shadow-unique
shadow-unique
Shadow [馃悳馃嵉]
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Idk I post my oc art ||PRO/DARK/COMSHIPPERS, PROFICS, HOMOPHOBES, RADQUEERS, TRANSPHOBES DNI鈥硷笍|| I'm an anti 馃悳馃嵉 (get it? ant-tea I love puns) and I'm genderfluid and Cupioromantic and I use she/they/them/any pronouns, (please read introduction)
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shadow-unique 21 days ago
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I'm kinda confused on what my gender is now ngl
like I usually don't feel much like normally, I feel like my gender only appears when I remember it exists
like most of the time I'm like non of anything then when I remember it goes through different genders til it stop on one
I mean I identify as Agenderfluid because yeah my gender fluctuates but most of the time I'm nothing
but then again I also don't feel fully genderless, but at the same time I'm literally genderless
like I feel a lot but later I feel nothing then I feel a lot again then nothing
like yeah I go through a lot of genders so genderfluid but at the same time I could make a pie chart of all the genders I feel and it'll be mostly boy, nothing, girl and stars like 40% nothing, 25% boy, 15% girl, 20% stars
but idk anymore
am I Agenderfluid?? I'm asking because I might've misinterpreted it
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shadow-unique 1 month ago
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I just realized why I hate SOME queer ships
It wasn't actually the ship, or the fact that it's queer
NO
IT'S HOW PEOPLE SHIP THEM
Most of the time they're just best friends and they get shipped, BUT my real problem is how people ship them
like them literally romanticizing or making every move they do into something romantic even though it's platonic
like can't people just call your best friends cool, or do literally normal friend stuff WITHOUT it becoming romantic or sexual!?
I'm just saying this because I'm so tired of everything becoming so sexual and romantic
like people can still feel deep emotions and feelings with friends WHILE being platonic
tbh this also goes with non-queer ships
idk I'm probably alone in this because I have personal beef with people shipping people because they get along, like these people make me self conscious because I don't wanna be romantic
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shadow-unique 1 month ago
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Look, if an actor of a CANON aro/ace character comes out and says they're (the character) not aro/ace for no other reason then they're shipping them with someone, that's aphobia.
That is pure erasure of a canon aro/ace character and is far far far worse than anything any regular shipper can do.
As always, please don't ship aro/ace characters and if you must ship them, at least do so in a QPR or while still addressing their aro/ace identity.
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shadow-unique 1 month ago
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I think I've realized my problem with shipping is less with the shipping itself and more with the hypocrisy that comes with it.
It's perfectly okay to ship a bold stripe aroace, but putting a gay man in a straight relationship is bad.
Pick one, are we respecting sexualities or not? Why does being aroace matter less than being gay? Why do you care enough about gays to say that's wrong, but you actively argue that you should be allowed to disrespect bold stripe aroace characters?
I'm more bothered by the obvious double standard than I am about the shipping itself.
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shadow-unique 1 month ago
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alloromantics are WRONG best friendship is BEAUTIFUL as its OWN THING and does NOT need to "develop" into ROMANTIC FEELINGS! BEST FRIENDS ARE AWESOME!!! you are SHACKLED to your own BELIEFS that ROMANCE TRUMPS ALL! YOU ARE WRONG !!!! not everything has to be sorted into either ROMANTIC or FAMILIAL relationships! BEST FRIENDS ARE BEAUTIFUL!!!
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shadow-unique 1 month ago
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Y鈥檏now, you don鈥檛 always have to identify with microlabels that fit you. I technically fit aegoromantic and fictoromantic, and I identified with those things for a long time. But in the end I decided that they didn鈥檛 help me understand my identity any more than just aro did, so I stopped using them. And that鈥檚 okay. It doesn鈥檛 mean I understand my identity any less, and it doesn鈥檛 mean my identity is less valid. It鈥檚 okay to just decide not to use a label.
-Mod Ozzie
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shadow-unique 1 month ago
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If you hear of a character being romance/sex repulsed and your first thought is to try to debunk or ignore it, fuck you.
If you hear of a character being aro/ace and your first thought is to say it's not canon because it wasn't explicitly stated in the media they're in (even if it was confirmed by the creator), fuck you.
If you hear of a character being romance/sex repulsed and your first thought is to say that character is boring/lonely/sad/evil because of that, fuck you.
It's almost comical how fandom is largely filled with people who claim to support aro/aces until their favorite character happens to be aro/ace. Then it's every excuse under the sun to ignore that or better yet, claim it's not canon.
A lot of you don't give that same treatment to gay characters, so you might wanna figure out why you're so okay with doing it to these ones.
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shadow-unique 2 months ago
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Male character: I'm not attracted to women.
Fandom: Oh, he's gay.
Female character: I'm not attracted to men.
Fandom: Oh, she's a lesbian.
Any character: I'm not attracted to anybody.
Fandom: Well, we don't know that they're ace/aro/aroace. It's open for interpretation. They're not canonically ace/aro/aroace unless they specifically say they are.
Hmmmm. I wonder why we're so frustrated in fandom spaces. I wonder if there's a reason.
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shadow-unique 2 months ago
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Y'all I have an idea
Y'all know that romantic and sexual attractions are different right? So I had an idea that we should just make ___sexual flag upsidedown to make it ___romantic
Because I get confused when people use the original or use a different one that isn't familiar and also because it makes sense to flip it to make it ___sexual to ___romantic
You don't have to use if you don't want though
Also example:
Bisexual
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Biromantic
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Pansexual
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Panromantic
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Omnisexual
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Omniromantic
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Do y'all get what I'm saying 馃槄, I'm not good at explaining and putting sentences 馃槗
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Also goose
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shadow-unique 3 months ago
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Sometimes I just wished I could feel romance, and experience it too
Like seeing romance movies it looks amazing, I mean a person who will be with you forever, love you eternally, and other romantic stuff feels like heaven to me
But when I think about it more and about me, I feel like it would just be a one sided love
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shadow-unique 3 months ago
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Tw: Vent and mentions of dysphoria
Does anyone else feel like their gender is tied to their emotions?
Because I've been feeling down lately and I've only felt numb which made my gender a void of nothingness
But when I'm happy I feel my genders in euphoric waves
I want my gender back :(, I wanna feel like something or anything again
Because all I'm feeling is dysphoria thinking I'm a fake and because everything isn't aligning
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shadow-unique 3 months ago
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I actually made an in-universe love potion for aro people in my oc universe (any thoughts?)
Love potions are different in my universe
The potion just amplifies their love, like if their love feeling is at 1 it'll go from 1 to 50 or more depending on the potion
It's for arospec people who have partners but feel like they don't love them enough or they feel like their relationship is one-sided because they don't feel it much
It can be used romantically or platonically
It's just to boost their love, it will change the way they act, they may act more lovey dovey or something it depends
Idk how to explain it well
This is inspired by the fact that I know I won't be a good partner because I won't feel or act as a normal allo Inlove person for my partner
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shadow-unique 3 months ago
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Does other genderfluid people feel like their fluidness is the consistency of honey, because it's been a long time since mine fluctuated
But once mine does fluctuates it almost always goes for the most dysphoric one and I have to go the whole day uncomfortable in my own body
To be honest most of the time I try not to think about my gender because if I remember I become dysphoric for some reason 馃ゲ
Does anyone have any tips to help with it
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shadow-unique 3 months ago
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Does anyone have a very very specific gender for some reason
I'm stargender, but the star looks like a star with rounded edges the perfect yellow and gold color and is tilted slightly
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It's not the exact one, maybe a lil darker but it feels like this
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shadow-unique 3 months ago
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Can genderfluid people also feel xenogenders??
Like sometimes I feel like a girl or sometimes a boy or both but also sometimes I feel like my gender is very star-like or at least alien-like
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shadow-unique 3 months ago
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Can someone please explain to me what xenogenders are exactly?
I know they're genders, but how? Like how do you know that's the gender you feel? How do you explain it? How do you differentiate from normal stuff or sexuality? How do you feel it? How is it a gender?
Like try your best on explaining it on a like personal level
Like try your best to make it make sense on for example that your gender is a character or show or aesthetic
I'm not trying to be bad or rude I'm just trying to learn more, to understand people, to understand life
I mostly just don't care about it since it's not bad and is not offensive, and I just think of it as microlabels because I'm pretty sure they are
(and to use on my stories and maybe on myself)
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shadow-unique 3 months ago
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I have a question can I just make up xenopronouns/neopronouns like darling/darlingself or cutie/cutieself
It's for my OCs and for myself like I can put my OCs pronouns as Bear/Bearself
Or light/lightself
And can I also use a made up gender that may be inspired by xenogenders like bloodgender or bubblegender?
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