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me and my friend @kafkaifhewasasillygirl just realized where junot's scar is located at!!!! i can't believe i never realized this when i stare at this portrait like 10 times a day on my wall djsfgd poor baby 😭

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personality test: when the flight attendant asks you what drink you want to have on the flight, what do you request?

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happy ides of march! love to stab caesar on this fine holiday with my senatorial co-conspirator @bronanlynch. pattern (i used a different sized crochet hook [3.5mm], modified the cape, and did Xs for the eyes to make sure it's clear we murdered him to death)

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Happy Pi Day!

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Ahhh, thank you for tagging!!

No pressure tags: @phoenix-family, @vampire-mina, @lenathesingingcat, @a-fucking-tornado, @xinanigans, @niroke, and anybody else who would like to!

i found a cool tag game on twitter and i really wanna import it (o^ ^o)

this picrew + the last song you listened to :]

no pressure tags: @blood-loving-leech @overtaken-boredom @lesbianthatyaps @kameonerd566 @hexedvampire @laczki @anonymous-shxtposter @fleurafae @flovqy + anyone who wants to do it <3

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Happy MAR10, everyone!

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You can only reblog this today.

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It’s an old tradition that during a leap year women could propose to men. This was usually depicted as old or ugly women trapping men, but some art focused more on the role reversal and could be quite cute.

I have a soft spot in my heart for the last one because it plays on the idea of “undesirable” people, a tall masculine woman and a shy effeminate man, finding each other but instead of mocking them depicts it as sweet that she could finally ask him because he was too shy and insecure to ask her.

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Evansville Press, Indiana, February 5, 1912

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Quick sketch for aro awareness week! Very much enjoying all the Alastor redesigns with ponytails I've been seeing, so I decided to give him one too! Rosie is SO much easier to draw than he is ... lordie

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Rosies impeccable gaydar is the reason they met.

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A begrudging Happy Valentine's to you all! Stay safe out there, my fellow aromantics ...

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Thank you for the tag!!! 💖

@phoenix-family @niroke @weirdghostboi666 @awfullyqueerwriter @oftengruntled @the-solar-knight @vampire-mina @thethingything @1-800-disasterbi @hoppityhopster23 @yaggy031910 @flowwochair @apurpledust @a-heart-full-of-dumb @fridayyy-13th @camelot-arrhythmia and everybody else! Happy Valentine's!

HAPPY VALENTINES DAY FUCKERS ESPECIALLY TO EVERY ACE AND ARO AND ALL IN BETWEEN AND ESPECIALLY TO ALL MY MUTUALS I LOVE ALL OF YOU

@eaveplzzz @kililvr @kilibaggins @spacemanxpaninis @fanby-fckry @thedomesticanthropologist @streetlight-haver @atrociousmagpie @chickada

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Hi I’m in Patrice Alexsandre jail now please send help

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the coat you gave me is still warm yet you're so cold to me

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One more time.

There is no way for a human being to be born innately, inherently, ontologically, “a bad person”. There is no mental illness that makes a person innately, inherently, ontologically “bad”. There is no “abuser gene”. There is no “abuser disorder”. Whether or not someone is abusive, manipulative, and cruel, is based entirely on the behaviors they choose to engage in. How they choose to see people and treat people. What thoughts they choose to entertain.

If you immediately “morally diagnose” someone based on their mental illness, that they did not choose to have, you are choosing to engage in a cruel behavior. I don’t care if you believe you’re “empathetic”, you do not have a “good person” gene, or some sort of “good person” condition. Whether someone has high empathy or no empathy, all people are individually responsible for their own behaviors. There is nothing innate about you that absolves you from being responsible for abusive behavior.

Stop demonizing personality disorders, and start actually holding abusers accountable for their choices. End of argument.