aspec-helpless-romantic
aspec-helpless-romantic
AroAce Hopeless Romantic
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He/it/they • 17 • AuDHD • aroace omi-oriented(?) • t4t • punk
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aspec-helpless-romantic · 1 year ago
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I wish there was a dating app/site that focused on people on the aroace spectrum.
Like, not a full-on dating app.
Just somewhere where it'd be normal for me to come on and say "Hey, I'm demi-aroace, so I don't like you like that right away, but I'd love to meet new friends, and have a chance to develop deeper feelings while the other side is aware that it's a possibility and something I'm looking for!"
Somewhere for other aspec people to come to look for platonic/queer-platonic life partners.
Somewhere where it wouldn't be weird to look for purely platonic relationships with sex and relationships that are romantic but without the sexual aspect.
Somewhere where being open about being queer (with a focus on the aroace spectrum), being disabled, or any other thing that isn't "normal" and accepted in the typical dating pool, y'know?
Maybe we should all go back to making and being active in forums so it wouldn't be tied to someone having to work for hours to create a functional and marketable app :/
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aspec-helpless-romantic · 2 years ago
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Manifesting a slowburn rivals/enemies-to-lovers romance for myself*
*(read: my disabled, mentally ill, demi-aroace ass can’t date like a “typical” person so I have to just daydream about someone that could fall for me slowly and after seeing me at my worst)
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