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soldier-poet-king · 3 months

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Anyway I'm going to bed I have work tmrw and SOOOO much going on w both work AND trying to get everything ready for my move (I'm not remotely ready, AND I'm fighting off guilt trips from my Nonna and trying to stake out boundaries with my parents since I'll be in the same city)

But also was working on my embroidery today and fuckin why did I think The Kiss would be a good art piece. Why

#im torturing myself but committed to finishing it #its turning out rlly well!!!#im just. big emo pining #also the mean lesbian at church kept trying to recruit me today #and um just. ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. having some feelings about this crochety older single woman #who is almost certainly a lesbian but super trad catholic #and her quote unquote friend. and like.#all that angst aside #SHES JUST REALLY MEAN AND CONDESCENDING #the duality of fran

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dayurno · 6 months

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something so cunty and delicious about both kayleigh and kevin having their lives depend on the whims of obsessive men. how close they both were to tetsuji/riko and how, ultimately, their lives were thrown away once they no longer served the family’s purpose (and how both their absences were greatly noticed and mourned by the men who hurt them). both lifetimes of wanting to play exy and travel the world, and not a single drop of control for their fate shared between mother and son. tragedy of all tragedies

#i cant think too much about how kevin is just like his mother because i lose my mind #“riko's death means no one will ever understand what being kevin is like” wrong. kayleigh's death means that #they were birds of a featherrrrr to me. they were clingy and codependent and perfect #she was never motherly but it didn't matter bc she was kevin's best friend and confidant #because she loved him and respected him and always talked to him like he was a person #and not just an extension of herself #because she raised him to be smart and loud-mouthed and curious #you can pry this from my cold dead hands but i really think kayleigh never baby talked kevin #never condescended to him either #she always considered his opinions and she loved him greatly and i need to douse tetsuji moriyama in lighter fluid #kayleigh was larger than life #txt #kayleigh #kevin #I NEED A DAY FAMILY TAG #day family

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breakandbuildfiction · 2 months

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Guardian Spirit Meets Guardian Angels

Danny finds himself being accosted by three weird baby things with wings claiming to be part of an organization of guardian angels from Heaven called CHERUB asking for his help to go home. Apparently, they heard about him and thought that even if he was a pagan form of protector he could still plead their case to their bosses up in Heaven. Danny, having not known that Heaven was even real before they showed up, is a bit overwhelmed.

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laniidae-passerine · 7 months

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see I am very disjointed from a lot of nine/ten fandom discourse because I genuinely believe that in a different world where space boy was not to be seen, had an older Rose gone to the hospital and bumped into a certain Doctor Jones by a vending machine or as she was taking Rose’s vitals, she would have instantly hit it off with Martha. and probably flirted with her a little on accident and then on purpose when Martha flirted back

#I can see Martha raising an eyebrow as she catches Rose (who definitely snuck out despite being on bedrest) by the vending machine #Rose probably snuck out of bed because the girl in the bed next to her was crying and she wanted to make her feel better #because she doesn’t really like hospitals either #and when she tells Martha this she’s surprised when the Doctor (who seems quite strong and a little serious) suddenly smiles #and shows her a trick to get extra sweets and chocolate out of the machine #and then tells her to hurry because the check-in sweep of Rose’s ward is about to begin #you just KNOW Rose would be Martha’s most combative patient but in all the best ways #always asking what that machine does. what that incomprehensible doctor scrawl means. if there’s something she can do to help other patients #and Martha loves it. loves how much Rose cares just like her. they gossip and they chat about their daily lives. they get closer #everytime Martha has to scold Rose for sneaking out of bed or doing something she shouldn’t #(even though she secretly adores it. she’s never really mad she just wants Rose to take care of herself as well as other people)#she sighs and says (in her most firm but still fond tone) ‘Miss Tyler-’#only to be struck in the heart again with a cheeky grin and a ‘yes Doctor Jones?’#and also Rose loves that Martha is a doctor. that Martha cares. that she works overtime. that almost all Martha’s patients love her #and the ones that don’t just aren’t kind people anyway. that Martha doesn’t condescend. that Martha cares and cares and cares #that Martha likes all the things about Rose that other people think make her difficult and trouble and too much #she likes the things that other people don’t like in Martha either. thinks she’s magic.#Rose Tyler is always going to love her Doctor. and Martha Jones will always love somebody who thinks everybody matters #I’m like. obsessed with them?? move OVER space boy (actually nine can get involved in this. lmao ten stay away)#they’d have been so cuteeeee #rtd failed to see the lesbionic possibility but I am no such coward. no fighting over boys here #martha jones #rose tyler #dw #doctor who

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tenderanarchist · 6 months

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Dreamt last night that my parents told us they’re getting a divorce but continuing to coparent until the kiddos are out of the house and it felt so real and reasonable that I didn’t remember otherwise until my dad shushed my mom in the middle of talking and I remembered she still has to deal with his shit

#he’s so rude and condescending to her like do you even love this woman or is she an annoyance to you #and yeah my mom can be really annoying and anxious and neurotic #but that doesn’t mean she gets to be demeaned and pushed away #ugh. not my circus etc etc #I just want them both to be happy

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my-little-random-world · 11 months

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𝑲𝒆𝒓𝒓𝒚 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝑺𝒖𝒔𝒂𝒏 | ER Season 2 Episode 19 — Fire in the Belly

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hella1975 · 1 year

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i can’t believe not even 24 hours ago i was in an exam like that still feels like something i hallucinated

#bc i have accommodations me and all the other academic silly guys go in a little room so it means there’s several different exams happening #and I have EXTRA TIME but the invigilator was like ‘you have reading time right?’ (different things entirely)#and my dumbass as we know can’t refuse a free thing regardless of the context so without hesitation I went ‘yep!’#like I’ll take it if ur offering babe!#which turned out to be such a pain bc in the 15 mins of reading time ur NOT ALLOWED to start the exam u just have to look at it #and my exam was stupidly short bc my lecturer is a lazy gimp so I was just sat there like 🧍🏻‍♀️#FOR FIFTEEN MINUTES #and the invigilator was really condescending? like defo got told she was in the room with all the neurodivergent and learning disabilities #and took it to HEART like she came over at one point and went to tell me where to write my name??? but obvs I’d already done it???#and I left early and before everyone else and when I put my hand up and said i was finished #she went ‘you’re finished???’ really shocked like #odd. very odd. also I had it’s been so long by the living tombstone stuck in my head the entire exam #THAT was not peak #it’s been so long…. since I last have seen my son lost to this monster… to the man behind the slaughter… 🤪🤪🤪#MY DAUGHTER IF YOU CAN HEAR ME I KNEW YOU WOULD RETURN AS WELL IT’S IN YOUR NATURE TO PROTECT THE INNOCENT IM SORRY THAT ON THAT DAY #THE DAY YOU WERE SHUT OUT AND LEFT TO DIE NO ONE WAS THERE TO LIFT YOU UP INTO THEIR ARMS THE WAY YOU LIFTED OTHERS INTO YOURS #girls will unknowingly memorise the fnaf speech. watch out josh hutcherson #hella goes to uni

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im-still-watching-anime · 5 months

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whyyy do some people flirt by treating you like a child

#what do you MEAN you were flirting when you said that to me #it was condescending babe!!!#hello naruto blog im here to complain about Dating™️#i hate it and no one should do it #i KNOW a lot of flirting is being really nice to each other or sweet etc #but i just REALLY hate when people go too hard and verge into the babying territory #like i KNOW what you’re going for and i’m TRYING to be understanding and patient #but girl please CHILL #and treat me like an actual human adult for two seconds because good lord #i thought i already made it clear i wasn’t interested too but!! she keeps going!!#like why!!#pls leave me alone!!!#ughhhhhh #sorry #i am just Very Tired of this #and people being condescending or babying me just really gets on my nerves even when it’s not with bad intentions #flirting BAD sometimes #life junk #venting

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fideidefenswhore · 10 months

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they really did write an entirely different character for s3, huh?

#i mean this speech always felt a little thin considering the s2 arc #but i never caught this specifically #she does not give a fuuuuck about jane boleyn in s2 #she's clearly upset and she's smirking in the bg. and scripts are intentional. if she was to look sort of sad or pensive that would be #the direction...#she has like a nice little moment with madge in s2 but there's zero continuity here #granted this is not a great colour on anne as a character here either #she's at best treating her sister in law as a nuisance #she's condescending to her and clearly just trying to mitigate reputational harm to her family #but she does for all that have an emotional reaction; pity at least #she certainly doesn't find it amusing #really turned amy dunne into andie once the dust settled.#and it was...reallllly boring and not at all believable #thus this feels...very shoehorned in #*sad or pensive or pitying #i must do it quietlyyy~#ie i was doing it all along it was just quietly #sorry you didn't notice :)#the tudors #and that's not even touching on how insane this pat little speech is considering how she came to the throne #'it was not your fault that your husband betrayed you' hmm?#also for all that viewers (apparently? damn) hated anne when the first season premiered #this is a marked contrast to anne in the first season #who is very circumspect in the background when she's serving the queen #not smirking or giggling #she only confronts when she is confronted first #you even see her tenderly smiling in the bg when princess mary is being honoured with her mother #obviously that shifts once mary becomes a threat but this just comes from...nowhere #there's no similar scene of jane smiling sweetly at elizabeth in the bg of s2 #yet in this scene we also have her go out of her way to send her money? lol

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littleroundmirrors · 2 months

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i had to have a gynecological exam/test today (that’s i’ve been stressing about for 5 weeks) and there was a last minute doctor change and it was painful and uncomfortable and inconclusive. i cried afterwards and stress-ate too much chickfila. i’ve been dissociating on tumblr and tiktok for like 4 hours ever since, because i don’t know how else to cope with Big Feelings by myself. it’s food, dissociation, and sleep - the Three Horses of my Poor Coping Skills apocalypse. but yeah… not my best day.

#i should’ve just tried to reschedule with my doctor #but i couldn’t bare to wait much longer and her schedule books out too far #but i don’t like the woman who did it #she’s got condescending mean girl energy #so i felt brushed off….#we’ll see if the biopsy has any clues #i hate doing all this shit alone #i really needed a good hug afterwards #but such is life #personal

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siriuslynephilim · 7 months

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everyone is doing it better than me

#met this cool ca woman and everyone was hyping her up by calling her CA (name)#and she said haan yaar kehte raho accha lagta hai sunke lagta hai kuch achieve kiya hai #ye sunke hi ek toh rona sa aa gaya #fir she sat with me and we talked about work and internship etc and she was saying how she did #pass even scored well without coaching at all fucking levels 😭#she said she just practiced sums every sum 4 times that was the trick #and how i should get experience in every field but the work hours are more in audit and tax but it's okay she managed and i should be able #to as well #i mean she wasn't mean and condescending at all she was really sweet actually but just #how do i be you ma'am #i want to be focused and cool and confident but i can't fucking move past the empty hole in my chest😭😭

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timelesslords · 1 year

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Need somewhere to complain about tlou2 discourse without actually getting drawn into tlou2 discourse

#tlou2 spoilers (sort of)#I don’t even necessarily disagree with people who defend it but they’re so fucking condescending about it #like yeah I’m not a fucking moron I get what the point of the game was #that doesn’t mean that I can’t critique parts of it that were badly executed or made for bad gameplay #people also have such cut or dry opinions of Abby #I really liked her arc in the game but that doesn’t mean I can’t still hate her forever bc of what she did #I don’t even want her to die. I just hate her. like ??? are we not allowed to have complicated feelings here?#bc y’all have been telling me that’s the point so #I keep seeing the discourse on my tiktok and I’m tired of it 😭

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surpriserose · 2 years

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the day people stop analyzing the shit out of anything britney spears does and calling her crazy for goddamn anything will be so wonderful i will not be forgiving people for treating her like a different goddamn species tho ✌️

#Sorry got like actually pissed reading posts had to get this out because like oh my god??? Oh my god are you fucking serious #If you need context britney went to jack in the box and some random worker saw her crying in the car and went like #Awwww 🥺 everythings gonna be okay 🥺🥺🥺#And she didnt like that so she...posted about how she didnt like some random guy coming up to her and taking pity on her??? You know like #Anyone would? Like ive been in that situation and if youre crying in public youre already NOT having a good goddamn time and probably just #Want some peace to eat some goddamn burgers???????#Like sorry thats so gross to go up to a stranger and be like awww its gonna be okay like??? I dont know you fuck off ???#Obviously your opinion might vary but like Obviously britney felt that way #But because shes britney its not a normal response its proof she needed to be under a conservatorship??? Proof she cant control herself and #needs her license taken away??????? Like all fucking real responses i saw btw #She didnt even say anything to this dudes face she just posted about it????????.?????????#And if being mean to service workers was a goddamn crime you know the first people up are the ones currently calling britney out #With the SAME self serving condescending pity!!!!!!!!!!!! Like!!!! Die!!!!!!!! You didn't give a shit about britneys situation or mental #Health or ableism or anything!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#Sorry i really needed to get that out....feels good #Ableism #Ask to tag

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agenderarkham · 2 years

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My birthday is coming up and I already asked if 2 of my friends a few weeks ago if they could make it back in town for a little get together and they already said yes/ probably and I asked again last night and now it’s probably no and I know it’s bc they live like 2 hours away now and they’re busy and it’s not on purpose and that I shouldn’t be this upset but I’ve already been feeling lonely and miserable and like my friends don’t actually like me and now I’ve made myself cry at 7 am on my day off and it’s just not fair

#I don’t understand why the second I turned 18 my birthdays have just sucked now #last year my dad not only forgot which whatever I don’t care but the only time he really talked to me was to scream at me for apparently #just being the worst kid and then my mom agreed w him and said that I made it really difficult whatever that fucking means as if they’re not #the ones who raised me and now if the one other person I asked can’t come I’m just fucking canceling my birthday I guess bc I’ll only have #one person who’ll be able to come and watch w my luck they’ll probably cancel on me too 🙃#AND now I have to tell my mom and she’s gonna make me feel worse about it bc every time she comforts me she refuses to learn how I like to #be comforted and ends up feeling condescending or tries to force me into physical contact which I don’t really like when I’m upset and I #know all of this upset is probably just bc I’m on my period bc even tho normally I can barely squeeze out two tears when I’m upset when I’m #on my period if I get one bad thought to spiral while I’m alone it’s all fucking over but yeah #this is how my holiday weekend is starting !! can’t wait for my birthday in 2 weeks maybe I’ll just fucking call out sick and leave town to #be by myself bc being alone on purpose just kinda sounds easier at this point #ALSO GREAT bc I’m still crying I have a fucking headache and want to go get some water or something but I Can’t bc my mom is up and she #doesn’t know how to leave me alone when I’m upset and don’t want to fucking talk to her about it #vent #don’t rb #Arkham rambles #arkhamrambles

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disturbedheart · 2 months

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I love having been absolutely traumatized because then I talk to others about how my manager treated me and they're like oh yeah no I'd have definitely cried if I were you because she could have worded it much better and I was kinda hurt about it but was like okay I guess?? That's fine 😭

#and I had a good conversation with my manager at lunch....then I have the worst most...#awkward terrible encounter with her while cleaning the breakroom and its like really?#everytime I feel good its ruined a second later and she keeps talking to me like I'm a child..#or??? idfk but it feels condescending everytime she's like did you clean the bathroom?? did you clean the bathroom??#lets make sure we're doing that. like first of all bitch. I clean the bathrooms Saturday.#second of all she NEVER means clean. she means stock. which are 2 fucking different things #I set 3 rolls of toilet paper and refilled the soap Saturday. and by Thursday it was all gone again??#and she was acting like I just? neglected it? on purpose? and she KNOWS where the supplies is??#like you fucking stock the bathroom if YOU'RE The one who noticed and used it??#nowhere in my job description does it say I'D be the one stocking the bathrooms constantly #like we're all adults why are we running to ME when toilet paper is missing #if you KNOW WHERE IT FUCKING IS???#I ended up adding jt to the weekly list because its just. not on there. and its different from clean the bathroom.#and also DUMB BITCH I WAS GONE FOR 2 DAYS??? IF WE RAN LOW WHY DID YOU SOMEHOW EXPECT ME TO KNOW????? IF I WAS ?? NOT THERE?? OMG #I wanted to kill someone #you're gonna talk to me like I'm a dumb forgetful child...then treat me like your mom/maid??#ive never seem GROWN ADULTS make more of a MESS of a room too #that breakroom gets absolutely FILTHY in 2-3 days after cleaning it #since NO ONE had the common courtesy to just pick up even SLIGHTLY after themselves 😭😭#like why is it lowkey the kennel tech who has to be a janitor a handy man and also a kennel tech

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my-little-random-world · 11 months

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𝑲𝒆𝒓𝒓𝒚 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝑺𝒖𝒔𝒂𝒏 | ER Season 2 Episode 19 — Fire in the Belly

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