#Black + Asian

[blackfemmecharacterdependency]

I am making a masterlist of ships with Black woman x Asian person, eventually.

Fresh on my mind are Dom & Mor, Tammy x Tomoya/Sam from He's Harmless, I Swear (two recent webcomics I've read), and Marie x Jordan from Gen V, which I am watching in progress?!? Lol.

I remember Thundergrace, from Black Lightning/DC Comics, and I was very much wild about Abigail x Adil from Motherland: Fort Salem.

I have various tags I can sort through to make the list, but just in case, I AM accepting suggestions. They don't even have to be canon if I can find content, I'll add them.

Please Note: I be working a lot. There's no telling when I'll create this list. But it'll be with my to do things.

And I am only looking for ships with at least one Black female character. Sometimes, people come to me and say things like, "I know you said femme, but here's this not female, not femme character I like instead." Keep them for yourself love.

Editing, because I want to just add for the time being that I have a tag for Black women with Asian men and a tag for Black women with Asian women, and I’ve even started one that specifically speaks to a particular ship that has a Black Woman with a Bigender Asian.

But, what I intend to do is put them all on a master list that helps followers find them on this blog. Like these: BFCD Masterlists

[mikeyyysol]

Here’s a quick and comprehensive video of how I made paper 📝

[i-love-sufjan-stevens]

Vintage Photos of Queer Couples of Color

[sunshineforlifesblog]

[fyanimaldiversity]

Golden moon bear (Ursus thibetanus)

[okubunny]

Drew Polaris again, + slight outfit redesign.

Edit: alt text added. Thank you @a-captions-blog for the alt text description

[lionofchaeronea]

Black Bear Cub, Mori Shūhō, 1799

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[icecreamwithjackdaniels]

Han Meilin (Chinese, b. 1936), "Bear"

[crunchycrystals]

this makes me want to cry

[blackfemmecharacterdependency]

i would like to make a submission for the tv show black cake on hulu! it’s about this mixed race jamacian girl who manages to leave her town and escape to america and eventually has two kids who are estranged, the show takes place after her death and follows her children listening to these voice recordings she made explaining her past to them. the main character covey/eleanor is played by mia isaac as a teenager/young adult and chipo chung as an adult. i plan on giffing the show as much as possible so i wanted to send it in!

Okay, so I don't have any electricity right now, so I'm not sure when I'll get back to searches for content. I'm gonna put this on my list for when I've got reliable internet again. 🙂

Edit: If anybody is looking for mixed minus white, the actresses featured in this story are Black + Asian.

[the-cricket-chirps]

Hishida Shunso

Black Cat

1910

[kaalbela]

Marc Riboud | The Antique Dealer's Window. Beijing, 1965.

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[southpauz]

Black History Month Art Challenge

DAY 19: Brit and Tiff Crust - My Life As A Teenage Robot

[writingwithcolor]

Desi Parenthood, Adoption, and Stereotypes

I have a story set in the modern day with supernatural traces, with three characters: a young boy, his bio dad, and his adoptive dad. The boy and his bio dad are Indian, the adoptive dad is Chinese. The bio dad is one of the few people in the story with powers. He put his son up for adoption when he was a child because at the time he was a young single father, had little control of the strength of his powers: he feared accidentally hurting his child. The son is adopted by the other dad, who holds spite to the bio dad for giving up his son since he lost his father as a young age and couldn't get why someone would willingly abandon their child. This also results in him being overprotective and strict over his son. When the child is older, the bio dad comes to their town and the son gets closer to him, which makes the adoptive dad pissed, mostly acting hostile to the other guy, paranoid that he'll decide to take away the child he didn't help raise. Later when they get closer he does change his biases. I can see the possible stereotypes here: the absent father being the darkskinned character, the light-skinned adoptive dad being richer than the bio dad, the lightskinned character being hostile and looking down on the darkskinned character, the overprotective asian parent, the adoptive dad assuming the bio dad abandoned the son. The reason for his bias isn't inherently racist, but I get how it can be seen that way. Is there a way to make this work? Would it be better to scrap it?

Two problem areas stand out with this ask: 

You seem confused with respect to how racial stereotypes are created, and what effect they have on society.

Your characterization of the Indian father suggests a lack of familiarity with many desi cultures as they pertain to family and child-rearing.

Racial Stereotypes are Specific

Your concern seems to stem from believing the absent father trope is applied to all dark-skinned individuals, when it’s really only applied to a subset of dark-skinned people for specific historical/ social/ political reasons. The reality is stereotypes are often targeted.

The “absent father” stereotype is often applied to Black fathers, particularly in countries where chattel slavery or colonialism meant that many Black fathers were separated from their children, often by force. The "absent black father" trope today serves to enforce anti-black notions of Black men as anti-social, neglectful of their responsibilities, not nurturing, etc. Please see the WWC tag #absent black father for further reading. 

Now, it’s true many desis have dark skin. There are also Black desis. I would go as far as to say despite anti-black bias and colorism in many desi cultures, if one was asked to tell many non-Black desis from places like S. India and Sri Lanka apart from Black people from places like E. Africa, the rate of failure would be quite high. However, negative stereotypes for desi fathers are not the same as negative stereotypes for non-desi Black fathers, because racially, most Black people and desis are often not perceived as being part of the same racial group by other racial groups, particularly white majorities in Western countries. Negative stereotypes for desi fathers are often things like: uncaring, socially regressive/ conservative, sexist. They are more focused around narratives that portray these men as at odds with Western culture and Western norms of parenting. 

Desi Parents are Not this Way

Secondly, the setup makes little sense given how actual desi families tend to operate when one or both parents are unable to be present for whatever reason. Children are often sent to be raised by grandparents, available relatives or boarding schools (Family resources permitting). Having children be raised by an outsider is a move of last resort. You make no mention of why your protagonist’s father didn’t choose such an option. The trope of many desi family networks being incredibly large is not unfounded. Why was extended family not an option?

These two points trouble me because you have told us you are writing a story involving relationship dynamics between characters of both different races and ethnicities. I’m worried you don’t know enough about the groups you are writing about, how they are perceived by each other and society at large in order to tell the story you want to tell.

As with many instances of writing with color, your problem is not an issue of scrap versus don’t scrap. It’s being cognizant of the current limits of your knowledge. How you address this knowledge deficit and its effect on your interpretation of your characters and the story overall will determine if readers from the portrayed groups find the story compelling.

- Marika.

I have one response: what? Where are the father’s parents? Any siblings? Is he cut off? Is he American? A Desi that has stayed in India? 

Estrangement is not completely out of the question if the father is Westernized; goodness knows that I have personal experience with seeing estrangement. But you haven’t established any of that. What will you add?

-Jaya