#whinge over
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Something I really wish more creators would understand is that constantly complaining about your work not getting as much engagement as you'd like doesn't make me want to engage with your work more, it just makes you look bitter and the endless negativity makes me want to unfollow
#idk it's fine to complain about every now and then but some people make it 70% of their online personality and it gets so tiring#there's a youtuber who's videos i really like but over time he's just posted more and more about how youtube clearly hates him etc#and it's so tiring#and i know it's harder when you get a large part of your income from online content#but for people who aren't doing this as a career maybe you need to reassess your relationship with social media engagement#anyway#whinge over#personal post#tbd
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I never know the 'best' way to post these, but: 5 page comic. Thorfinn 'no you!'-ing his way into a regular gig
Vaguely a stream of consciousness and tonally inconsistent continuation off this other comic
#ok but i needta whine and whinge its whinging hours ok? ok#no ones drawn consistently- the tones all over the place- i hate writing dialog- its all over wrought for what it is-#im never drawing a boat again- can you even tell its a monastery at the end??#and yeah it just chillin there on the water front in the late viking age is def not a thing- but shh its fine. its fine!#...ok . anyway! :D tags#vinland saga#thorfinn#bjorn#askeladd#the askedad agenda is getting to me though and i hate it#also i love drawin nugget-finn but i loathe giving askeladd his hailline back#also hope askeladd doesnt cone across as like money obsessed? i get hes not but that IS still why they do what they do#and i think from thorfinns perspective he may as well be#other thing. i like how bjorn and askeladd communicate by not fuckin communicating#i think its most overt in the manga when bjorn is asking askeladd to kill him but they do it all the time and i love it#and i wonder how much of it is understood and how much is presenting a front based on their read of the others front but like.#anyway i drew a dumb comic :U
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Tested some lineless things with the 'roba
#undertale yellow#uty#ceroba uty#ceroba ketsukane#the cowboy hat draws#Was mostly just doodling and applying some tips from a friend for art style stuff#Some errors but I'm determined to not let myself fuss and whinge over art pieces for days and days as I'm prone to do LOL#Was fun to do! I oughta try and get better at lineless artwork
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Ok so off topic for this account BUTTTT
Honestly 9-1-1 needs to step the FUCK up because the way they handle the next 3 episodes genuinely will either tank the show for me or solidify season 8 as a top tier season.
Like I’m not kidding give me Bobby buried alive and rising like freaking Jesus, the Doppelgänger Texas fiasco situation addressed PROPERLY with nuance and buddie canon and I will forgive Tim Minear
#I truly believe bobby is not dying#maybe I’m delusional#like I love the lack of realism like yessss buried alive bobby#baddie canon is so serious im not kidding#also like the doppleganger situation and eddies relationship with Chris like that has NOT been resolved#pleaseeeee give Eddie his crumbs#like these 3 things are not negotiable for me#I will boycott the show#maybe not over the doppleganger situation buddie canon would distract me but I’d still have a whinge#9 1 1 spoilers#911 spoilers#911 abc#911 show#buddie#bobby nash#evan buckley#eddie diaz
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to have him smile in your arms
#pokemon#bedehop#cheeryfairyshipping#woolooshipping#bede#hop#rival bede#rival hop#trainer bede#trainer hop#pokemon sword and shield#swsh#bede carrying the hero of galar easily like he's a delicate flower uwu because hop smiles so bright when he does uwu#hop just really likes how dashing bede can be when he's not whinging over hop's hair or something
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<Beautiful Mind> World Tour in SEOUL Day 2 ♡
#xdinary heroes#gunil#jungsu#gaon#ode xdinary heroes#junhan#jooyeon#if anyone was wondering why i didn't say anything about the concert until now it's because the styling pissed me off lol#please tell me ill-fitting suits with random shoes isn't going to be a running theme#and whatever they were trying to do with junhan's hair pissed me off#we had it SO GOOD YESTERDAY WHAT WERE THEY THINKING#i've been freaking out with rae over everything the whole time though don't get it twisted#think i just had too much faith in the stylists lol#junhan looked so good in the encore after being put in a tshirt and severe headbanging anyway#actually no the encore was an improvement overall actually. fuck those boxy ass suit jackets#sorry for having a whinge lol i've been too quiet today
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I hate having to adapt I hate marketability I hate being reminded by people who I love that my chosen forms of art are becoming less and less worthwhile as the world changes around me I hate being stuck being considered a crafter when what I want to be is a craftsman
#news from the cupola#whinge whine sob. y'know.#also I really hope that over time t does for me what people say it has done for others and saps my ability to cry at the drop of a hat#I do not Like being a damp motherfucker all the time it's inconvenient and undignified#and also makes my skin really dry which just adds insult to injury
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gushing etc
#i wanna say im always incredibly touched whenever people like and interact with my fic at all#but honestly the thing that's got me the hardest is that after i posted my death note your name au#and then made that extra tumblr post where i just rambled about it for a bit#that post ended up getting more interaction than even the fic post#which absolutely shocked me because i wrote that post like#for myself or for the i thought maybe 2 or 3 people who might be interested in reading it#i really thought it would get like 1 interaction.#it's absolutely crazy to me that anyone let alone that many people were interested enough not only in reading the fic#but in reading what i had to say about it. like idk how to express this without just turning into a fruit gusher#but it really is just fucking humbling#not to fucking whinge but im quite used to being talked over and interrupted in my real life#so thank you very much for caring what i have to say.#it is hard to express what that means.#rookposting#man shut up @ myself
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Aww, kids. They give you so much. 🥰 Like that stomach bug we were nursing him through last weekend? Yeah, well, my turn now. 🤢🤮
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i think what pisses me off so much about the (tumblr) bflf fans (using this term so it doesn’t show up in searches and also because i personally see bflf fans as a separate (mainly english language) phenomenon from 双xuan fans) is that like. so much of what is held up as “proof” and “canon” is just like………seventh degree extrapolation. i say this as someone who DOES ship them and DOES think their narrative is fascinating. but also like. that narrative is about class and privilege and how deeply deeply damaging it is that rich people (aristocracy in this case) are capable of literally stealing the fate of people from poor families, and how no one will do anything, for centuries, or care, because those poor people don’t matter in the eyes of society. hx is plagued by a ghost that torments him as a human, by calamities that take his betrothed and his family from him, that turn him, ultimately, into a ravenous ghost who can think of nothing but grief and anger and hunger and revenge. and sqx gets to have his title, his destiny, for centuries. yes, because swd loved him, but that doesn’t change how deeply unjust this is. it doesn’t change the fact that sqx was only afforded this fate at the cost of a common person. and when you reduce their narrative down to “bflf are in love!” “bflf are doomed yuri!” etc, you’re ignoring the very intentional narrative message being sent, nevermind my personal thoughts on whether they were in love (probably not in canon) or wlw (lol. this one would get me fifty years of hate comments).
also if you’re convincing people to read the novel by telling them all about bflf i think you should be subjected to ten hours of nail clipping asmr because you’re just fucking doing false advertisement and i hope for your sake the friend who trusted you on this topic doesn’t begin to secretly distrust you based on lying to them to get them to read your favourite book.
#i need a salt tag or something because i whinge about fandom bullshit so often#sunny needs a salt tag#bam. there. for future filtering#tianguan#m#i think at least 20% of my frustration is that mxtx works are ones where everyone besides the main cp#are written as ambiguously straight. and sometimes you have a lot of things you can point to as proof that they’re not! but you’re expected#by the narrative generally to read them as straight#(cf that quote by her saying no one else in modao is gay besides wngxn LOL. i don’t like word of god#and i think there’s other gay people in modao but like. you have to acknowledge to a degree that if the authors says everyone else is meant#to be straight. that’s going to impact the intentions re: audience perception etc#and while it’s absolutely a great time to make arguments for why the author is just WRONG in some cases based on canon evidence#i really don’t think BFLF of all ships is the hill that’s most convenient to die on unless you’re like. situated in echo chambers about the#ship. LOL)#<- tags that will get me raked over the coals if any fans i’m talking about find me#oh also i should say. talk about them being a cp isn’t eng lang exclusive. however this specific way of insisting it’s a Major Plot Element#is something that i usually only see in english.#c.txt
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is it possible to be aspd if you dont “engage in criminal activity”? what if you mask really well and hold yourself on an incredibly tight leash despite how much it distresses you? the DSM doesnt do a good job at explaining what ASPD actually IS aside from “violent criminal disorder”
It is possible, yes. From criterion one, there are seven total symptoms, and you [technically] only need three to qualify for diagnosis (along with meeting the requirements for the other two criterion--note that we personally view the DSM as incredibly flawed, especially when portraying personality disorders such as NPD and ASPD; however, we are (unfortunately) at whims of the world in which we live, and so are largely beholden to the guidelines made by a bunch of neurotypicals who can only view things through the lens of how our disorders affect them or look to them, generally just totally ignoring the internal experiences of the people with said disorders. So much for having empathy, I guess).
We're an example of someone who has not engaged in criminal activity to the DSM's standards; note that the criminal activity had to have been or would have been enough to get you imprisoned, so something like getting a speeding ticket wouldn't count for this symptom (although it would count under reckless behavior, but I digress). Largest reason why we don't (technically) fit the symptom is that we're physically disabled which prevents... a lot of the things we would otherwise do.
#not cluster b culture#Mod Reef#anonymous#unqueued#ASPD#ignore me whinging and whining about how much i dislike the DSM lmao#it's Mod Reef infodumping about ASPD hour#again just to note. i am not (fully) back and i am only doing this because i am bored and enjoy talking about ASPD#+ Mod Orange was away over the weekend and unable to answer asks so we figured we'd pitch in a little bit since we were sick anyways
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How am I gonna F/O imagines my way through this one yall(pollen has finally reached a point of kicking my ass again).
Okay well my ass hasn't gotten kicked yet but it's at the point where the box of tissues is staying with me in my bed and a nice make-shift trash bin(it's a paper bag, it's how we reuse grocery bags) is at my bed side.
#im so curious what the pollen experience is for others. Because I had an online friend like freak when I said the pollen in my area is-#-so bad that you can see it. like in puddles and dusting on cars and things and on the side of the road. it is HEAVY.#i have to wash off fhe windsheild of the car cause it's powdered on there. it's like that on every car.#And it's reached the point of where tissues are my best friend for a hot minute.#rest in pieces my nose and the soft palate of my mouth. and slightly my eyes#one year i got it so bad over spring break i was clinging to popsicles. might as well have given be strep throat.#it was like someone took a cheese grater to the roof of my mouth. i wouldnt wish that on my worst enemy.#one car that came in to the shop yesterday ruined me. sneezed so much and kept having to leave to get tissues.#Everyone is getting a free car wash from me now. and by that i mean getting blasted with a gsrden hose.#dont mind me im. not venting or ranting here or anything just some. whinging and whining.#uhmm do i tag this? do i put the Any tag?#sure why not. maybe I'll think of something#Any💘
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Why can't we just have nice things?
#star wars#the acolyte#Star Wars the acolyte#Legit really pissed about this#I was fucking invested in that#Like I have no doubt this is because of the fan negativity#And I just can't help but hate the Star Wars fandom at this time#This is a fandom that is constantly throwing tantrums over the stupidest shit#And those tantrums ensure that we never explore stories that are about anything other than nostalgia bait#And even those will likely invite their own whinging#Gonna be honest#I don't know the way forward for this franchise#Every time someone tries to do something new and interesting the fandom throws a hissy fit#Every time someone other than a cishet white man makes a show the fandom throws a hissy fit#Even when nostalgia bait goes a little differently from what they wanted the fandom throws a hissy fit#So what is there to do?#What stories are there to tell?#If you're going to try and make stories for people who just want to be angry at you for everything you do#What is left?#And why won't these people who repeatedly say they're done with Star Wars just go the fuck away already?#What do they gain by sticking around to a franchise they say has left them behind?#Why are they so offended that other people are enjoying something that's not for them anymore?#And how do you tell a story when a whole cadre of assholes is going to try to hijack the narrative around it before it even starts?
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hnnnng when did tumblr start showing you things your mutuals like??? That means my one (1) mutual can see posts that I like and that makes me nervoussss
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my brain has been so mush for the past several weeks if not months and not having my adhd meds is definitely not helping 😵💫 but oh my god I do not want to go back to my family doctor who has made it clear so many times that he does not know what he’s doing and also doesn’t care. soon I’m going to be without insurance so I need to get my medical shit together fast but in order to do that I need meds and in order to get meds I need my medical shit together but in order to do that I need meds etc.
#personal#mh#it’s hell hardly being able to string a sentence together#I keep losing my vocabulary but then I also can’t read books to refresh it bc my eyes just slide over paragraphs like oil#and then I’m so up and down emotionally bc I can’t regulate lol girl help#and then all my self care and home maintenance goes to shit like I am so embarrassed by my apt rn#I need to do laundry and cleaning so bad but I Can’t for Unknown Reasons#beating my brain back with a stick like girl get it together 😭#then when I’m on meds I can’t eat bc All Food Is Illegal and liable to be expelled at any moment#so it’s like. take the meds and I’m mentally a bit better but physically a wreck#or don’t take meds and I’m physically a bit (?) better but brain is boiled stew and even if I do have an appetite I have no energy to do#anything about it#ed cw#disordered eating cw#how can a body sleep for 16+ hrs a day and STILL be tired. it’s so goddamn ridiculous 💀#ugh anyway I’m going to stop whinging and try to cheer myself up a bit#I need 1) shower 2) dishes 3) laundry#but before even that I need 1) contacts 2) sleep (even though I’m sick of sleeping)
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You wouldn’t last an hour in the asylum where they raised me (the sims 1&2. And I’m talking to people who have only played ts4)
#sims 3 enjoyers you can perhaps also relate to this. i really genuinely don’t know#i didn’t like the look of ts3 so i never really played it#my quarrel with ts4 players is when they whinge about not being able to do some esoteric building thing#and i’m like girl. i can’t even set different heights on different parts of my roof#(they did change that in mansions and gardens but i don’t have m&g because i have a mac 🫠)#or when they’re casually building basements and i’m like you need to use an extremely specific cheat to do basements in ts2#and if you don’t absolutely nail it; your basement will be full of water. there are tutorials on this#the one that really gets me though is the pathing#i know sims can still experience pathing errors and inaccessible shit in ts4 but it’s SO much worse in ts2#i don’t even try building a kitchen without at least 2 empty counters because the motherfuckers will leave plates on there and decide it#means that they can’t cook#also gets me when i see people ✨building a tiny house in the sims 4✨ and i’m like that wouldn’t even be CLOSE to functional in ts2#i had to download a mod just to be able to use bunk beds#cluttering surfaces? forget it. you need to use a system of invisible shelves#earlier my sim couldn’t get in her shower because there was a counter next to it. NEXT TO it. not in front of it#they have zero ability to step over plates; baby bottles; teddy bears or any other inconsequential item#they have dance parties in the bathroom#genuinely the game of all time. wouldn’t play any other simulation#personal
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