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Hello everyone. I'm curious about something.
What is everyone's favourite AU fanfic for "re-experiencing the experience" purposes -- that is to say
Which AU fanfic do you like specifically for how well it matches or deals with the themes of the original work?
(literally any fandom)
#fannish#fanfic#fandom#alternative universe#fanfics#IDK what else to tag this for visibility#I rarely ask for signal boosts on my own posts but I would really like this one to get around#and to get lots of replies and comments#and I wanna hear about LITERALLY ANY fandoms#And the only way this happens is if this gets way out of my loop
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So after barely 2 hours, my perfectly respectful byler theory/analysis (didn't mention mileven badly even once) was taken down because it was apparently reported MULTIPLE TIMES on reddit.
Another byler helped me contest the report, so the post is back up for NOW..... But I seriously need people to help me fight this bs, because I'm sure it's at risk of being taken down again. Please upvote it if you can <3
LINK TO THE REDDIT POST
#byler#also i genuinely dont get upset about the hateful or rude comments they're replying with on the post#cause i know for a fact that they won't provide any evidence or arguments to actually make my analysis seem wrong#it'll just be a whole lot of “you're wrong” “you're delusional” “mileven is endgame” with NOTHING to really back it up#so yes i just want the post to stay up to make a point#cause i KNOW it will help plant little seed of doubt in their brains#no matter how much they deny it#because they clearly dont have anything solid to say im wrong#just that i AM#lolol
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I have been following your work since the beginning. At first I just really liked your sense of humour and analysis of MDZS, but with time I started to really enjoy watch your progress in this drawing journey. I just watched your animatic and just wanted to say that I'm really happy for you, you're a really inspirational person.
I usually don't comment in anything and it's just because I'm really awkward about commenting. But I'm always accompanying your posts and seeing your notifications always make me smile, please continue with your good work!
(English isn't my first language, sorry for any mistakes)
Thank you very much! I've seen you around for a long while; I sincerely appreciate your support, no matter what form it takes!
#ask#fersona#(Posts that got stuck in my drafts...Pooh bear in the wall style. Stuck so long we're decorating it's ass).#As a fellow lurker and anxious person who struggles to write comments - I really understand the effort this took to write and send.#It's also an incredibly sweet message that I will certainly be looking back on when times get tough.#Thank you for being here on this journey with me! And I'm not just talking air here - I do recognize your handle!#From the other side of table - even a little comment does mean a lot. As awkward as it feels (especially if the person doesn't always reply#That little 'haha' in the tags *is* still seen and deeply appreciated.#At the same time! Not to make anyone panic but...we see you. I see the regulars who've never commented but like every post.#Artists do feel the love even if it is quiet.#So thank you for coming along for the journey! I am so glad to have made you laugh B*)#Please look forward to all the funny jokes I have in the future and the long road of art I have ahead of me!#Especially now that I've been getting into animatics...please send your energy my way as I will be shrivelling up like a prune.#Cheers! And thank you for brightening my day!
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Hi! I've been seeing your art reposted a LOT on pintrest. I'm not sure what your status is on being ok with people reposting your art but I thought I'd let you know anyway. The pintrest accs are:
@.Mik0mii (didn't give credit)
@.Pai0_Kai_ (gave credit)
@.ArrozConPolo_1 (no credit)
@.suilie4zui (no credit)
@.dustyfavre (credit)
@.Katsukiisama (no credit)
And about 5 million more QwQ
So when it comes to reposting my art on Pinterest, I’m personally okay with it! I actually find it kinda flattering to have my art reposted there
Though bare minimum I do want to at least be credited, so if you ever see my art on there uncredited just add the credit yourself in the comments!
#ask reply#I’m pretty lenient when it comes to reposting my art ngl#I get happy to see my work shared further#that’s what makes art special is being able to share it#I do expect some credit but this is also why I put my name in my comics#so credit is never fully lost#thanks for being concerned for me and my work! means a lot#also don’t harass or badger these users again just asking to credit me#or putting the credit in the comments work fine enough
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Here’s to all the beautiful little mistakes & wobbles in our drawings 8U8 🩵🩵🩵
#this is so sweet#comments#replies#i was lamenting how I can see every mistake I made in DxP REWRITE#Especially the twins - I fuss over them a lot & don’t always get it right.#I’ll probably go back & fix it someday BUT FOR NOW 8A8 🩵
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im gonna start posting fanfic recs btw whenever i find good ones. both here and my (awfully barren) 18+ account. because there are so many good fics out there with so few hits and fewer kudos and sometimes no comments period and it SUCKS because i REALLY LIKE THEM A LOT.. and i hope that by linking them here and yelling at everyone to COMMENT DAMMIT they might actually do it
seriously though any comment means a lot. most people who read a fic don’t even give a kudos. even if the fic wasn’t top tier, if you didn’t dislike it, hand over some kudos!! and if you liked it, comment!!!! even if the comment is one singular heart emoji it will be appreciated. if the comment just says “great fic!” the author will be happy. your comment doesn’t have to be this long winded gushing or analysis.
so many authors quit writing or lose motivation because the comments are few and far in between or just sometimes nonexistent. trust me when i say authors don’t care about how long or cool or smart sounding your comment is i promise!!!
i hope that mmmaybe recommending fics and telling people to comment might help fics i really like get more support maybe. and i, points at you reading this, hope that you will listen!!!at least a little….at least sum kudos….
#if u have the ability to reply to my reblog saying how much you loved the fic i recommended comment on the fic itself so the author can see!#especially since the rise of ai writing and seeing ai fics out there can be disheartening#make sure you let your writers know you appreciate them#you never know they might one day write a sequel bc your comment touched them#or might get the motivation to make more works.#(but don’t just comment bc you expect something out of it btw. sometimes the author might be too intimidated to reply ive seen that before)#im a huge yapper. if you can’t tell. lmfao.#and i mostly comment on guest. like 99% of the time because the fics are either really embarrassing#or i get nervous about them knowing me/finding my tumblr and thinking im cringw#bc i admire authors so much. and I get that nervousness! given I experience it!!! but guest mode EXISTS!!! most work allows you to comment#on guest mode!! the author CANT see the email you use for it!!! the only reason they even ask is to give you notifs if theres a reply to it!#a comment is still a comment even if on guest or an alt or your main#even if the fic is embarrassing shameful depraved smut you can log out and comment on guest. even if it’s embarrassing#because the author still worked HARD. it’s so hard to write. people don’t give enough credit to fic authors who do it for free#i had an account (now super abandoned) that had over 400k words. and that didn’t include wips#i reallg do struggle to write because i took a break for so long!!! i can write but not nearly as much as I used to!!! and it sucks!!!#support your authors guys. 1k words is an hour for the first draft at MINIMUM and another hour for revision and editing. and people get#pissy if a fic chapter is less than 3-4k words for some reason. that’s 6-8 hours of work at MINIMUM. likely so much more because there’s#also plotting and brainstorming and So. Much. Editing. stressing out over words and sentence structure. it takes so much time out of your#day. the only oneshot i have posted on this account is 2460 words. and it took me SEVEN HOURS#seven hours!!!! that’s a lot!!!! and for authors that have school or demanding jobs that kind of time is hard to come by!!!!!#and I hope i have convinced at least one of you to listen and go okay you know what. i will. because even if it’s a silly comment it’s loved#tldr support your local fanfic authors of you will be so stabbed. by me#fanfiction#fanfic#archive of our own#ao3#comment on fics#wick fic recs#that’s the rec tag btw. wow custom tags AGAIN i know. im doing what i thought i never would
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I read a lot of YouTube comments, and I respond to a lot of them too. I don't know if this is... uncouth or whatever, but I do.
Sometimes, I get comments which are wrong. Sometimes they're abrasive. People who think trigger warnings are excessive, or that something I've called racist/ableist/antisemitic, Isn't. I do talk back to comments like this. And you know?
A Lot of the time, it works.
Most people who reply back consider what I say, and I've changed their minds. It's not that I'm some great writer, it's often that they are genuinely... confused.
A lot of people simply do not know Why trigger warnings matter, because their only context is mockery and extreme examples.
A lot of people don't know what institutional racism is. If you talk to people about things they don't understand, you won't have a scholarly debate— you'll have an argument where both sides thinks the other is an idiot. I had this recently.

I come at people with sympathy and then, gently, advise them. Do not talk to them like they're idiots or scum if you want to change anything. The above comment is saying "ableism isn't real", but what they unintentionally mean is "I don't know what ableism is so I don't think it's real." This is the case a lot of the time, because people's only context for what these terms mean is increasingly mockery, memes, and political ploys.
I was once a mod on the discord of a large gaming youtuber, a phenomenally half-toxic place— most regulars chill, most random lurkers posting the most atrocious memes and not getting why it was a problem. The head mod understood protecting lgbt+ people in the rules, but didn't Get nonbinary people — he was under the interpretation they were real, but the majority were attention seekers. He cited an account on tiktok, whose schtick was gathering and reacting to "blue hair pronouns" cringe. This was his only context beyond the moral instruction "our rules should protect lgbt+ people". He would have put that rule up either way, but only through discussing it did mods realize this was his opinion, and could explain why it was wrong.
I'm not advising everyone has to talk to everyone this way, I'm saying if you're going to engage, consider trying rather than venting.
#Sorry sorry long post just on my mind#Piss on the poor website leave me alone with my mild hopeful concept of “talking works”#But just I guess yt is known for being toxic (I've had almost no hate amazingly) but. Reading so many comments I see it's not toxic but dum#People have bad reading comprehension and listening comprehension. And just don't know#A lot of people skedaddle bc they don't expect me to reply I think bit#Look the youtube backend app shows me recent comments whenever I open it.#Honestly the yt comments are mostly very nice bc I just get people discussing the book and I can discuss it with them
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Hello! another Gaslight District fan! I had like.. a lot of questions if you don't mind answering.. plus, I love your art sm! even if it's not TGD related👍️
So...
First off.. I wanted to hear your opinions abt TGD. 'Cause I loved it! and people complain about the pacing but honestly? I don't necesarry mind it.
'Cause, imo. There might be a chance that it won't have enough budget to get a full length season.. so, they tried to rush a few things to make the pilot appealing to their audience to make a lot of episodes to explore the potential story!
And Second!
how does it feel to be sort of the founder of the ship between Mud and Diligence???
I mean.. if I never saw your art in the first place, I think I might've just kept the ship idea to myself and let it just.. not known.
So, in a way.. I thank you for drawing them in your beautiful artstyle. That is just *Chefs kiss*
Anyways, tysm for reading this 'cause I can't imagine how many comments you get abt the ship lol. But seriously, you don't have to answer this! just reading it, or a quick glance would still be appreciated👍️
Have a good day/night!
Helo
1. I don't really see what would be wrong with the pacing of the pilot. Well I mean, I KNOW what is wrong with the pacing but that's mostly because it's not really a pilot. At least not a pilot they ever intended to pitch to studios. This is a pilot to pitch to the fans, hence why it's packed with lore and plot hooks to get people interested and excited. I'd call it an intro to the series more.
Besides just meaningless definition gripes, I think the episode was great. It's obvious the showrunner has a clear idea and vision for the world and characters. They don't need to have monologues explaining about characters because they show how they act and how others react to them. And their entire demeanor gives a lot of history. I like it when a show doesn't spoon feed you history and answers. I thought it was very solid for a youtuber indie project 👍
2. Well I mean, I don't feel much about it. Not like it's a super huge leap in logic imo to think it would be fun if Mud and Diligence started a situationship afterwards :^D Just normal part of fandom, and not really a big deal?
Thank u!
#gaslight district babbles#ask#tgd#and I do get like a few comments and replies to my posts but it is rare someone is actually talking to me#especially on tweeter people have their one man comedy clubs in the comments to fish for likes like 90% of the time#I've gotten very good at realizing people saying very offhand weird stuff is not for me. They don't realize I see all of it#Also lots of minors on this side of the internet bc youtuber indie animation fans seem to be omnivores#I've never watched hazbin. I saw the pilot when it came out and didn't like it ::^^D#And now I have people talking about those characters in my posts assuming I know what they're talking about#ANYWAY thanks for the ask I could go on more about why TGD is genuinely a very innovative indie project#long post
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See, regardless the intention with the new Nosferatu what I see over and over especially on Twitter with -no joke- over 400,000 likes are posts about how all this happened because Thomas was way too invested in getting a promoyion instead of staying home and fucking his wife
I mean, it's hard to have sex with your wife if you don't have a home. just saying.
Really, though, the victim blaming going on with these takes makes me so frustrated. Even IF we ignore that Orlok already knows Ellen and feels entitled to her, even IF we ignore that he is doggedly determined (now that she's married to someone else) to show up and reclaim her for good - Thomas. Had. No. Choice.
Not to rant at you, anon, just using your ask to go off on this narrative.
The thing is - Thomas is already in debt at the start. That it's to his friend doesn't matter to Thomas. Honestly it might make the debt seem even worse. He is indebted to Harding financially, he and Ellen are not off to the most secure start, he's already been away for a while due to the honeymoon - this actually is vitally important for them. He needs his job. He was already late - if he hadn't been so late or hadn't realized it, he likely would have stayed home longer. But he couldn't. Then when he's offered this big, lucrative deal, he can't refuse it. Knock commenting about 'if you close this sale, you're job is guaranteed' isn't just tempting him with success, it's also threatening him with failure.
What happens if Ellen relapses and they're destitute? What happens if Ellen is having her seizures again, the sleepwalking, the melancholy, what if it gets worse? Ellen of course is still in the sweet honeymoon phase and thinks that love will be enough to stave those things off because so far Thomas' mere presence and affection has worked. But the thing is, that high is going to come back down. It happens in even the most wholesome and genuine of relationships, and stress - especially financial stress - will not do them any favors. Will not do her and her mental health and her attempts to keep her bond with Orlok suppressed any good whatsoever. I mean, that's basically what is happening in the film. The more they struggle financially, the more desperate things get, the greater the fissures and cracks that form in their marriage, giving Orlok more opportunity to come in and use it against them. Which is quite literally what he does. Thomas staying home, refusing the job, etc., only changes the how and when.
Ellen doesn't quite get it because based on what we know of her background and her father, she's never struggled to make ends meet, she's struggled with wealth and status being used against her. Of course she comes at this from the angle of 'being in a wealthy household didn't protect me', which Thomas can't understand. Neither can Ellen understand Thomas' perspective of being in debt to someone, worrying about failing to provide. I don't think it's simply that Thomas wants to make Ellen comfortable and have a life like she used to - he quite literally is worried that he cannot provide for her at all, especially if she gets sick (mentally or physically).
Like, Thomas in the 2024 movie isn't solely and completely driven by financial success - if you contrast him in the film with how Eggers originally wrote him in the 2016 script or how he's portrayed in the 2023 remake, this Thomas comes across to be more of the mindset that 'having financial success and being of similar standing to Ellen and Friedrich will make everything fine and I will be good enough to deserve her love and his friendship.' The driving factors are really that Thomas a) wants everything to be will for him and Ellen and b) wants to live up to the rigid societal standards of his gender. He's insecure, and he's overcompensating. Which isn't great but is a relatively normal character flaw, and certainly isn't one that is so inherently damning. His love and concern for Ellen still factor into things. He's not turning into a money-obsessed, toxic masculinity-minded asshole or something of the sort. That's why as soon as he's no longer naive to this darkness in the world - the things that Ellen has known of all along - his motivation shifts entirely to protecting Ellen. He understands now that unfortunately, in this rigged, supernatural game they're all trapped in, money means nothing. Money can't save Harding and his family, it certainly won't save Thomas and Ellen. But even IF he had known that all along - it wouldn't have made a difference.
Thomas and Ellen still need to live, Thomas would have to leave for work, and would have to take that job that sends him over to Transylvania. And if somehow they could circumvent that? Orlok still would find a way to separate them. Orlok would still come to Wisburg. Thomas is not the hero in this story, he's the damsel in distress, and unfortunately for him, while he gets to make it out alive, the actual hero who saves the day does not. Thomas loses his wife, but that is not his fault. It's not his fault he got assaulted, traumatized, left for dead, and it's not his fault he couldn't save Ellen. It's not his fault she died.
Ellen was doomed long before she met him, and that wasn't her fault, either.
anyway, all this to say - I'm glad I'm not on twitter. I'm glad I can block people with these takes.
#theirwolf replies#anonymous#anyway sorry anon if this seemed like I was going off on you I was not#I just needed to get some things off my chest#I was ranting with you not at you#considering the people I already have blocked I am more than likely just preaching to the choir but#guess I needed to preach#Thomas Hutter consistently fails at living up to the ideals of his gender and that is why he is precious#he also never takes this out on Ellen; yes he is dismissive early on but not unkindly#his comment about the doctors even indicates imo that he's saying this for her benefit as much as his#he is trying to help her avoid behaviors that could make things worse#it isn't his fault that mental health at the time sucked horrendously and was vastly misunderstood#and 2024 was a lot kinder and more nuanced - in the 2016 version Ellen actually DOES blame Thomas for things#(partially because Ellen herself never summoned Orlok somehow Orlok found out about her on his own)#this is something Eggers removed thankfully#idk like heaven forbid he want to keep a roof over their heads and food on the table and maybe make something of himself#it's like ladykatibeth said on the subject - very 'stay in your place' victim-blamey classism#which is just YIKES imo#it's one thing to not like him or think he was a bad husband or boring or whatever#it's the victim-blaming that makes me so angry#it's ignoring what is literally in the canon text#Ellen summoned him and Thomas went on that trip and neither of them are at fault for the CENTURIES OLD UNDEAD NOBLEMAN'S ACTIONS#Thomas Hutter#Nosferatu 2024
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#tropius#HE SO APPY!!! FUCK!!! HOLY SHIT I LOVE THIS ONE#i've never looked at tropius up close before i didn't even know they had a little helmet and shit. this is WONDERFUL. they're SO appy#i hope you all appreciate this as much as i do because this is very good. i don't even know anything about tropius. jack SHIT. except that#they're so appy. and i will accept this. i gotta work but i've been too busy thinking abt how appy they are#i also started the process of remaking my main blog. bc it just had a lot of posts on it all the way back to way back in my past#and i felt like it was weighing the whole blog down and making me not want to use it. and that blog needed some housekeeping for me to want#to associate myself with it. so i'm currently in the process of coming up with a new URL before i start really renovating#so the hunt for miss ffp starts anew or something. unless i've lazily replied to you in a comment once and you remember my url#i've done that to a few of you. demifiendcruithne is one. shoutouts to you demifiendcruithne you're the best#then there was that one who assumed i use windows. despite recognizing that i'm “rather techy.” yuck!#had to respond to that one to clear up any suspicion that i might be a windows user. this is all totally unrelated and also will be#totally irrelevant by the time this post gets up anyway. hopefully. y'know if i haven't come up with a new url by then then#i mean. that's my fault. but this isn't gonna post until july 23rd. 10 days from today. so. hopefully!#see you all then
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For the requests, can I get a Medkit doodle please?

Here ya go :3
#No clue what to comment on this one for#Tumblr murdered my quality#WELL#This took longer to do then expected#I finished the lineart for it pretty early but then a lot of stuff came up including motivation loss and just straight up getting sick lmao#But I finished it :3!#HOPEFULLY I should be able to get to the other ones soon!#I have another comm I gotta finish beforehand but yeah!#art#artists on tumblr#phighting!#phighting fanart#digital art#phighting#roblox phighting#phighting roblox#phighting art#medkit#medkit phighting#medkit fanart#phighting medkit#phighting! art#phighting! roblox#roblox#roblox fanart#my art#ask reply#ask response#ask#Back to my hole in the Everglades I go….
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I can't believe it's Sunday again already! We've got a new chapter of The Red Room for you all to enjoy. Please give @connor-sent-by-cyberlife some love for the wonderful render in this chapter (as well as all the hard work they've put in on all the renders thus far!!)
The Red Room (45158 words) by rking200 Chapters: 7/? Fandom: Detroit: Become Human (Video Game) Rating: Explicit Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply Relationships: Hank Anderson/Connor Characters: Hank Anderson, Connor (Detroit: Become Human), Original Chloe | RT600, Markus (Detroit: Become Human), Elijah Kamski Additional Tags: Alternate Universe - Human, Stalking, Vomiting, Suicidal Thoughts, Top Hank Anderson, Bottom Connor (Detroit: Become Human), Connor is a Mess (Detroit: Become Human), Hank Anderson is Bad at Feelings, Alcohol Abuse/Alcoholism, Missing Persons, Abduction, Manipulation, Death Threats, Mental Health Issues, Zlatko didn't do it, POV Alternating, Slow Burn, Sex at some point Summary: Connor Stern is a law school dropout who dreams of making it big in the music industry. He manages to get into a special apprenticeship program with the musical genius Elijah Kamski and, despite working two jobs and struggling to stay afloat, feels like his dream is finally within his grasp. When Hank Anderson stumbles into the lounge Connor performs at, The Red Room, he becomes entranced with him. As Hank falls in love with Connor's voice, he ends up entangled with conflicting emotions and delicate situations. Slowly, his nights are filled with Connor's songs and his closeness, even if he feels he doesn't deserve it. They reach several roadblocks along the way of getting closer, some more dangerous than others. A collaboration written alongside Connor-sent-by-Cyberlife for the Reverse Big Bang 2024, told with a POV alternating between Hank and Connor. Chapters added weekly.
#hankcon#dbhrbb2024#dbh fic#chapter update#i always write these posts ahead of time but for the last three chapters I've forgotten to write the tags#so instead of posting at midnight i've been frantically typing my thoughts out last minute like this#lol#lmao even#ANYWAY#thank you for your kind words and support thus far#we've still got quite a ways to go#i've written about 30k more words for you all to enjoy#and I'm still going#I have a vision for how many chapters it will be in the end#but I'm hesitant to fill it out just in case I want to add or remove one before we get to the end#but there is an end in sight I swear!! <3333#sorry for the lull in replies to comments on the fic#i have a lot going on rn but i do want to see your reactions! and hear your predictions!!!
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it kills me a little whenever people misspell Eliot's name
#like on a tumblr post fine wahtever i guess. less chance of me reblogging it#but i get people arent always super into a show and i don't think eliots name really ever appears onscreen?#but when it's in a fic????#like you looked at the tags! and tagged it with his correct spelling! but the fic itself has it spelled wrong!#i cant i click out every time#EVEN WORSE is when they comment on MY FIC. THAT HAS ELIOTS NAME SPELLED CORRECTLY. AND MISSPELL IT. IN THE COMMENT.#and then i REPLY. WITH THE CORRECT SPELLING. AND THEY KEEP! SPELLING! IT! WRONG!#maybe i overnotice it bc my name got misspelled a lot as a kid but like#!!!!!!#CMON#m speaks
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i haven’t written in over a month, can someone bully me into working on lykmc ch18
#in my defense ive had a lot going on#but i really want to get back into it#yknow what i should do is reply to more comments on the last chapter#that usually gets me thinking about it again#lykmc updates#writing struggles
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omg thank you guys for 9k!!! i can't believe it 😭🙏
#i feel like i just hit 8k omg#thank yall so much for all of your kind replies and tags in your rbs 🫶🫶🫶#it's one of the highlights of my mornings when i get to go through and read all the kind and thoughtful responses to my work :'))#the comments on this app are the most thoughtful and profound of any others i've been on 🫶#so thank you for that!!!#thank you all for your support and love 🫶#oh and thank you for the response on my recent oc!!! i never expecting so many nice comments on him :')#i said thanks in this a lot but it still wasn't enough lol#thanks ❤️🔥#mods talks shit
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I occasionally wish to reach out to old friends/acquaintances I haven't spoken to since high school/some other even earlier time in my life, but I have SOOO little social energy even for required tasks (like making dr phone calls or etc), I never have any leftover for extra ones, and it would be very odd to message someone I haven't spoken to in like 5 years out of the blue but then take 4 entire months to respond back lol.. My natural curiosity with nostalgia/collecting details of the past/etc. (literally if I were born a little earlier I would definitely do scrapbooking or something lol) is very strong, but, alas, not strong enough to beat out the Social Issues Demons apparently
#facebook always does that 'here's a post from this day 8 years ago' thing. and I see old comments interacting#with people and it's so like.. OOOOO~~ where are they now?? what's going on? how much have they changed as people?#how much are they the same? this is fascinating. i should contact them!!' but then it's like... take that to it's logical conclusion though#you would contact them and then IF they even responded it would take you 80 years to respond and then they would#think there was something wrong or that you were trying to be insulting or something. To contact anyone I need to include an 85 page#disclaimer of all of my social issues & mental illness things. 'If i take 3 weeks to reply I promise it has nothing to do with u' etc lol#THIS is why more people need to be into phone calls/voice calls/some form of audio real time communication/etc.#I think one of the main things that's hard about messaging through text for me is it's so unscheduled and open ended#(plus it takes forever if you're talking about anything in detail and gets very long very quickly)#because like you can send a message and then just get a reply whenever. and then you're expected to reply back whenever#so it's like you never know when the response will come or when a new obligation to reply can come up? so it's like this sudden thing with#no outline?? if that makes sense. whereas a phone call is very like 'hello let's schedule a call from 10am - 2pm on thursday'. And you know#EXACTLY when the interaction will start and EXACTLY when it will end and you can plan around it in your schedule easily.#I have the reverse thing of a lot of people (how people don't pick up phone calls/hate calls/only text)#I would literally talk on the phone with a stranger. I would have a discord voice chat with someone I barely know.#if someone I hardly even remember from elementary school asked to have a voice call with me out of nowhere I would do it.#but if a stranger MESSAGED me?? or someone I barely know sent me a TEXT or something?? I will never reply probably#It's just too vague and weird. and you can't read voice tone over text. and the interaction could last forever with no clear end#point and etc. etc. But a call is like. set. established. clear boundaries. you can read the flow of conversation better. rapport. etc. etc#I get that I guess people feel more anonymous or distanced over text?? but you can have fake phone numbers on the computer. or do like disc#rd calls. or zoom without a camera or etc. etc. Also the distance that's present in text is BAD distance because it just means that tone is#not conveyed properly and you will never truly get a sense of the person's conversational vibe or mannerisms or how well you really click.#ANYWAY ghgjh...... I'm so so so interested in concepts of like.. How did that one kid I used to talk to in elementary school#but then they moved away in 5th grade - how did they end up? what are they doing now?? etc. etc. Like despite the severe social anhedonia#and general lack of connection with others I'm just really fascinated in like.. idk. the human development of it all and like#the concept of how we're actually a million different people through the course of our lives ever evolving in different iterations and etc.#PLUS again. i love nostalgia. sometimes old peple you know might remember a shared memory or can tell you about something you forgot#or etc. like it's SUCH A COOL THING in CONCEPT but I am too socially inept generally speaking lol. which people I still talk to today are#familiar with my 'phone call once every few months' communication style. but strangers would just be like... wtf. And I don't blame them#Sure I literally cannot change the physical health + brain issues i have - but also I know enough to not put others through that lol
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