#nonbinary-confessions

[spreadwardiard]

I used to be truscum. You know, transmedicalism. I am trans, I genuinely believed that all nonbinary and non dysphoric trans people were faking being trans for attention. I argued that one required dysphoria to be considered trans. I fake claimed trans supporters of non binary people. I made claims that because they weren't suffering like I was, they were making a mockery of what I was experiencing.

I asked the question: Why would anyone who wasnt dysphoric go through this unless for attention? I accused them of stealing resources from 'legitimately' trans people. I accused them of being transphobic. Of wearing my identity as a costume to feel special. I had stories of a single individual nonbinary person who hurt me that I used to paint all nonbinary people as predatory. I accused happy trans people of faking because how could they like how they look and find joy and whimsy in what was to me nothing but suffering and pain.

I was blatently wrong about ALL of this. So when I say that anti-endos are the same as transmeds, this is where Im coming from. The arguments are EXACTLY the same ones I was making to excuse my own bigotry towards a group of people I didn't understand: nonbinary and non dysphoric trans people. I have yet to see a single anti-endo stance that doesnt have a direct parallel to the bigoted stuff i used to say when I was sipping the truscum koolaid.

[nyancrimew]

Confession time!

I am nonbinary but none of the sex partners I’ve ever been with know it. I can be very masculine and the circumstances I’m currently in don’t really allow for any substantial amounts of gender fuckery anyways.

The weirdest thing is that many of said partners say that they’re only attracted to men and some of them are exclusively into very masculine men (which, again, I can pass as).

Sometimes I kind of feel like a fraud because a) I technically lie to them about my gender identity and b) I’ve gone through all of my sex life as a man so far, so am I even allowed to call myself enbie? (Yes, the last thing is extremely dumb, I know)

you are absolutely allowed to call yourself non binary and that kind of phase of not being out is what most people go through in some way as they figure themselves out or as they're waiting to be able to come out

[enby-confessions]

as an intersex nonbinary trans person im so tired of AGAB shit. theres this one nonbinary group on facebook that does "AMAB monday" and "AFAB friday" and you are discouraged to post on AMAB monday if you're AFAB. like good job reinventing the binary.

yikes

[non-western-trans-confessions]

Welcome to Non-western Trans Confessions!

Welcome to a trans confessions blog dedicated to the trans people who are not in the West. We noticed this gap when it came to trans confessions blogs, so we decided to fill it.

Meet our mods!

Hello! I'm 🦦, and I'm a South Asian transmasc who does live in the West. My pronouns are he/him and I am transmasc. I am mostly here to help out the other mod with blog stuff.

Hi! I'm 🐬, I'm Iranian, and I have lived in a Central Asian country my whole life. My pronouns are also he/him, ftm. I am not available very often at the moment but I hope to change that soon.

Rules:

We will not be participating in discourse. This is meant to be a safe space for people. You can vent about discourse in here, but we will not be participating in it.

Don't be a bigot. We will not tolerate transphobia, homophobia, intersexism, racism, or ableism of any kind. Don't be a misogynist either.

If you talk about NSFW things, please don't go too much into detail about it. We want minors to be able to interact with this blog as well.

This is a safe space for non-westerners/people who live in the global south (if that's the terminology that you prefer). If you live in the West/global north, don't use this confessions blog.

Also, we are antizionists. This is not a safe space for zionists. Keep that in mind as you interact with this blog.

If we need to add any other rules, we will!

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[vampyre--dyke]

u guys think anyone at my piano recital knew i was a lesbian… be honest

[mcsm-confessions]

male jesse this female jesse that nonbinary jesse is where its at

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[frameconfessions]

I want a gf who tries to consume my soul bc she believes it'd make me happy and sends goofy jumpscares when someone tries to stand between her and me. Why is only Flare allowed to have fun this update.

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[tsbs-shipfessions]

Transfem Solar x Transmasc Sun x NB Bloodmoon

[enbys-confessions]

You've been added to a list. Enjoy your blog while it lasts.

Cool. Hope you have a good rest of your week.

[enby-confessions]

Because the blog "nb-confessions enbys-confessions" decided to be intersexist, transmisogynist and transandrophobic we made a better one where all enbies are welcome. :)

[kalinazlatkova]

I sit at the kitchen table, notebook at the ready. 

No words come. I wait.

I write down your name. 

I write it down again. 

And again. And again. And again.

 

Until my fingers spill. Until my pen runs out of ink.

Again. And again. And again. 

Nothing else will come. I will write your name.

Again. And again. And again. 

Because you make my life softer.

I will only ever write your name.

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[friendlyforestbeast]

Outfit reference sheet for Husk and their whacky anatomy ✨

I think Husk has a super clear picture of what all their various personas would and wouldn’t wear but for themself they just shove any amount of gaudy clothing that will fit on their bean pole frame. They also rarely get to wear anything for themself so it’s enrichment for them to wear funny little outfits XD

[superjail-opinions]

i believe in transfemme AND transmasc warden. the duality of man (gender neutral)

[enbys-confessions]

Nonbinary POC culture is knowing the correct term is "enby" or "nby," not fucking nb. Nb means nonblack, and you're appropriating AAVE. Also Nonbinary culture is not being an intersexist transmisogynistic piece of shit. You say you listen to intersex transfems, but clearly you don't and you uphold the oppressive binary created to mutilate intersex children. AGAB is fucking fake and if you frame your gender around intersex tools of oppression, you're fucking pathetic. Have the fucking day you deserve.

I hope that you have an amazing day. I changed the blog name. Also, the AGAB is not just an intersex thing. It also affects trans people too. I know that AGAB is a social construct, but you cannot just pretend that it does not affect people. It affects us no matter what. Also, You are literally not listening to intersex transfems. I reblogged something that an intersex transfems said. I would recommend that you go read it. I hope that you have an amazing rest of your day, and that you get everything that you want. If you want to throw more hate at me, do it. I couldn't care less.

[onyxedenfox]

You know those kisses where your arms are thrown over my shoulders, pulling me down by the neck, fingers intertwined in my hair as our lips crash together? Where my arms encircle you completely, one hand over your shoulders fisted in the fabric of your clothes, the other pulling you in by the small of your back, fingers digging in the softness there? Those kisses where we are pressed so close together, held so tight together, that our very ribs might interlace, our lungs and hearts desperate to kiss eachother too? Those kisses where our lips keep moving, over and over, between moans, and gasps, and exhales, till neither of us can even breathe? Those kisses where we keep going despite the lack of air, despite the muscle strain, despite the burning veins, we keep going, like a starving man poised before his final meal?

That is it. That is how I want and need to kiss you. All the days of our life. Or I fear this love I hold with you might eat us both alive.

Though even in the end. It will still be you. Even after the last Sun has flamed out, I will hold none other. None other, but You.

[intersex-confessions]

I'm nonbinary and before learning I had PCOS I actually was thankful for the things it provided me, like a more androgynous frame, and scraggly facial hair. Honestly I now feel kinda guilty for feeling that way, because it seems like it's not the majority opinion and so I worry it's harmful.

Don't let people make you feel bad for liking parts of your own fucking body.