I have more things to say about the current state of sex positivity actually which does basically boil down to “telling girls they should have tons of sex because its empowering is not better than telling girls to never have sex because it makes them sluts” like either way girls are pressured into certain actions to appease the men around them. in the case of the latter you obviously have men who think women are more valuable to them if they have never had sex. but in the former category you have (an increasingly mainstream phenomenon of) young men raised on violent and dubious porn who expect their women partners to agree to rough and dangerous sex acts with basically no discussions on safety or consent or anything. this is NOT a critique on S/M sex — frankly mainstream sex culture has a LOT to learn from BDSM culture, which is generally very good at safety and ongoing affirmative consent. but instead of learning those lessons, all that young men took from that culture was “i’m allowed to hit and choke my sex partners with no regard for their safety or desires because i’m a dom.” and then the young women having sex with them — who now think they are now behind their peers or unempowered if they aren’t having any sex, good or not — are engaging in genuinely traumatic sexual encounters for their first time and accepting that as their baseline for good (hot, consensual, safe) sex. not to mention the swaths of underage girls (children) saying stuff like “i can’t wait to turn 18 so i can start an onlyfans!” and having the general response be “she wants this so therefore it is empowering” without ANY internal critical analysis on WHY you want these things and which social forces are pushing you towards them. and suddenly the current progressive culture of hyperindividualism and utter refusal to examine the nuance of anything ever (“everyone’s feelings are valid”) is arguing that all of these trends are, in fact, good, because all of them are technically consensual. and if you talk about any of this people call you a swerf.
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oh hoshi how much i love you im so happy we think alike and are intertwined. i've also been thinking about choso and geto a lot but like together and oh my god its ruining every part of me. like i'm thinking maybe like a rockstar au but also rockstar au's always happen but then i was thinking like college student type shit like idk but i kinda just need them inside of me :P
- megan anon
OMFGGGGGG MEGAN I MISSED THESE CONVOS OF OURSSSSS !!! 🗣🗣🗣 okay okay hmmmm rockstar aus are so fun, but I get it; they happen a lot; HOWEVER, I have been thinking about Rockstar! Choso like months ago, like you being his number one fan and you win a chance to have a one on one session with him, and you surprise him with how much you know about him that he begins to be infatuated with you – someone who's the star fan of the least popular member of the rock band...fuuuuuck that would be such a cute story, actually (and you know the boy has dick piercings, let's be real!!). He would sneak you in during the band practices, pull you in somewhere quiet and have you suck on his dick bc he got hard from glancing at you watching him practiceFUUUUUUCKKK 😫😫😫😫
Now college student aus have been frequent in my mind as of recent, esp with geto!! I can't help but think of him as a bioengineering major, in sports like lacrosse or hockey. He's such a heartthrob, easily pulling your heart the first moment you guys are assigned on a project together. And he gets feelings for you HARD but in secret, like sneaking himself to be close to you while he explains something on the textbook or patting your head or back when you get something right!!! Oh shiiiiit imagine him having you stay in his dorm for the weekend when all his roomies are away, and he uses this opportunity to FINALLY have you under him!?!? placing soft kisses in the crook of your neck while he praises you for taking in his girth like good girl MAAAAAAANNNN LETME STOP!!
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— OCS AS ART MOTIFS.
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DAPPLED SUNLIGHT
you see all the beautiful things in life. you're always looking to learn and be better, especially from the world around you. thank you for believing so strongly in goodness. art reference: woodland glade by david poulter
A LONELY PERSON
though you may be quiet, your heart is full of longing. you spend much of your time with your own mind, and that may very well be a beautiful thing. art reference: automat by edward hopper
BURNING HOUSES
your heart flies wild and free. you have the mind of an artist, spilling with ideas and dreams. art reference: burning house by lois dodd
THE MOON
you're a lover, a dreamer. you gaze wistfully at the sky, seeing the infinite gorgeousness of the natural world and wishing it could translate to your real life. art reference: the starry night by vincent van gogh (because, of course, what other moon could i possibly include?)
HANDS
is your love language touch? i suppose it might not be, but i also suppose you might just like being held. you might see the art in human bodies. art reference: loneliness of night by kaye donachie
BLOOD IN RELIGIOUS DEPICTIONS
you think in violence, but not necessarily antagonism or hatred. it is more just in the physicality, the vulnerability of it all. art reference: prometheus bound by peter paul rubens
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bessxhenry and i must know how you'd coffee shop them. (also have you written any other fic for them???)
Oh you have no idea how many different ideas I just cycled through before finally landing on this one I'm still not totally sold on it but I feel like I'm never totally happy with the M Sec stuff I write. I feel like I have a hard time getting Bess's voice right
But in answer to your question yes! I have! I wrote one Christmas drabble for them last year, and I have an unpublished fic about them and Stevie where I basically went "what if they interacted with one of my blorbos?" and didn't wait for an answer. Anyways, without further ado! My much longer than planned ficlet, beneath the cut
The clatter of pans in the background tugged Elizabeth’s attention away from the paper she was writing for what had to be the hundredth time, and she winced. Usually, this off the beaten track coffee shop was less busy at this time of day, leaving her in peace to finish her schoolwork.
But today, it was packed. Every table was full, and there was a long line stretching back from the counter. Things weren’t going to be getting any more peaceful any time soon.
Closing her laptop, she slid it into her bag. It was probably time to head back to her dorm room and see if she could get anything done there. The day had been enough of a loss already.
She grabbed her cup of coffee, which had long since gone cold, and moved to her feet. Elizabeth took one step towards the trash can— and immediately crashed into one of the other customers.
The coffee slipped from her hand, splashing across the front of the man’s shirt, and Elizabeth let out an involuntary gasp. “Oh my— I’m so sorry!”
Hastily, she grabbed some of the paper napkins from her table, apologizing as she did so. “I didn’t see you coming— it’s so crowded in here and loud and I was just leaving—”
“It’s okay,” the man assured her, offering her a smile as he accepted the napkins from her. Despite herself, Elizabeth found herself giving him a quick onceover. With dark hair and warm brown eyes that reflected his friendly smile, he was… definitely not unattractive.
“It was my fault, anyways— I was distracted, wasn’t looking where I was going,” he continued apologetically. “The least I can do is buy you a new coffee.”
That made Elizabeth’s eyebrow shoot up. “I’m the one who dumped a drink all over you. If anything, I should be offering to buy your coffee.”
“Well, if you’re offering,” the man said with a half-grin. “But it’s not exactly good manners to tell someone to buy you a coffee. This gets the job done a lot better.”
Oh, so that’s what’s going on. Giving him a polite smile that, with any luck, communicated a polite disinterest, Elizabeth said, “I was actually just on my way out, I have some studying to do. I appreciate the offer, though.”
He accepted that with a nod. “Sure. You’re at UVA, too, right?”
“I am,” Elizabeth said, and the man smiled.
“Thought I recognized you. I’m Henry.”
“Elizabeth,” she said, casting a quick glance towards the door. Henry seemed to get the point.
“Maybe I’ll see you around, Elizabeth,” he said, giving her a final easy smile before joining the line for coffee.
Despite her insistence that she had to leave, Elizabeth lingered just another second to watch him chat with the cashier, wearing that smile, warm as the sun. Interesting, she thought, and almost found herself hoping they did meet again.
However, it was unlikely— she had school to focus on, not a social life. And she wasn’t about to keep pining away for a boy she’d just met that day.
She headed for the door, and had almost made it to the door when she shot a last look over her shoulder. To her surprise, Henry met her eyes, and lifted his coffee towards her in a quick salute. Sending him a quick smile and a nod, Elizabeth pushed open the door. Focus, she scolded herself. She had work ahead of her that was bigger than some boy with a nice smile.
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