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#I Am Being My Authentic Me And If People Cant Handle It That's Their Problem
orcelito · 11 months
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bhah ch5 reread time for emotions
idk why eddie half-asleep mumbling about pancakes is so funny to me but like... relatable king
we love the contrasting feelings of Dani and Eddie vs Jamie’s house
lmao poor mikey. let the boy shred on his air guitar in peace
god this is all so domestic I want what they have (owen’s pastries and Jamie in a bandana)
a great, good place huh???? idk why clever canon line inclusion sometimes makes me go a little bit mad but here we are
Dani wanting to leave her mark on this place vs... whatever the fuck is going on in her own home the signs are all there babe
Jamie seeing the problem of Dani not having a desk to work at and immediately wanting to fix it vs Eddie just being Eddie hmmmmm
Carson and Mikey being buddies is actually something that can be so personal
dang Jamie and her quiet temper are so intimidating
problem solver Dani is here we love her. god they’re such a good match
skjfhdfkjfh so much talk about loins ladies get a room already
"Sometimes I just like making other people happy, is all." Dani you are toooo sweet (even if this gets you into trouble sometimes)
oh my godddd Jamie sending Dani flowers I can’t handle this. DANI WANTING TO KEEP IT A SECRET TOO LIKE WANTING TO KEEP THEIR TIME AS JUST FOR THEM I’M GOING INSANE
oh she is having Thoughts about their thighs pressing together and their fingertips grazing. this is so gay. gayer than whatever is gonna happen when they finally bone (I will happily retract this statement if proven wrong 👀👀👀). nothing tops this on the homosexual heirarcy of intimacy
mikey trotting towards school w the lil packed lunch jamie just threw him is so adorable I love the visuals of this fic
I am headcanoning Dani’s Aunt Liz who moved out east to be gay and no one will convince me otherwise (also bring her back Dani needs a cool gay aunt in her life)
Dani being presented with an opportunity to not hang out with Eddie’s familly: I will be there also I can be there 7 hours early also I will bring snacks
Charlotte? Charlotte Wingrave?? Is she on maternity leave to have Miles???
“"Yeah," she lied.” is one of my fave sentences ever idk why I just... the agreement and the deceit of it all (not necessarily specific to this moment tho it is a good one. I just love them in general)
ooft Dani feels so close to breaking here r.e. Eddie and their relationship and I cannot help but wonder if she’s been like this for a while or if the Jamie of it all is really accelerating things
aww Dani’s birthday we love to celebrate she
Dani looking for Jamie I always always imagine as a grounding thing even if she’s not aware of it. Jamie truly is her person and I will be going insane about it ty
Jamie’s wardrobe is truly top tier she is so dreamy
gah the um. heights of everyone on the wall... the familyness of it all. the history. time to look away before I explode
“It’s just the way it’s always been.” ooooohhhh these lines in sort of inconesquential moments that capture the essence of everything!!!!! genius
i fucking hate how hot I find Jamie smoking akjdfhdjfh why can I see it so clearly in my head and why am I like Dani Clayton levels of attracted to her about it
oof Dani truly hates her n Eddie’s house (a house is not a home.glee.mp3 etc). I’m also just realising with a return to the wall heights thing that Jamie was probably thinking back to simpler times and what this house represented as a home to her (both as a welcoming place to be/an ideal kind of home but something she will never really have/be a part of) my heart hurts
What is Dani wishing for as she blows out the candles does she even know what she wants???
Jamie insisting she gets to sit beside Dani is so adorable
the casual domesticity of Dani and Jamie together has me making the stupidest most endeared faces at my screen I love it
the camping trip mention kjfdghdfkj I will never forget Dani gay panicking the whole time I love this lead up
god why am I thinking so hard about the different paths Dani and Jamie went down r.e. their sexualitites rn like Dani being all scared of Jamie mixing w her work life and people realising that there’s something there is just... she’s so fuckign afraid of being herself and then u have Jamie who has lived her life as authentically as she can in that sense and the contrast of it all is so damn interesting (and breaks my heart a bunch)
is this the scarf Dani gave her for christmas does she still have it oh my god
“"And here I thought you were a fan of delayed gratification," Jamie said, chuckling softly.” please tell me this is a surprise tool that will help us later
wait i take it back about the gayest thing ever. I think this blindfolded w Jamie gently guiding her w a hand on her back while she says gentle reassurances like “I got you” is possibly the gayest they’ve ever been. OH she’s guiding her to the desk she refurbished with her own two gay hands this is peak lesbianism. i’m gonna make a heirarcy of needs pyramid based on this fic one day just u wait
ok but this is really soft as hell god I love the thoughtfulness of Jamie. get u a best friend that will fulfill ur every need and feels like home and then kiss her a bunch
“I feel like I'm standing in the middle of the room, screaming, and nobody even looks at me. Nobody can see me." this nell crain ref pls I cant
i think it’s really like... sweet in a way that both of them are sort of dancing around this like there are so many feelings there and they’re just sort of clinging to each other and the familiarity of their bond without pushing it into anything more even incidentally. i think it’s v much a testament to the writing that their relationship and what it is/what it could become isn’t overwhelming to either of them in moments like this. it all just feels very authentic and I love this fic so dang much for it
the library trip ok are we ready 4 the gay meltdown of the century
god them lowkey playfighting on the bus pls this is just like the perfect mix of teacher Dani trying to be professional meets teenage Dani and Jamie cuteness aaah
lmao is Jamie having a small gay meltdown over Hannah Grose that is perfection
fvkdjfgkjfh Hannah and Jamie discussing Dani’s pretty eyes I love this so much please I need more of this and Dani getting flustered about it
god the Jamie and Jackie history I need to know this backstory so bad
plsss Jamie putting Dani’s hand in her jacket pocket to keep it warm could you two be any more digustingly cuuuuute.
jesus fuck the tension of them almost making out in the back rowww. Jamie having a meltdown. Dani falling impossibly harder in love
i can’t believe this moment was it for Dani. lesbianism is stored in the library
oof the parallels between this and the school dance bathroom meltdown Jamie gone vs Jamie HERE in ways she can barely even comprehend. everything is NOT OK
“She couldn’t want this. She couldn’t want Jamie.” Ms Dani your delusions
yeehaw I’m officially halfway through my reread may the next 5 chapters align with the universe and see me through until ch11 is here amen
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wildgeese2017 · 3 years
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You: what makes you happy?
Stranger: His smile
You: thats so nie
You: nice
Stranger: But I haven’t seen in in a while
You: :(
Stranger: What makes you happy?
You: i like lying down and feeling the earth cradling my whole physical body i like listening to music by myself
You: but i feel like its all sucks bc it never lasts
You: like his smile
You: i dont know how to make sense of it all
Stranger: I feel you
Stranger: Seems like nothing lasts
You: it scares me
Stranger: And you never know when the last time is going to be the last time
Stranger: You always think you will have more
Stranger: Until you don’t
You: i feel like an animal i feel so blind to what fate has planned for me
You: i want to believe in something to sort of see everything through the right lens but i just dont know whether i cud
You: like i dont know what gods means to me
You: what does it mean to you?
Stranger: I try to trust in him
Stranger: But the faith is being tested
Stranger: I feel like so much unfairness couldn’t come from god
You: i used to know so surely that the whole point of this suffering was that it was a test or an inevitabilty but i worry that my conclusion was false
You: im scared that my faith is just learned helpessness
You: do you have anything you wanted to say
You: like why you are on this platform
Stranger: I just hope you get enough motivation to hold on
Stranger: Even if it’s the bare minimum
You: thanks im fine i just feel so confused
Stranger: I am pretty sure that someday something will come that will make it worth it
You: im doing well im being nice to my loved ones im going to work im having fun im just existentially terrified
Stranger: For everyone
You: yeh i think so too
You: i kno u dont kno me but im rooting for you
Stranger: How old are you ? Sorry if that’s too personal
You: im 20
Stranger: I’m rooting for you too!!! 😄
You: thx
Stranger: The confusion starts at the twenty’s
Stranger: I’m 25 and haven’t figured it out
You: lol ive been confused 4 so long tho
You: i think being confused is the whole point
Stranger: Maybe the meaning of life isn’t to find it purpose
Stranger: But to live and live while it lasts
Stranger: Love*
You: like its all just fluctuations of energy and the universe is just reminding itself that it exists bc being is the point of being like a perfect circle of belief and truth
You: yes i think so too
You: but it leads me to chasing empty bliss
Stranger: You should write a book about it
Stranger: Or poems
You: i want to feel more purpose but i dont know how im scared of nit finding peace and my vulnerability being exploited
You: i write poetry but i feel as tho i havent developed craft
Stranger: You must be brave to feel extraordinary :)
You: how do u express urself?
You: :)
Stranger: I dance
You: <3
Stranger: I’m a dancer
You: thats so wonderful
Stranger: Not good with words
You: does it make you feel free? i can only dance with the lights off
Stranger: Sometimes I turn the music up and close my eyes and just dance whatever I feel inside
You: that sounds nice
You: what kind of music do u like?
Stranger: And most of the times it feels like breaking my own heart
You: :(
Stranger: But it flies itself back together right after
You: in a good or bad way?
Stranger: Glues*
You: sometimes i wish i cud crack open my heart and show people
Stranger: I feel like a slightly cracked heart must fall apart to be build up again
You: i always paraphrase kafka when he said the reason for everything he did is to try and express the unexpressable
Stranger: People tend to ignore small cracks
Stranger: But take it serious when it’s all in pieces
You: :( i wish we cud all b more gentle with each other
Stranger: Same
You: i wish i had more energy to see everyones breaking hearts and fill up the cracks with my own love
Stranger: And I wish we would only fall in love with people who fall for us back
You: are you in love with him?
Stranger: I am
You: i dont kno whether ive ever been in love love what is it like?
Stranger: I’ve been in love once before
Stranger: And I swore I’d never open myself up for anyone
Stranger: And my best friend convinced me to go on this date with this guy
Stranger: And when he kissed me I just knew
You: that must hav been terrifying
Stranger: Took me 5years tho
Stranger: To fall like this again
Stranger: It was
Stranger: In it’s ironic way
Stranger: And it still is
You: i can tget close to anyone like that bc ive got all this stuff i cant let anyone see its brave for you to let someone in even if it hurts
Stranger: You know what?
Stranger: It wasn’t a decision I made !!
You: huh i never thought of it that way
You: maybe it was god
Stranger: Im fact the decision I took was to not let him in before we went on that date
Stranger: It wasn’t something I was in control of
Stranger: And it took him 5 hours to kiss me 😄
Stranger: And when he did time stopped
Stranger: And so did my senses except for feeling
You: what makes him so special? is it just the way he makes you feel or is there a big reason in your mind?
Stranger: It’s …
Stranger: How can I say this
Stranger: He was a surprise
Stranger: I didn’t expect him to be that good
You: did you feel like you had met before?
Stranger: I thought he’d be just another mediocre guy
You: so he suprised you
Stranger: But when I saw his smile and eyes I just knew I was screwed
Stranger: Yeah
Stranger: Feel good to finally talk about all this haha
You: ive never felt that way about way about anyone it sounds so confusing
You: is he kind?
Stranger: He was
You: is he not anymore?
Stranger: Sadly no
You: :(
Stranger: He decided to take a step back from me
You: what did he do to make you feel this way (if you dont mind me askin)
You: oh
Stranger: I remember when he called me to tell me he’s not ready for a relationship
You: what are you going to do? i cant imagine never seeing anyone i care about like that again
Stranger: Last time I saw him was three weeks ago
Stranger: And last time I heard from him was one week bwfore
You: did you know him long before ?
Stranger: Three months
Stranger: Not that long
Stranger: But I knew what he would mean to me when I first saw him
Stranger: So it felt like a smaller eternity
You: that sound so difficult
Stranger: I miss him terribly:)
You: i cant imagine feeling that way it wud really scare me everyone i talk to ive known for like 8years i cant give so much of myself to someone new
Stranger: You don’t have to give yourself to someone all at once
Stranger: Be protective of your energy
Stranger: And never trust the other person to not hurt you!
Stranger: But trust yourself and how you will react to it
Stranger: Trust that’s you would be strong enough to handle it
You: do you think he saw the real you? its so weird to think that everyone percieves you differently and out of your own control i worry that i focus too much on an idea of a person that i cud be
Stranger: Yea and no
Stranger: What I showed him was the real me but I also know that I didn’t show him everything that I am
Stranger: I feel your fear ! You got to know who you are as a person first
Stranger: And you got to be authentic with the people around you
You: i think it takes so long to show a clear picture of urself and its always moving and running away from the person you were when you last talked to that person who you want to really see you
Stranger: Exactly!
Stranger: That’s probably the most genuine talk I ever had
You: im so tired of trying to be a person i wish i cud just melt into everyone around me but theres so much i dislike about those around me and its not possible anyway. its just hard knowing the reason for everything is human connection and not living in a way that respects that truth
Stranger: Thank you
You: thank you too
You: i really appreciate your sharing its so scar to be honest out loud
You: *scary
Stranger: True
Stranger: I guess being anonymous makes it easier
You: yeh i just i was going to see a friend today who i feel like understands me but i couldnt in the end and i needed to express a part of myself u kno even tho im talking to other people who know me and care its not the same
You: i hope ou feel better soon regardless of what he chooses for himself
Stranger: I know exactly what you mean
Stranger: After all I have to choose myself over him as well :)
Stranger: Sometimes love isn’t enough
Stranger: Who am I fooling… most of the times it’s not enough
You: i have so many kind lovely friends and family who is trying but i cant let go of this heavy thing its like theres always some invisible chain wrapped around me
You: yeh :(
You: why cant we all help each other more
Stranger: Not many people are spiritual enough to say love is enough and all that matters f*ck the rest
You: i know so many people in pain and im too tired to be there all the time
You: its easy for me to say love is enough when i dont hav so many real problems that cant b solved with love alone
Stranger: I really pray for you to break out of those chains
Stranger: You seem like an amazing loving and caring person
Stranger: You deserve happiness
You: thanks i dont kno whether my hope has any power to reach you but i really hope you get some relief from your pain too
You: you too
You: i think we all do but i cant know that im so lucky to not meet people who are cruel enough to take that belief away from me
Stranger: And if you ever do meet people like that do me the favor of removing them immediately
Stranger: If it costs you your peace it’s too exoenz
You: i guess but i always think what happens to them when im gone?
Stranger: Expensive *
You: where do they go?
Stranger: ALWAYS !
You: what do they feel?
Stranger: That’s none of your business
Stranger: Let them find their own way
You: yeh i think we all need to respect ourselves to let go of toxicity
Stranger: You don’t have to guide them
You: i just feel like i want to care more i want to love more but i dont and that makes me feel small and selfish i wish we cud all connect our love its so scary not being able to reach each other
You: im scared to change and become better it sounds so hard i feel so selfish
Stranger: You’re not selfish if it means protecting your energy
Stranger: But don’t stand in your own way
Stranger: Be brave
Stranger: Can’t stress that enough
You: thanks i think i do need to be braver i try and look more people in the eye but maybe i need to be brave against myself more than against other people
Stranger: Have you ever watched greys anatomy?
You: since they arent in my control
You: no but all my friends love it
You: its on my list loll
Stranger: So Meredith grey said something like :
Stranger: Maybe she wasn’t opening up to people not because she was scared of the love she would receive
Stranger: But scared of what would happen when they took this live away from her someday
Stranger: Once you get a taste of love
Stranger: It’s like a drug
Stranger: Love*
You: like you and him, i find it hard to accept it when people choose me over someone else so i push them away to other people and i get upset that they replaced me
You: love is so scary
You: its too much
Stranger: Me and him …
Stranger: I feel like this story is not over yet
Stranger: :)
Stranger: And that calms me
You: i think if you have so much love inside you, u will succeed and find yourself in a good place if you focus on that love
Stranger: Yeah
Stranger: I literally believe in love because of the way I know I am capable to love
You: sometimes i worry that im not capable of love like that like i have something inside me that puts people off even though on a surface level i seem nice and passionate or sweet or whatever
You: like i worry im just playing a part and soon ill get tired of acting and i wont be what people need anymore
Stranger: Don’t worry too much
Stranger: Just truly be yourself
You: thanks i will try too
You: its so weird loving life this much and still not being happy
Stranger: Damn
You: like im so happy but its never enough
You: its not the right kind of joy it wont fit
Stranger: And this whole convo started with this simple question
You: loll
Stranger: What makes you happy
Stranger: Lol
Stranger: You know what I just realized
You: wot :0
Stranger: My answer was wrong in so many ways
Stranger: Your happiness shouldn’t be depending on someone else
Stranger: Cause you can’t control other peoples behavior
You: thats so real
You: its so scary tho since you cant b alone but you cant rely purely on others
Stranger: Your happiness should only be in your hands
Stranger: So controversial
Stranger: It’s a daily risk lol
You: like other people are all that matters but to them you are the other people so we all need to be kind to ourselves to be kind to each toher but we're all to hurt and scared to do all of it in the right way
You: we're all walking around with a piece of the happy puzzle and we have'nt figured out how to put it together
Stranger: sometimes we forget that all people are vulnerable and maybe hurting too
Stranger: When someone hurts your feelings you tend to forget you might have hurt theirs too
You: i always remember but i dont always respect it and that makes me dislike the kind of person i let myself be
Stranger: You will learn to
You: i hope so
You: i think thats the point
Stranger: Don’t pressure yourself
You: like we live and we all learn the same lesson
You: but it seems like its always repeating
You: like why haven't we learned it yet
You: like we're all one soul
You: and we can't reach the end of this problem or is the point how good we feel at points of it? i cant just chase joy if its fleeting iworry that even love is fleeting
You: idk i know we only hav the present
You: like all the advice uve given me i trust it
You: i just freak out thinking of the big picture
Stranger: Relax 😄
Stranger: It’s not all that serious
Stranger: Don’t forget to live along the way
Stranger: Love was never meant to be safe or measured!
Stranger: You got to be brave and love irritationally
You: i think that that is fair i just i go long stretches living and then i remember the whole question of why and how shud i live and i get all tangled up again
Stranger: And instead of being scared, trusting yourself with it
You: i think i need to trust more and i think faith is trust
Stranger: Grow and learn to trust yourself
You: i want to have more faith in myself in others in the future i just worry the way i acheive this will only be a bandaid i want more than blind faith i want to see the world and see it as it is and still feel love and joy and trust the universe and myself to experience it correctly and even let go of the whole concept of correct.
Stranger: I also think I might fall asleep soon lol
You: thanks for listening i think i will too lol good luck i wish you all the best <£
You: <3
Stranger: That’s what I wish you too
Stranger: From the bottom of my heart
You: :-)
Stranger: Take care strangee
You: u 2 :-)
Stranger: Stranger*
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UNTITLED.
I want to share a situation that happened to me this year.
A situation were I felt shame, embarrassment and was tested on all the hard work that I had put into myself.
In the last few years I have always been ok with sharing my story. In fact, surprisingly I felt more comfortable the more times I would share. It kinda started to feel easy.
So, one day I was in a meeting telling my story and out of nowhere, I broke down, literally ballin’ and fuck knows where it came from. I tired to pull it back but i just couldn’t, I literally had to take a moment to collect myself. Deep breathes to stop myself from hyperventilating hahahaha. I have to laugh at myself cos I was a mess lol. Anyway….Sometimes you can go onto auto pilot when sharing the same story over and over again, but when I was telling the story this time, It was like I was telling myself the story. I was really listening to it. Like I was hearing this story for the first time. I felt everything.I think the realization of everything I had gone through, all the pain, all the hurt, HOW FAR I’VE COME, all that I have been through, and despite everything, I REFUSED TO GIVE UP.  
I won’t lie I did feel insecure after the meeting. I was a little worried that I looked like an emotional wreck. but that being said, I decided to let myself feel good about it, because I was just being me, honest, real and I felt that I really got who I was across and how important this was to me. In fact the more I thought about it I kinda felt proud of myself for being so vulnerable and putting it all out there. It was Kind of empowering.
The next day I was on my way to another meeting where I would be doing pretty much the same thing as the day before. Introducing myself blah blah blah….
But before I went in it was recommended to me that I pull back my story and pull back my emotions. I was told it was way too much for people and that it was making them feel uncomfortable. This hit me so hard. It really took me by surprise and upset me to be honest. It made me FEEL STUPID AND INSECURE, not to mention really embarrassed and just in general made me feel like I WAS BEING JUDGED. I was feeling all of the things that made me hide who I was for so many years and stopped me from getting the help I needed for so many years. To be told to suppress my emotions and refrain from explaining the emotional connection to these new songs of mine was like slap in the face and it was so hard to hear this. I literally felt so fucking stupid.  
I felt bad about myself, I questioned what I was doing, and I even thought that people wouldn’t want to work with me because I am an “emotional wreck”. I really felt I had over shared, and then started thinking omg everyone who I have told this story to are prob all laughing at me..... all these thoughts... All because of one person’s opinion. It’s crazy what one persons opinion can do to someone.
Before I went into that meeting, I seriously did consider pulling back, not going as deep, wash it down a little. yeah..... I really did consider it, but then I just thought to myself no. No I shouldn’t have to do that. I have spent way to much of my life pretending and I’m not going to do that anymore. If it makes you feel uncomfortable then that is ultimately your problem not mine, and you do not have to come.It took a moment to realize this but I’m glad I did because THIS IS ME!
This is who I am. If I break down, it’s because it hurts. It’s because it’s real. This isn’t pretend. This is my reality! My truth! And I am not sorry you cant handle that.I’m tired of pretending, smiling and saying I’m ok when I’m not. I am so fucking proud of myself that I can sit here and be my own authentic self. It takes real courage to be honest, truthful and to ask for help.
I want to help people. I want to share my life with people. I want others to know they are not alone because too many people in this world are suffering in silence. People are killing themselves. Taking their own lives because of society’s standards and judgmental ways. Feeling they have to hide what they really feel. This has to stop. We have to speak up. Fuck it if we break down. Fuck it if they think we are crazy and fuck it if they want to judge.
We need to practice acceptance of one another. We have to try and help each other. Listen to each other. Pick each other up when we can’t ourselves. Be kind. Be understanding. It costs nothing and makes such a difference in people’s lives. You literally could save someone before it’s too late. Don’t be left thinking IF ONLY we had listened harder, looked deeper, and been more genuinely interested in someone else’s welfare, before its too late. Show them love and that you are there for them and that it’s ok not to be ok. I know it’s not always possible to get it right. but if we all just tried a little, the impact would be huge.
Living with mental illness is fucking hard. It’s a daily battle and it’s on top of all the other daily battles we face in this thing we call life. It’s silent. It’s deadly. You don’t always know when someone is in trouble. Some people manage to get through depression periods, and some people have to deal with a mental illness for the rest of their lives. All of these people are incredible - to get up every day, to get through the day, to achieve their goals (big or small!) and for What might seem the simplest task to you, could be the biggest, scariest task to someone else.
Others will try and test you and make you question yourself and when that happens just remember, chances are it’s not you! Chances are they are probably going through some shit too, that we don’t know about. And you have to somehow try and feel empathy for them. Rather than letting them trigger you into doubting yourself. It’s a harder route to take but a well worth the ride if you can come through without blowing up or imploding over someone else’s actions, that you have no control over. Boundaries are so important, but can be so fucking hard to put into practice. But they can be done.
Looking back I was very grateful for that person for making me feel the way they did, because I got a chance to put into practice everything I had learnt. I didn’t get it right straight away but I managed to in the end and thats what matters.
Try to Remember we’ve all going through our own shit in life. Many people are fighting battles that we cannot see, so please be kind. Treat others how you want to be treated.
And finally, remember to just be you – beautifully wonderfully YOU!!
Leon xox
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myownprivatcidaho · 2 years
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hi!! i just saw some of your most recent posts about your crush and you can totally ignore this advice/ask but i think you’re better off moving on. i worry that confronting him is coming from a place of hurt rather than a place of understanding and that you’ll only hurt yourself more by doing this. i also don’t think it’s cheating or wrong to talk to multiple people if you aren’t yet in a committed relationship with anyone and i think he might just feel cornered if you try to have that conversation with him. again totally ignore this if you’d like and i mean this in the nicest way possible. i really commend you for putting yourself out there and i wish you all the best ❤️
hey yeah thats a fair concern. really theres 2 distinct things thatve got me down from that conversation a) rejection, which i can handle on my own and am pretty much over cause my opinion of him has changed so much, and b) how he handled his situation.
the note we left our conversation off on implies we're gonna be friends and on good terms after this, which overall i do want cause (for all ive described about the situation to ppl on here) he really is a nice guy and seemed genuinely apologetic it got to that point. also the class is super small like sometimes just 3 people show up most consistently being me & him so i REALLY want to clear the air as much as possible.
like. ultimately i dont mean confrontating him as in berating him and yelling at him, just that there are things i genuinely think need to be addressed in order for this whole thing to get cleared up and forgotten
lastly i dont want to get hung up on terminology. i dont think either of us would call it cheating, but it doesnt have to qualify as cheating to be a cheap move and a low blow and i dont think hed deny that.
seeing how he is with his person like. yknow its not what labels we're all wearing here its everything between us even if it doesnt have a name, and while he did seem to authentically like me and enjoy being around me it genuinely is infuriating to see that hed act like that considering how he is with his person cause. man they really are getting serious, regardless of officially established commitment or not.
im not planning on yelling at him or telling him im "furious" but. theres just so much that needs to be clarified in order for this to all get cleared up and. again with circumstances and proximity i really cant avoid him much (plus the teacher + other people will pretty quickly catch on to something being up and itd just throw off the whole vibe and focus for everyone yk) so. yknow im not at all interested in getting with him, in fact id probably hate him if he even tried to make that happen, but i do want to know his whole thought process here and also just. yknow acknowledge that i potentially got dragged into a whole mess, i almost came between two people which id never want, i did things ID NEVER DO had i known he was talking to someone else (regardless of qualifying as "cheating" its something im uncomfortable with), and ultimately that he held all the cards here, he knew everything tgere was to know about the situation, and he was very irresponsible with it. this isnt to cut ties, its to cleanse them out so there arent any more problems down the line
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Was Hiruzen a Good Hokage?
No. As many people have already pointed out, Hiruzen was very indecisive, and he always did what his advisors told him to. Which wouldnt be that bad, if not the fact that almost every single one of their decisions were suggested to them by Danzo.
Hiruzen might have had good intentions, but good intentions wont do you much good, if:You orchestrate the massacre of one of the founding clans in your village. You dont react to bullying towards the villages probably most valuable shinobi.You cant even bring yourself to killing one of the greatest criminals from your village
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What if a gay person was elected as the POTUS?
We have already had a gay President. James Buchanan Jr. was the 15th President (18571861) He was a member of the Democratic Party.
The only president to remain a bachelor, Buchanan's personal life has attracted great historical interest. Buchanan had a close and intimate relationship with William Rufus King, an Alabama politician. Buchanan and King lived together in a Washington boardinghouse for many years, from 1834 until King's departure for France in 1844.
King referred to the relationship as a "communion", and the two attended social functions together. Contemporaries also noted the closeness. Andrew Jackson called King "Miss Nancy" and prominent Democrat Aaron V.
Brown referred to King as Buchanan's "better half", "wife" and "Aunt Fancy"
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How did Canada manage to control COVID 19 so well despite its shared border with the US?
When doctors and scientists here in Canada told us that the COVID-19 virus would not only kill some people, but others who contracted the disease might suffer permanent damage to organs and body systems, we listened and became afraid. Then, when it was shown some young children also suffered devastating organ failures, we knew we must all do what we can to protect ourselves and others.
We didnt each need to personally know someone who has been so affected, we just imagined how our own actions could cause this result. For some reason, Americans do not seem to feel that same empathy for their fellow citizens. Tragic and sad
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What is the significance of WhatsApp for Facebook?
Why did Facebook acquire WhatsApp at such a hefty price of $19 billion?
Let us think about it. Say you are talking to your girlfriemd and you decide to go for a movie coming weekend.
It is not a big information for you. But for facebook it is a priceless piece of information. Since it they know now that you ar going to the movie they will project all the ads that is pertaining to movie going.
. Hence facebook achieves a greater accuracy of targeted ads. And hence 19Billion dollars.
Also facebook knows everything about you except your messages to your intimate people. Now that they bought whatsapp they literally know everything about you to sell you out when the time comes.
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Will Joe Biden be worse than Trump?
Worse at what? I guess it depends on what you value and what you place importance on. If youre a Republican partisan it doesnt matter what Biden does itll be worse than Trump.
If youre a Democrat partisan it doesnt matter what Biden does because itll be better than Trump. If youre an independent youll recognize that all Presidents have pluses and minuses. Theyll do things at annoy you and things youll applaud.
I didnt vote for Trump in 16 and hes done things I despise and things I applaud. I didnt vote for Obama either time and he did thinks I liked and things I hated
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Do many Chinese people hate Fujianese people?
I don't know where did you get this view.
In college, I had a roommate coming from Fujian who is an authentic, courteous, helpful person with lots of computer's knowledge. Every time our computers occur in problems, our first thought is to seek for his help not to go maintenance store straightly because of its expensive charge. There are a few Fujianese.
as far as I'm concerned, They all good person through conversation and cooperation. But, I can't say Fujianese all good people since I had met all good Fujianese. In working with people, The significant thing We need to do is giving our sincere heart to them.
Similarly, you will be rewarded for your sowing.
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How old should a kid be before seeing Deadpool?
FWIW, the airline cut is devoid of *all* sexual content (to the point of blurring out the slight glimpse of butt-crack visible in the opening credits, as well as losing the Stan Lee cameo), but I dont believe they removed *any* of the violence or swearing.
What a country!As for child-appropriateness, it depends on the child. I was OK with my kid seeing the airline cut because he never swears and he doesnt like gory violence (it wasnt too gruesome on my 5 phone screen).
Other kids his age may not be able to handle this material. Heck, I know adults who wouldnt do so well with this material
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How can we stop people from throwing garbage in the empty plots?
Please know that if people throw biodegradable garbage only in an empty plot after removing all plastics and dry wastes, you are actually replenishing the ground.
This will improve vegetation of the plot.The second approach is to promote home composting and community composting. This can happen only if there is source segregation.
Third approach is to penalize through a law.Instal leaves composter in the entrance of the plot and encourage people to deposit the dried leaves into it. Many aesthetically good looking composters are available.
The process is very simple and no stink involved.Be creative and you will have many more options. Cheers.
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Could we derive energy from gravity in space?
You mean free flowing gravity? Yes.
Look at a grandfather clock and see the weights it has to keep it going. Except for dams most of the ways are small but all together make up huge amounts. You could use the same clock system method with a much larger counter weight and just by hand moving it back up daily to the top would generate constant power.
In other words you could produce huge amounts of potential power by a little daily hand labor.Now you got me wondering if there is a natural limit it this because it is not being done or that people are just lazy in not doing this
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How will the GOP change if Trump loses to Biden?
I dont think they will change at all, at least in the short term.
Trumps presidency has done one useful thing - exposed the corrupt innards of the Democratic party, and the Republicans, with or without Trump, are going to want to follow through on things, especially when the Durham report comes out. Trump has also shown how to do things economically, such that even Biden wants to plagiarize him. Theres been absolutely nothing wrong with his policies.
They were working great prior to the pandemic and theres no reason to think they wont work again when things finally get back to normal
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Who is the best teacher for sociology for the UPSC optional preparation in Delhi?
Hello there .I am a Civil engineer , who did not have any prior knowledge about sociology .
I was an expressive person and with the suggestions of friends , I chose sociology as my optional .I went to Pranay Aggarwal Sir and that was the best decision I made . Reasons :-He took classes in small batches with led me to focus more on the subject .
He is very interactive which makes sociology come out very naturally from oneself .He is very helpful and extremely accepting of different ideas which gave me confidence and started loving the subject . His notes are all encompassing and I can vouch for it
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Why was Paul Manafort sent to prison?
This just reported by NY Times:Banker Accused of Arranging $16 Million in Loans to Manafort to Gain High-Level Trump PostA banker in Chicago has been changed with trying to buy an appointment as Treasury Secretary. He arranged $16 million in loans to Paul Mafort. I dont know if the prosecutors knew about that alleged crime when Manafort was sent to prison.
This news certainly speaks to what kind of person Manafort is. It continues to astound me how corrupt Trump is that he picks people like Manafort. How can Trump voters have been so clueless to have voted for this narcissistic(oops, I better restrain myself).
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Why was the Roman Empire so successful?
the roman empire was successful in its government form.it probably had the most advanced government in ancient times, a republic which represent each of the classes in society.
Outsiders or barbarians could also aspire to gain citizenship if they work hard enough, slaves could gain or buy their freedom. This makes roman empire have a equal opportunity system similar to the american dream.But things slowly deteriorated once ceasar become dictator for life, or sulla and marius trying to monopolize power through using the military triumphs.
It lead to rise of emperors and rulers not acccountable to the public, and right to rule slowly degenerate into hereditary succession or military coup.
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Did the music of led Zeppelin change your life?
Yes!
As does every song does, some more than others. The Rain Song played while I was enjoying the company of a young lady I met on Manhattan Beach as I was coming out the ocean, exhausted from surfing for 5 hours. I collapsed on my board and was laying there taking in the scene when this beautiful blonde girl with curly hair, piercing blue eyes, and a body of a Black girl, blocked the sun, looked down and said are you ok?
. That was the beginning of summer of 91 and we had fun. Especially the night we spent in a motel on the beach, listening to led Zeppelin
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Who is the most under appreciated American president?
Adams greatest war president in our nations history.When almost everyone in the young country wanted war with France egged on by that snake Jefferson. Adams held back, he understood war was not necessary would be destructive and would cripple the country for decades, he also well understood his stand would likely cost him his reelection but he stood firm.
The country did not go to war but he did loose his office. Such a shame the country remembers the man who did his most noble service as a citizen under an English king and not the man who formed the nation after the Revolutionary War
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Why did you leave Hinduism for Islam?
People group or regroup into religion for rudimentary security reasons, not due to any love for a religion.
Any person who understands the first alphabet of any religion will know the purpose of religion is to help and serve the society he or she lives selflessly, particularly those who donu2019t follow his/her beliefs and faith has to be served, loved and cared.If someone thinks that his/her religious group is better than the other, it discredit the fundamental first alphabet of the religion. Islam, Hinduism or any religion in the world, if it is practiced by grouping and subgrouping its practioners, it is deplorably divisive for the society and in general human welfare
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In WW2 during the Battle of France, why did it take so long for France to surrender?
Why didn't France surrender earlier?
France waited so that the English could be evacuated from Dunkirk. They held the German back while the small boats could get in and get the boys home.
Then they had a resistance to organise not easy when you have a whole lot of tanks running over your toes. Finally, the Italians decided to pop in for a late entry in the game of conquest so they had them to send packing. Then they surrendered.
That is to say the French Government surrendered, the French people on the other hand fought on.If you have ever seen Monty Python and the Holy Grail, you see just how ferocious the French can be in their taunting of opponents.
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The Story of My Tattoo and Why It Means so Much to Me.
Today someone told me that I needed to write down the story of the tattoo I have on my arm because it was the most inspiring thing she’d ever heard. I decided to write it down and post it to Tumblr. But to really understand this story, I will need to tell you some of my story first. When I sat down and started writing my story today I realized how very difficult it is to tell because of how deep some of the scars I carry go.
My life hasn’t been easy. In fact it has been completely horrible at times. I struggle everyday to fit in a world that I’ll never feel like I belong too. I have ADHD and Hyper Sensitivity. People are cruel to me everyday and they don't even realize or recognize it. I’ve learned this fact over and over again. Even though I know it, I’ve never give up hope that if I’m persistent enough someone will give me a chance to belong even if its only for a little while. When I was in Kindergarten no other kids would play with me because they couldn't understand me. In second grade my teacher moved my desk into the closet and isolated me away from everyone else. I wasn’t allowed to participate in any school activities. I literally had to stay in the closet by myself.  I was afraid to tell my mother because I thought I had done something wrong. I’ve never seen her so angry as the day she found out I had spent almost an entire school year in a closet. In the third grade they made me wear noise cancelling ear phones to block out all ambient sound. This got me ridiculed by everyone else. During this year I also got told that none of the girl scout troops in my area would accept me because I was too difficult to handle. My moms created a  solution by creating a new troop. I was the only member. Then she created another part to the troop for my little sister and 20 girls her age.  So I was 3 years older and and always the next level up. The rest of elementary school was more of the same constant rejection and isolation. I had no friends because no one wanted to be around me. It was devastating to my self esteem and there was nothing that my mother could do to protect me from the cruelty of other kids even though she tried so hard to do just that. Middle school was even worse. There were all these rules about hair, makeup and clothes. I didn't get any of it. I still don’t. I played sports but even on those teams I was an outcast. The only reason I made the teams was because I was good at sports. High school started the constant torture of being called a dike. Everyone hated me and I don’t even know why or what I did that was so wrong. My teachers told me I was to stupid and would never graduate or go to college. My ninth grade year things finally turned around for me a little because my mom finally got the doctors to listen and refer me to a neurologist. He finally diagnosed some issues in my head and I spent the next 4 years taking language therapy and learning to read. I went from a 1st grade reading level in the 9th to a college level Honors class in the 12th. When someone taught my correctly, I learned exceptionally fast. I went on to college and graduated but I never have been able to keep very many friends. Even my best friend who's been my friend for 20 years says and I quote “You have to know how to handle Shelby. She isn’t like normal people”. I don't think he really knew how much that hurt to hear and I’ve never really told him because it doesn’t change how other people see me. At work my opinion is ignored even though I’m supposed to be the expert. I’m not even included in team meetings.
and then there’s dating. There has been a string of women in my life who I’ve given everything too.  They used me, criticized me for everything I do wrong, and tolerated me (their words every time) but not once loved me. The last one told me on her way out the door that no-one would ever love me because I was unlovable. That I would spend my life alone because no-one was ever going to tolerate me or want me for the person I am. This put the final nail in a coffin I hadn't even realized I had created for myself.
By the beginning of last March my self esteem was none existent. My life was in shambles. I hated everything about myself because everyday I woke up and tried to mold myself into what everyone else wanted me to be. I had allowed myself to gain weight because I didn't think it mattered and honestly I wanted to die. The only reason I hadn't taken my own life was because my mother has lymphoma and I couldn't leave her while she needed me. She the only person who has ever accepted me the way I am and I wasn’t going to take my life and hurt her that way. But the thought was there and I wouldn't have stopped death if it had come for me. This made me realize that I was broken and very damaged. I needed to heal but to do that I needed time alone away from everyone. I needed time away from the constant barrage of what I cant do right. I did the only thing I could do. I took a 6 week leave of absence from my job and made a list of all the things I needed to fix about myself. I started eating better and working out everyday. I tried this once before in the past and at the time the word Geronimo was how I kept myself focused but it didn't last because I couldn't isolate myself. This time I did isolate myself. During my leave I cut my hair short again accept for the mohawk down the middle and I died it blue. I became the authentic me that I had bottled up years earlier in an attempt to fit in. I don't fit in. I will never fit in. I know that most people are going to immediately reject me. I will be judged and ostracized. I’ve stopped trying to live my life by everyone else rules. I live it by mine. I know who I am. I’m the person who defends other people when they can’t defend themselves. Who is loyal and honest to a fault. I’m giving, kind, caring and empathic. Imaginative, funny, intelligent, witty, and brave. I can find a solution for any problem. I am a natural problem solver. I can see solutions where most people fail or give up. And once upon a time I was a physically fit weight lifter and martial artist.
Geronimo was an Apache his name became synonymous with bravery and a leap of faith in the 40s when the first paratroopers began shouting his name as they leapt out of the plane. To me it literally means that I choose to be brave, live my life as my authentic self, and have faith that regardless of the adversity I face or the judgements made against me. I will remain true to the person I know myself to be and always choose the righteous path regardless of how difficult that might be.
Last year during the time I took to learn to be myself again. I started watching Wynonna Earp. I was so inspired by the things that Kat Barrell had said in her interviews that I sent her a DM with a really weird request. My handwriting is terrible and I’ve never found a font I like but I’ve wanted a tattoo on my wrist that says Geronimo. I asked Kat to write it for me. When she replied I was awestruck she had written it 25 times to give me a few to choose from. It was so beyond anything I had expected. I was so humbled and grateful that I just couldn't bring myself to choose so I chose 1 and had the other 24 tattooed in a spiral up my arm starting at my wrist and ending at my elbow. It became more then just a reminder. It became a gauntlet and a shield to protect myself from the world that try to change me daily. This is the story of my tattoo and why it is so important to me.
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la-petite-marie · 7 years
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So yesterday someone named @ragific decided to talk some nonsense on the yk tag, and now they are being extremely defensive and acting like “omg i’m a victim, a damsel in distress” and is calling me out because according to them, i was rude (and honestly i tried not to be but i’m done with bullshit n the tag). Oh, I’m also delusional, but aren’t we all?? Cause like i said before, what we know about them is from what we see on tv shows, vlive, fancams, etc etc.
Read at your own risk (but tbh this whole thing is ridiculous, we r all ridiculous so yeah...)
1. “And dont fucking tell me that Yoongi is always soft for Jk and that i need to stick to it because welcome to fanfics. Again its fictional. There are no defined answers and thats the beauty of it and if you cant grasp your head around it, I worry about you “ Again lemme just say what characterization means. ‘Characterization is a literary device that is used step by step in literature to highlight and explain the details about a character in a story.’ Now till here i get what you are saying but, “dont fucking tell me yoongi is always soft for jk and that i need to stick with it”, do you ever saw him actually not being soft with him tho? i mean, he is sassy at times, but with everyone that doesnt mean he is aggressive. but again, are you sure we r talking abt the same person?? oh wait do u, personally know him? im sorry, really, you TOTALLY RIGHT! omg. but anyways... “again it’s fictional” oh you dont say, i mean i should have got it when i wen to look for fanfic right? RIGHT?? but what do i know, honestly. I Besides, as far as i know he’s a real person, a human being, and if you want to characterize him in another way you tag it, but i clearly dont need to say it to you, cause you’re the master on it.
2. I have an idea on how fanfic stories works, but thanks for your input :) “Youve just passed judgement which is something you yourself stated you dont like.” what i meant and what my gfs trying to tell you was that the way you expressed yourself seemed off cause we all (and by we all, i mean me and my gfs) understood you said that yoongi was aggressive, as in whole body and language aggressive, which he is not, or never showed to be. Again, i wasn’t trying to be rude, i just EXPRESSED myself saying i didnt agreed with it, you were the one being rude to baah, when she clearly wasn’t so don’t try to act all innocent in here.
3. I may not be korean, but i’m well aware of some things about its culture and its places and people. I also know that people from both Busan and Daegu are expected to act a bit more colder than people from other cities, places. But again, the way you tried to convey yourself was that made me disagree with you, cause again, you didnt expressed yourself in a way we totally understood you. Yoongi speaks very aggressively and subtitles do not convey that. “Because I can respect people’s differences when it comes to information they come across.” I mean i get it, but imo i still think it wrong write them in a TOTAL different way, as in so ooc, that you don’t know who that person really is (idk how to explin myself, nor how to express myself rip). Yeah i get that, freedom of writing, and sometimes you want to change a few things abt them cause it’s the way you want it to be, but sometimes people really take it as a real thing, that’s where i have a problem, they (fans) think they r that way and start to talk abt it as if it’s really real and that’s not it. They are human like us, a living and breathing human being, you are supposed to be respectful of that person, cause you if are writing about them, so i’m 100% sure they would want it to be authentic and if it’s not, it’s ok, but don’t think they are that way, cause they are not.
4. You really are trying to teach me about shipping lmao cute. “Being a shipper isnt a title. You dont go to school for it and get a diploma out of it.” Omg i never knew *gasps* bitch please i’ve ranted before about the shit this fandom does and says. It’s like you’re trying to teach me about life. Nice try, but i can’t handle it :) Also I’m not trying to dictate or govern you I just expressed my disagreement with your post.  Im’ well aware people have diffenrent opinions, but that’s not what I was and am tryig to say to you, and honestly I’m tired to try and explain it, ause you’re clearly don’t get it. And yeah i know i don’t own the tag, lmao because if i did it would be free of bullshit and it would be all rainbows and sunshine, cause that’s what yk is about. If you want drama and go @ me then do it, but it would be nice with you didn’t tag yk on it, cause now you’re calling me out is there, and honestly again i don’t mind ppl going @ me, but just don’t mention yk te way you do, cause we already have other ships there that are not yk, so the less bullshit and drama on it, the better. “If you are going to be a baby about it then thats on you and I have zero sympathy for you.” The only one being a baby about this whole thing is you, who are acting like a victim, when you’re not honey, sorry to inform this to you, but yes I was rude, but you weren’t any better than me so pls sit down.
5. I have to agree with you there, “If you dont like then dont read.” Amen. Praise the Lord. “You giving yourself that entitled attitude is like me saying Ive known kpop for longer so you dont know shit.” lmao ok sure jan. And gotta agree with you on the “fucking stupid”, this whole drama and discussion (or whatver the hell this is) is fucking stupid.
And to end, come @ me all you want, but if you are doing another post after this pls use yk instead of the whole ship name, i’m sure other peaceful and nice shippers would appreciate it. 
Anyways, have a nice day ;)
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What Is The Purpose Of Your Life?
I want my life to have a clear meaning.
Right now something's broken inside me. Boredom and sadness always come when I get disappointed in my hobbies, because sometimes, instead of offering me what I really want, they give anger and confusion (which if fine, but it does go over the top every few months). What is it that I really want?
Also, I don't have the courage to find the job while attending to the University: I have to complete the homework every week. Should I still try? I really-really want to buy the life purpose course, but I can't, because I don't have a job at the moment.
I'm currently a freshman in college and I am working towards being an actuary because I'm exceptional at mathematics and I want to earn a decent living. Recently though, I have been coming to realize what life is really about and its not really the size of your house that matters its the people inside it. With that being said, and with all the news as of late, I cant help but wonder what I truly want to do with my life. Even before this video I realized that being an actuary was only what other people wanted me to be, or so I perceived. Almost like some sort of socially constructed pathway for me and people intellectually like me.
But now that I am going through some sort of coming of age, I have a particular need/want to help people. Now this is where my problem lays:  Is helping people as a profession what I truly want to do? Or do I really want to find some career path that I love and help people as a byproduct or even as a hobby of mine? Either way I realize most people would take it as a noble pursuit and thats not why I do it. I would be doing it solely to make myself truly happy on the inside. Not some fake shit that can be sold to me from some greedy corporate manager. Any help would be greatly appreciated!
I'm finishing a masters degree in engineering. Unsure what I want to do, but employment at this level requires high level of specialization. Can't travel, I have too many loans. I've had a decent amount of experiences outside academia in terms of the social realm but I can't seem to find anything tangible that I like. Any time I've seen what an engineer does in a corporation, it bores me. I find myself prodding my own brain and reading, I am almost dreading applying for jobs. 
How refreshing it is to know I was conscious enough to do this on my own. In college I excelled quickly and discovered I really like teaching and tutoring others. Out of college I became a web and app designer/developer. I once again excelled but the job became boring. I learned I hated sitting inside with little human interaction staring at a computer all day. However that career gave me the income to do a lot of new things like martial arts, fitness, and nutrition education. I'm now leaving the world of computers, I've started a fitness business to TEACH/TRAIN fitness and nutrition.
I just graduated from a community college last semester, and I am not sure what to do with my life at this moment, I currently work at a corporation warehouse. I don't like my job because it gets extremely hot in there. It pays well, but its hot and I get one day off now. I have been told by people at the job and my parents that I should go back to school. My plan was to work for a little more and take some time off from school for a semester. I don't want to go back and not take classes I am not interested, I wanted to pursue psychology, but my mind was in it for the money more then the enjoyment of the work. I didn't go further because I don't know how to handle helping people.
I am 45, with a post graduate degree and I have all the money I need. I have no passion whatsoever. I have reached a plateau. I guess I just wanted to make money and now that I have it, I don't feel like working at all. I have probably worked 2-3 days out of every 3 months for the past 4 yrs. and those times I worked, I had to force myself cuz things were starting to go south. I have lost a lot of time and money I could have had and enjoyed but I just don't want to do anything. Literally nothing! Changing my job is not an option and would make no difference, I still want to do nothing. How the heck do I find passion and motivation to get out of my resort like mansion?! My shopper buys my food; my cook makes the food; and my cleaning lady does the cleaning. Everything I want is right here. I don't think you'd want to leave if you were here. How do I find the hunger and the fire? How do I get out of the house and get back to society? I have no desire. Well actually, I do have the desire to have a passion. Can you help?
I was one of those guys that knew what he wanted at an early age. I was a musician from age 12 and all I could think about was being a great player. I tuned pro at 17, made   my living as a pro, at 30 it was over. I was done. But I had lived my dream. I was never happier, but I just couldn't do it anymore. I knew I was something more. I realized I did it all for ego. for that "approval"  That ego identity didn't fit anymore. So here I am 20 years later, There is nothing that gives my authentic self, motivation. I have tried everything. The things I love, I cannot make money at in known framework. I am almost ready to become a hermit, or monk. I have experienced the joy of passion. its like what do you do after you have been to the moon? what else is there?
I graduated and started working nearly 4 years ago. And I have changed 3 companies already. I also want to upgrade me, to allow myself to see new things, to learn, etc. But my history of changing job too many times impacts me badly right now. It seems that all recruiters do NOT like this, and I have been unemployed for 7 months, failing lots of interviews. Please share with your thinking and how to get out of this situation?
I'm 23 and looking for my purpose. I know for a fact I want to help people in some way. For the longest time I thought psychiatric work would be my career but whenever I truly think about it, I want to make a bigger impact in peoples lives. It's frustrating being so close but not being able to specifically know what it is I really want to do with my life. I'm definitely not settling for something small though.
I've been fortunate to have been able to do everything you've suggested except travel the world so far. Funny, but I'm happiest when I'm covered in paint. Doesn’t matter if I'm painting walls, furniture, or a painting. I need to make that into a steady income somehow!
I seriously have a problem with finding my passion. sometimes i'm passionate about something and sometimes I’m not. For example, I loved playing soccer like for my whole life and when I became the captain of the team and the best player there I felt like wanting to try something new despite having a great chance of being a successful soccer player. I left soccer for bodybuilding. I read a lot about nutrition and everything about gaining muscles and getting fit and I got the size I always wanted and same story looking for something new. That's really frustrating sometimes I'm crazy about something and sometimes I'm not.
I'm into arts but I'm already turning 17 so I feel like if I go to art school now I missed out on so much. And I'm in A school that is considered "smart" and I feel like if I go to art everyone in my school will find me stupid? I know this sounds stupid but these are my worries.
I'm a sophomore in High School but I have a a really big problem. I actually don't know what career to focus on I need to to come up with an idea fast I don't have time to explore I just need to know what I'm really good at. So I can choose the right courses for my career , I don't wanna end up choosing the wrong courses at the end of the day when I really find my passion I won't be able to pursue it because I didn't have the right foundation.
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F1 student mandatory health insurance?
"F1 student mandatory health insurance?
Hello I am an f-1 visa holding international student in the United States. My college is apparently going to make all the F1 visa students get the school insurance and not grant any waivers for any other insurances that still meet the coverage requirements. However, compared to my school's insurance which costs about $1500 per year, I have been having a insurance plan for $400 per year. Is disabling insurance waivers to make the students get the overpriced school's insurance even LEGAL? & What is the US's policy on such insurance swindle I need specific laws cited please.
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What is a good insurance for wisdom teeth extraction?
I am currently a college student, and I don't have any dental insurance coverage. I visited a general dentist today, he said that I have to get my four of my wisdom teeth remove ...show more""
What are some good homeowner insurance companies in Louisiana area ?
i want to have different quotes from different companies ! but i don't know much about this.. by the way what is the average premium homeowner insurance in LA ?
In california does a 16 year old new driver have to be personally insured to drive their parents car?
My sister lives in san jose and she was told by her parents that to drive one of their cars she has to pay for her own insurance. Is this true???
Is medicare a good insurance plan or will a lot of things not be covered. I know there is no drug coverage.?
I recently started recieving medicare after becoming disabled, and pay over $100 per month to recieve this insurance out of my small disability income. I am wondering if this will ...show more""
16-24 yr olds: What do you know about insurance?
I am working on a research project about insurance for 16-24 year olds. This information is for research purposes only and will in no way be shared or sold to anyone. The intent is to gather information from high school/college age students on their perceptions on insurance. What types of insurance would you like to purchase? (auto, health, college, iPad, smartphone, etc.) Have you been purchased insurance? If yes, what type? If no, have you been involved in purchasing insurance? Do you carry insurance on each of your personal media devices? (e.g.smartphone, iPad, laptop, etc.) What do you know about insurance? Would you be willing to take a class on insurance if it meant receiving a discount on an insurance policy? If you were shopping for insurance, where would you go to look for an insurance quote? What are your hobbies? Do you belong to any sports/groups/organizations? If yes, which ones?""
Why are so many Americans losing their health insurance plans due to the Affordable Health Care Act/Obamacare?
Is there serious corruption in the health insurance industry? Would that have something to do with it? Why would so many health care professionals like doctors and dentists have problems with the Affordable Health Care Act/Obamacare? By the way, I'm keeping my employer based plan.They're not changing it, and, it's through my union.No one else in my store is changing theirs,either.""
Will insurance pay for an insured car that's borrowed and driven by an uninsured driver?
well, it's a brand new car that belong to my father, i borrowed it and got in an accident because i slip off the road, the car is totaled and im really worried about the coverage. my dad has Infinity-insurance, so yes the car is insured however i do not have any kind of auto-insurance at all nor am i listed in my father's policy. will my father's insurance pays for the car?( if possible, please answer it base on Infinity-insurance)""
Does anyone know a way to buy affordable health insurance?
Im a single healthy 38 year old woman.
Can You get Insured for a car thats not yours?
My girlfriends car is un insurenced and she got her L's suspended can i get insurence if im driving her car now?
How much would insurance cost on a 96 Chevrolet camaro?
Monthly? I spotted a camaro for the first time and it was completely gorgeous, I almost cried. it also runs good. The cost is pretty crazy for a camaro only 2,000. My mom said that I ...show more""
Will car insurance go up if I'm added to my parent's policy?
I'm 15 and have my restricted license to drive to work and school in Kansas. Basically what does adding me to my parent's policy do and about how much more will it cost?
Concerning GPA for good student discount for car insurance !?
on my report card for my final grade pint average i had received an 85 would that get me the good student discount for state farm
""I want to learn how to drive, 22 and i dont know how to drive ?
I will be turning 22 in a couple weeks and i still dont know how to drive . Nobody ever taught me or had the time to teach me but i really want to get out and start learning how do i go about doing this ? Should i find a friend with a license to teach me or take a drivers ed class ? What would my best option be to start learning how to drive and get a license ? Because i see other people who never took classes and just learned from someone else.
Where can i get cheap health insurance for my 18 year old?
I need health insurance for my daughter shes 18 shes going to college and i will have to continue support...whats my best options or cheapest route?
Would insurance company likely settle for 15K?
Auto accident....my lawyer asking for 25K, insurance company said 12K (my lawyer wants to go to court and all that, I really do not want to; I just want to get this over with) My lawyer said it's worth much more than 25K but that's all the limit is. If I ask the lawyer to try & negotiate 15K w/o going to court; how likely or unlikely that the insurance company (State Farm) agree? If they do agree, how long before they send the check? I need to pay my doctor bills off and get another car (I am so ready for this to be over with!!!!) Thanks.""
Can I cancel my fathers car insurance?
He went on a business trip and it was supposed to be for 2 months but it turned out they wanted him to stay a couple months longer. He told me to cancel his insurance so If I return the plates to the DMV in NY with the receipt can I cancel his insurance?
Licence wrong date when applying for insurance?
when you get a quote along the way it asks you to enter when you recieved your licence. what if i put 2-3 years old when in actual fact it is only 2 months old. Will the insurance company find out that i am not telling the truth or can i get away with it? Do they check my licence to see when i got it. thanks.
Who is the most cheapest auto insurance out there?
I need auto insurance but im 18 and I only have a permit not a license yet. I drive a 1990 Honda civic hatchback ef. And i only want liability just to drive. So who is the cheapest one out there let me know thanks :D??
""In Maryland, is insurance required to drive a car?""
I'm going to be living on my own soon and there's no possible way I can afford it on my own. By the way, does anyone know how much it costs to be insured as an 18 year old on your own policy? What about for a motorcycle?""
How much will my Geico Insurance go up after my accident?
I have Geico Insurance. I had a DUI 2 years ago, and I pay $150/month for auto insurance. Two months ago I rear-ended a guy in bumper to bumper traffic (he stopped short. I've heard 90% of rear-end accidents, the person who did the hitting is at fault, but it was impossible to maintain a safe distance since people were constantly cutting in vying for an edge.) Anyway, neither of us told our insurance companies, we both took pics of each other's cars (mine looked way worse cause it already had a busted front end from someone who backed into it while parked at night and took off with no note). So I got an estimate from his mechanic for $1700. To fix my front-end, it's probably going to be $3000-4000. My question is (would LOVE to hear from a current geico or or other auto insurance agent) How much will my rates go up? How long will they go up for? Do I get a point on my license for this? Because if the amount they charge me (over time, in higher rates) is more than $4700 (i.e. his $1700 + my $3000) then I'll just pay for both on my own and spare myself the DMV point. But if it will be less than that (i.e. the higher rate expires before it reaches $4700 more), then I'll just tell my Insurance company and deal with the point. Can anyone help me here? Much appreciated!""
F1 student mandatory health insurance?
Hello I am an f-1 visa holding international student in the United States. My college is apparently going to make all the F1 visa students get the school insurance and not grant any waivers for any other insurances that still meet the coverage requirements. However, compared to my school's insurance which costs about $1500 per year, I have been having a insurance plan for $400 per year. Is disabling insurance waivers to make the students get the overpriced school's insurance even LEGAL? & What is the US's policy on such insurance swindle I need specific laws cited please.
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