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Shoujo Girls Guide: Risa Koizumi

Had to pause the hiatus for a minute because Lovely Complex is a BANGER!! (After this post, hiatus will be resumed lol)

Embrace your height

Risa is around 5’7, and throughout the show it is her one of her main internal conflicts. But instead of seeing height as a appearance issue, whether tall or short, I think part of growth is learning to embrace your height!

Be your most authentic self

Share what you love, be original, and don’t be afraid to show the world who you truly are! Risa never is, so why shouldn’t you be?

Never give up!!

No matter how many times Risa said she was giving up on Otani, she never really did. Put that same energy into your life, even if it’s not about your romantic interest! Never give up, you can do it!!

Talk to your crush if you have one

Risa and Otani are super close throughout most of the show, even with all of the romantic conflict that occurs. They are the comedy duo after all! Don’t be afraid to talk to your crush and share what you like with them (Risa and Otani with Umibozu lol🤟🏻)

Hobbies!

Although it’s not shown very often, Risa does like to play video games as a hobby. She also likes to do passion projects (aka Club maity)

Try out different hairstyles

Unlike most other Shoujo protagonists, Risa has TONS of different hairstyles! So try out some new hairstyles and see what you like! It’s really fun getting to wear different hairstyles to work, school, or just going out!

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announcement

Recently, i made a post about shoujo girl summer. That post got me thinking, and I decided I would not waste another summer online. Besides, I waste to much time on this website!!! So, from now until late august(?) I will be on hiatus. I love you all, and I will see you later! ♥︎♡♥︎♡♥︎♡♥︎♡♥︎♡♥︎♡♥︎♡♥︎♡♥︎♡♥︎♡♥︎♡♥︎♡♥︎♡♥︎♡♥︎♡♥︎

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Shoujo girl summer 2025

Ah , Summer. The season of having fun, bettering yourself, and living your best Shoujo life. Don’t waste this summer!!

Tips start here:

Watch some shoujos and romcoms

Some shows I am currently watching or planning on watching are: ao haru ride, When I fly towards you, Boys Over Flowers, blue box and Gilmore Girls

Get out of the house!!

Have you ever seen a show where the shoujo girl spends her whole summer rotting in her bedroom? Probably not. It doesn’t have to be anything crazy, though!

Fun summer plan ideas: hanging out with friends or crush, going to the beach, shopping, going out for lunch, trying a new hobby, going on a solo date, etc.

Makeover!

This summer, you need a makeover!! It doesn’t have to be a looks makeover, though ( but can be if that’s the kind of makeover you’re going for!). You could try doing a closet makeover, mental health makeover, diet makeover, or overall life makeover! It doesn’t have to drastic, just whatever makes you feel reinvented.

Imagine your summer

Create a playlist, Pinterest board, affirmation list, mood board, etc to help you envision your summer!

Go clean

This summer, we’re washing away all of the negativity toxic-ness in our lives!! So clean out your contacts list, bedroom, closet, media feed, social life, whatever is pulling you down!!

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the month of June will be filled with love, kindness,

positivity, happiness, good luck & good vibes

⭐️ 𓂃𓏲 𓂃🌸 𓂃𓏲 𓂃⭐️ 𓂃𓏲 𓂃🌸 𓂃𓏲 𓂃⭐️

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accounts recs for glow up! Part Three: youtube

YouTubers:

JKshootingstar

Cute bunnies and vlogs! Her videos always make me want to be more productive.

GloriaSong

AMAZINGGGGGG workouts, that are usually pretty short! She prioritizes lymphatic drainage to help boost the effects of exercise.

myuuu333

Cute high school life vlogs, routines, and inspiration! She also has some study with me videos with music!

angelmarta111

Her videos are aesthetic, yet realistic. She has videos on wonyoungism, glow ups, studying, and many other very creative video ideas! She’s even tried other popular YouTubers routines.

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I’ll try my best!!

c - Cherish (my love) by illit

o - OMG by new jeans

a - alcohol-free by twice

p - pain by pinkpantheress

Tags: @eviecookiie @latifaa-lelee @frillylacebirdie @y-ves & anyone else!!

MOOT / TAG GAME !

mission— spell your real name / name you use on tumblr with songs you like >< ready, set, go !

m — my love, mine all mine (mitski)

i — i love you, i’m sorry (gracie abrams)

c — coraline (lyn lapid)

k — killshot (magdalena bay)

i — i know you (faye webster)

e — either way (ive)

tagging— @puma-riki @flwrstqr @liwinly @woniefication @lilificationn @stvrriki @okwonyo + anyone else who wants to join !

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things to look forward to (even if you don’t do anything special for them)

Christmas or holiday season!

getting to see friends again

your birthday!!🎂

the next time you’ll laugh SUPER hard

eating your favorite food again

Next spring🌱

Finding a new favorite song or tv show

a good sleep 💤

Making new friends

Trying a new makeup style you’ll fall in love with

improving on something you want to be good at

the first snow ❄️

Getting to try something you’ve always wanted to try

A good surprise

Getting to swim for the first time this year or next year

crunchy leaves on the ground🍂

flowers blooming for the first time again

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hello !! @seulhrts here <33 ive been off from blr for quite a while and recently just came back for posting <3 i've lost all my moots so id be vw great if you'd wanna be friends !! i love interacting w other girlies and i loovee ur blog smm :(( im also a shojou girlie at heart hehe ps : do u like w2e :D

omggg hi!! Yes, I do like w2e ^ ^ you seem so sweet and I’d love to be friends!!<33 shoujo girlies for life! :-D I loveeeeeee making new friends yayyyyyyy thank you so muchhhh

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looking for luck - lucky girl’s guide🍀

“난 정말 lucky girl”

because who doesn’t want to be the luckiest girl ever?!

Tips start here:

AFFIRMATIONSSSS

some lucky girl affirmations include: “I am a lucky girl”🍀“Good things are attracted to me”🍀“Everything works out for me”🍀“I am a magnet for good and beautiful things”

look for the signs

Angel numbers on the clock? Finding a four leaf clover? Or even something as simple as a beautiful morning? Those are all lucky. Because you are lucky!! Believe it!

Positivity and optimism

Learn to be a more optimistic person! If something doesn’t work out, that just means something better is coming your way!

Change up your wallpaper

There are just about a MILLION lucky girl syndrome wallpapers on Pinterest. Pick out a wallpaper with an affirmation or an angel number you like so you can see it every time you get online your phone!

( creds: divider made by @haonian )

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start your simple life

Life gets a little bit to overcomplicated sometimes, remember you’re just human and it doesn’t need to be so complicated

Tips start here:

Drop the people who are cluttering your life

Situationship? Dropped. Toxic friend? Dropped. Person who’s just plain old mean? Dropped!! I know it’s hard, but sometimes splitting up is the only way on the path to growth.

Ditch media habits

Try to eat a meal, go out alone, wait in the doctor’s office, whatever you’d usually use your phone to pass the time, without your phone. Just watch, notice, and observe. It’s a lot more mindful!

Ditch media, TOTAL!

literally so distracting from life, it’s only been summer for a little bit, and I’ve already spent most of it online! Download an app blocker, delete apps, or simply detach yourself from your phone or other devices. Easier said than done, I know. I’m not one to give good advice, since I’m addicted myself, so this one might be better to research on your own!

Try a niche hobby

some examples of niche I want to try are: reading more newspapers, doing the new times puzzles everyday, trying dorodango, watching golf, and spending more mindful time with my pets. Find your strange, random hobby that makes you and your life more interesting!

“I’ve lived a slice of life, but that slice has been so small compared to the slice of online” (quote from my friend haha)

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how to change ur aesthetic

Because we all want to change eventually

Tips start here:

Start small

If you already know what you want your new aesthetic to be, perfect! Now it’s time to grow into it. Start small, try making a playlist or changing up your wallpaper to something that matches the aesthetic.

Change up your online persona!

Maybe by switching up your pfp and header image, giving yourself a new bio, or giving your bitmoji a new outfit. You can also make an entire new account if that’s what you want!

Find community

Follow content creators and Pinterest accounts that share an aesthetic with you! If there is one, you can join a tumblr community of your aesthetic, or make one.

You don’t have to change your whole life

Believe me, no matter how badly you want to, throwing out all your old clothes and completely destroying your bedroom is NOT the answer. You can maybe start by thrifting or buying a couple clothing items, and rearranging your room to match your aesthetic. Overtime, you can build these things up more and until they match your vision! Just start with what you have.

Change your fyp

Follow your aesthetic’s hashtag, change up your TikTok and YouTube fyp, and make a board of your aesthetic on Pinterest to see more content in the style you’re interested in!

Good luckkkkk

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account recommendations for glow up! Part Two: YouTube

YouTubers:

ymlovely

MY FAVORITEEEEEEEE YOUTUBER!! Her vlogs are so cute, relatable, and original. Her editing style is AMAZING, and she always finds a way to romanticize the most mundane of things. You must check her channel out!

jorginakei & simply__misha

(I’m combining these two because they have somewhat similar channels and are sisters) Both of their channels are so aesthetic and motivating, not to mention relatable! They also have Pinterest accounts with aesthetic pictures! Best study vlogs

emisspellbook

Her glow up video is TOP TIER. And of course all her vlogs are great too <33 she’s very funny, and always shares her experience with things like growing ginger, dropping out of high school, and having adhd + autism. You may know her from TikTok because of her makeup guides!

shaketwins

Amazing cardio-dance works to popular K-pop songs! Makes working out so much more fun by dancing and listening to some of your favorite songs if you like K-pop.

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account recommendations for glow up! Part one: Pinterest

Pinterest recommendations:

miuringue

For all my Shoujo girlies, they have soooooo many good guides. Their account is literally the reason I started posting guides on here<33 (currently in a long term hiatus)

ztary_niyht

Also has a a lot of great guides and posts cute photos! Their guides are very original and helpful

minnieneedstostudy

Very cute guides on specific things like K-pop idols, Sanrio characters, and aesthetics! Sadly discontinued:’-(

yourstrulymarinn

Posts cute and inspirational Shoujo core whispers

yimello

Posts mostly cute pics but has a couple guides! Also has really good scent guides (strawberry, cotton candy, raspberry, etc.) with soap and other recommendations!

All these accounts are amazing in their own way and you should definitely check them out!!

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where is the kindness? A guide

have you ever met someone so kind and good that they can completely change the vibe of a room? Think: tohru honda from Fruits basket! I’d love to be just as sweet as her, and if you’d like to as well, keep reading! Or maybe you don’t want to be as kind as her, but that’s ok too, you can keep reading haha

tips start here:

Consume good

Eat good and healthy foods, watch good or educational content, make friends with good people, listen to good music, spend a good amount of time outside, all the goods!

Shift your mindset

No more hopelessness and negativity! This one is difficult and takes time, but some ways to get started may include meditation, journaling, and finding ways to heal. It’s more of a personal journey, so I can’t give any advice that’s deeper than that, really.

Practice empathy

If you are not a very empathetic person, a good way to grow this skill is through fiction. Read a book or tv show, feeling bad for the characters who have horrible things happening to them is a good way to flee the empathy muscle. You could also try volunteering!

Love languages

Do you have someone you deeply care about? Try and see if you can figure out their love language. What makes their day better? Once you’ve figured it out, give it a try and see how happy it makes them! Seriously, this one is so rewarding. It’s so nice getting to see those you care about be happy.

find what makes you feel kind Some ideas for this are: helping out around the house, surprising people with gifts, leaving a nice comment on someone’s post, gardening, volunteering, complimenting people, and making new friends!

Of course, there’s a million more things I could add, but I want to keep this relatively short! Good luck!!🍀

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My life for 2025 is like a shoujo except instead of having a tender coming of age pretty romance with a nice boy I’m slowly falling in love with life (the boy is the side quest)