Me before you is one of his saddest movies I literally cry like a baby but its one of my favourite romance movies
Ok so I watched this movie last night and I definitely enjoyed looking at Sam Claflin and I thought the actors had AMAZINGGGG chemistry so it was a genuinely wonderfully fun watch until the last, like, ten minutes…. But taking that into consideration,, I will say, personally, that I’m quite tired of the narrative pushed by Hollywood that disabled people would rather die than live disabled.
Like, I’m actually entirely pro assisted suicide, so it’s nothing to do with the ethical implications of that or saying he shouldn’t have exercised this right but entirely to do with the fact that this author clearly just… didn’t do her research. Or really… talk to many disabled people from what I gathered (like saying he had a C12 injury which,, isn’t real)? Like, I watched the most beautiful documentary about disabled people’s sex lives over the summer for my human sexuality class and all of those people were so fucking happy to be alive. Like, genuinely all of them.
And I’m not saying that stories like this can’t be told because I do think it’s nice to see all perspectives on a topic and all different narratives about people’s different lives… but I think it’s sad that I can’t think of any media where disabled people are just… people who get to live happy lives. And who get to have good sex with the people they love… So, like, I enjoyed watching the movie for the most part but I did find the ending just inherently disappointing. Just because the existing pool of disabled romance is already so small, I don’t know why it all needs to be like that.
6 notes
·
View notes
The SIBLINGS KaraWOKEzov🗣️
🔥TRANS man MITYA🔥
💥CLOSETED trans WOMAN Ivan💥
🔥AGENDER Alyosha🔥
💥GAY Femme SMERDYAKOV with all the PRONOUNS💥
58 notes
·
View notes
Also, short observation from my time in hospital, no more skinny doctors talking to me about my weight thanks
Surprisingly, telling me to just lose weight is neither helpful nor as easy as your 65kg ass seems to think it is, and acting like it's brand new information that I, a 38 year old fat person who has been desperately dieting and trying to accept their body since the age of 9, could never have considered is really not that helpful
26 notes
·
View notes
look Cole's fall in March of the Oni is definitely heartbreaking but in order to retain my sanity I have to laugh at something while I watch it. That something is always the fact that Cole somehow didn't get knocked out before properly falling and the "One Ninja Will Fall" promotional poster
10 notes
·
View notes
Rain rain rain rain it's soooo nice. We heard thunder on the horizon and watched the clouds and the rain move in. We stayed under the pool shelter which is this large metal structure with picnic benches underneath. We didn't get to swamp but honestly the rain is just amazing. It came down sooooo hard, the hugest raindrops just pouring over the structure and making so much noise and the thunder overhead as well. And just as soon as it began it was over. The summer storms and rain here are awesome.
8 notes
·
View notes
I did a couple of paintings on my backpack yesterday. I will probably add more later but for now I have some mushrooms and an octopus.
It was nice to have a fun project without the intention of making something to sell later (a lot of art I do is to make prints for art markets).
14 notes
·
View notes
The Long Shadow
Below is the link to Rob's two episodes of The Long Shadow. I only uploaded the episodes he was in so as to save room on my Drive but if anyone is absolutely desperate to see the entire series I can eventually upload it all. He appeared in episodes 4 & 5. The episode 4 appearance is very short, really just one scene, with episode 5 having slightly more screen time.
► The Long Shadow ◄
28 notes
·
View notes
I don't think I Want to know what the Mystery Stain on my floor at work was Or why the only thing that could remove it was straight bleach Or that it foamed up for 5 minutes after k dumped the bleach on it what I Do want to know is Why no one cleaned it up before I did today
4 notes
·
View notes
this team is so unserious how can they procrastinate winning a football match
18 notes
·
View notes
i have this thing where when i get myself into fandom its either five years after anything major happened and it was relevant to anyone outside diehard established fanbase or two days before all shit starts to hit the fan but i don't know it until week later. theres no middle ground
11 notes
·
View notes