#aren’t sending

[starredforlife]

hello for those planning on voting for kamala harris. could y’all start emailing or calling her specifically to pressure her to stop the genocide. even if you’re a decided voter, mention you are undecided and that this is the issue you would flip on. here I’ll leave a link where you can email

[whimsyprinx]

i’m not sure if my ask sent last night (but it’s me the anon who wants to draw ur ocs) would you rather have me tag ur artblog or your main? i’ll post my silly sketches when i know !

IM SO SORRY tumblr straight up did not notify me of your ask! okay so here’s the thing, I’m actually in the process of moving blogs but was (am) planning to make an official post about that in the next few days!

[elodieunderglass]

I’m seeing an uptick in “begging scam asks” that are profiting from people’s generosity towards evacuees from Gaza. I’m happy to boost vetted/verified fundraisers, but I do not respond to fundraising asks.

[conman167936]

[lettertoanoldpoet]

obsessed with these edits from the good luck, babe! genius page

[clowfish]

kyle sends chain mail I know this for a fact actually

[exercise-of-trust]

it's 6am and your newborn twins have been up crying all night and you just came outside to find your third son back from summer camp with an immortal puppy as big as he is. good luck

[remxedmoon]

guess who found an extremely janky art program he can draw in!!! this guy!!! i decided to try drawing in someone’s strawpage and it’s really fun i love it. these’re all from the past 3 days!!! not in chronological order because if it were then my awfully jpeg compressed first attempt would be the first thing you see and i just can’t handle that. anyways!!! enjoy my fellas

[sandersstudies]

So our community made a Meal Train page for us now that we’re home in the wake of my husband’s surgery, and the meal train is just 1 meal/day but luckily for us most of the people on the list are moms who have forgotten what it’s like to feed 2 people and are sending us big trays to feed 6 so we are all covered and in fact I’m running low on fridge space now.

[babooshkart]

good soup

[unnamed-proxy]

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[glassesmcfancyhair]

My lovely wife, on only her second Stargate watch: “Isn’t that a plot point? Doesn’t Daniel just un-ascend to beat this man’s ass? He goes ‘make me a regular human again, I’m going to kill Anubis with a gun.’”

[rubysparx]

Um actually I have something more to say about Kabru and Mithrun’s similarities and relationship.

I think a lot abt how it’s shown a few times how elven culture relies heavily on non-natural ways of doing things, and it’s interesting especially how like our main cast repeats multiple times the three steps to living a long and healthy life. Meanwhile the canaries, the elves, don’t necessarily recognize that stuff as important as it is. I think specifically of the example of Mithrun explaining to Kabru that he has to have medication or a spell otherwise he can’t sleep, to which Kabru tucks him in and gives him a massage which knocks him out cold. His dependency on other methods to fight off insomnia were kinda just in his head, he hadn’t tried anything else. I mean prior to joining the canaries he was fully restrained 90% of the time so ofc a servant would just come in and place a spell for him to sleep every night. And he was like that for years. And then Cithis just replaced all his caretaker servants, then it became her job to make sure he took a pill or listened to her bells every night. I think there’s something there about how there’s a list of stuff Mithrun wasn’t allowed to be around and when he gets separated from the canaries he encounters all of that since Kabru doesn’t know to “protect” Mithrun or restrain him so severely. And it’s interesting because Mithrun doesn’t even seem to have issues with the things, like ofc top on the list was he wasn’t supposed to see goats or sheep. One of the first things he and Kabru eat is barometz. Its something to me that Kabru, who has also suffered so much, takes Mithrun into this dungeon and he has to face head on what’s been bothering him, he has to look his trauma in the eyes. And eat it. He cannot move on until he sees it, understands it, and finally starts talking about himself (“the last desire I had left wasn’t revenge, I wanted the demon to finish me off” “I was scraps left on the plate […] I guess vegetable scraps have their uses too”)

It just seems to me like a more vague and overarching way we see the elven cultural mindset hold him back from properly healing, I don’t think Kabru knew what he was doing at all but the fact of the matter is no one was filtering Mithrun’s view of the world anymore. And while Mithrun believed that didn’t matter to him, nothing mattered, it still made a difference. He was still on the path to moving on, and properly healing, even though he didn’t quite recognize that.

[sad-emo-dip-dye]

I think it would be really funny if Aku caught baby fever one day, like he comes across Atsushi working a case that involves kids and sees him helping out and he has an almost unconscious I want that moment and panics cause he doesn’t know how to deal with that

[person4924]

if this gets to 313 notes my bsf will throw away all her blades

yall pls

[borderlinereminders]

Every time I post about being bothered or annoyed by something, someone always comments or sends an ask along the lines of “you just need to let stuff roll off you! They aren’t worth your energy”. And then something about how you can only control you and all you can do is get stronger and deal better

And I get the good intentions. I do. But they’re very invalidating.

I can use every coping skill I have. And sometimes I’m just a bit more emotional for whatever reason and in those moments, me coping is me venting about it. A lot of the time when I vent, I can let stuff go. No matter how much I recover, sometimes stuff will just hit you a bit harder.

Sometimes the thing to say if you want to say something with good intentions is “that sucks” or “your feelings are so valid”. Because a lot of time, people just need to be heard and seen. Your kind intentions about "letting it slide off you" really translate into “get over it” for a lot of us and that feels pretty terrible.