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soldier-poet-king · 3 months

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Anyway I'm going to bed I have work tmrw and SOOOO much going on w both work AND trying to get everything ready for my move (I'm not remotely ready, AND I'm fighting off guilt trips from my Nonna and trying to stake out boundaries with my parents since I'll be in the same city)

But also was working on my embroidery today and fuckin why did I think The Kiss would be a good art piece. Why

#im torturing myself but committed to finishing it #its turning out rlly well!!!#im just. big emo pining #also the mean lesbian at church kept trying to recruit me today #and um just. ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. having some feelings about this crochety older single woman #who is almost certainly a lesbian but super trad catholic #and her quote unquote friend. and like.#all that angst aside #SHES JUST REALLY MEAN AND CONDESCENDING #the duality of fran

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seventeendeer · 13 hours

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just watched the barbie movie everyone was discoursing about last year and I can't help but feel like a lot of the problems in its execution could have been avoided if the kid character's arc had been about learning to embrace girly stuff as an act of rebellion against the adultification of teen girls while barbie went full butch transmasc

#deerchatter #i know why they didn't do that obvs the writers haven't a fucking clue what a feminism is and the bosses prefer it that way #but it's fun to think about what a good version of the premise could have looked like. there were interesting pieces on the board #the kid character could have been interesting if her arc had been about rejecting barbie bc of increasing awareness of the association #between femininity and weakness. but in wanting to gain respect she started acting and dressing like a young woman because she's at that age #where girls begin to be rewarded for being a more subdued and quote-unquote natural kind of feminine.#she could have become friends with barbie as a symbolic way to heal her inner child #meanwhile barbie takes the you-can-be-anything message to its logical extreme and decides what she wants to be is the one thing mattel will #never let her be: gender non-conforming #these 2 character arcs and where they intersect could have told the same story much better i think #emphasis on personal choice/growing up/social rebellion/embracing what will really make you happy #while also covering multiple ways to handle gendered expectations. pick out the parts you like or throw the whole gender out. both r good!#anyway i have to admit this movie was disappointing. i knew it wasn't gonna be woke but i thought it would still be a bit more fun ....#was hoping for a guilty pleasure kind of experience but even setting aside that hard thematic fumble it's underwhelming :(

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heddagab · 1 year

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ONCE UPON A TIME Golden Queen in 2x08 "Into The Deep"

#dedicated to everyone who thinks Regina doesn't know about him and Cora 😘#ouatedit #once upon a time #golden queen #goldenqueenedit #regina mills #reginamillsedit #rumplestiltskin #rumplestiltskinedit #gqs2 #ouat 2x08 #ouatall2 #tvedit #myedit #Also girls if your boyfriend talks like that with his ex or quote unquote friend RUN #he's clearly not over her/way more into her than he's letting on #and they have a bond he's not letting you break or know about

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jamessunderlandgf · 28 days

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🖊 + ⚔🩸faustina🩸⚔

FAUSTINA was gifted her name by his holiness escribar. she was an orphan and didn’t have one, so he gave her the name faustina, which means “fortunate”— which. is ironic. because she certainly is not fortunate. he thought so as a sick joke, of course.

how fortunate for her to have been found and given purpose, praise the miracle, etc etc but she is NOT living laughing or loving cs she’s in a constant state of having to prove herself and not once has it worked in her favor. the single time that it does is when she’s DYING.

#she literally for all of time is trying to be what the legion is cs she’s like. diet legionary #sorry ariana i’m going off abt blasphemous lore that means nothing JSBFJSN BUT #she spends all of her life either starting from scratch on being a person as an orphan in albero #or post-albero— trying to prove herself worthy of the gift that she was given #which is straight up just purpose and a sense of belonging to something or someone #her only tether to personhood pre-legionary is her childhood friend eva who she stopped speaking to after being quote chosen unquote #because eva was a symbol of what she was trying to push behind her #and other things. eva belongs to someone else so her story is what it is but yeah #AND THEN #her tether to the legion was being SOMEONE WHO MEANT SOMETHING #like she was tricked— as was EVERYONE canonically into thinking that the miracle is cool and good and great and whatever #and she realizes it way too late— as she is DYING #she was never meant to get that far she was lied to!!!#anyways.#she’s living a tragic lonely life #can’t even get any tail cs the one girl she likes is dead #asks #oc: faustina

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hopefulsapphic · 6 months

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"she's aroace so she doesn't get it"

actual conversation i overheard from my friends about me btw. i'm fine tho

#this is about me telling her she should be able to spend three week without her hook up/gf adjacent #and getting mad that she ditched me and our other friend to hook up w her girl #we're all drunk and we've all talked about it and it's like okay really but.#i'm just like. vaguely sick of my quote unquote normal friends not understanding my perspective when i try so hard to understand theirs #ignore me i'm a mess

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nolongerexistingsadcatface · 7 months

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most of the time virginia does not exist. cus i think nyo america going through the 1780s-1800s alone while spiraling into unhealthy isolationist coping is a very amusing thought

#like yes girl u dont need friends…! u dont need family…! u dont need human contact…!#i read this really fucking good insane fic a couple weeks ago that had countries literally go insane if they didn’t interact with other #personifications at least every few years or maybe decadeish #which is an amazing concept but im hesitant to try to implement it into my canon bc i dont the isolation to be an actual known thing ig?#i’d rather it be something very lowkey and not actually ‘dangerous’ Quote Unquote in the sense that its not actually INSANITY thats #befalling her its just very unhealthy worldviews #but those viewpoints dont actually make her a Danger to other people #at least not more of a danger than every other country is to each other shrug

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sherokutakari · 10 months

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Hot take that should be cold as fuck but y'all STILL don't know how to behave about nonbinary people

Not All Nonbinary Characters Use They/them Pronouns

ex:

Beelzebub: Nonbinary, They/Them pronouns

Pollution: Nonbinary, They/Them pronouns

Crowley: Nonbinary/Genderfluid/whathaveyou("not a lad"), He/Him pronouns

and yet so many people in fandom won't fucking stop using they/them pronouns for Crowley. Broski has confirmed pronouns (he/him) except when she's female presenting (she/her) as confirmed like 3 years ago by Neil Gaiman himself irt the I think Mesopotamian flashback. And maybe he does use they/them sometimes, but like... there's a difference between That Being Possible, and people just going "lol nonbinary? That means that there's a THEY!"

Stop defaulting to They/Them for nonbinary characters!! It's not hard to not misgender a character! You're not woke for ~assigning them the ☆correct☆ pronouns~ you're just virtue signaling, and letting enby people see your true colors~!!

Nonbinary she/hers exist

Nonbinary he/hims exist

Nonbinary continues to not be a secret third option with defined pronoun Must Bes

jesus this is not a hard concept

#Crowley Good Omens is just the most recent example #but like this happens e v e r y t i m e #not a secret third gender not a secret third gender not a secret third gender not a secret thi #im calling this the Wacko Warner Dilema and you're all failing this class #and ftr this is completely separate from irl people #using they them pronouns #especially with queer people #is at WORST overly polite before asking their pronouns #but if i see you calling an ACTUAL REAL SHE HER OR HE HIM HUMAN GENDER QUEER PERSON THEY THEM #AGAINST THEIR EXPRESS WISHES #I'M BORROWING MY NEW FRIEND'S FIST FULL OF RINGS #AND DECKING YOU #RESPECT PRONOUNS OVER PERSONAL BIAS #YES EVEN IF YOU DONT AGREE WITH HOW THEIR PRONOUNS QUOTE UNQUOTE SHOULD WORK #IM FUCKING GOING TO EXPLODE

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ronanlynchbf · 11 months

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saw a trans person at work 2day health restored by 10000000 million XP

#coworker said she was totally flirting w/ me but i literally didn't realize..+ i can't flirt at all unfortunately so. maybe good i didn't #notice. she & her friend seemed really cool and fun though i wanted 2 be their friend so bad actually...#wish one or both of them worked where i work because it's so much easier to talk to ppl when you're in the same work environment. to me.#the girl i work with now (only one my age) is super nice but some of the things that come out of her mouth....she made some off remarks abt #megan thee stallion & said old music is much better than the music now bc women didn't show sm skin back then so already i was like 🤔🤨❓#AND THEN SHE SAID SHE MISSED QUEEN ELIZABETH BC SHE WAS QUOTE BADASS UNQUOTE.....LIKE. GIRL.#excuse me if i don't find colonizers and racists to be the definition of badass..but anyway so. we can't be friends bc she's literally like #the whitest White Girl ever + is constantly talking shit abt ppl behind their backs to then turn around and be nice to those same ppl she #just talked shit about when she's in direct conversation with them. like sorry but that makes me immediately think you're talking shit abt #ME behind my back also to other ppl like that's so two-faced stop it #anyway. TRANS PEOPLE I LOVE U SO MUCH FOREVER UND EVER UND EVER UND EVER UND EVER UND EVER UND EVER UND EVER UND EVER MWAHHHHHH ❤❤❤❗❗

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ankhisms · 11 months

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have to go to a doctors appointment and help my mom with doing stuff today and im hoping that can take my mind off what day it is but i also am aware that im going to appear even weirder than usual if one were to look at me and my behavior in public and im just hoping my mom doesnt say anything or notice bc i really do not want to have to explain even a little

#i knew my abuser irl the abuse happened irl along with him harrassing and stalking me both irl and online after i got away from him #so my parents knew him. and somehow that makes it harder to say anything. i mean my parents vaguely knew that he sucked and that #we stopped being quote unquote friends. but its hard even all this time later to be like. yeah mom he traumatized me and i feel weird #because its his birthday today. and i certainly cant say that i dread my dads birthday tomorrow because #thatd make her upset. sigh

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mieczyhale · 1 year

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i typed out these tags in my last reblog but it didn’t / doesn’t feel right to attach my personal... not opinion really, but also kinda?? i guess?? to it. so a sc of the tags are going under the read more

#there's a difference between interest / education / or being blessed to know someone who wants to share their holidays with you #and taking it upon yourself to put together a quote unquote passover at your church where sure you'll be respectful but also the #fact that you're doing it at all is disrespectful?? like you can try to keep christianity out of the day but you're still christians #and its still a church #and its still not yours #so #..#i love my mom #and her interest in judaism and jewish historybeliefsculturemusicetc. has been around for most of my life. like truly i never thought twice #about any of it until recent years so its not /new/. but that doesnt make some of the things she does okay #i have talked with her about this #once #it wasnt in-depth for reasons but i mentioned that i follow this jewish friend on the tumblr (as like 'hey i have a reliable source!') and #that judaism is a closed practice so christians really shouldnt be like.. doing their holidays or taking things that belong to them #she listened and was.. idk.. understanding?? but it didnt change anything so #yeah #anyway #seeing christians brought up in that post made me think about this #and ive never talked about it #dunno why #but i felt compelled to ramble about it now so here we are #maison speaks

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rrottentothecores · 1 year

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went to my mama’s for several days and stole some of her toilet paper & also she gave me $100 cash, then called my student loans to get my payment reduced for awhile so i no longer have to sell hole to pay my bills, i can just do that for fun aksjsjsjsj

#one of my friends described herself as ‘not a sex worker a sex enthusiast’ in how she did quote unquote sex work. that it was just people #paying for kinky & fetishy customs and she did it partially for the money and partially bc she just likes dressing in lingerie and calling #ransoms on the internet little sluts. aksjsj. that is what i imagine. but idk how to really do that bc she does not have anxiety the way i #do. she’s deeply mentally ill but hers is more adhd esque plus general apathy which is not the same as mood swings & social anxiety.#anyway this is me saying i’m willing to show u my feet aksjsjsj

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tiredgn0me · 2 years

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i feel like im supposed to be socialising with new people and making new friends but i really just cant be bothered

#its so exhausting #and disappointing #but i only really have 1 friend #and my sister #so i feel like i should be trying to make more friends #but i tried for years and all i did was get hurt #id just like to meet someone cool and nice who doesnt turn out to be kind of an asshole #ive had someone tell me theyd be friends with a rapist #ive had someone tell me joking about raping women is quote unquote locker room talk #i got closer to an internet friend only to find out he used the word jew as a slur/insult #he also said faggot even tho hes a straight cis guy. and was a crypto loser #there was one person who just kinda stopped talking to me pretty much #there was that girl who started dating her rapist again and went off at me for not wanting to talk to her anymore #that dude who im pretty sure was just a nazi #and these were the most bearable people i could find #everyone else is fucking boring and incapable of holding a conversation #talking to myself #blah blah blah

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priestfrommidnightmass · 2 years

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forgot i can’t be myself with my (ex?) best friend anymore

#nick thoughts #she straight up barely talks to me anymore #like. i have to start every conversation #once she gives me my book back i’m probably gonna have no reason to talk to her anymore #it’s so depressing i miss having someone who i could talk abt music with #and call and be best friend and talk abt a future together #now i don’t really have that #it’s so depressing like fr #this was supposed to be a funny post but i’m sad. can you tell #anyway. all i want is my book back i don’t know what else to do 😭😭#im asking for so little at this point #i’m not asking for friendship or love or attention or ANYTHING.#all i want is my book #once i have my copy of meet me in the bathroom back i won’t be depressed anymore i won’t worry abt friends quote unquote #i’ll be whole

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relnicht · 2 years

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I really need to become a dictator because I hate when I'm involved in a community group and someone is saying what I should and shouldn't do and is making the decisions themselves

#or i need to be the president but that's no fun either and then you still get people saying you should and shouldnt do x and y #but if I'm a totalitarian dictator they have to agree with me and do what i say yknow #what these people are saying just frustrates me #like dont give this boring task to this guy bc i dont just wanna give opportunities to my friends. i asked my other friend instead. like #idc about either of your friends but it just doesnt make sense like you still want to give this quote unquote opportunity to a friend #like idc who does it but #like it's nice you think this is such a great opportunity but realistically it's a boring task that no one wants to do #like does your other friend even want to do it or are you the one saying it would be good for her cv #like I'm just involved in this bc i dont have a choice bc nobody else will like idc about the whole bla bla such a great opportunity #bla bla give people fair chances #when like nobody wants to do thi #i think im just an old bitter man and i dont get the youngings being all wow this is gonna change the world #it's not and just let me do my thing and maybe you can boss me around for a thing or two but unless im getting paid i dont want a boss #and why do you want to just meet and talk about things with the other guy that's 2/3 of the exec committee? like im also in that #i just dont like change and young ambitious people who want to change the world and tell me to do this and that and criticise me for #not doing more when i dont want to be doing anything at all #like to me this is not a great opportunities #to me this is a burden/responsibility #yeah i suppose thats it. people telling me i should act like it's an amazing opportunity when from my experience it's a burden no one wants #also don't enjoy someone with less experience being the one to expect to take all decisions singlehandedly

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teddylupin · 7 months

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#*#no more crushes for me i think #enough is enough #i’m going to be soooo normal and i dont have to be happy abt my friend #quote friend unquote #telling me alllll aboutttt her crush on this guy who has not interested her until i told her i liked him #instead of being weird and jealous and sad #im going to be a good friend and a doormat #and not have a crush anymore #pick your battles #this man is mayhaps not worth pursuing and i can move on #jesus fucking christ i am so pathetic!!!!#what is wrong with me!!!!#i am really giving up on everyone!!!!!!#i feel so fucking sad!!!!!!#i am isolating again!!!!!!#i am isolating again to make everyone else’s life easier #life is easier without me in it #my feelings are too much #invalid #useless #annoying #i want to be kinder to myself but idk how to give myself grace #without giving up #i refuse to compete or beg anymore

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slayter-kinney · 8 months

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you! pansexual person who says you’re only attracted to “women and afab enbies!” quick, how can you tell if someone is amab or afab without spouting terf/transphobic rhetoric!! hmm…. too slow

#went to pride yesterday and unfortunately i am now a hater toward some people in my community lol #my friend is like very openly and proudly pansexual but said literally verbatim #“i’m not into amab people rn #but then is like yayyy i wanna flirt with pretty women #like girlie….. some women are amab #…… you’re sounding a little transphobic rn #just makes me sad #and idk if we’re close enough that i would feel comfortable confronting her and being like #hey love ya but the way you phrase things makes me very uncomfortable #love and light to my pansexual siblings in the queer community but it rubs me the wrong way when it’s all #oooh im attracted to hearts not parts #but that’s obviously not true #tries so hard to be the quote unquote woke sexuality but it’s just as entrenched with transphobia as any other sexuality unfortunately #anyways #okay to rb i guess idc #but don’t clown #mine

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