#Date Night Ideas

[misogynist-lesbian]

Also applies if you're a masochist. Or want to spend a Friday evening with me. I'll bring cake.

[nicheguides]

First Date Ideas

Skip the coffee date! Entice the next hottie you meet with a brand new experience✨

[lwiann]

The sexiest description they ever gave gortash is that hes got precise handwriting

[tinycasket]

making napalm together

[zennotixs]

Date night idea: I trace over your entire self and meticulously commit every piece of you to memory as I ramble about how beautiful you are. After that I cut you up to see how pretty you’d look in red.

[laidee-flegman]

30 cute date-night ideas that won't break the bank

Picnic in the Park: Grab a blanket, some snacks, and enjoy the great outdoors.

DIY Pizza Night: Make your own pizzas with all the toppings you love.

Netflix & Chill (Literally): Build a fort and binge-watch your favourite shows.

Board Game Battle: Dust off those old board games or grab a new one for some friendly competition.

Stargazing: Head to a spot away from city lights and get lost in the stars.

Food Truck Frenzy: Hit up some local food trucks for a mini taste adventure.

Artistic Adventure: Try your hand at painting or pottery together.

Hiking Excursion: Explore nature trails and enjoy each other's company.

Bike Ride: Pedal your way through the neighbourhood or a scenic trail.

Trivia Night: Find a local pub or join an online trivia game for some brainy fun.

Thrift Store Treasure Hunt: Seek out unique finds in a thrift store.

Ice Cream Sundae Bar: Get creative with toppings and make your own sundaes.

Movie Marathon: Pick a theme and binge-watch a series of movies.

Outdoor Movie Night: Set up a makeshift outdoor theatre in your backyard.

Cook-Off Challenge: Have a friendly competition to see who can cook the best dish.

Bookstore Browse: Explore a bookstore together and pick out books for each other.

Karaoke Night: Belt out your favourite tunes at a karaoke joint or in the living room.

Farmers Market Date: Discover fresh produce and unique goodies at a local farmers market.

Mini Golf: Putt your way through a mini-golf course for some light-hearted fun.

Home Spa Night: Pamper yourselves with DIY spa treatments.

Volunteer Together: Give back to the community by volunteering your time.

Fondue Feast: Dip your favourite foods into a gooey pot of melted goodness.

Coffee Shop Chat: Grab a cup of joe and have a cosy conversation.

Beach Day: Enjoy the sun, sand, and each other's company.

Photo Scavenger Hunt: Create a list of items to find and snap pics together.

Binge-Worthy Podcasts: Listen to interesting podcasts while chilling at home.

Outdoor Exercise Class: Join a free outdoor yoga or fitness class.

DIY Sushi Night: Roll your own sushi for a delicious and interactive dinner.

Visit a Free Museum Day: Check out local museums on free admission days.

Fishing Fun: If you're near water, try your luck with a fishing adventure.

[femmefatalevibe]

hi femme!!

i’ve been talking to this guy for about 2 months now, and things are going well i really like him. he’s coming to my city to visit me in about a week for a few days and i wanted to ask if you could recommend some date plans that we could do?

i’ve never had a boyfriend before or even been taken/planned a date and im a bit nervous and self conscious about this, especially since i know he’s had a few relationships in the past (including with a girl who’s also from my city 🥲) and i don’t want to just be another girl in his life or for him to be having deja vu when hanging out with me (think olivia rodrigo). idk if this is just me but im scared he’ll think im boring and i really want this to work out.

i’d love to hear your advice !!

thank you so much <333

Hi love! Just remember, if you've left your house to do things post-COVID, you have as much daytime activity experience as he does, lol. Dating is a two-way street, and you need to approach it as such. You're evaluating how much you like him in the same way he should be seeing if he's compatible with you. Other girls he's gone out with are irrelevant – he's traveling to go on this date with YOU.

Anyway, onto some fun date activities:

Go to a local museum

Take a stroll in the park

Have a picnic in the park

Go to a paint-and-sip class (or a regular pottery class)

Go rollerskating/ice skating/boat rowing

Play mini golf/tennis or pickleball

Attend a comedy show/jazz or piano show

Go to a trivia/karaoke night

Get ice cream/dessert/coffee at a novelty, fun place

See an outdoor movie

Go bowling

Browse local bookstores/thrift stores

Do a food/dessert tour

Go to an amusement park

Breakfast/lunch/dinner (can't not include this one, lol)

See an indie or vintage film

Hope this helps xx

[rigginsstreet]

dacre having irreversible listed as one of his favorite movies on letterboxd is actual insane behavior lmfao

[shannaraisles]

Unravelled - for @memaidraws

A commission for the fabulous @memaidraws, who has been an absolute star through the whole process - thank you, lovely!

Unravelled

Four cast pots, two iron pans, the campfire expanded to accommodate not only the broiling and boiling but also the baking and warming of various ingredients before they came together into a meal fit for kings.

Kings of the road, perhaps, but still kings for one night. Kings every night, when it was Gale of Waterdeep’s turn to cook. A man of dedicated taste and refined palate, he scoured each market and store they came across in search of new spices and flavourings, or to restock his supplies of those they already had. Rae was no slouch when it came to cooking himself, but he had to admit, Gale took it to an entirely different level. The others might complain about how long dinner took to make when the wizard was in charge of it, but there were never complaints about the quality when it finally arrived. 

It was a fascinating process to watch, too; the meat carefully dressed and trimmed, seared to perfection before it was wrapped in sturdy, flavoursome leaves and tucked into the warm embers at the far edge of the flames to bake slowly as sauces and vegetables were prepared with diligent care and attention to detail to some rhythm only Gale knew. And there was rhythm to it; a musical quality to each spoon swirled through some sticky soft mixture, or fork speared into the flesh of a tuber or brace of greens, testing their readiness with expert knowledge.

But Rae wasn’t watching purely to enjoy the aesthetic of Gale’s form as he cooked, oh no. Gale of Waterdeep had spent long years in a tower with only a tressym for company, and he had picked up a habit in her presence that he had never quite lost in her absence. Gale talked to himself as he cooked, and the subject of tonight’s curious ramblings was none other than their not-so-glorious leader, Rae himself. 

“If this were my tower, I could at the very least send out for pheasant or squid,” the wizard was muttering as Rae approached from behind. “Alas, a decent cut of beef and basic herbs shall have to do. But when we reach Baldur’s Gate, things will be different.”

His fingers flickered through a complicated sigil in mid-air, and a clutch of fresh rosemary appeared in his grasp, apparently freshly picked through the Weave from someone’s garden. Rae bit down a smile, hoping that garden was far enough away that no one would tie a mystery herb thief to the strange group that had just passed through their little town. Gale ripped the leaves from the woody stalks, crushing each just a little between his fingers before sprinkling his bounty into the pot before him.

“Baldur’s Gate will have everything I need,” the man continued, seemingly talking to mid-air. Rae couldn’t help but wonder if he was actually talking to Tara through the Weave somehow; anything was possible with Gale. “Perhaps I should forgo preparing the meal myself? It would make the evening seem more special, more deliberate. We could visit the Elfsong Tavern, though it is a very common sort of place. Perhaps one of the restaurants in the Wide ... The Heroes’ Feast, perhaps. It does have an excellent reputation, and Rae has expressed an interest in the heroes of the Bhaalspawn War. An evening of conversation with the grandchildren of Gorion’s ward might be just the ticket. And the food, I am told is excellent.” 

Rae’s brows rose; Gale was making plans for time they could spend together, just the two of them? And worrying, as he did over everything, about what would make it perfect. It was somehow both infuriating and endearing that Gale seemed to have no idea that just his presence was enough to make an evening perfect.

”But he seems to enjoy my labours in this area; it would be a travesty if the food were below par,” Gale went on, lifting a spoon to taste some mysterious concoction that somehow managed to sparkle briefly in the flicker of magic at his fingertips. “If their tales are of good enough quality, they could be invited to the tower as company - entertainment for the evening, perhaps. But if we are to go that far to seek entertainment for one evening, then would it not be better to take him to experience the theatre?”

There was a pause, no doubt for the expected response from Tara who was not present and therefore had nothing to say. But Gale still seemed to get a response of some sort, whether from the real tressym at some distance or from the imagined version of her in his mind’s eye, for he nodded sagely as though in answer to some comment, stepping to one side to flip the bread frying in a pan to the other side before adding it to the stack of already perfectly created flatbreads resting on a plate close by. 

“No, of course, the theatre is far too mundane,” he mused. “He has no doubt seen every production worth seeing already, and would know the quality of the players in the Gate far better than I. But in Waterdeep, we could take him - I could take him to The Yawning Portal; adventurers a-plenty there to whet his appetite for tales, and Durnan can be trusted to provide a more sheltered seat in one of the upper galleries in case the Undermountain decides to send a visitor to the main floor. It is a rather rowdy place, though, and quiet does seem to suit him better than raucous distraction ...”

He lapsed into silence for a long moment, unaware that the object of his eager affections was so close and so aware of every word he said. Rae felt his heart swell with each word; how had he not noticed how very much Gale wanted to impress and delight him? Had he been too acutely aware of his own uncertainties and perceived shortcomings that he had missed this adorable fumbling toward some grand gesture that might please? He couldn’t help but be grateful for the unspoken agreement among the entire party that anything Gale said while cooking was to be ignored and never spoken of again. Some things were too personal to tease about. 

“I have it!”

Gale snapped his fingers, the sudden sound startling Rae almost into revealing himself as the Wizard of Waterdeep beamed at no one across the fire in front of him. 

“We shall dine in my tower, but it shall be cloaked in the Weave, and wherever his fancy takes him, that shall be our entertainment,” he declared to no one in particular. “Exhausting for myself, of course, but nothing is too great a stretch for my love.” He sighed, seeming to sag for a moment, his voice softening with impossible desire. “I would give him the world, if I but had it within my grasp.”

Rae smiled, his heart somehow both melting and hammering in his chest at the tenderness in his lover’s voice. This was enough torture for one night, surely?

“I would rather a lifetime of ordinary evenings at your side, than watch you destroy yourself in the search for one perfect night.”

Gale straightened hurriedly, his head turning with affected nonchalance at the sound of his lover’s gentle approach.

“Ah.” He offered up a sheepish smile. “I don’t suppose I could convince you to forget you heard all that, could I?”

Rae’s smile flickered, somehow awkwardly shy yet brimming with unexpected confidence, fingertips ghosting down along Gale’s spine as the other hand reached for the package of baking beef. It was ... rather wonderful, to know he was not the only one in this relationship still feeling his way toward certainty. 

“I would rather forget how to touch the Weave than forget how much you love me,” he said, feeling his cheeks warm with how bold his words seemed, dropping his gaze to the food. “Any night with you is the perfect night, because I am with you. That is all that matters, Gale, truly.”

Gale sighed through a soft smile, unconsciously leaning into Rae’s side as they stood close together beside the busy campfire. His head lowered just enough to rest, temple to temple, against Rae’s, the two of them cloaked in a stillness of their own affectionate making amid the quiet bustle of their party’s evening camp. 

“I would give you nothing but perfection, if it were mine to give,” Gale murmured, twisting a little to brush his knuckles against Rae’s smooth cheek.

“I don’t need perfection, love,” Rae whispered, daring to raise his eyes to meet the tenderly adoring gaze levelled upon him. “I have you.”

“That you do.”

The brush of knuckles turned, Gale’s gentle palm curling to Rae’s cheek to draw him close. Lips covered lips, softness flavoured with the delicate prickle of hair that somehow heightened the experience, sweet and sinful and oh, so wonderful. For just one moment, even the Weave could have unravelled and everything would still have been perfect.

“Oh, blast it all, I forgot the spice,” Gale suddenly declared, pulling from the kiss in a distracted huff at his own sense of failure.

Rae bit down a laugh at the abrupt end to what could have been a perfect moment for a lot longer, and reached for the little pot that was currently the focus of his lover’s ire. 

“Show me what to do with it?” he suggested, tilting his head with curious interest.

Gale looked at him, his eyes flickering from the little spice pot in one hand to the sweet softness of the lips he had just abandoned, to the warm interest in the eyes that held him in thrall. His own lips curved in an unthinking smile, unable to resist the siren’s call of the man who had captured his heart so thoroughly without even seeming to try. 

“Come here,” he said, gathering Rae into his side to draw him to the appropriate pot. “You need just a pinch, in this one ...” And here and now, as they talked and touched and learned each other in ways more binding than simple lust-fueled intimacy, among friends in the wilderness between their respective worlds where each thread did not need to be woven to become a fabric of infinite possibility ... this was perfect.

[nicheguides]

Date Night Ideas

Are you tired of coffee dates? bing watch dates? dinner-and-a-show dates? Is dating stale to you now? Why not try any of these fresh date ideas to forge a deeper connection with your lover!

[jimisunsets]

Take Me To The Aquarium High AF!

thats love 🤎

[mental-mona]

[lavandamichelle]

12 Days of Christmas Date Night In: Cozy Ideas for Couples

‘Tis the season for love, laughter, and unforgettable moments with your significant other. This year, why not make the most of the holiday spirit with “12 Days of Christmas Date Night In” ideas? From festive movie marathons to DIY hot cocoa bars, these cozy and romantic suggestions will not only bring you closer but also add a touch of magic to your winter nights. 12 Days of Christmas Date Night…

[laidee-flegman]

Top Ten classically Romantic date night ideas

I’ve been researching and brainstorming different kinds of date night ideas for shorts on my channel and I thought I’d create top 10 date night ideas over here on Tumblr too!  

This first top ten list is centred around what I’m dubbing classically romantic date nights. This is your candlelit dinners and picnics in the park kinda dates. 

1. Candlelit Dinner at a Cosy Restaurant

There's something undeniably romantic about dim lighting, soft music, and delicious food. Choose a cosy restaurant with intimate seating, perhaps with a fireplace or outdoor patio for added ambiance. Share a bottle of wine, indulge in decadent dishes, and savour each other's company in the warm glow of the candlelight.

2. Picnic Under the Stars

Escape the hustle and bustle of city life by packing a picnic and heading to a secluded spot where you can enjoy nature's beauty under the twinkling night sky. Spread out a blanket, light some candles or lanterns, and feast on gourmet treats while whispering sweet nothings and counting shooting stars.

3. Movie Night with All-Time Favorite Romantic Films

Snuggle up on the couch with a bowl of popcorn and a selection of your all-time favourite romantic movies. Whether you prefer classic romances, heartwarming comedies, or epic love stories, make it a marathon night of cinematic bliss. Don't forget the tissues for the tear-jerker moments!

4. Cooking a Fancy Dinner Together at Home

Turn your kitchen into a culinary playground by cooking a fancy dinner together. Choose a gourmet recipe you've been dying to try, don matching aprons, and embark on a delicious culinary adventure. Sip on wine, chop vegetables side by side, and revel in the satisfaction of creating a masterpiece together.

5. Wine Tasting at a Vineyard

Take a romantic day trip to a nearby vineyard for a wine tasting experience. Wander through scenic vineyards hand in hand, sample a variety of wines, and learn about the winemaking process. Pair your favourite wines with artisanal cheeses and chocolates for a truly indulgent date.

6. Stargazing in a Secluded Spot

Find a secluded spot away from city lights where you can marvel at the beauty of the night sky together. Bring along a telescope or simply lie back on a blanket and gaze up at the stars. Point out constellations, make wishes on shooting stars, and let the magic of the universe deepen your connection.

7. Couples Massage at a Spa

Treat yourselves to a luxurious couples massage at a spa for the ultimate relaxation and pampering experience. Melt away tension as skilled therapists work their magic, soothing sore muscles and calming your minds. Leave feeling rejuvenated, refreshed, and even more deeply connected.

8. Taking a Dance Class Together

Step out of your comfort zone and into each other's arms with a dance class for couples. Whether you choose salsa, tango, or ballroom dancing, learning new moves together is not only fun but also incredibly romantic. Feel the music, laugh at your missteps, and revel in the joy of dancing as one.

9. Visiting an Art Gallery or Museum

Immerse yourselves in culture and creativity by visiting an art gallery or museum together. Wander hand in hand through exhibits, discussing your favourite pieces and sharing your interpretations. Whether you're art aficionados or simply appreciate beauty, exploring together will deepen your connection and spark meaningful conversations.

10. Horseback Riding Through Scenic Trails

Saddle up and embark on a romantic horseback riding adventure through picturesque trails. Feel the wind in your hair, the sun on your skin, and the rhythm of your horse's hooves beneath you as you explore the great outdoors together. Share quiet moments amidst nature's beauty and create memories that will last a lifetime.

[femmefatalevibe]

Hey lovely! Just wondering if you have any advice on being more romantic with my partner whilst keeping a sense of the chase? I want to lean into my more gamine personality but explore a more sexy side to myself. Thank you so so much!

Hi love! I would say learn the art of the tease – both conversationally and techniques for physical intimacy (both can be very sexual, IMO).

Use wit, anticipation, playfulness, and build-up – when interacting with your partner whether it's to achieve the climax of a story in conversation or during a sexual encounter. Drop some subtle more "feminine" hints if you would like to build this tension (anything from making an ice cream sundae to share together or giving each other sensual massages to having some sexy lingerie for him to "discover"/in your hand while entering your living space, among other similar ideas).

Hope this helps xx

[butterbourbonandothersins]

Chocolate Lava Cake

With just a handful of ingredients and a few simple steps, you can create these chocolate lava cakes in the comfort of your own home.

Picture this: rich, velvety chocolate oozing out of a warm, moist cake, creating a heavenly dessert experience. With just a handful of ingredients and a few simple steps, you can create these chocolate lava cakes in the comfort of your own home. Whether you’re planning a special date night or simply treating yourself, this recipe is sure to impress.