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i hope youve had a good pride month! 🌈✨️

I HAVE TY!! going to the seattle dyke march this weekend & my femmes bday is next week :-) exciting and fun moments

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i’m stupid i just saw your “high butch” post and that describes me just fine so nevermind thank you!! your flags are always so cool

NOT STUPID UR TOTALLY GOOD !! thank u glad u asked anyways but also glad u found it :) lets go high butches !!!!!!!!

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i'm not actually sure if this actually happened or if i might be mixing you up with someone else, but did you ever reblog an invite to a butchfemme discord server on nbgender? i have a vague memory of it but can't find the post atm

i did ya, i'm the admin of that server! when i got nuked on nbgender i moved the post to my main, here :-)

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what does “pebble” mean in the context of your pinned post?

pebble is like, almost stone, or conditionally stone. for example, being a stone bottom in hookups and most relationships, but with one long term partner you've been comfortable topping a few times. or being a stone top with regards to penetration but being ok with receiving Direct Head, or someone using their hands on you, or something, which not all stones are ok with. it basically presents a place inbetween, if 100% stone or 100% not stone isn't quite communicative of your experience or desires. same with "buzzed," which has the same usage but for "high" (as in "high femme," instead it'd be "buzzed femme.") not that it's necessary to ever call yourself pebble/buzzed instead of stone, if you like just using stone! either of the example situations i posited would be perfectly fine with just "stone" or "high" as well. it's just an option. :-)

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transfem butch lesbian and transmasc butch lesbian!

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another version of my agenderfluid flag, this time with a gradient :)

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stone futch and high futch!

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hey -- i edited this post! i've changed/re-released the high femme flag. if you happen to come across the old post and see this in the notes, reblog this version instead :-)!

stone butch and high femme! made with my butch/femme flags.

these, like my butch/femme flags, are meant to be used by any LGBT person who identifies as butch or femme.

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hi, have you reposted your butch transmasc lesbian and butch transfem lesbian flags yet?

they should go up shortly now!

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would you be willing to try your hand at a different agenderfluid flag more in line with the demifluid one? i love your other flag, but i like the multicoloured stripe idea a lot too!

sorry, i mean similar to agenderflux*! not demifluid, my bad.

yess sorry i forgot to answer this ask when i got it but i tried it with a gradient stripe!! i do like those a lot too, i don't use them often bc it's harder to replicate but it is beautiful :) will post shortly

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gnc gay man :-)

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butch mlm and butch bi mlm!

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can you please make a gnc gay man flag /srs

i just finished w it, it'll go up soon!

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bigender femme and bigender futch, to go with my bigender butch flag!

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hi if its ok and u havent done it before, could you make bigender butch/futch/femme flags?

yknow i'm not sure if i have!! i feel like maybe i did bigender butch at some point but either way i'll either complete the set or do them all :-)

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Can you use stone labels if you are not Butch/femme?

i think so! they are definitely deeply tied to and associated with butch & femme identity and subculture in a lot of ways, and many people use them as a modifier to butchfemme (i.e. stone butch), but stone labels themselves are descriptors of sexual boundaries that i wouldn't see any reason to bar other lgbt people from using. calling yourself a stone top or a stone bottom without being butch or femme doesn't seem like it would hurt anyone! it's a practically useful terminology that other gay & trans people will understand if you're cruising or just want to communicate yourself in short.

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Can there be flags for saris adam, saris hamah, aylonit adam, and aylonit hamah?

i intended for the flags i made to cover both adam and hamah, for anyone who wants to use them!