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#I never understood this
litnerdwrites · 5 months
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Why do the IC of Feyre expect Nesta to play house with them when they can't respect her boundary with Solstice? She told Feyre it wasn't 'their holiday', which already makes it clear that she's uninterested in adapting to fae traditions. It's not a personal insult, it's a boundary that makes complete sense.
Solstice is a religious holiday, where you thank the mother, or whatever. Given that The Mother seems to come in tandem with The Cauldron, not wanting to celebrate it after what they went through makes complete sense. Now that I think about it, Feyre spends ACOMAF being mad that Tamlin and Ianthe did this to her; Forced her into uncomfortable social situations with people she didn't want to be around.
To Nesta, it's Feyre's birthday but nothing more, in which case, Feyre could've invited Nesta to a brunch with her and Elain. Nesta literally invited them to eat with her, but Feyre said no. If they had a conversation, I'm sure that they would've found a place to eat together that suited all of the, even if it was just at Nesta's apartment, or a day when the town house was empty. Or maybe one of Rhysand's other six houses.
There were so many work arounds that would respect Nesta's boundaries, probably go farther to helping her heal, and been fun for all of them. A win win situation.
Besides, if you invited someone to your celebration of a religious holiday, and they said 'no' out of respect for their own culture, religion, traditions, or just because they didn't want to, wouldn't you just accept the answer and move on?
On top of all this, Cassian through a temper tantrum the moment Nesta rejected his gift. Dude, if you used all that intelligence you supposedly have as a General, you'd realise what the issue is.
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charlieisacastle · 4 months
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i was really not made for capitalism...i know im saying this on the anti-capitalist website but like damn, my brain doesnt work like that. i wasn't made to constantly worry about money. i wasnt made for this system and this system wants me dead for it.
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jillian-drake · 6 months
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so men are allowed to have beards and women are allowed to wear pants now and that’s great but how do they not realize how culty that is??? like things they were never allowed to do they suddenly can because some guys said so???
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xbuster · 1 year
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The different ways you can tell if you're blocked by someone on Tumblr is funny. I checked the notes of a post with like 8 notes to see if there were any replies and there were no replies or reblogs and only 5 likes. So three people on that post have me blocked lol. Since you can't see them when logged in, you can log out, find the post again, check the notes, and see who the three blogs that weren't there before. Like why even hide them in the notes like that. It just makes it worse because I wouldn't have known they blocked me anyway since I don't know those people and would probably never have interacted with them. Since there's a way to find out who blocked me like that, if I was a shitty person I could just log out and send them anon hate. I don't get what removing them from the notes is supposed to do???
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rxng · 1 year
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who are you and why did you reblog from me
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headcanonsandmore · 2 years
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One running joke in ‘How I Met Your Mother’ that I never understood was the whole “whoa, Canadians have a culture different to Americans; this is so weird!” thing. Like... the show was set in New York, one of the most multicultural cities in America; why was it so strange to Robin’s friends that a different country would have different pop culture references? 
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At least Matpat lives on in the FNAF universe
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pichiicake · 8 months
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going through my old journals as part of therapy homework and i'm reading a section written in the emotional wreckage of a full-on breakdown when i get hit with this line:
There is never a satisfying answer to ‘Why didn’t they love me?’
like wow babe. good fucking point
#like you were on the ground biting the carpet and dry sobbing while you wrote that and still. good fucking point#not a shitpost#cptsd#and it's true. there's never a satisfying answer#the truth is i know why i wasn't loved#i analyzed my parent's traumas and abuse to death. i understand why i alienated and was alienated from my siblings#i know why my mom was too overwhelmed to be capable of nurturing#i know why my dad vanished into addiction and avoidance#the details of our cycles of trauma and cptsd and family history i have a phd in all of it#i understood perfectly. i spent years studying and now i knew the answer#and guess what? IT WAS NOT SATISFYING!!!#because they still didn't love me! and i still couldn't change that!#it was still a completely unsatisfying state of affairs!#so like. when the people who are supposed to love you...don't.#when the people who are supposed to take care of you...fail to#you can look for answers and reasons and explanations#but that's not actually going to FIX your situation.#and it's probably not within your ability TO fix the situation. (and definitely not your job)#because you don't need answers--you need a new situation#*inserts Just Walk Out. You Can Leave!!! (Running Skeleton) Meme*#and yes. walking out isn't always possible.#but for you i hope it will be one day soon. and i hope you build the courage to take that leap.#stepping away from the people who failed to love you...it feels like being untethered but also like being lighter than air#new and scary. immensely relieving. the future opens up. empty but empty like a canvas. blindingly bright until your eyes adjust#like climbing out of a pit you called home and for the first time realizing how bright the light of day can truly be#when you aren't just getting glimpses from the bottom of a hole
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skyx-the-witch · 1 year
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Vivziepop male character: *is supposed to be hot and attractive. Canonically everyone wants to fuck him, he is flirty, confident and makes everyone fall in love with him as soon as he appear. Hes got the best voice actor to make the most masculine and attractive voice to match his supposed sexiness. Everyone in the fandom talks about how he makes them wet their panties*
The fucking character design:
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antonius-art · 2 years
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Is it ok if I reposted your art in my fandom Instagram account with crediting you?
Absolutely do not do this. It is never ok.I have an instagram account as well, with my work already posted.https://www.instagram.com/artist_antonius/
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uncanny-tranny · 11 months
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Basically, my philosophy around disability fakers is: I would rather a thousand people fake a disability than have one disabled person suffer without care, aids, compassion, or any help.
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sea-buns · 5 months
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it wasn't that long ago that i was in a high school math class and yet my eyes have never glazed over faster. i was good at math. i enjoy math. you want the fucking train question? in two minutes? omg i didn't know you were so funny haha
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lucabyte · 8 months
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isat doodles in the form of a silly-serious-silly sandwich
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tahopo · 2 months
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we truly regressed when people started buying into the genderbending is inherently transphobic thing. yeah that twelve year old being inquisitive and having fun on deviantart was your enemy all along.
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dramaticqueerio · 3 months
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When I was little, we got a huge custom library to hold all our books, and we had to measure the books for the right sizes to fit in the shelves.
Parents tried to stick to categories, like the Pratchett’s, Neil Gaiman’s, Political, Czech and Comics, but we also ended up with categories like small books and big books.
From that I learned multiple things.
The Neil Gaiman books were much more fun to sort through when I could see them all, and I started to read them with almost the same enthusiasm as the Discworld series
The Big Books were usually scary and boring, and hard to hide under the bedsheets when it was past my bedtime and parents came to check what the light peeking from under the door was.
The small books were fun. They were all old, and thin, and some even fit in the pocket of my shirt. I could never finish them, but I felt smart reading them, and people didn’t notice when I read them, so they couldn’t tell me that I was too small for them.
(my parents never did say that. My mum still remembered when she had to borrow books for her younger sister of seven years, because the librarian wouldn’t let her read them as she was “too little”)
The last thing I learned was that gravity still works even for little kids, and it hurts a lot when you fall from the chair you’re standing on with a stack of books on you.
The thing I’m learning now is that I’ll never read all the books we have, because there will always be more, and I’m mostly okay with that.
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