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working on making a crochet supply case :]]

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me casually watching a daily average of 13 hrs of youtube

if i spent 4 hours of my day on tiktok that would be a social media addiction. if i spend 4 hours of my day on tumblr then that's just, like. whatever. who cares. hope that helps

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on todays episode of gender crisis: may i actually be okay with/enjoy feminine terms and she/her pronouns or have i just been desensitized to it by being misgendered so often ? (?????)???

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We’re at it again boys.

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an evil aromantic in their fucked up evil lair casting spells like "end romance" and "murder"

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If I ever date again I'd want to date another aspec because they'd understand where I'm coming from about how confusing and ultimately unimportant trying to define relationships are. I could say "this is my partner and we're dating" but what does that mean? We don't share romantic feelings for one another, we may or may not have sex, we aren't romantic or platonic, we refer to each other as "partner" because that's the best and easiest identifier. We care for one another but there is no real way to define our feelings and I don't think it would be necessary either as long as we can look at each other and say "I am choosing to be here with you regardless".

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DESTROY AMATONORMATIVITY.

Design I did earlier this year with the idea of doing something symbolic around breaking Cupid’s bow and arrow & amatonormativity.

IG: @/robyngstw

(please click on the image as we all know tumblr ruins the quality of images on the dash 🤡)

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Idemro culture is when you break up, but stay friends and your feelings don’t change at all. Your sitting there questioning if you just can’t get over your ex or if you never really felt that way for them at all. Then you realize, nope it just feels the exact same because i’m idemro.

So true

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love how when i get a new interest, i’m like “oh god it’s happening again” and i’m stuck like that for about a week until everything explodes and any interest i’ve had prior is completely dwarfed for an unknown amount of time

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i be like "i want more friends" and then barely reply when ppl actually try talking to me

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I probably make way too many horny jokes on here for an ace person but the thing is it's like drag to me

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making posts on this website is like throwing spaghetti at a wall and seeing if it fuckin sticks

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(guy who hasnt eaten today voice) no no im fine its just yknow the horrors. yeah theyre unending again

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i luv being aroace & the community but i hate internalized allonormativity / amatonormativity ☹️

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sharing / archiving my aspec labels :))

askepsisexual: referring to individuals who very rarely think about sex, and therefore do not feel sexual attraction.

bellussexual: one who has interest in certain sexual actions, the aesthetic of sexual relationships, and/or aspects of sexual relationships, but does not feel sexual attraction and does not want a sexual relationship

caedsexual: someone who feels that they were allosexual at one point, but that it has been taken or “cut away” from them due to past trauma.

desinosexual: where one does not experience full-on sexual attraction. They may experience visual attraction or other forms of attraction, but they do not experience complete sexual attraction.

enigmasexual: in which the individual feels attraction so rarely, vaguely or weakly that they don’t know the specifics of the orientation, such the genders they’re attracted to or the fluidity of the orientation.

errasexual: in which one's sexual attraction has partially or fully vanished.

guiltisexual: refers to individuals who, when attraction is felt, experience a sense of guilt and/or dread, presumably having an effect on the attraction.

rosesexual: referring to someone who wants or enjoys the idea of sexual activity and sexual attraction but after a short period feels strongly sex-repulsed

vultusexual: for people on the asexual spectrum who experience a "merging" or sense of blended attractions

apathromantic: Describes a person who may or may not experience romantic attraction, but is indifferent to receiving it or acting on it.

aroflux: Describes a person whose romantic orientation fluctuates but always stays on the aromantic spectrum.

ceaseromantic: occasionally has a complete loss of attraction for a period of time.

dreadromantic: Describes a person whose romantic orientation fluctuates from feeling no attraction to feeling attraction. When attraction is felt, it is accompanied by a strong feeling of dread or anxiety.

greyromantic: Describes a person who feels romantic attraction very rarely, weakly, unreliably or gains/loses attraction in unusual or unknown circumstances.

idemromantic: Describes a person who does not internally experience romantic and platonic attraction differently.

metaromantic: Describes a person who only experiences attraction that is unable to be defined by strict terms of platonic or romantic.

noviromantic: Describes a person who experiences a complicated romantic attraction (or lack thereof) such that they do not feel it can be described in a single term.

polyaffetionate: Describes a person who practices or desires non-romantic and/or non-sexual affectionate relationships where individuals have more than one partner

quoiromantic: 1. Describes a person who doesn’t understand romance, romantic attraction, or romantic orientation and feels as if those categories are nonsensical, inapplicable, or inaccessible so they disidentify with those labels. 2.Describes a person who experiences confusion or frustration when trying to differentiate between and apply platonic and romantic attraction to their personal experiences, and therefore is not sure if they experience it.

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im gonna try to be more active here sooo new pinned :]

☎️ about me: Vinnie / Afton but my name changes pretty often! 18 (dec. 1). he/it + neopronouns. aroace / nonbinary / transmasc. im a term collector. im a sagittarius ISTP 7w8. my dms r always open!

🦴 things i like: crocheting, cats, sharks, plushies, minecraft, mcyt, commentary yt, death & its history, cartoons, smoking, fiction podcasts, horror, cryptids

❗️communities im in: aroacespec, mogai / xenogender, neopronouns, otherkin / fictionkin, commentary yt, whatever media im hyperfixated on, crocheting

🩹 do not interact: basic criteria, -15 or 20+, anti neoprns / xenogender, truscum / transmeds, terfs, endo "systems", mspec gays / lesbians, aro/ace exclusionists