disorderedsystemspositivity

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been a bit busy recently but y'all are cool and great!!!

i hope y'all have a good day

- mina they/them

(pls read DNI)

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accidentally posted this to the wrong blog so moving it here instead

dont have the spoons to retype it, if someone else could make an image id thatd be appreciated!!

- steph they

(checked pinned post for dni)

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Shout out to alters who have problematic/"bad" sources.

- If you were a bad person in source and are upset by what you remember doing, I hope you know it is not your fault. You did not choose to split off with those memories. You did not choose to do anything you remember. You didn't do anything wrong

- If you have certain relationships in your source, especially ones that are good and healthy, that are problematic or controversial in the shipping community, I hope you know that you are a real person. Those things people say about your source do not reflect you. You are a real person with real thoughts and feelings and it is not wrong that you have people you love, regardless of who that may be.

- If your source's media is harmful or bigoted, that does not reflect you. It is not your fault. You are not harmful nor bigoted based off of something you cannot control.

- If you choose to still consume your source despite it being problematic because it brings you comfort, I understand that. I do as well.

- If you choose to separate yourself from your source entirely and hate consuming it, that is also perfectly alright.

- Shout out to alters who have seen themselves on DNI lists in places like discord servers. You are a real person and you do not deserve to be dehumanized and treated like you are your source like that. You never hurt the people who put you on that list, and even if your existence somehow does trigger them that is their problem and does not reflect on you as a person. You never did anything wrong to them.

- Tim (he/fae)

Please read pinned post before interacting

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Shout out to systems who struggle with communication!

Going days without hearing anyone else that makes you question if you made it up? It happens! You aren't making things up!

Difficulties with switches? Whether you always struggle or your abilities vary and flutuate, that's normal! A lot of systems struggle with switches and it doesn't make you any less valid.

Do some or all of the other alters never listen to you? Do they go against the goals of the general system or disregard your opinions on what you should do? Systems are like that. Working together is hard.

Do you come to front and have no idea what's going on or what you were meant to be doing? Geez me too, me too.

Y'all valid

- mikey and tim

please check our dni before interacting

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Shout out to systems with a lot of non-human alters!

Shout out to alien alters

Shout out to animal altere

Shout out to demon alters

Shout out to angel alters

Shout out to mermaid alters

Shout out to vampire alters

Shout out to werewolf alter

Shout out to anyone I missed!

- mikey

please check our dni before interacting!

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shout out to systems who are struggling!

like MAN is it rough sometimes to deal with a trauma disorder! and multiple people in the brain??? like tim's the ONLY ONE i like (/hj, i also like cass and dick'a fine but fuck everyone else especially bruce/hj)

like it sucks! and not everyone cooprates! and shit is fucked!

but yall got this!

we got this

- steph (they/them)

please check pinned post b4 interactjng

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shout out to all my systems who argue all the fucking time over dumb shit! us too, especially about food and what media we're going to watch!

shoutout to that one alter who tries their best to get everyone to get along and stop the arguments over dumb shit! you deserve more credit!

i want to say i encourage the violence!! /j

- mikey xe/xir/xirs shell/shells

please read pinned post before interacting yall

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Shout out to systems who have really small alter counts!

Who:

- Struggle to get shit done because no one wants to do it

- Are really organized

- Are really disorganized

- Who struggle

- Shout-out to that one alter that does everything

- Shout out to that one alter whos a front hog

love yall,

mikey (xe/xir/xirs/xirself shell/shells)

please read pinned post before interacting

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feel free to send in asks and submissions about positive things we can share on this blog!

- mikey xe/xir/xirs/xirself shell/shells

please read the pinned post before interacting!

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Being disordered does not mean you cannot be happy. I am incredibly sorry if anyone has ever lead you to believe that to be the case. I understand disorders can be hard to manage and sometimes it is so, so awful that we forget that things can be happy.

You can be happy with these disorders. You can be happy to have these disorders. I would not exchange the others for the world. Joy can and does exist within this disorder.

For us, for me, it is found in the little things.

It is found in Damian demanding others acquire him chocolate milk, even though we are in the same body and he will still be walking to get it even if he is in co-consicousness and someone else is fronting. He complains and grumbles that it is different and threatens people until he gets his way.

He has demanded we purchase ourselves our own 2 litre bottle of chocolate milk instead of using the family one so he can drink out of the bottle.

He hates coffee but enjoys co-fronting with me more than enough to tolerate it when I drink it.

Joy is found when Mikey fell in love with his own circus apparatus that I am absolutely terrified of. It is found when he dramatically claims that the globe ball is the love of his life.

It is found when he forced me to try tightrope walking, even going as far as to force me to walk backwards, because he knows I wanted to even though it is certainly far more his area of circus activities.

It is found in co-fronting while he uses a rolla-bolla and being so proud of the progress he has made.

It is found when he light heartedly complains at me after we are in pain from aerials about how he does not understand how I find hauling our body weight around in the air a good time.

It is found in him refilling our waters for me before he switches out so I do not have to do so myself

It is found in all these little things and larger things too. This disorder, being a system, does not have to be miserable. It can be happy. It can be full of love. And that does not and never will deminish your struggles as a disordered system.

Feel free to share your own things about your system that makes you happy in the reblogs and comments.

- Tim (He/Him)

Please read our pinned post before interacting

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Shout out to systems who have large alter counts:

- Systems with 50+ alters

- Systems with 100+ alters

- Systems who gave up counting (us)

- Systems who struggle to manage how many alters they have

- Systems who have a wide variety of fronters

- Systems who, despite there being so many of you, have very few frequent fronters

- Systems who are introject heavy

- Systems who have basically the whole cast of a particular source

- Systems who have double ups on introjects. I, Tim, have another alter within the system who shares the same source as me

- Systems who do not have many or even any introjects despite the large alter count

- Systems who have a lot of fragments that are very specific, like we have Eater who does nothing but eat when Eater is in front

- Just systems with large alter counts. You all are valid

Love from Tim and Mikey, who co-wrote this post. Damian is also here and he says you all are valid and loved too.

Please check DNI before interacting.

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Hello. This is the disclaimers and DNIs and so on and so forth.

Disclaimer:

This is for disordered plurals only, as in plurals who feel as though their plurality is disordered. This could be DID, OSDD, or even UDD systems. If your plurality is disordered, you are welcome here, regardless of your stance on syscourse related topics providing you do not violate other DNIs.

This is not the place for syscourse. Please do not reblog any posts with syscourse related topics or send any syscourse related asks or enquiries. This is a syscourse free zone and you will be given one, maybe two warnings before I block you if you bring syscourse into this, depending on the severity of what you are saying. You may not even be given a warning if I really dislike what you said, I do not owe anyone a place here if they disrespect my boundaries.

It is okay to reblog to your blogs where you engage with syscourse. Please do not tag my posts with any syscourse terms, including anything related to endogenic plurals such as "endo neutral" or "endos dni" or "syscourse". Please do not reblog people reblogging my posts to "call them out for being somewhere they should not", send them an ask or make a seperate post please.

If you absolutely must engage in a conversation about syscourse with us, our syscourse account is @griffinsyscourse.

DNI:

People who are not disordered plurals.

This includes singlets. If you wish to share my posts around to disordered plurals you are free to. You are free to comment to @ someone, but no further commentary please and please do not reblog. This is not the space for you.

If you support cultural appropriation

This includes supporting tulpamancy. Please do your own research into why it is appropriative, or if you really cannot send me an ask on @griffinsyscourse but if you refuse to listen to me when I respond to that ask with information or directly state you do not believe it is cultural appropriation I will block you.

Another very important thing is people using names from closed cultures.

https://docs.google.com/document/d/1gjDmk1HURjqOgJZ4eto61kZvGKUCeYsAz7j5YxbCWms/edit

https://docs.google.com/document/d/1TMOqNTX4y3uJt8PgJT2nXbFAi8wmBZ-NXVJntCKUb-Y/edit

https://altersintrojectsandpocnames.carrd.co/

Here are some links.

Note, if you collectively agree that this is a problem but are struggling to get a specific alter to change their name, you are still welcome. I understand that it can be difficult to get an alter to agree to change their name, especially if you have poor communication with them. Or if you have an alter who is using their source name as a placeholder until they can find one. But if you do not intend to change the names at all, please DNI.

Bigotry

This includes racism, homophobia, transphobia, aro and ace exclusion, transmedicalism, antisemitism, neo-pronoun exclusion, anti-mogai, nazis, rad-fems, ableists, so on and so forth.

Pedophiles

This should go without saying, but apparently it does not.

If you are a pedophile, MAP, PEAR, whatever the fuck people are calling it, go away.

And if you are a pro-shippers, while I do not think it is as bad as actually pedophilia involving real children, it is still gross. Go away.

Fakeclaimers

This goes for any form of disabilities or disorders, including but not limited to systems.

18+ blogs

We are a minor, do not interact with us if your blog is adults only.

If you violate your own DNI to be here

You can find further information about our stances at our syscourse blog.

DNI may be updated in the future.

About us:

Our name is the Griffin System. When referring to us collectively you are free to use they/them, but when referring to us individually please use the pronouns of the person you are referring to. For example, if I (Tim) make a post and you are speaking about that post, please do not use they/them for me.

Names and pronouns of the frequent fronters are:

Mikey - Xe/Xir/Xirs/Xirself, Shell/Shells

Tim - He/Him

Damian - He/Him

Thank you for reading this post and I hope you enjoy this blog.

- Tim