#I don’t like the holidays just like I don’t like my birthday 🙃

[cal-is-a-cryptid]

Oo look at that, it’s a bald

[agenderarkham]

My birthday is coming up and I already asked if 2 of my friends a few weeks ago if they could make it back in town for a little get together and they already said yes/ probably and I asked again last night and now it’s probably no and I know it’s bc they live like 2 hours away now and they’re busy and it’s not on purpose and that I shouldn’t be this upset but I’ve already been feeling lonely and miserable and like my friends don’t actually like me and now I’ve made myself cry at 7 am on my day off and it’s just not fair

[chopper-witch]

Everyone headcanoning that Eddie would remember all your favorites is…

It’s a headcanon so I don’t want to say wrong but bro is like ✨ADHD✨.

He’s going to forgot shit all the fucking time. Here is an example of things I have forgot/done as someone with fairly life disabling ADHD that I was only recently medicated for:

- forgot homework. All the time. Every time. Literally even as soon as it was assigned it has vanished from my brain.

- forgot where I put books. Any books of any importance. So many library fees. So many lost school books.

- gone to my kitchen, needed to make food, washed the dishes I needed for said food, and walked out because I forgot the point was to make food, not wash dishes

- returned to kitchen, made food, didn’t eat it, just put it away

- gone to grocery store without list and forgotten everything I needed so I left empty handed or with one thing when I was literally out of necessary items

- forget to do my laundry for over a month

- forget to go to the grocery store despite driving past it three days a week

- forget to take my dog out (though she lets me know when she’s like “mom, it’s fucking time. I haven’t got to play fetch. Let’s gooooo”)

- appointments 🫡

- alarms 🙃

- what day is it? what month is it?

- dunno when holidays are. Christmas is when again? New years?

- dunno when birthdays are (and not like kind of friends or friends. I mean like my sister. My younger sister. Who is 21 now).

- forgot my own birthday when i went to the dmv on my birthday to get my license

- cannot process mess once it is there. Brain automatically integrates it into my space

- shower but dont actually wash my hair or face or body

- and so so so much more

Without my phone I literally fall apart. Shit keeps me on track so much. And now Vyvanse too.

Unless he writes it down and doesn’t lose the notebook (my phone is the one thing I have almost never lost which is why I am so in love and it backs up to the cloud so I can access my notes and pages elsewhere 💖) he is going to forget. Once it becomes habit he wont. And he probably has ways to remember super important things or things he wants to do (I repeat them over and over and over until I can write it down or type it out because my mind is good at remembering things visually. So like I can remember where on a page I wrote something and know what it said or roughly what it said?). But it will be a long and hard process for him to get there.

[ssvmptoms]

Jeez that was 10 years ago? I really don’t remember when i first saw it as a kid. I knew it was a big thing due to [obvious reasons] but i couldn’t pinpoint when exactly it was looool

I think this is 2012? Anywho, 2012-2014 were the best years to be a shawol in my opinion. Grandma was still alive and she would keep saying that if Jonghyun comes home with me then she would cook us dinner, 2012 Christmas was the best Christmas ever. That year it was snowing like crazy and it basically came on my little sister’s birthday. THAT same year during the summer holidays I finally got to meet my husbando 🥲

I also had a big party for my 10th and ALL my cousin’s friends came and had a shinee birthday party that my cousins planned out and we would have karaoke night and even a sleepover afterwards where we would all gossip about our biases 🙃

We literally played truth or dare and most of our answers or dares are always based on shinee. “Who’s your bias?” “Kiss, marry or kill! Pick those 3 shinee members!” “I dare you to act like you’re making out with your bias!” And blah blah blah- yeah you get it. So as we were playing those generic sleepover games, girls would put me in the side and whispered if I meant what I said since I basically said that I wanted to have seggs with Jonghyun in one of the truths and all of them started screaming like MAD.

Then before we slept, we each told a shinee bedtime story and me, the future wattpad fanfic writer, stood up and began telling a story about a girl who was a young teenage girl and she basically has an orgy with shinee. Idk why we were such horny kids back then, but we I can’t say that I wasn’t. The amount of sex references we would say about them was- idk.

My cousins wouldn’t shut up about the internet war and would even go far to remake the historic moment in sims. BLOODY SIMS. Now what makes you think you could do those exact moves in SIMS out of all games? I would understand if it’s fortnite but SIMS???

Anywho imma shut up now hahah-

omg that sounds sooo fun, i wish i could respond with something similar but ive only been a shawol since december 2021 😭

i would honestly give anything to be a shawol from 2012-2014. in my opinion, 2012-2013 is seriously like the. best. years for them. internet war being a really heavy factor to why i think that … but also swc2 as a whole, their covers were sooo iconic, and also keyseop and the whole 91 line thing… was that as huge as i think it was?

also i have so many questions about the sims internet war??? how did you even go about that 😭? did you just have a jonghyun sim and a taemin sim and make them . woohoo??? or like passionately kiss?

[chronically-autistic-dinosaur]

The first three photos are from 2019. I went to Disneyland for my 30th birthday. The fourth photo is from November 2021 and the last photo is from July 2022. I purposely chose not to include any photos from 2020 because I look like literal trash in all of them-no thanks to getting sick with COVID 🙃

People look at these photos and go “Wow. She’s so happy. There couldn’t POSSIBLY be anything wrong with her. She’s out having fun and having a good time.” A month before the Disneyland trip, I discovered I was autistic. Imagine being almost 30 and finding that out. It was a lot to deal with PLUS I was already mentally exhausted from life in general….hence the holiday to Disney. I needed to leave my stressors behind and just go have fun. The fourth picture was around the time of one of my many bad anxiety waves. COVID restrictions were all over the place, work was getting busy as it was close to Christmas, and customers just weren’t respecting my personal boundaries regarding COVID. Instead of shutting down and being a recluse, I spent that weekend with my mom and brother. The last photo is the most recent and is ironically at a Shawn Mendes concert. Being in/near/around large groups of people still makes me super anxious. The only reason I went was because it was my brother’s birthday present from me. Don’t get me wrong, I absolutely enjoyed myself, but the anxiety that was building up inside of me was 😬 Every time I looked around at the crowd, I was like “this is a lot of people…what if I get COVID…what if I get sick…what if, what if, what if?”

All this to say that while I may APPEAR happy and all good on the outside, I’m dealing with demons inside. I can start the day off feeling fantastic, and then something can happen at work (customer says/does something dumb or I get called to cash or it’s super busy and we’re short staffed) and in a short moment, that’s it. I’m already set off. The same 100% applies to Shawn too. Yes, he’s in California. Yes, he’s been to the beach. Yes, he’s been photographed looking a-ok. But he’s not. Mentally, he is going through a lot. I obviously don’t know EVERYTHING, but mental illness/anxiety/anxiety disorders are complex. Being in California IS his escape right now. His sister is (or was) even down there too, so he IS with family. Even if he wasn’t…who cares? He wouldn’t be seeing his friends or family if he was bouncing all the world. Shawn LOOKS fine because that’s what he wants us to believe. He doesn’t want us to worry too much. We don’t know what goes on when the paparazzi isn’t snapping photos from the bushes. We don’t know what he’s feeling/going through at any given moment.

I’m not kidding around when I say I know what Shawn’s going through. Obviously a grocery clerk is not on the same playing field as a musician, but the human emotions and thoughts and stresses are the same. I don’t usually feel empathy (I’m a low empathy autistic), so for me to empathize with someone is huge.

I don’t care how long of a break from touring Shawn takes. I only want him happy and healthy. He needs to take care of himself before he can do anything else.

[appreciatingtokrev]

it’s true but some users do like to hide their age on here if they’re feel like they’re too old, I have seen blogs where 20’s or 18+ in their bio instead.

ah yh some users can be problematic about that. I’ve seen with most people that having friends with big age gap normally happen when they’re adults lol. also, I feel like that depends on the person and what’s their friend is like (?) regarding those experiences because I had talked to ppl with a year/two age gap too but I never felt like they opened my eyes to a whole another world.

that mean she must felt really bad then and it sound like she was nervous so probably just said the first thing that popped in her mind lol. ah, we all know each other and I wished the forgot friend a happy birthday since her one is a month before mine and before that i got her back together with the other friend that got annoyed so that’s probably why. she was annoyed though because she reacted with 🙃 when I told her 😂😂😂

it sound like Valentine must be her favourite occasion of the year then. do you know about white day ? oh I see so she probably get more excited towards the celebration as the relationship with her girlfriend become longer. it is a nice thing to see considering having a relationship like that mean the world for some people.

true true. personally believe you can never be too old (except when it comes to romantic/sexual relationships with minors or something-) but i do understand

yeah i’ve had other ppl online tell me off before bc i had a bunch of fourteen to sixteen year old friends at eighteen. i get where they’re coming from with all the grooming stuff and shit, but i was just genuinly friends with them 😭 like. i’m normal about my thirteen year old brother too?? we are very close and i could easily have the same fandom discussions with him. obviously i’d never do anything weird around minors??? you should definitely tell off people doing that but attacking adults solely for being friends/talking to minors when the conversations are all normal & the adult hasn’t done anything.. feels wrong to me. like if you can’t bring up any arguements, what’s the point? why tell me ‘‘omg you’re 18 stop interacting with a 14 year old!!’’ when the fourteen year old knows abt my age and actually approached me first 😭 idk there’s so much stupid age discourse. done with the topic now i’m tired of age discourse but i had to get it out of my system for once ajfjgjjsh

also, the world view thing definitely is a v personal thing. i’ve been in a class where most of my grade was pretty conservative and simply by talking to someone a grade above already helped a lot because they were more liberal lol. i think how much difference it can make is interesting ngl

yeah lol but i made sure she doesn’t have to feel bad about it (i hope) so it ended all well. oh well lmao

it’s definitely her fav holiday! i’ve heard of white day too but i don’t know much bc it isn’t celebrated here at all. tbh the only reason i kinda care abt it a tiny little bit is the official white day art we get in the genshin fandom lmao. she’s always been excited abt valentine’s day but yeah now she’s even happier <3 her gf & her are really cute together so i’m very happy for them! i’ve also known both of them for a few years, so i knew them before & when they got together, and i know that they both love each other lots :3

[nickspersonalbullshit]

watching “the sinner” which is great at suspense-keep -watching-just-one-more tv. tho the plot is always wild in some fashion.

but a major element of season 4 is siblings/parents doing *anything* for their sibling/child…

idk if i would. the stakes in the show are so so high. but i dont know what the limit would be in terms of “protecting” my family. i feel like it would be shamefully low?

but also, no way in hell would i expect them to do shit for me. not sure i would want them to? but i know better than to expect help from them lol. and zero chance they would (presently, i know my parents at least have in the past) do anything that would cause them moderate inconvenience for my benefit.

also clearly im selfish and narcissistic to believe they don’t do things for benefit. but god damn. after not receiving a peep while they were out spending thanksgiving with my other two siblings. and so many years of them not acknowledging my birthday. and just a ton of lack of consideration towards me, like, 3 out of every 4 times we interact…it just bums me out

i feel like i know im *supposed to* be the support i want for myself, and build non-traditional relationships that can bridge the gap that my lack of satisfying familial relationships leaves me with, but i have social anxiety and low self esteem. its all easier said than done. plus im lazy and take poor care of my wellness, so putting in extra work to accomplish these things feels really insurmountable.

with my birthday coming up, i want to try and use it as a marking point to develop some new, better habits that can train myself to build up the strength to solve my internal problems for myself. i’ve also debated trying to part with my tendency toward greed/evade the panic of being(…poor? idk) that has been preventing me from signing up for therapy. work is also seeking new insurance providers, so there’s hope that we’ll be getting better coverage in the new year…cuz online therapy is still $400-ish a month without guaranteed results…that part of the problem, too, that i only want therapy if it can ‘efficiently’ help improve my life to make it “worth it”. im consistently afraid to risk anything.

clearly my mind is off kilter. i think things that are not logical. perhaps id write a letter to my therapist to try to get into some deep shit early. im shameless about considering myself introspective, so “proving” that i have correctly analyzed my issues to a professional via written letter is a good choice🙃😐i’d probably scare them away and get a referral to a psych ward just so they won’t have to deal with my narcissism

(side thought, i sometimes see random promoted tweets and they often overlap with psychology influencers, that love to post shit that selfish bitches like me will read and say “oh that’s so me”…recent hits have been that i have no friends bc my parents rarely showed how they interacted with friends, which they had few of and saw on second-tier holidays. there was another one i wanted to link to the thoughts in the paragraph above, but now i cant remember it)

the sinner is a cool show. i rarely like male leads, and as i said above, it has wild plot lines(spoiler: specifically, they often rely on closing loops by zooming out to add another crime ring on an even bigger scale, or inflating the importance of side character we barely saw in the background of early scenes, but by the last episode or two, they are so pivotal to the plot’s unfolding explanation…there’s no way you could guess it).

but it often is telling life lessons and how to be a better, more at-peace and managing-your-struggles kind of person.

[lollypopsx]

Single Dad Harry x Charleigh Instagram posts

Here’s my first ever Instagram concept piece about a few of the Instagram posts of Single Dad Harry x Charleigh through the years. I have never done this before and it took me embarrasingly way too long! But I loved making it so, enjoy x

Masterlists

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Harrystyles Cherry, Cherry Baby 🍒 you are the light in a dark world my sweet girl x

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Gemmastyles I can’t wait to squish her!

Harryfan1 I can’t even breathe

Onedirection Our newest band member. We are so happy to have the two of you in our lives x

1Dupdates still can’t believe what they went through, no one deserves that

↳ Iloveharrystyles Karma will get her. Harry and Cherry deserve so much more than her!!

↳ 1Dupdates at least they are both safe now

Annetwist So precious, love you both endlessly!x

↳ Harrystyles We love you. Thank you for everything x

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Annetwist My baby and his baby x

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Harrystyles 🍒❤️

Mrsjohannahdeakin Congratulations Nana! What a beauty!x

Gemmastyles Heyyyyy!! :(

↳ Harrystyles Shut up, you’re older than me

1DFanAccount She looks just like Harry!!

Niallhoran My girls getting big already :(

Louist91 Lil’ trouble!x

YourInstagram So so cute! Can’t wait to get tour on the road, I’ve got so many outfits for them two matching!!x

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YourInstagram Happy  birthday to the sweetest Cherry we ever have known🤍

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Harrystyles Thank you for being one of the strong female figures in her life. We are grateful for you auntie Y/N x

Taylorswift Happy Birthday pretty girl!! She’s so delicate!x

Zaynmalik Charleigh has never looked so much like Harry....

Niallhoran Best girls x

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Y/b/fInstgram She’s an angel! Happy birthday little one! PS, Y/N please hurry up and have a baby one day!

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Harrystyles We have the best friends who make the best outfits for our adventures! Thank you Auntie YourInstagram! My Cherry feels right at home at the Magical Kingdom...🍒x

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Annetwist A magical place to make magical memories. Missing my little darlin x

Ladygaga Can I get a dress like that?!🥺

YourInstagram Oh she’s so beautiful! I’m so glad she likes it! Bring me back some ears!!!!😘🙏🏼

↳ Harrystyles She won’t take it off...she has bought you some matching donut mouse ears though!

Harryfan1 I saw them there and they looked so happy and so cute!!!

Disneyland We are so pleased that the Princess and her King enjoyed their stay!

Louist91 Beauty! Have fun lil lady x (P.s. I hope you’ve spoilt her H)

↳ Niallhoran When doesn’t he?

↳Harrystyles Shhhhh, we’re on holiday!

Harryfan2 Someone start a petition for YourInstagram to make Charleigh’s outfits forever??

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Charleighstyles I’ve always been the most stylish Styles, sorry gang x #throwbackthursday

📸Niallhoran

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Harrystyles Rude? But you always will be my pretty baby🥺❤️

Louist91 Do you remember when you were actually cute?🙃👀

↳ Charleighstyles Do you remember when you were actually cool and funny?🙃👀

Harryfan1 Wow! Literally Harry’s double!!

Harryfan2 UUGGHH those curls!!!!!

YourInstagram OMG Heffalump! You never used to let go of him!😭😭

↳ Harrystyles She still doesn’t...or the blanket😏

↳ Charleighstyles you’re actually embarrassing.🤦‍♀️

Liampayne Why did I never know this photo existed?!?!

↳ Charleighstyles Creds to Uncle Ni Ni 📸

Cherrystylzfan This girl really can pull every outfit off!

Niallhoran These were the best days, you always used to steal my hats!

↳ Charleighstyles Still got em!x

Gemmastyles I’m watching you little Styles! Don’t think you can steal my spotlight!

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Charleighstyles Dad, where do I even start? What a life we have had. I wouldn’t be the woman I am today if I didn’t have you by my side to guide me there. To the man who wiped every tear, who was the reason for every smile, who protected me every second of my life, who slept beside me when things weren’t alright, who celebrated every victory, who never left my side when I was a clingy and anxious child, who has never left my side when I am a clingy and anxious adult, who cherished every moment, who gave me every opportunity to the most incredible life I/we have had.

For you I am grateful in ways words and actions could never explain. 

Happy Fathers Day! Love you so much!

Always and Infinity, Your Cherry x

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Harrystyles My angel, I’d do it all over again a thousand times and more. I’m so proud of the woman you are becoming and you have made my life worth while. Always my Cherry, love you endlessly x

Annetwist Happy Father’s Day H, I’m so proud of you xx

Taylorswift I’m not crying, you are

Harryfan1 Harry is the definition of a strong father figure

Liampayne No one deserves more recognition on father’s day than you H x

Harryfan2 Happy Father’s Day! 

Niallhoran Charleigh, you bring tears to my eyes constantly. I suddenly came to realise just how grown up you are x

Zaynmalik You have been the greatest team, that the world has ever seen x

Louist91 No one has seen the true definition of family love until they have spent time with you two x

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[howlinchickhowl]

i hope that you participate in your own question fridays, my beloved howl 😉🖤

do you like wearing costumes? what’s the best costume you’ve ever worn?

what’s your favorite holiday and why?

if the howl of 2011 hid a time capsule that was intended to be opened in 2021, what are 3 things that you would have put in there?

Rhys! You fluffy bowl of Angel Delight you didn’t even play question friday and you send me questions? My questions are not good enough for you?? You do not wish to be perceived by me??? These are great questions btw and I am honoured to answer them, but also I hope you will submit yourself to interrogation next week 🙃 . I do enjoy a good costume opportunity. I don’t get them very often but when I do I try and go the furthest I can. I dressed up as Rogue from x-men (based on the 90s cartoons) for a birthday party and that was probably my most successful costume. Bright green skinny jeans and leotard, yellow gloves and boots, a streak in my hair and a brown bomber jacket I sewed an xavier academy patch onto. I was pretty darn proud of that!

. I am assuming that by holiday you mean the festive kind of holiday and not vacation, which is what holiday kind of means in the uk. So assuming my assumption is correct: Christmas. I love pre-christmas winter, the lights and the goodwill and the collective sense of being Halfway Out Of The Dark. I love searching for gifts for people I love and coming up with theming ideas for my wrapping scheme, I love baking christmas foods and smelling christmas smells and living unapologetically off of mulled wine and mince pies. I love that it is two days of the year where it is frowned upon to be doing anything. I love christmas music and christmas movies and christmas outfits and just. Christmas. Yeah. It’s a banger.

.In 2011 I was struggling a lot. I don’t have an awful load of specific memories from that time. I would probably (if we weren’t concerned about rotting) have put in a pie from this traditional pie shop in my hometown that is incredible and that I visited almost on a weekly basis for a while. My bound copy of my dissertation because I struggled with uni and was really proud of myself for finishing my project and getting a way better mark than I had expected. A picture of me and my dad at his birthday dinner when we were both very happy and a little bit fatter than we would have liked. 

These were REALLY good questions, number three especially I’m crying a little bit thinking about it. You coming for my gig bro?! 

[hecckyeah]

Uranus, Neptune, Aldebaran, Centaurus, Libra, Aries, and Comet!

Heyyyy thanks friend ❤❤

Uranus: What’s your hobby?

Ooh, I have too many. And not enough. Somehow both.

Writing, reading, painting, drawing, playing music, making moodboards for my fandoms, horse riding, knitting, sewing, messing with spreadsheets (yes I am a nerd, no judging), and most of all: stressing because I desperately want to do my hobbies but my depression/anxiety/adhd decided to make me stare at a computer screen and watch dumb youtube videos for hours on end.

Neptune: When’s your birthday?

In September 🙃

Aldebaran: What’s something you care desperately about?

Answered here!

Centaurus: Favorite holiday?

I think you guys can see this one coming......

Christmas!!! Definitely. I’m not one of those Christmas lovers who like to listen to Christmas music starting in August and put up their tree before Halloween, but I do love the holiday. Some of my best childhood memories are surrounding Christmas, and I just love every second of it.

Also, just because it’s in the winter (and I love winter) it gets to be on the top of the list, with New Year’s at a close second. Then Thanksgiving after that lol

Libra: Favorite color?

Black, blush pink, bright yellow, dusty teal, coral.... The list is endless. I do love black and white though, and also all the shades of gray lmao

Aries: Favorite movie?

SHSALKGJSDHGK this one is so so so so hard. I love all the movies. There are so many good movies out there. But since I’ve been so vague on so many questions, I’m just going to pick one (but disclaimer: the answer will probably always be different lmao)

Avengers: Endgame

And now I feel like I have to explain. While there are problems with it, like plot holes and rushed writing and bad decisions... The culmination of over 11 years of storytelling and build up was INCREDIBLE. The nuances. The references. The tying together of so many storylines in so short of a time. And it’s just.... It has a special place in my heart. I basically grew up with the MCU (okay, I watched Thor when I was 11, but still). So to see it end just like that felt like it really coincided with my own personal entrance into adulthood and it was very very VERY emotional. (Also I’m a huge Steggy stan, so that ending just..... 👌👌👌👌😭😭😭😭)

Comet: What’s your big dream?

I don’t know.

And it bugs me. Because so many people in my life have this big, important thing they want to do, and I just.... don’t. I want to be a mom, that’s the main one. I want to go back to school eventually, that’s another one. But other than that, I just.... don’t know.

I want to help people. I want to wake up every morning and know I have a purpose on this earth and know that I’m fulfilling that purpose through caring for other people in whatever way I can. That’s where being a chiropractor comes in. And being a mother too, I guess. 

I’ve struggled with this literally my entire life, and I guess I’m told that’s normal? That I’ll find my purpose eventually. But I just don’t have big dreams. I live in the present, in reality. I focus on the here and now, and I have a hard time seeing ahead. Hopefully I’ll know it when I get there, though 🙃🙃

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send a space thing for questions

[danieljradcliffe]

tagged by @lukeskywalkre thank you!! this actually took some thought tbh

1. name 4 fictional characters who showcase your personality the best, with explanations if you want.

lisa simpson - "THE WHOLE DAMN SYSTEM IS WRONG!”

amy santiago (b99) - goal oriented, competitive, ambitious

moira rose (schitt’s creek) - i can be so fucking melodramatic sometimes for no good reason!

ron weasley (hp) - insecure AF but still a solid friend, clever & funny (atleast i think so)

2. aesthetic

thunderstorms, old libraries, red wine stained lips/teeth, hot showers, blasting music on headphones, staying up late, cozy wool sweaters, the city at night

3. favorite musical/play? (If you’ve never seen a musical or play, one you’d be interested in seeing?)

Wicked lmao don’t judge me!!! It holds such a special place in my heart from my teenage years. Also Equus and How to Succeed in Business Without Really Trying because I saw Daniel Radcliffe in them in NYC and met him after :’)

4. what is the best compliment you’ve ever received?

why can’t i ever remember positive things people have said to me??? what comes to mind is recently people have told me i’ll make a good social worker which is nice to hear since i am paying thousands of dollars to go to school for it!!! 🙃 and also it’s my dream career and im super passionate about the field

5. how many times have you been in love?

one

6. embarrassing story or fact about yourself that makes you laugh now?

oh god i am so bad at being put on the spot like this... ummmm all that is coming to mind is this one time when my best friend and i were literally 10 YEARS OLD she stood in the locker room after gym and was like ‘im so fat’ and i shoved her aside and was like ‘you’re just saying that for attention! IM actually so fat’ and we always laugh now at how fucking ridiculous that was of us

7. favorite disney/pixar movie?

this is really hard?????? Monster’s Inc came to mind first

8. favorite flower or plant?

Peonies and all succulents 

9. what’s your favorite holiday?

can I say my birthday???? or halloween

10. name three things that made you laugh or smile this past week.

on my block, cuckoo, some of the ridiculous stuff my boss at work says

11. what song would you play to introduce yourself to someone?

welcome home - radical face

12. name something that truly makes you feel peaceful even at your most stressed moments.

listening to music and reading to separate myself from the stress by distracting myself with other thoughts!

13. what do you, did you, or would you study at college?

i have a degree in communications and i’m back in school right now getting my bachelor of social work 

14. this is kind of a weird one, but which outfit of yours makes you feel most like yourself?

just like black jeans and a jean jacket. i recently got old skool vans i am also obsessed with 

15. what is a quote you live by?

If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. - desmond tutu

16. name the funniest playlist name you have.

'songs i love more than my own life’

17. make a reference to an inside joke you have with someone you love with zero context.

let’s light a candle

18. what is a message you would give your younger self if given the chance?

don’t take your relationships for granted

19. who is your favorite family member? (If you have no good blood family members, feel free to mention someone in your found family)

my mom AND my sister sorry I’m not choosing just one of em!!

20. what’s a secret dream of yours?

i live in the major city 15 mins away from where i grew up and i wish i could’ve lived somewhere else. even if just for a year or so it would be nice to experience something different.

tagging: @three-drink-amy @maxbegone @leopxld-fitz @danlevys @roguebabyinyourstore @stuck-on-your-heart @imargaery as always absolutely no pressure :) (if anyone sees this and wants to do it i tag you!!)

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#me - 15 posts

#me and who - 10 posts

#personal story - 2 posts

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#with my man - 1 posts

#filmgifs - 1 posts

#love language - 1 posts

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My Top Posts in 2021

#5

I hate admitting this but I’m sensitiveee🥺, BUT gangster af (in my opinion) but SWEET☺️🙃 buuut I really want someone who knows how to be soft with me …& rough 😅 🤦🏾‍♀️

11 notes • Posted 2021-07-11 00:49:38 GMT

#4

Sooo...

I feel like Tumblr is my hiding place no one can find me so I can post and say what I want.

Random story:

I work with these twin women named Jada and Jade. Their life growing up is kinda messed up from what they told me and tbh not sure who is older. Anyways, the both make me laugh however I do feel closer to Jade. Jade has a son who one time Jada was telling me about asking me about my age saying that Jade’s son needs someone to push him in the right direction. I know Jada likes my work ethic a lot. I was on contract and she has told me if they tried to get rid of me she would do what she could to change it/fight for me. It kinda sounded like Jada was tryna see if I would be interested in him. Ngl I would have from the way Jada was describing his looks, how sweet he is, & how smart he really is but just doesn’t apply himself yeah I wold be interested HOWEVER not a set up by his Auntie no thanks.

Anyways Jada has been kinda getting on nerves some of things she does and I just don’t agree with it but I know she doesn’t have the best childhood 🤷🏾‍♀️ so different strokes for different folks. For example, we have students that are learning and she was telling them the first 10 years of her career she didn’t take a break and I’m like 👀👀 ohhh noo noo I don’t think that’s something to be proud of. To me, I kinda saw it has encouraging them that if they are training they shouldn’t be time to rest... Uhm pause SHE can do that but I’ll pass. Or like we had evaluations about the students and one student was on her phone and Jada was talking about the evaluation saying how they are all useless, always on their phone. I thought that was sooo rude by the time I knew the student got up and later on told me she felt some type of way.

Back to the son, I didn’t work with Jade on Mother’s Day so when I saw her I told her happy Mother’s Day and I asked her what did she do? She told me nothing and she told me how she doesn’t celebrate birthdays, Mother’s Day, thanksgiving, pretty much any holiday. She pretty much told me that when she needed help during her accident her son and Jada were not there for her. 😪🥺 She does talk shit about Jada to me, cause 1. We relate to each other especially since I’m an introvert and she had since realized that’s how she is too 2. Cause I know how to keep my mouth shut! Like her sister can be on the either side of the room and if she’s coming closer & she’s talking shit about her I would give her the eyes 👀. Anyways, my point is ... why would Jada in a way try to set me up with her shitty nephew and she’s just as shitty. Girrrl byeeee

If you read all this damn 😊 thank you. I just wanted to share the story.

14 notes • Posted 2021-05-11 19:53:15 GMT

#3

I was gone for a bit now I’m baack 😌

19 notes • Posted 2021-10-28 14:24:45 GMT

#2

Gonna try to enjoy Summer🌞☀️

56 notes • Posted 2021-04-21 22:31:02 GMT

#1

I know I posted this but forgot to add a tag, so posting it again 💖

86 notes • Posted 2021-06-11 01:16:25 GMT

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