Parenting 101- part 2 - The first 40 days
Hello Humans,
Congrats you survived birth, stayed at the hospital and hopefully been showed how to breastfeed did your screenings for the small bubba, sort got a hang on it and now you are home.
Well, forget the nice sleep-eat-sleep routine you got at the hospital you are home now and the small bubba is ready for cluster feeding and time to show you how rough sleep deprivation is.
With my…
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Finding Humour in the Grip of Murphy's Law
Murphy's Law dictates that if something can go wrong, it will. Embrace the chaos, find humour in the setbacks, and let resilience guide you through life's unpredictable twists. Laugh in the face of adversity and thrive despite Murphy's Law.
Finding humor in life’s misfortunes not only lightens the burden, but it also empowers us to transcend the challenges with resilience and grace. Laughter holds the transformative power to reshape our perspective, creating a path of strength and joy even in the face of Murphy’s Law.
Dr. Rebecca Harper, Humour and Resilience Expert
Murphy’s Law, the timeless adage that dictates that anything that…
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Unpredictable life
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It is universal fact life journey is unpredictable but every one make their life strategy. When we in present situation we expect our life will be so glamorous in future scenario, but time never Statics it is always change. Our present aspirations will be fulfilled in future no warranty.
Every one should accept the journey of life will be unpredictable in next second what will…
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people when trauma victims act traumatized especially in a way that is unpalatable to them because it involves lashing out and unpredictable moods and having boundary issues rather than just being demure, sad, and consumable
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"And I'm not gonna tell you, here, how to live your life. I'm just saying, I guess, that I got very lucky. You know, I'm looking at a strange and unpredictable future in a tough business with rules that I'm not completely familiar with, and when I become familiar with them, I, you know, I don't know whether I like them that much."
(Anthony Bourdain, quoted in Roadrunner: A Film About Anthony Bourdain)
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I was reading the hashtags on the ask about Machete and Vasco distancing before Machete's assassination and something about the "we'll figure this out next time I come to visit" just struck a cord with me
just the unknowingness, the fact there was never a next time, and the "stay safe" just adds to it, there's just a sense of tragic irony in those words with the scenario
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no one told me adulthood would be eating risotto alone in one of the best italian restaurants in porto, reading drarry fan fiction
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Parenting 101-part 4/ baby clothes
Hello Parents,
This is is going to be a quick one it’s all about clothes. I know you are excited to buy baby clothes but let me tell you 1 they are expensive 2 they grow out of it so fast that it’s gonna cost an arm and a leg to keep buy clothes.
Now there are a few options it depends on where you live in the world but I am going to put all your options there and you can choose what’s the right…
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alicent, a woman who’s been stripped of all power and agency and has no sway or influence amongst the green council, should have concluded her liberation arc by… coming to the understand that her mistreatment within this patriarchal system pales in comparison to the love she holds for her sons (one of whom she’s disowned in 1x08, the other pre-2x01), and she should have used the power (that she doesn’t have) to continue to support the green claim (that she doesn’t believe in). she should have thrown away her own feelings of (freely chosen) love for rhaenyra, knowing these feelings ‘don’t actually matter’ (they do), and just, again, sacrifice her body, mind, and mouth for her sons (who she 1. doesn’t believe in and 2. knows do not have her own or helaena’s best interest in mind). the driftmark scene (that alicent verbally expresses regretting and which otto tries to manipulate her into believing was justified directly afterward) and alicent standing in front of meleys during aegon’s coronation (yet another example of alicent sacrificing her body to otto’s cause that she’s been manipulated into believing is her only purpose) are definitive proof that alicent should have become a scorched earth mama bear in season 2 that should have not have had any conflicted feelings about her sons’ unnecessary violence and total ineptitude at ruling the kingdom because… the ends (i.e., aegon being in the throne… which she doesn’t believe in) justify the means. alicent could have just used her voice (again, the one that she doesn’t have in this version of the story; let go of book!alicent) to sway her sons’ policy if they were trying to do something she didn’t agree with, and otherwise, she should have just let them do what they wanted to secure the green claim (that alicent doesn’t believe in). turning to rhaenyra (alicent’s only reference for freedom and chosen love) after concluding her liberation arc is out of character (it isn’t, alicent has chosen rhaenyra over her children several times) and doesn’t make sense (i’m just going to assume you weren’t paying attention to the plot, dialogue, set design, editing, costuming, etc., that suggested alicent was seeking out rhaenyra throughout the entire season, starting with her moving into rhaenyra’s childhood bedroom before the season even began). alicent is dumb (sure, i’ll give you that) for trusting rhaenyra (she can’t trust her own sons either, and arguably, to a greater extent). alicent should realize her love for rhaenyra is no longer relevant (it is and always will be, as expressed by the writers about… one million times) because she should care more about her sons (that she doesn’t support anymore and that she cannot control) than her own happiness and securing safety for helaena/jaehaera (her children/grandchildren that she’d like to see no harm come to). also, exploring alicent’s motherhood (alicent ‘switching sides’ still does this lol) would have been more interesting than exploring her repressed queerness/lesbianism (i mean idek know what to say to this bc how the hell do you think this isn’t interesting and novel and worth exploring). ultimately, i have another version of alicent in my head (book!alicent) that i wish had been adapted instead (totally valid opinion to have! though you ultimately shouldn’t project book!alicent onto show!alicent because they have been fundamentally different characters since the very beginning), so i’m going to pretend alicent going to rhaenyra in 2x08 is bad, unpredictable writing (instead of something those ‘annoying shippers’ had been theorizing about since before the season even began because the clues were literally there, even that early).
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