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knifearo · 6 months

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being aromantic is like. hey btw you're going to live a life that is the culmination of most of society's worst nightmares. sorry lol ✌️ but then you turn around and take a really good hard look at it and it turns out that living in that nightmare is fucking awesome and you get to wake up every day and take that fear that other people have and laugh and hold it close until it's a great joy for you instead. and being happy is a radical act that you define instead of someone else. and you're sexy as fuck that's just a fact of life i don't make the rules on that one

#aromantic people are just sexy i'm not making the decisions here it's just facts #course ur hot as fuck. it came free with the aromanticism #being sexy is just default settings for aromantic people 👍#hope this all helps. anyway i'm on my 'i hope i die alone <3 i can't wait to die alone <3' kick rn #i think the existential fear that people have of Not Partnering specifically is so. well.#obviously that shit is strong and it is SO awesome to be free of it.#realizing you're aro and you don't Want a partner can be such a hit to the solar plexus #cause society says that's the only thing that'll make you happy. so either you go without that thing or you force yourself #into doing something you don't want which would make you unhappy anyway.#so you think it's a lose lose situation and you have to come to terms with what amatonormativity presents as the worst possible situation #but then! whoa! turns out personhood is inherently valuable in and of itself and romantic partnering is just a construct!#and that nightmare is now your life to do with as you please... define as you will... structure as you want...#best case scenario. is what i'm saying.#every day i wake up ready to spit all that amatonormative rhetoric back in life's teeth by being alone and being happy #and it's so fucking satisfying. every day.#fucking JUBILANT being by myself. and i love being a living breathing 'fuck you' to the romantic system #you need a partner to be happy? oh that's sooo fucking crazy guess i'll go be miserable then. in my perfect fucking dream life lmao #yeah obviously it's the worst possible outcome on earth to die without a partner. so terrible. can't wait for it :)#aromantic #aromanticism #aro positivity #aroace #arospec #sorry to bitches who are sad about not having a partner. i could not give a fuck though get better soon #you couldn't EVER pay me enough to go back to a mindset in which my inherent value wasn't enough by myself.#FUCK that shit. absolutely miserable and a bad life outlook in general. like genuinely do the work w/ amatonormativity and get better #life is something that can be so fulfilling whether someone wants to kiss you or whatever or not #i'm on antidepressants and i have people i care deeply about. what the fuck would i need a partner for lmao

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theblacktiecacti · 2 months

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jay went to clown school. let’s talk about that

#art by me #jrwi riptide #jay ferin #i was drawing wherever the wind took me #and it took me to clown school jay #the best destination i could’ve hoped for #i feel like so much could be explored or expanded there in fanon #but i barely see anything #welp if there is none make some #sound off in the comments if you ever think about how jay rarely retracts into herself when faced with conflict #but instead goes to clown school or hitches a ride with the loserest boy she can find #and it’s the rare (and most impactful) moments when she responds differently #shutting down after the phone call with her grandmother #or blowing up after learning about lizzie and ava #or crying as she’s told to shoot her friend in the chest #but the every day conflict almost always gets humor as a response #which leads to very out of pocket moments but we love jay for it #oooooough jay ferin the way you express emotions is so important to meeeee #ALSO the fact that often it’s insult based humor or overly confident in self humor #let’s dissect that jay how do you relate to your friends in the hierarchical structure of the navy academy #did you feel like your humor had to subtly place you at the top? or you would not be enough? jay?#your relationship with kira hinges on fixing this structure by being better than it hm? let’s talk about that #let’s talk about how your life centered a lot around being the best even if not directly or intentionally #should i do a full analysis on this?#i kinda wanna do a full analysis on this #jrwi

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david-tennant-in-chairs · 2 months

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I have a theory that dramatic lighting just follows him around of its own accord

#david tennant #david tennant in chairs #legs for days #just like all the limbs #soft scottish hipster gigolo #good lord he's beautiful #the eyes the hair the nose the everything #perfect bone structure #plenty of room on that lap #i wanna take a bite out of those drumsticks #the only acceptable kind of manspreading #theater boys are a special kind of snack #I'll help you run your lines sweetheart #and run something else too if you're good

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andy-clutterbuck · 10 months

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#EXCUSE ME BUT THE NOSE™#Andrew Lincoln #*#andygifs #your bone structure my dude #shoutout to nigel and laura for giving their son his face #his n e c k #ouija board party at my house #bram stoker wants to talk #STUBBLE #why is his nose so beautiful #one day your lips will not make me want to bust through a wall like the koolaid man #but today is not that day #EYE CRINKLES #there's that urge to rub up against something like a cat

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rustchild · 4 days

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not to do discourse or anything. but one of the things that is very funny to me about the whole "soft fantasy escapism world with no homophobia" trend is that they all wind up looking the same, while books that genuinely seriously engage with the ways in which queer people respond to repression are more likely to go in wildly divergent specific directions. The response to stories that uncritically replicated modern models of homophobia in settings where they made no sense was to uncritically replicate models of queer 'normalcy' in settings where they make no sense. whereas actually engaging with the nuances of living in those systems gives you access to the wide variety of specific experience that exists in real life. something here also about how writers in the imperial core attempt to imagine a world without the colonial spread of homophobia as a tool of empire but don't actually know anything about the diversity of sexual and gender structures that exists in pre-, post-, and noncolonial communities. and so have a thing that their settings Aren't, but not a thing that they Are

#one day i'll finish traitor baru cormorant #but it is not this day.#idk how salient a critique this is i'm not up to date with the Modern Fantasy Zeitgeist so i'll own some ignorance #but it is always funny to me when an author is trying to show how Queer a society is by being like #in this world... a woman is married to Two Men #And No One Thinks That's Weird #and then we stop there #how does your polyamorous society handle property inheritance #what other structures do they have #like in real life there are so many answers to that question and they're all super complicated #blah blah blah #disk horse

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stopthatfool · 8 months

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hi hello I thought I'd share some of my sketches/unfinished sketches of ice and mav cuz they can't leave my head. (GET OUT! GET OUT! GET OUT!)

Idk why I made him say hello sexy. and idk how to make the picture smaller... ice right in your face!

and the other unfinished guy on the left is supposed to be mav. but he will most likely remain indescribable pencil marks until the end of time.

AND! thank you for my mutual @woodsywingman for reminding me that unfinished sketches are cool and awesome in their own right!

#ice right in your face!#i'm very proud of that drawing i think i really managed to catch the likeness even tho val kilmer is SO hard to draw #that bone structure #just pure silliness over here #need to see his skull so so so so bad #val kilmer plz let me feel your brow bones and the bridge of your nose please and thank you #maybe i'll finish that drawing one day....#top gun #top gun 1986 #icemav #maverick #iceman #pete maverick mitchell #tom iceman kazansky #art #sketch #fanart #top gun fanart #stopthatfool draws

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wildstar25 · 5 months

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G'raha looked so serious while he pleaded his case to venture into the World of Darkness with the Warrior of Light. The sudden conviction in his tone had Arsay at a loss for words. Still, she did not hesitate to meet his request with an accepting nod. He was an important friend and in the passing moons that they'd come to know each other, a strong fondness for him had taken hold of her. The prospect of helping G'raha find the truth behind his mysterious inheritance made Arsay's heart pound. It was the perfect venture for them to embark on. The first of many, she hoped. The two turned towards the impossibly tall spire that dared to pierce the heavens above. Arsay's resolve strengthened in its presence. When they next find themselves gazing at the tower -with their quest completed and the world no longer under threat of total destruction- she'll properly ask G'raha to be a companion in her travels. A grin crept its way onto her face as her gaze shifted to him. If Arsay could find it within herself to bare her heart to others so readily just as he does… perhaps their future adventures will find them together, hand in hand.

#ffxiv #wolgraha #WOL posting #G'raha tia #Arsay Nun #graharsay #idk just a random passage in my head that I needed to get out #im not a writer and im not pretending to be one but it was in my brain so sorry if its not as readable as I think it is #anyways imagine you are the loneliest catgirl in the world #and you meet a guy who is so swagless and cringe but in a charming way and he connects with you on a fundamental level #and you become really good friends and every time you show up he smiles in a way that makes your heart do somersaults #and you start thinking that maybe people actually like having you around not just when they need you to kill and destroy things #you let yourself open up a little and you're met with kindness and you realize you are very in love actually #but because you're still figuring out how to talk about your feelings you wait a little too long #and that guy seals himself up in a tower and tells you he'll think about your heroism in the future #and you are very sad and angry about this but thats not allowed so instead you put that energy to being the hero of all time #and every day you go to work you see the structure that reminds you of him and you cant let go of those what if feelings n ur cursed 5ever #would that be fucked up or what

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matt-lifesage · 15 days

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you know the new season of doctor who is off to a great start when an episode i thought was pretty good comes out, only for fans to proclaim it's singlehandedly killed the franchise, then a week later an episode I'm more lukewarm about has saved all television lol

#maybe need to give boom a rewatch #like the first half hour was great but i just don't think 'and then the power of love saved the day!' is-#-a particularly satisfying resolution to what up until that point was a pretty grounded scifi story #as grounded as 'bomb that turns your quantum structure into an explosive' can be i guess #ending kinda dropped a potentially great episode to just okay for me #(says the guy who thought the fart joke was a good payoff to a previous episode so what does he know lmao)#doctor who #fifteenth doctor

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princessithaca · 23 days

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can't believe i, a certified musical enjoyer and woman who has seen all of glee, am saying this but. not enjoying the recurring musical numbers.

#they just feel. odd? out of place? not desperately well written?#didn't mind the one in the xmas special it felt like a zany 'fuck it might as well try' discraction strategy #but the twist at the end was like ??? huh. also can i be bitchy for a moment. if you're going to make your point be #'good music is back now! we've got lyricsm back!' well then said lyrics have to in fact be good #doctor who #may regret tagging this but fuck it im being an opinions haver #gibson and gatwa remain very charming and watchable if a tad underwritten. but it's early days there's time #idk. i have more thoughts bc i really badly wanted to like it!! i want to love doctor who again!#but it just didn't feel very who like? can't put my finger on it tbh. like i watched the 4 specials and they all felt very who!!#this...does not? like structurally and vibes wise #iona.txt #tag talk

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goldkirk · 4 months

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your kindness is a beacon in a very dark world

anon, I caught site of your ask the other day, and I was so touched and surprised and grateful and embarassed and guilty and amazed and floored that it changed the tightness of my chest and then made me feel warm-on-the-emotional-inside and I went and did some meditation about it lol. This was so kind. I wish I had better words for it, but you taking the time to think of me and think of this and come and type the message in my ask box just because you felt like it was worth it to send it to me is just flabbergasting and delightful and I'm trying to accept all the emotions I have about it in turn. You are so kind. This was such a lovely thing. You're so kind.

this was a beautiful beautiful message written in a beautiful beautiful sentence and it was a double joy to read!!! this is going in my little folder of saved messages and ao3 comments and other kind things to remind me from other people that I'm not unlovable and that people care a lot and love is a thing that bounds between us like a deer jumping from heart to heart :')

thank you <3

#katie answers asks #Anonymous #i hope you're having a very beautiful day and i hope you never stop playing with words. your sentence is very beautiful #it's so rhythmic #it's like your sentence structure itself helped convey the concept you were describing in your words #[lies down on the floor and stares up at the ceiling for a While #with my phone lying on my chest as I think about this ask]#add to journal #for bad days

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boxwinebaddie · 22 days

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everytime i rem(ember) that at the end of rm jersey has short hair something inside me screams and dies

#nina speaks #like Goddaaammnit Dude #it wasnt enough that they literally SHOT his ass #they had to cut his beautiful goregous curly boy HAIR too???#soooooo criminal holy shit count your fucking Days bitch!!!#like i am not saying he didn't look good or his bone structure didn't carry like he looked FIERCE it was a good change of pace #BUT IT WASNT RIGHT!! THEY MURDERED LONG HAIR JERS #smh i just know he woke up after three days hopped up on soooo much morphine all confused looking down at ravenstan #like why is there a beautiful weeping angel holding my hand my face feels weird holy shit am i dead...oh my god...WORSE #aM I BALD???? AM I UGLY??????? JHLKSKDSSDLd REEEAL #like good news u survived being shot bad news we had to cut your hair like jk i'd actually rather die i look like justin fkn bieber #pour one out for short hair yersey...he was mad but he served #kyle was horrified but stan thought he looked cute <3 #soz i had a vivid dream abt this last night and had to share #my supermodel son

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mothsakura · 10 months

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attempted to replicate the graffiti style in rw RB's not doing too good :( i think he might require a bit more than one bandaid like maybe two bandaids

#bro got rotted :(#rw #rain world #iterator #digital art #art #rw oc #iterator oc #rain world oc #rw iterator oc #imagine waking up one day and your overseers see this graffiti on your own structure #smh gives RB even more of a reason to hate ancients #body horror cw

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bunnyb34r · 3 months

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Wow just fucking wow

I sent in a medical records request in october? To get life insurance through work (why not right?) And my stupid dr never sent them in.

WHY DID I JUST NOW GET A TEXT FROM THE INSURANCE COMPANY THAT THEY JUST RECEIVED MY RECORD?!?!?!??!?!

Fucking unbelievable

#marquilla #they give you like 60 days to get the records. this fucker took like double that. what the fuck.#he's such an incompetent dr as in his office is just so poorly structured that if you do not have them send something in #RIGHT THEN when youre there watching its a fucking toss up if it gets in #and i just never contacted them bc i felt it wasnt MY FUCKING JOB to make sure they got the request that I SENT THEM #and i said well if they get it and i get approved it was meant to be otherwise ill try again some other time.#honestly i only still go to him bc he gave me a disability parking card with no problems like i expected #he was like yeah sure ambulatory cane user yeah you have fibro and cfs mhm got it 👍👍#where i thought he'd be like weeeell do you REALLY need it? i mean you work without it... (bc i only do 4 hrs and can pace it)#but like god help you if you want a new rx for an inhaler for your well documented asthma 🙄 had to ask my allergist the next time i saw him #like a year later and he was like... what have you been doing without one??? like bumming off mom sgdgdggdgdd and drinking warm water while #breathing very measured breaths like the school nurse made me like sgdggdgd im fine i just want to have a new script so i have refills and #fresh inhalers if i fucking need one but apparently my dr didnt think i did 🙄 my allergist actually called in two shgdgdgd #he was like get this bitch TWO inhalers and an epipen NOW

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andy-clutterbuck · 1 year

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