Unfriendly reminder that introjects are not here for your entertainment. Dm'ing an introject you're "dating" the ghost/dead person of their source is disgusting and if you think you're genuinely dating a dead person who never even met you - seek help. I am so tired of people treating me like shit for my sources. Respect people's boundaries and learn some fucking decency for the dead.
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I genuinely think so many people have forgotten the fact of "there are no toxic fandoms, only toxic people".
When fandoms get big, of course the amount of people u want nothing to do with is also gonna get bigger.
Youre not meant to combat them. Youre not meant to talk about them and expose others to them.
Youre meant to block them at the first signs and continue to enjoy your experience interacting with other people.
Kill the weeds, don't let the seeds spread, reap your wheat and enjoy your bread.
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i do not know how to explain to people that "transmisogyny" is the specific transphobia that trans women + transfems face (often but not exclusively at the hands of cis people), and "transandrophobia" is the specific transphobia that trans men + mascs face (often but not exclusively at the hands of cis people), and that they all come together under the umbrella of "transphobia." these are not opposing concepts nor are they mutually exclusive, to believe in one does not mean non-belief in the other. is there a simpler way of phrasing this. can i be clearer.
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Do yall like, know how to enjoy something w/o constantly criticizing it? don't you want to enjoy something-- anything for what it is? if it gives you joy and makes you happy, you dont have to be critical and pick a part about it to be a 'real' fan of the thing, or to show you're aware of the whatever problems it has.
just liking and enjoying it is enough.
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Twitter is so fucking awful. Why the hell are you recommending this shit? Two in a row, from people who I don't follow. I don't interact with any i/p conflict stuff there, there is no fucking reason that I should have to see this. It isn't even news. It's just an antisemitic shithead making up MORE blood libel about Israeli soldiers and their ignorant followers calling ppl genocide supporters for asking them to back up their claims.
It literally is a TikTok screenshot too they didn't even attempt to pretend they got this information from a reputable source! Yet there are so many shares and comments acting like this is true! People are so fucking willing to believe that the only Jewish state in existence is full of degenerates gee I wonder why : /
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wasn't even trying to tell my brother anything huge or complicated tonight, it was literally just "oh yeah conspiracy theories can definitely be harmful" (because he was saying that) "another reason is bc they can quickly get into anti-semitic territory" AND THATS LIKE. A WELL KNOWN FACT ???? and he immediately started getting super defensive and saying that no they dont, it depends on the person's viewpoint blah blah blah, I WAS JUST AGREEING WITH HIM AND ADDING SMTH TRUE AND WELL KNOWN TO THE CONVO 😭😭😭
i hate this family so much lol the only good thing abt that is that only my mum was around for that part and she was busy and distracted and I quickly realized my brother was getting extremely defensive and aggressive abt it so i backed down as soon as i realized and moved on to just showing him stupid memes i had in my camera roll bc jfc that was WILD. i rly cannot talk abt anything even remotely to do with societal issues huh 💀💀
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I grew up spending a lot of time on edgy reddit adjacent forums and I i don't think I'll ever be able to express just how scary it is to see leftist spaces echoing a lot of the sentiments I saw in those spaces. Some of the words are switched out but it still feels the same.
Honestly that's why I get so upset about the treatment of afab people. It reminds me of seeing "jokes" about stupid lying bitches who deserve to be raped for all their annoying whining about sexism. If I go to a queer leftist's blog I shouldn't be reminded of communities where the r slur is constantly used and police brutality against people of color is treated like a joke.
I just hate feeling like I never really escaped those incredibly bigoted and toxic communities. I hate feeling like there is no escape from that kind of cruelty.
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me anytime i see a poll asking how you view your dad or how it’s okay to hate/dislike your dad as someone who loved their dad and misses him
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