feel so deeply how young and ALIVE she is- how important she is to joel and tommy. to see her ripped away from life so violently, to see her ripped away from her FAMILY, was so beyond gutting that i've just been genuinely sad and thinking about what was and what could've been all damn week

[venomgender]

my favorite part about instagram becoming more and more influencer pilled algorithm wise is thaf it wsnt from an app uou posfed on to show off to your friends and family so you could expect at leasf 1/3rd of your following go like your post to an app thaf you mudt post a tik tok on to get famous so now i post a post on my private account that onky friends and family follow and i get like 3 likes because the algorith has decided im less important than the 30th reposted tik tok my followers have seen. really good job really smart thanks

[13eyond13]

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[j-esbian]

sometimes i really do want to study the flavor of intense misogyny from older folks, especially when it comes from older women, that assumes all women and girls are sluts and deviants because (checks notes) fashion trends, which the individual consumer has no control over, means that most people’s only options, especially in summer, are to wear somewhat revealing clothing. because it’s hot.

[tryingoutsol]

I would love to transition I think? into a man but the idea of learning new social rules and the violence from other men terrifies me so much that I think I'd rather just stay looking like a "weird" girlthing

[ppulverse]

i was really hoping to see beomgyu in the credits for writing and/or producing at least one of the tracks so i'm feeling kinda upset that literally everyone else worked on at least 2 songs while he got nothing bc that probably means they all wrote stuff and he was the only one whose lines didn't get approved :(