fizzamess

[fizzamess]

I told someone I was aroace today and they didn’t reply with “what’s that?” Or “is that a thing?”

Just a simple “oh, cool”.

There’s still some hope left in this world…

[fizzamess]

ARO WEEK 2025 (day 1)

Share one of the most aro-coded things you’ve done!

For me, before I knew I was arospec, the last time I ever tried to “date” was a few years ago. I was going out with this dude and when he called me to break up I just said “oh ok, if you don’t mind imma hang up cause I have to go study for a test tomorrow” and then I just went on with my day. Honestly tho that was better than my idea to ask him to meet up the week that happened to be Valentine’s Day and breaking up with him then…

Hell yeah it’s aro week!!!! 💚💚💚💚

Also remember aromanticism is a spectrum and people within this community may have very different experiences and that’s ok! We love diversity here!

[fizzamess]

Help I’m just an aroacespec hooman trying to give my best friend dating advice, what tf am I supposed to do????

[fizzamess]

Help I’m alone in my house and all I can think of is singing “My Green Light” from Broadway Gatsby as I cry knowing that Jeremy only has a few shows left as part of the cast and I’ll never get to see him irl as Jay Gatsby :,(

[fizzamess]

Lol these are so funny 😭

Hannibal Lecter is also one of my hyperfixations! (Since 2016 lol)

Keep the aroace positivity flowing (day 20):

(Hi! It’s been a while since I’ve done one of these so I figured I’ll do one today!)

What was your favorite meme from 2024?

It doesn’t have to be aro/ace/aroace related, but just to keep the positivity flowing and probably make another fellow aroacespec laugh!

[fizzamess]

Keep the aroace positivity flowing (day 20):

(Hi! It’s been a while since I’ve done one of these so I figured I’ll do one today!)

What was your favorite meme from 2024?

It doesn’t have to be aro/ace/aroace related, but just to keep the positivity flowing and probably make another fellow aroacespec laugh!

[fizzamess]

lol I can’t wait for Diggy to be the next Jay Gatsby

Jeremy Jordan and Ryan McCartan via @bwaygatsby

[fizzamess]

Honestly tho, please have mercy

[fizzamess]

Happy new year to all aroacespec people out there, but especially to the ones who:

People tend to disregard their identity by saying that it’s a “phase”

Aren’t outside of the closet yet

Are still discovering their aroacespec identity

Feel alone during these holidays because society has let them believe that having a romantic partner is the only way to not be “alone”

Don’t have aroace friends or an aroace community in their country because it is not a well known term there

Don’t feel safe at home during these holidays and can’t come out to their family because of the fear of being judged or rejected

Have to pretend to be allos around their family members for whatever reason, and are always annoyed by the common question of “and when are you getting a boyfriend/girlfriend or getting married or having children?”

I’m here for you, you are not alone. We’re all part of this beautiful community. Happy new year y’all!

Also, this is my first new year out and proud and I’m just so happy :)

[fizzamess]

Hear me out. “Preaching to the Fire” by Age of Madness (Jeremy’s rock band) but make it Radioapple.

I need this made a fanfic so bad please Radioapple writers I’m begginggg 🙏🙏🙏

[fizzamess]

2024 recap:

Me on December 2023:

Stressed about finishing uni

Unemployed

Single another year, starting to think there might be a problem with me

Low self esteem and not feeling comfortable in my own body

Feeling alone because of toxic friendships in Uni

With hyperfixations on multiple shojo anime

Me on December 2024:

Graduated from lawschool, now stressed about finishing my thesis

With a job offer secured (it’s my dream job)

Came out as aroace (yep, that was the “problem”)

Came out as agender, got an androgynous haircut, finally feeling beautiful

Went to Orlando with my little sister

Started a Tumblr account and met wonderful people that are now my friends!

With a hyperfixation on Radioapple since February (and it’s not going away any time soon)

These past few months have been rough on my mental health. I have dealt with many crisis, feeling how my stability crumbles. However, yesterday I was looking back at everything I have achieved this year and it made me wanna cry of happiness.

It is in moments like this that I recall Jimbei’s wise words when he was dealing with a traumatized Luffy:

“Don’t think about what you’ve lost, think about what you still have left”.

I wish to you all a happy new year, and may this 2025 be amazing for y’all. 💜

[fizzamess]

What if, and hear me out, WHAT IF …

I get my septum pierced?

Will it fix all my problems?

What do we think?

[fizzamess]

Keep the aroace positivity flowing (day 19):

Part of the experience of being aroace is having one of your favorite songs on your playlist for 8 years and just now (at 24 years old) realizing it’s about sex lol.

Comment or reblog if it’s ever happened to you and what was the song.

Mine was “Butterfly” by Jason Mraz.

🧡💛🤍🩵💙

[fizzamess]

One piece fam, we finally did it. One Piece has, finally, statistically been proven to be the best anime ever made.

Thank you Joey Bizinger (The Anime Man) for running the largest world-wide survey ever conducted on anime, and for enlightening the world with the amazing results that prove once again that One Piece is and will always be #1.

Expect me to never shut up about it ever again now that I have tangible proof.

[fizzamess]

It’s just cause I’m a mortal and I wanna be ur friend so badly 😭

GUYSSSSSS

GUYS WHAT I HAVE BEEN BLESSED @you-need-not-apply IS ONE OF MY MUTUALS NOW!!!!!!!

GUYS I'M MUTUALS WITH SOMEONE COOL AND POPULAR JADGVCGADCVYU

[fizzamess]

LOLL I LITERALLY WENT THROUGH THIS YESTERDAY BUT DIDNT POST ABT IT BC I WANTED TO SEEM COOL ABT IT LIKE NO BIGGIE

GUYSSSSSS

GUYS WHAT I HAVE BEEN BLESSED @you-need-not-apply IS ONE OF MY MUTUALS NOW!!!!!!!

GUYS I'M MUTUALS WITH SOMEONE COOL AND POPULAR JADGVCGADCVYU

[fizzamess]

Thank you for your response 💜

Would someone care to explain how does a qpr usually work? And like what are their requirements or characteristics?

If you are an aroacespec and currently have a qpp, I would love to hear about your story and experience if you don’t mind.

Im just curious.

Edit: I’ve researched the term already and have a rough idea of what it means (not so much what it entails tho). So, what I’m looking for is someone to explain how it usually works in practice.