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Unpopular opinion: people don't get to choose what kind of family they're born into, and this includes people whose families have more wealth. But people do choose whether or not to be assholes to those people, based on stereotypes and presumptions (about ego, attitude, etc) that may or may not actually be true for that person. And in those cases, the person with the wealth isn't the issue.
I know someone who got an inheritance and every time we talked about it, they started crying. They felt so guilty because they didn't "deserve the money" and they knew how hard it is for someone to get that amount, and they just wanted their parents back.
Don't be an asshole to someone based on the circumstances of their birth, period.
#this goes BOTH WAYS#also because i think it has to be said: someone coming from a wealthier family doesn't mean their life wasn't shit or full of hardship#like illnesses abuse etc#we don't get to make a bunch of statements about them as a person just because they have x amount of money. we have no proof of any of it#they CAN be grateful humble etc if they come from a wealthier family because it doesn't automatically mean they don't have to work hard#i'm sure a lot of em are acutely aware of how impossible it is for the average earner to get a certain amount of wealth#because they were literally in that position themselves before getting whatever wealth that was given to them#like. i'm super bitter about the overall wealth inequality situation in general it's insane#but blaming individual people who had no role in creating the problem is wrong. even if they gave away their 100ks what would it do?#it's a systemic issue and tbh if i had wealth to give to my kids i'd want THEM to use it to have a more comfortable life#and that's not selfish or wrong#okay that's all thx#money#wealth#bullying#stereotypes
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You have a good heart
#is just something i felt about thinking ...do i have a good heart#do i need to change or should i still be like this#people tell me i am kind but what if i am actually selfish and never did stuff out of kindness#what if all i thought i did because i thought was right it was wrong#but peopel still say#“you have a good heart ”#i think Mob would think about it sometimes#nothingbizzare art#mp100#artist on tumblr#mob psycho 100#mp100 fanart#mob psycho fanart#shigeo kageyama#kageyama shigeo
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The way some of yall mischaracterize Ratio as being stoic in chill when in reality he is 24/7 resisting the urge to rip everyone around him a new one is crazy to me like. He cares so much, so much. It’s unhealthy, he loses the idgaf war every time because Ratio is the least nonchalant person ever like



He was this close to breaking character and throttling Sunday like you cannot tell me he wasn’t planning a murder in this scene. Ratio straight up calls Sunday a crazy bitch but everyone brushed it aside 😭
Honestly his entire conversation with Screwllum is just him tweaking, watch it on YouTube the VAs performance is amazing, you can here just how much He Cares

Genuinely, Aventurine is way better at concealing his true feelings that Ratio. Ratio may be acting for the sake of the plan but the way he truly feels about anything he’s doing always seeps through, it’s why he apologizes to Aventurine in 2.0 in their staged argument scene. It’s why he is as mean to Sunday as he can be. It’s why him pretending that he “hates” Aventurine makes him act so silly. Ratio can’t fully commit to the bit, he can’t force himself to not care or to be someone he isn’t, because fundamentally Ratio CARES and that is something he is incapable of hiding, alabaster bust or not.
The problem is that him expressing his care is often done in a rude and/or blunt manner which people tend to interpret as stoicism or apathy when it’s anything but. Ratio’s vial that he gives to Aventurine is short, sweet and gets straight to the point, because that’s the easiest way for Ratio to express his emotions, even if it’s often detrimental for him and anyone else around him. However Aventurine understands him quite well, and knows that although brief, Ratio telling him to “stay alive, survive this and keep on living” is how he truly feels towards Aventurine, and that’s enough to keep him going.
Underneath Ratios carefully crafted marble facade is a man who cares so much and is so bad at expressing it and I wish the community in general, especially Aventio shippers would acknowledge that more. Ratios true moments of sincerity are brief, but they are anything but stoic. Let the man be soft, it’s in character.
#This turned into a mini essay whoops#I hold Ratios party voiceline for Aven so close to my heart#Not the EN one idk what the translators were on but CN is UGHH it’s so good#Someone else can point out the potentially ableist undertones to how people view Ratio#I’m not gonna do that again because the last time was a disaster#“He’s selfish and cruel and narcissistic” *concerned glance*#Like I know some of it is just hoyo players having the media literacy of rocks#But like theres something wrong there just is it sits so wrong with me#Begging yall to write him correctly in fan content PLEASSEEE#dr ratio#aventurine#aventio#Not necessarily a ship post though
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The hug!!
This one was once again commissioned by our dear @i-am-as-normal-as-you-are and we actually talked about this scene quite a lot. Charles is still going through it, and he doesn't even feel like he should be getting the hugs he needs. Poor boy.
#dead boy detectives#dbda#payneland#edwin x charles#reverse verse#edwin is the one to initiate the hug this time#in this verse the boys actually hug quite a lot#because charles loves it and edwin can't deny him anything#but it's usually charles who starts#the rest of the events of the episode are pretty much the same#but for this version of charles the way everyone loved the so called dragons while they actually sucked#well it hits a little too close to home#not to mention he's already struggling with niko being there#with thomas being weird and coming out of nowhere#and the crow king being after edwin for his own actions#he hasn't dare to ask for the usual forms of comfort he usually gets#but edwin knows him and sees him as his savior#and charles sees this and thinks “ah i've manipulated you and made you believe i'm good”#but then again he's too selfish to prove edwin wrong right?#better act like a good person for the rest of eternity#(he is a good person he's just a little fucked up and won't admit it)
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The tragic idea that the Betrayers loved their siblings so much that it ended up being what drove them apart. They didn't want to settle for anything that could hurt their family, and mortals were doing so, either directly (a mortal usurping one of them) or indirectly (emotionally hurting them during the Schism by just. dying so much). To the Betrayers, it wasn't worth it. They wanted their beloved family to leave and go somewhere that wouldn’t hurt them.
To them, it's the primes who are the betrayers. The primes were motivated by more than just love for their immediate family - they loved their creation, too, and more than that, felt a responsibility for it. They would rather fight their own siblings than leave it.
We saw all the gods love and protect each other during the opening of Downfall. The Betrayers were not uniquely evil from the start. They wanted to save themselves and their family from hardship and suffering, even if it meant leaving their creation, their game, and in response their siblings locked them away. Not only do they not love mortals, they view mortals as this corruptive force that somehow turned their family against them. Do they think that, if they succeed in exterminating them, the Primes will be freed from their influence? Maybe - perhaps some of them are waiting to forgive and embrace their siblings, but far from all, I suspect. Asmodeus certainly expressed during Calamity that he didn’t so much want to be reunited with his siblings as he wanted to punish them. He was betrayed by the ones he loved most for the sake of a game! Maybe togetherness and forgiveness was once an obtainable goal, but not anymore. Even if the Betrayers succeeded in ending Exandria, the Primes would never forgive them, and they would never forgive the primes. Their family can never be whole again because of, as they see it, the toxic influence of mortals. So they hate mortals for this influence, but more than that, they hate their siblings for being so weak as to fall for it.
#the betrayers were selfish in wanting to choose the gods' wellbeing over all of exandria#but they don’t see it like that. to them the primes were selfish for choosing a stupid game over their family - the only thing that mattere#sighs wistfully. still a bit sad that there's no betrayer pc's. would've been interesting#but their presence is still really cool don’t get me wrong! no one plays asmodeus the way brennan plays him#i just. imagine being a regular human teenager and then you go through anamnesis and realize youre a god who hates all mortals#what did that look like? were they conflicted? attached to their mortal families? did they immediatly turn bad again?#man i would love to see the actual anamnesis process PLEASE#critical role#cr3#cr3 spoilers#downfall#cr spoilers#nella talks cr
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uncle aaron in spiderverse fucks me up so badly because here is a man who has done terrible, unforgivable things, and he loves his nephew very much
#augh... augh#like he's selfish and he chooses the wrong path in order to stay afloat but this#n his love for miles r not mutually exclusive#the whole thing about how he wanted miles 2 look up to him what if I explode#srry no other iteration of him holds a candle esp the comics when it comes 2 his death#I am an itsv Aaron Davis apologist man#and the lack of content surrounding Aaron n miles makes me so sad ToT#itsv#atsv
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you wonder why your cunt is often soaked with his cum when you wake up in the mornings—parts of it already leaked out, smeared and sticky between the inner of your thighs. you would know if your husband satoru fucked you in your sleep, you would’ve felt it, he is that big. but the truth is, as you soon find out, that he has a secret little thing, a morning ritual if you will, regarding that achy hardness in his boxers upon waking up he likes to involve you in, bc otherwise the relief is not that sweet. so, he strokes himself when you sleep still, his head slightly dipped in your cunt—holding back, but barely, from thrusting deep inside you—as he carefully works the load in his balls out, and inside you….why would he waste it after all when you’re right there beside him
#— ai rambles#i am so violent about this#if you think he will diligently get up and go to the bathroom to jerk it#you’re wrong#he has 0 shame he will do it right then and there#but he’ll let you sleep still…he cares for your rest but he’s also a bit selfish too#tw somno#tw somnophilia#[ ♡ ] — satoru
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Legacy Day will always be funny to me because when Raven and Apple see their futures it’s just:

#now I will always be an Apple white defender#but….yeah she was wrong for that lmao#Raven witnessing horrors#Apple: you’re so selfish :(#I love her#like it’s funny#ever after high#eah#raven queen#apple white#legacy day#justmythoughts
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i've already made posts about this so many times but every time the raven queen's ascension gets brought up and its talked about like she did it for immortality or purely for power it makes me go a little insane because the story of her being a follower of the god of death before her and taking his place specifically because he didn't respect death is one of the best things about her lore in my opinion. that one of the biggest differences between her and those who failed attempts at ascension is that she did because of faith and not to spite it.
#critical role#the raven queen#i do fully understand that theres no reason for most of the characters to know this btw#and that given how wizards in the age of arcanum were. it Makes Sense to assume that#but something within me compels me to bring this up as often as possible.#and also dont get me wrong. she absolutely is still an example of extreme wizard hubris.#now i do absolutely think there are fascinating discussions that could be had about the implications of this reasoning#but the idea that she did it for selfish reasons of immortality or such and not out of her own faith and respect of death and the dead#i just love her okay!!!
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The King's last gift
Danny was tired, tired of being responsible for protecting the world. At first it was just Amity but the ghosts began to explore more and the halfa was exhausted. He was the only hero available and it was taking its toll.
He knew he couldn't go on like this, let alone with his coronation around the corner but he didn't know what else to do. He knew he couldn't interfere with the world after the crown was on his head. The world would fear him (maybe even more than now) and protecting them with so much power in hand could do more harm than good, but if he didn't protect them, who would?
His core ached at the thought of all those people begging for a hero who wouldn't come, so Danny took desperate measures, and cheated a little.
He visited Desiree; she watched him with a raised eyebrow, curious. And Danny did what he forbade long ago, he wished. He wished for the future and for humanity itself, he uttered the words he had wanted to say ever since he knew he would not be able to visit earth for a long time.
"I wish for the world to be safe even when I no longer live in it, I wish for there to be someone who can protect it, even if it's just a human."
Desiree blinked in surprise not expecting the King who had "forbidden" her to do such a thing. She smiled and nodded. Her power grew exponentially but neither she nor Danny said anything about it. The halfa would not undo that wish after all.
In New Jersey, Thomas and Martha Wayne were celebrating the birth of their son. Neither of them noticed the spark of magic entering the baby, nor the boy's unusually blue eyes. Bruce Wayne, the Ghost King's latest gift to mankind, had been born.
And years later, when the Justice League was formed and everyone was talking to each other, John Constantine looked at the dark knight curiously, wondering if he was aware that he was death's favorite.
#dpxdc#ghost king danny#immortal danny#he protected earth for a long time#But Danny knew he couldn't protect them forever#Danny loves humanity but they are not his people#not anymore#his people are the Infinite Realms inhabitants and they would desperately need him after the coronation#especially after the disaster that Pariah Dark left behind#Clockwork warned Danny that he couldn't be the hero anymore#his powers would grow and it would take him a long time to control them#But if he doesn't protect humans then who?#dp x dc#dc x dp#Danny wished for a hero#and Bruce Wayne was born#maybe Danny changed his future and his parents wouldn't have died if the King hadn't wanted something so selfish#but Danny can't help but be selfish#he loves humanity too much despite how much they hate him#John Constantine is wrong though#Bruce is not Death's favorite#he is the King's last hope
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“Please don’t doubt your goodness. Whenever you fear yourself becoming an echo of another’s sins, or undermine your own efforts to help others by doubting if you’re motivated by the right reasons, or be weighed down by thoughts and fantasies that flutter away without ever leaving your mind. There are many reasons to pause, and consider the wisdom of what the virtuous path is, but diminishing your righteous heart is never one of them.
“Even the smallest blade of light can slash darkness, but a bonfire can warm many hands.”
#someone saying even selflessness is selfish because it can make the selfless feel good annoyed me today#and another dear to me had to be reminded that they hadn’t done something wrong#don’t diminish your light#don’t question whether you are good#just do as Aurelius said#be good#Paladin code
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genuinely baffled by how some people see homura as evil. how on earth do you watch rebellion and come to that conclusion
#not rb#pmmm#the entire time I was binging madoka with a friend I was. waiting for her to do something really fucked up#that would justify all the discourse I've seen/heard about#even my friend was like “oh just you wait”#plot twist: the self-declared demon is just a mentally ill teenager! many such cases#homura has such an. obviously warped view of herself no wonder she fucking acts like that#how the fuck does anyone take what she says at face value???????#I would even go as far as to say that she's not even a particularly strong judas parallel#her betrayal of madoka is selfish‚ but it's born out of a need to protect her.#it's an extension of what she was trying to achieve in the original series#judas betrays jesus out of envy. out of obsessive hatred. not‚ notably‚ out of any concern for his wellbeing/happiness#even the more charitable interpretations of judas depict the betrayal as something he understands to be a pointlessly cruel act.#he gains nothing/very little from it. often‚ he only harms himself#homura absolutely has something to gain from betraying madoka‚ but the thing she gains IS MADOKA#it's unhealthy! it's twisted! but it's love!!!! it's badly coping with grief!!!!!!!!!!#it's selfishness born out of selflessness!!!!!!!!!!#homura's situation is so uniquely fucked to begin with that I can't really understand how anyone can see her acting against it as “evil”#the law of cycles doesn't really “fix” a lot. it's better than the original status quo#but I can't blame homura for wanting to sever madoka from her role and trapping her in mundanity#because she's not wrong!!!!!!!!! madoka SHOULD be a regular teenage girl living her life#contract or not#idk. homura better do something really fucked up in walpurgisnacht rising if she wants me to take her demon shtick seriously. anyways‚
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thank god i watched the show with my brain otherwise I would've been unhappy and sad and desperate for a season 16 all the fucking time.
#sam was SELFISH WHAT THE FUCK!?#dean was ALWAYS cleaning up his messes?#i think girlypop forgot to wear glasses and typed the wrong names.OR☝️#they got amneisa. poor thing. always confusing the names of the brothers#like seriously takes like this make me so fucking mad like TELL ME YOUR HEAD IS SO THICK YOU SKIPPED THE FIRST THREE SEASONS#(and you were wearing ship goggles the whole time)#when sam decided to jump into the pit (not knowing he'd be able to come back) and accepted an eternity of hell and torment from lucifer#did theh see a blob on the screen whenever sam was there. like you've got be terribly bad at middle school comprehension to have a take#like that.#this fandom is hell. tiktok is full of dumb numbnuts#sam winchester#dean winchester#fandom wank#spn#drowned post
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Just saw the post about stan raising shermie in selfish shellfish and the addition of protective shermie and it made me think:
By the time the two are reunited with the other Pines shermie is likely around the age to have started school or close to. What about that thing kids do when they learn something new, be it a new fact or rule, they have to share and make sure everyone knows. I imagine that stan managed to get a motel for them at least a couple of times. You know what motels have? Public access tv -> little kid shows that teach little lessons and morals.
Little Shermie watching an episode of something on people pleasing and how that's not always a good thing. Looks at stan and the others goes "huh..." Shermie having a tantrum at these adults and stranger who looks like his big brother for how they're treating Stan. And shouting Sesame street like teaching at them. About how stan never puts himself first and always takes care of him.
I just had to share the mental image of a toddler quoting something like elmo and having a better understanding in that kid logic way
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Oh. That would be the CUTEST!
And what is Stan supposed to do against this? Argue back? He tries, but the toddler refuses to listen to reason.
“Nuh uh, Wrong wrong wrong! Elmo said so!”
“Look, Shermie. That’s only true for good little kids like you. I’m all grown up and you’re my responsibility so I have to think about you first, got it?”
“NO! Wrong!” Shermie throws his toast at Stan and refuses to eat unless Stan eats first.
If Stan wasn’t so frustrated with this whole development, he’d be proud of Shermies manipulation tactics.
Stan tries to ban Sesame Street after that but Shermie cries so much that he has to compromise. Shermie is only allowed to watch it together with Stan.
And so they keep watching it all cuddled up under a blanket. And maybe there is a special episode dealing with child abuse/neglect in very simple terms and Stan just starts crying. It's hitting too close to home.
The stupid muppets tell him that it’s not his fault and that he has to reach out to someone he trusts even if it's scary.
Stan hugs Shermie tightly from behind, who is too enraptured with the show to notice his quiet sob.
“Hey Sherm, did you know we have another brother?”
#Selfish Shellfish AU#gravity falls#relativity falls#stanley pines#shermie pines#ask#child abuse mention#and then Stan is the one who reavhes out first#who knew all he needed was a toddler and a muppet telling him hes wrong#i don't think ive ever watched one full episode of sesame street so if they wouldnt talk about stuff like that#now they do#when theyre on their way to meet with Ford and the rest Stan tells Shermie that ford is much smarter that him#shermie tells stan hes wrong#stan is smarter#and he will never stop telling stan that 😌
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thinking about wasted potential of post-yj98 greta today. like could u imagine if they delved into how she adjusted to being alive again? if they showed the peeling back of some of the naïveté she had as secret, how jarring it is for her to suddenly be mortal again? that sound is too loud, she gets irritable. that texture was unexpected, she bursts into tears. she only takes showers, never baths. her friends have to constantly remind her to consider other people’s emotions because she’s so overwhelmed by her own. what about the first time she cuts herself on a piece of paper? or when she realizes her clothes don’t fit as well, that she’s getting older? how does her first birthday after being dead make her feel? we could’ve had it all
#oh greta. u were so interesting#i actually really liked that she was kind of selfish and very often wrong#i think it would’ve been cool to see idk. her friends call her out on it?#they’re not concerned about her going off the rails to the same extent. and she knows they mean well because she knows they care about her#this is definitely more hc territory but i do think her crush on tim was her conflating having a friend she admires as having a crush#i would like them to dissect that. i would like to disect it.#what’s bro yappin about#greta hayes#dc#yj98
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Chat did I cook?

#Mouthwashing#jimcurly#curly mouthwashing#jimmy mouthwashing#uhhh the demons got me?#guys I can like Anya and Jimmy. Anya has never done anything wrong and if you call her#selfish i’m going to side eye you i don’t give a fuck that she took that medication#she didn’t do ANYTHING wrong.#however I hope Jimmy kills himself. Oh wait
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