#I do feel bad for my boyfriend sometimes

[camgoloud]

look it’s not really that i wish i was in a relationship because the last couple of years which i have spent firmly and resolutely single after finally getting over the All That which went down between me and the last person i had any serious romantic interest in have been without question the happiest years of my life. and it’s also not really that i wish all of my friends WEREN’T in relationships because i want them to be happy et cetera et cetera. but this whole thing where both situations are happening at the same time (i.e. me: single; literally every one of them: not) does have me feeling a little. weird i guess.

[ssoupcup]

I've been cooking recently. Literally.

(I know 90% of these meals look the same I PROMISE they're different it's just me using the same ingredients bc that's what my parents buy)

[freakwiththeknifecollection]

Years of reading and writing disapproving parent fic have come back to haunt me, as I'M now the one committing faux pas in front of my partner's uptight parents 🫠✌️

[anarcho-masochist]

Okay, I thought this was universal but maybe my last three therapists were right that it is not:

Is it normal for boredom to be truly unbearable?

As in, worse than anything else, would rather get eviscerated while fully conscious, will do anything to escape it which might actually include suicide if no satisfactory options are available?

[ccuriousmischieff]

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[ectoplasmer]

world decided to be nice to me and let me dream of bakura and let me interact with him but now i’m yearning So Bad

[andichoseyou]

quick question. so my friend group has been having some "drama" these last few weeks and i need an outside view. one of our friends, lets call him Fred has started dating a guy, lets call him Rusty. fred and rusty have been together a while but the rest of the group doesn't really know anything about rusty. one night, we end up at fred's house and rusty is there. that night, rusty says some really nasty and antisemitic things while we're watching a movie, none of us know what to say and we're all hoping that fred will call him out and tell him to stop. rusty continues and says things like "this is making me hate jewish people even more" and called a jewish female character a "dirty jew bitch." that night we also learned from one of our friends in the group that rusty has said "yellow people" when referring to asian people. he has also said the G slur when referring to asian people. we sat down and talked to fred a couple days later to tell him how uncomfortable and disappointed we were. its been almost a month later and fred is still with rusty and keeps deflecting when we ask him about it. saying things like "he says racist things but i dont believe he is racist" and "i am trying to challenge him." i don't think he understands how hurt we all are that he continues to stay with this guy who has said some really fucked up shit. it has gotten to the point where none of us even want to be around fred. i wanna know if anyone thinks we're overreacting or handling this wrong... we have poc in our friend group, and fred is a white/non-jewish man who has never experienced racism and never will. it feels really strange to me that he would bring rusty around knowing he says those fucked up things. we literally have an asian friend in our group who has expressed they cannot be friends with someone who has a boyfriend who is xenophobic. like DUH???? from an outside view, knowing only these details, do you think we should try to continue being friends with someone who is not willing to break up with their racist/antisemitic boyfriend? or is it valid that we're still hung up on the fact that he would even want to be around that guy?

[beholdthemem]

I think I'm gonna look into whether or not rage rooms are still a thing and if so whether or not any near me have survived the pandemic because I need to schedule a breakdown sometime in the near future and it CANNOT be where anyone I love is going to see me doing it

[jvzebel-x]

🦋

[theevilicecreamsoda]

I think i ever processed anything that happened from 2021 to now like ever

[ikyw-t]

I do relate to olivia rodrigo in some ways for example I did have nightmares each week (every day for months) after that phone call in may (march). I fantasize (once every other blue moon) about a time where you're a little fucking sorry. except I do not hold my undying love (there is not even an iota of love, if there ever was) like a grudge and also I will never ever forgive bc you were indeed filled with vitriol. and unfortunately I also cannot let it go. it was six months (three years) of torture. I did NOT love you truly and I cannot laugh at the stupidity. I may have made some real big mistakes but you do indeed make the worst one look fine. like..............

[buck-yyyy]

repeat after me kids: just because they’re not talking to you doesn’t mean they hate you and are replacing you with their boyfriend!

[koisuni]

Feeling worthless (vent art) Been dealing with medical issues and that shit makes me feel TIRED and YUCK!

[doggirl08-moved]

I hope this doesn't sound weird or anything but if I ever get a boyfriend I would like if he was a nice helper sometimes more than a boyfriend. I feel like if I had a boyfriend I could finally unmask ( sorry for talking about my autism I don't like doing it but I need to start being more open about myself instead of pretending everything is normal and I'm normal. ) and that would mean I could possibly have more problems and be open about them more rather than just swallowing it and getting home and wanting to barf. But I don't know ...I am now having boyfriend thoughts since I am now realizing I am pretty enough for someone to love me but I don't know I guess I wouldn't need someone just to love and kiss me but to help me out and ground me a little? Does that make sense I'm sorry if this sounds dumb. I just wish I could be myself around someone and for them to also help me when things get to much but I have a feeling I won't meet anyone like that anytime soon. Sometimes I forget that I'm childish and I get worried that will attract creeps towards me :(. I have been seeing a lot of selfship things recently which is making me have boyfriend thoughts and I just wish to find someone one day who I like and is normal and helps me out ^_^.

[digifag]

i feel like in all the critiques i've seen on the way chibnall's written dr who everyone always fails to look back on the episodes he's written before becoming the head showrunner

[godpact]

heather dating quentin in her mainverse is so personal to me........